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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What is my ex thinking? Me? Or her??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - about 7 months ago i lost the love of my life he was my everything i loved himm sloooo much ... since he broke up with me we slept together on a few occasions ..im still madly in love with him but cant seem to move on other guys dont appeal to me cos i felt a connection with ... (651 words)

Want someone else but in a long term relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I have a relationship proble. Ok, so I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. Our relationship has been quite stagnant for a while. About year ago, he told me he wanted to have a break because he didn't even really expect us to be together for this long. I wanted ... (398 words)

I'm always looking for faults!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, i think there is something wrong with me. Whenever I meet girls or when a girl is interested in me I always find, or maybe look for faults with them. its doing my head in because i wouldnt mind getting into a relationship, but wen ever i start seeing someone i find th... (252 words)

Bi-sexual men-what are their real preferences?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Bisexuality--I am female, and I think I'm bisexual. I've never been with a woman, but I have fallen in love with a few, and I am sexually aroused by (some) of their bodies. I am also very attracted to men, and have fallen in love with them as well. All of my physical experien... (179 words)

Is it wrong to think that love is the only thing that makes life worth living?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - After having been alive for 29 years and having been in a few ended relationships, is it foolish and wrong of me to still think and feel that love is the only thing that makes life truly worth living? I was single for more than 5 years between my past relationship and... (361 words)

I'm in love with a taken woman but can't bare to walk away

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey im in a very confusing situation im in a sort of relationship with a girl at work for about 5 months but she has a bf n he knows that we like each other and have had sex and he doesnt mind it infact he incourages it n i have to admit i love her but im startin to not be able ... (140 words)

When you dump someone do you ever regret it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it true that when a partner dumps the other one angrily, because of a perceived *albeit* huge mistake,they will regret it later on when they cool off, or at least reflect on their part of the fault too? Has anyone dumped someone they truly loved, but they found they could ... (158 words)

How I feel? Or leave it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So, here is my situation that I need some help with. Im a girl as you can read by my screen name. Me and my friend who also is a girl (she's gay) started talking again after years without talking. I don't like girls but I like her, I think I actually love her. I told her im not ... (196 words)

Party, boys and Fear

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5686 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Please help me! So, I have liked this boy for over a year and half. About 6th months ago I admitted it... and now we have become closer and relli good friends. My friend said that he has changed around me recently. So we were all on the bus... and i asked him if he fancied th... (221 words)

When you join a gym/health club do they weigh you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i know this isnt relationship based but i have a question and wonder if anyone can help?! i have decided to join a gym with a friend, we both want to loose weight and we have our induction tomorrow. but im really scared! i dont know what an induction is.. what exactly ... (101 words)

One night stand now I'm afraid he's going to think I do that all the time!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im just out of 41/2 yr relationship i have 2 kids,we knew a yr ago it was over but i thought he would change he didnt so i finally got the courage to ask him to leave.it was hard, 4mths later im moving on.i'v liked a friend of mine for a while now,i let him know had to do alot ... (153 words)

Side effects from the pill?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know that you are not GPs, but I just want a little reassurance... a month ago I took the morning after pill. It stopped my period, but brought it back for its normal duration 3 days later. it's a week before my period is due, and i'm now having dark brown discharge and sl... (132 words)

Really difficult break up experience

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, well i'm on huge pain right now,my girlfriend dump me, in the most painful way.We've been together for almost eleven months it was my first "serious" relationship, i was deeply in love. Well, the last 3-4 months were really REALLY bad, in fact we ended the relationship like ... (702 words)

I think my g/f is cheaing, I'm losing her, and don't know what to do about it

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I think my girlfriend is cheating on me. I have never had an online question like this but I think it is a good idea. All my friends won't listen to me they just tell me to get over her. It is not that easy. I'm a senior in high school and have had terrible experience with ... (1187 words)

She cheated, I'm worried she'll do it again, want to break up

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi this is my history:i met a very beautifull girl i dated her for 3 months she told me she was virgin,well one time she told me that she was not ready to be with me so i understood and left..2 months after she started texting me saying many things like,i wanto you, i miss you ... (266 words)

