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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes: Im 22 and Ive been seeing this guy for a month now, even though i have a boyfriend, even though we both know its wrong, im willing to end it with my boyfriend for him, i know this has to be done as its not fair on him, then the new bloke went weird and said his friend said he should get rid of me as im a cheat and will cheat on him.....but hes now saying hes not sure what he feels about me, im worried that whatever way i go im losing everything and yes i know its my own fault, but then i was thinking maybe this new guy only liked bit of fun (not sex) but a laugh and now i say i would be with him hes gone weird! Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (27 May 2009):
Yep, looks like he was just enjoying the fact he'd found a girl to hang out with and have a bit of fun with.
The fact you are a cheat made him think you were just in it for fun too. He didn't expect you to want to get all serious with him.
The fact is you are a cheat and you are more worried about being single (the horror) than the fact you are hurting your boyfriend.
Split up with him as you know he deserves better than this and if you are single then you will be free to have fun with any guy you like.
Good Luck!! xx
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