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I feel used and stepped on by my partner of 6 years. Am I a sap?

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Question - (27 May 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 28 May 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, *egret writes:

someone please help

i feel so down

ive been with my current partner for 6 years

for the past 4 hes been very cold to me emotionally

ive tried everything i can to help. ive put myself in terrible financial hardship to help him but when i get stressed over it he tells me to get on with it and stop moaning.

he does overtime but then says hes short of money

when i help him-even now he never thanks me.

he shows such little affection-well none i keep asking myself why im still here i keep trying to get him back how he used to be-what happened am i so crap ?

i think im a nice person but i just feel used and stepped on. am i a sap ? or a complete mug or just not very nice at all...? please help.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009):

i too am currently in a similar situation and i wake up daily feeling so hurt,used,stupid and pathetic,i will one day find the courage to leave this situation for good but right now i am to weak

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