I have POCS and its making me very self-conscious

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im usually the one giving help instead of asking for it but here goes, I was diagnosed with PCOS (poly cystic ovary syndrome) and Im only 15. I hate this disease and i used to have alot of confidence and self esteem but now im just really self conscious and no one und... (119 words)

Do all MEN go through the Menopause?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) age 51-59 - This is for guys over 40....Is it true that all man goes to male menopause after 40? And they lose their sex drive and erection? And if it is not true, why doctors are saying that it is normal?What is the truth?... (46 words)

Should I just tell her what I want to do to her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really really really want to have sex with a girl right now. I'm starting to get older and still am a virgin. Sorry if this sounds messed up or anything but I can't stop thinking about it. I'm just a regular quiet and shy guy around girls. You've probably seen or know a ... (534 words)

Was what I did wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi I am a virgin 19 yrs old.. while I was ill my aunt used to sleep with me. one day while sleeping i felt my penis touching her private area it was not erect...I was in an illusion and made two or three strokes while doing so it again touched her vaginal opening but n... (97 words)

He loves us both.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well ive known this guy for 2.5 years and we're best friends. we both know each other through drumline and we've become really good friends. we talk all the time, at school and over text. we talk about everything. we were talking one night and he admitted he had feelings for me ... (97 words)

I don't want to lose a friend or hurt my boyfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i hope someone can help or advise. a guy i work with has recently been flirting and making comments that imply he likes me. last week i was at work at the start of my night shift. during the day i had been upset by something my boyfriend had done, but i didn't say anything ... (272 words)

Supernatural experience

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5570 days ago

25 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I wonder ,if anybody ever had any very strange supernatural experinces? I had one, and it is weird to have someting like that, and not be able to know if it happened to someone else too. I had a strange 'visit'' in my sleep , when I woke up with a horrible scream...I 'm su... (144 words)

Former teacher student relationship possible?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is about my teacher.. I need help :( I am 16, 17 in September and I have finished school and I am halfway through my GCSE's. I had a few issues with one of my ex-teachers; as I am not coming back to my old school next year, she is now an ex-teacher. The story i... (389 words)

Want to be with my guy but he doesn't understand how torn I am about my dog

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5676 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am torn up about my situation. My boyfriend of 3 years who I love has emigrated (12 months now) and I am planning to follow but I have a major hurdle - my dog. He is 6 years old and of course as all dog-lovers will know they are like children to a person. I simply cannot ... (203 words)

He's telling other women that he wants to leave me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem within the last month my husband has been talking to two other females just texting they both swear its nothing but he has told them he is unhappy with me, and that he wants to leave me but he loves me. Well the females tellhim everything he wants to hear. The ... (96 words)

Trying to get pregnant..need advise!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm trying to get pregnant and I started my period on May 20th and I currently still have it and it usually last about 7 days, when should I try to start conceiving?... (34 words)

She is breaking up with me and I don't know whether I should stop her or how to

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been with my gf nearly 7 months and i think we are on the brink of breaking up. The problem is that she thinks i am not commited enough. I am mid twenties and am in my first relationship so this is all new to me. We get on very well and can talk and laugh about anything... (733 words)

A friend complains too much...so I gave it to her straight..was that ok?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - "I just don't understand, we use to talk all the time, see each other 3 or 4 times a week. Now he just calls once a week, I know it's because he is just busy because when we talk he is sweet to me and tells me he I'm his princess. When we have sex its great and I can tell he is ... (1200 words)

Confused relationships, please give me advice to help the situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right i have liked this guy for about 1 year but never really spoke. then his bestfriend who liked my bestfriend trued to set us up then the guy i like got a girlfriend and we only spoke occasionally. well the guy that liked my bestfriend then liked me and then we went were ... (108 words)

Women who have left their husbands..how did you finally make the choice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age - I know,it is a very hard question.. But I wonder, how those, who decided to leave their husband were making their choice? When is it really enough, even if it is, painful, and risky? And very unsure ,how it will be after.. Cheating ? Abuse ? What is the the real big reason ... (88 words)

Accidently hit ny girlfriend in the face, what can I do to make up for that?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. My alarm didn't go off, and i missed my girlfriend. She waited for me for a long time... not something that was fun for her. after that, I accidentally hit her in the face... ouch... oops... I want to make up for it somehow, but I'm kind of blanking... any ideas? please, ... (84 words)

My supervisor asked a co-worker to help me, but he touches me too much, what are your thoughts?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am a married woman. I am quite quiet in my job. I say hi to everyone but i am not that communicative. I used to be very friendly, but was wrong judge specially from men, so I have changed my behave on jobs. Well, there is a man with whom I have to talk from time to tim... (300 words)

Ladies, do you prefer pubic hair on your guys or not?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey, I've been seeing a girl for about a month now, we've decided to move things on a bit and starting to do sexual stuff. Do girls prefer a guy with a bit of hair or not? I've not done anything before and do not want to be embarrised by my hairiness. Please girls tell me what ... (60 words)

He says he doesn't know if we will be together in 5 years

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend and i have been together for 6 years but he wont move our relationship forward and live together. i'm 30 he's 31 and i have a son who is 12. We have discussed it several times but now he says he doesn't want to live with me or have children till he's 35. I had an ... (149 words)

Partner questioning our relationship now that he seen his ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5679 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I'm gay and have been dating a guy for almost a year. We were making plans to move in together and start a life together. The problem is an ex boyfriend came to town for a weekend, and I was out of town at the time. This ex stayed at his house. My "partner" said nothing ... (118 words)

My friend is his girlfriend, and I like him as well, but she treats him badly, what if anything should I do about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so heres my story. me and this guy have had this thing for a while since last year. we know that we alwayss have will have feelings for eachother. he's going out with my friend and it was his party at a fancy place by the water. she was really acting weird toward him... (151 words)

What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What do I do when all my boyfriend wants to do is to have sex with me?... (17 words)

He's moody and quiet at times, and doesn't show any affection around our friends, what can I do to help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with a guy for almost three months now and everything was going great we fight a little but every relationship has some bumpy roads in it. But we were together with some friends and it was akward. We didn't hold hands or even sit next to each other we just ... (86 words)

How do I tell her I need more without sounding like a jerk?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have a much higher sex drive than my bf and I struggle all the time with our level of intimacy. I know I should talk to him about it but I am worried it will make him unenthusiastic as he is making more of an effort, plus he has been a but overwhelmed by other stuff lately. ... (88 words)

Her friend was killed and I'm unsure how to support her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello. umm... i was wondering if you could give me some advice, i'm in a relationship with this woman i met online and love her so much, she lives in another country and is the same age as me and we've met up quite a lot. her friend was killed today and i really want to support ... (111 words)

We have a child together, but my girlfriend's stubborness and my defensiveness are hurting us, suggestions please?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5687 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have trouble communicating. Some of the things she says comes off the wrong way, and her tone of voice throws me off. She has an aggressive tone of voice, which she's had trouble with. We get into arguments because, of the way she words things and the ... (303 words)

Like him a lot, but age difference, 14/20, religion and distance pose problems, any suggestions?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I met this guy not to long ago. From the moment i met him I loved his speech, his train of though.... EVERYTHING! We try to talk as much as possible and I already know he likes me. He reminds me constantly on how adorable he thinks i am and how he loves my eyes and that he ... (249 words)

Ex best friend is a manipulative bitch and no one can see it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had a best friend who later turned out be a horrible person. no jokes, the closer i got to her the more i realised how manipulative and bitchy she was. she uses people, she snuck around with my bf behind my back, and during our entire relationship she fed him all these ... (420 words)

He only wants fun and I want more!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure I have done the right thing. A bit of a long story - me and a guy at work have been flirtng for years and we have both said we like each other - the problem - he only wants "fun" and I want more. We have kissed once, very passionately at work after hou... (205 words)

Hurt,confused, angry, sad & lonely all because of him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and this guy and I have been going together off and on for 3years. Last year for my b-day he gave me a ring and told me it was b/c he really loved me and cared for me and wanted me to kno that we were in a serious relationship...4 days later he ... (679 words)

I beat up my wife now she's asked for a divorce..I want her back!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i beat up my wife and was arrested she has now gone back to her parents with our 2 children i am going to seak help tomorrow at the doctors for anger managment but how can i win her back as she has asked for a divorce? i love her oh so much and want to keep the family toge... (65 words)

What are the laws in the united kingdom for a 16 year old whose living with a friend who works getting job seekers allowance?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question but what are the laws in the united kingdom for a 16 year old whose living with a friend who works getting job seekers allowance? I've tried googling it but its all jibberish and doesnt mean much lol! ... (46 words)

Mom won't let me go to Greece to be with my b/f!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 months is Greek, but study's over here in the city i live in for most of the year. I see him every day, and although we haven't been together for a very long time, as we have spent so much time togther we have quickly fallen in love. Unfortunately this month ... (264 words)

Guys: What makes you want to commit to a girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What exactly makes a guy want to commit to a girl? i have this guy friend (he fancies me..I fancy him too) but we have been on and off without a year and hes played all these mind games and generally the whole situations soo messed up people say I could be a model, Im... (115 words)

Would you try to clear up the rumor?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a quick question. If you thought that someone you know had heard a stupid rumour, which involved you and them, and it wasn't true, would you try and put things right? I don't know if this person i know has ever heard the rumour, but as they are quite popular i am pre... (137 words)

Do I have some sort of mental block on kissing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been with my boyfriend for about 2 months now and I'm happy. We have so much in common and were friends for about a year before we started going out. We've kissed abit but never really in private and only for about 10 seconds. I usually start it off with a quite peck ... (238 words)

I think I'm turning into some kind of an idiot!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help, I think I am turning into some sort of idiot. I have been dating a guy for over four weeks now, and we have been on three wonderful dates. But its been a week since our last one. we talk/text email every day. We are both shy, and both quite busy with work. ... (200 words)

I'd like to exorcise his "indiscretion" from my head, but I can't!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5686 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age - Hi, it's me again some time after my last post in April. The wife with the text cheating husband (one of many I'm sure). When I discovered his secret phone he 'came clean' about a few other things one of which was that they 'occasionally' met in the park at lunchtime where he ... (805 words)

My boyfriend is blaming me for becoming pregnant, but he didnt wear a condom so arent we both equally to blame?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I feel like my boyfriend is blaming me for becoming pregnant but as much as i should have asked him to put a condom on, he didnt think to either. I'm mature about it and i understand that we were both absolute imbociles and we BOTH made the mistake of not using the condoms. But ... (207 words)

I keep forgetting to get my ID so that I can sign up to get on the public dole rather than get a job, and my boyfriend is really bugging me about it. He wants me to start getting welfare as soon as possible and doesn't believe that I just forgot to g

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend says he needs me, cares about me and loves me. We were getting on just fine until about a week ago and now hes suddenly turned into an arsehole. He asked me to move in after the first time we met and i accepted, we both really liked each other and didnt really want ... (562 words)

How can I get a better erection without pills?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how can i make my penis more erected when having sex without taking any pills or stuff?... (17 words)

I want to make love to my boyfriend, but it is wrong in my culture

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am so confused. I'm 18 years old girl i've got a 24 year old boyfriend he's muslim i'm sikh. we've only been dating for a month but knew eachother 2 months before and we have even had our little up and downs but i love him so much and vice versa. hes my first boyrfriend... (191 words)

I am having terrile pain from my period. Can anyone suggest something to do or take that will ease the pain?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really need some help quick cuz im in reallyyyy bad pain. ive just come on my period and ive had them for four years so they aint new but this one is killin me. ive never bin in so much pain, ive bin curled up on my bed rockin to try and stop it n it wont. Can anyone give me ... (74 words)

I spent a lot on my boyfriends birthday presents which I know will make him unconfortable, but I really want to treat him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so its my boyfriends birthday next month and the week after we will have been together for a year. Also I have recently got a bonus at work (a lot more than I expected) and so really want to get him something nice. I love shopping and so have got him lots of presents ... (145 words)

I lied to my Mom repeatedly and now she doest trust me. How can I get her to trust me again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 15 and i lied to my mum about going to a party, i isaid i was sleeping at my friends house but she found my ticket and now she has grounded me for the rest of my school holidays and she even said she hates me and that she can never trust me again. This has happened already a ... (107 words)

My husband has assured me he didnt have an affair, but I am still worried.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I came to know from my relative that my hubby is having affair with a young lady, after that we had discussion, He promised me that it was not true he has been blamed, He even promised he well never that young lady. He said how can a young girl like that would have affair with ... (71 words)

I took the morning after pill 2 weeks after having sex. Could I be pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and think I may be pregnant. I had unprotected sex 2 weeks on Saturday and on Monday I took the morning after pill. The lady who supplied it told me I was at a very high risk of already being pregnant as I had just finished my period. She told me not to start my ... (132 words)

Sex is very painful if I don't have it often

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, yesterday i had sex with my boyf after going without for 2 weeks. Unfortunatly i get really tight if i go without for that amount of time and its like my first time again when i do have it (minus the blood). Anyway, while he was putting it in me it killed and i was in s... (149 words)

Are middle children loners?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - are middle children loners.do they have problems making friends.as middle child i feel traped and alone and no one to turn to.lost and alone,is there any middle child out there like me and feels like me... (36 words)

What are these white bumps on his penis?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im wondering if you can help me. Im not worried as much, as i totally trust my boyfriend but i just want to make sure that this cant be an sti. Right, me and my boyfriend were each others first times, i havent slept with anyone else and as far as i know he hasnt ( ... (244 words)

Mindgames? Is he keeping me hanging on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend said he wanted to just be friends a few days ago, i was really upset and he knew i was, but he still wanted to be friends, but now im done with all the crying, and i still love him but i know i need to move on. Hes text me to see how i am a few times and asked ... (165 words)

LA? Or New York?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know this istnt a family or relationship based question, but i would very much like ur advice on this matter. It has always been my dream to go to the USA ever since i was a mid teenager and basically I want to see big city america as to get a big taste of american life BU... (280 words)

He's gone home to his wife and isn't talking to me. Why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a boyfriend right now that I live with him already for 8 months, at the beginning he already told me that he had a cold-heart, he don't give a dump to the feeling of others, but I love this guy so I did my best to have a good relationship with him, but its too hard for ... (241 words)

Why does she want to keep our relationship secret?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5689 days ago

25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I now have a girlfriend and she loves me,she introduced me to her mother but says we should keep it low for now,that she does nt want people to know now. What should i do and what does she mean.... (40 words)

Supprise sex! Should I talk to him about this?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've been out with this guy a couple of times. The other night we went back to his place and started hooking up. He pulled out a condom, and I said no, I'm not ready to have sex. He said he understood, and we just went back to fooling around. All of the sudden, while I was ... (124 words)

Abusive ex wants us back in his life after four years

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25 May 2009 (F)

age - The father of my baby humiliated me when I was pregnant, he said the baby is not his I suffered my pregnancy.I forgave him after I gave birth I accommodated him clothe and fed him.He turned to be abusive I left him for good.He called me names that I am a prostitute and all sort ... (113 words)

How can I just hang out with him more without it looking weird?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some help guys. There is this guy (who I don't know if he is gay or not) that I have a massive crush on. I still don't know myself if I am gay, however I wouldn't be surprised after the feelings I have developed for him are true. He is in some of my classes at school, ... (168 words)

Should I wait for him or move on?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my bf for five years. We love each other deeply, but I'm just not sure if it is right. After being on and off for a few months we finally decided to break it off, but still keep in touch. We recently did the friends with benefits thing a couple of times,... (237 words)

His greatest fear is getting a female pregnant..so why ask to ejaculate inside her?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A man's perspective would be most helpful, but if any women have any understanding of this as well, I'll take whatever you have to say-- Why would a man repeatedly fantasize about and ask to come in a woman during unprotected sex, when he also says in equal measure that he ... (81 words)

I wonder..does she like me?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know it sounds like the most obvious question in the world but how can you tell if someone really likes you? A woman at work and I have become close very quickly, only in the last few days and sms each other and hang out consantly now. She is very flirty with me, talking ... (154 words)

I feel that my husband does not desire me or love me anymore, how can I know for sure?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't feel like my husband loves or desires me anymore. We've been together since I was eighteen, and now I 'm 24 and he is 31. Whenever he is off work he wants to be somewhere else with his friends, doing things away from me. We are never together alone anymore. Our 12 month ... (83 words)

My boyfriend is angry, because I hung out for 30 minutes with old friend, what can I do to help him get over this nonsense?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok here is the deal...im 18 years old and I've been dating this guy on and off for almost 3 years. we r in a long distance relationship and we love each other so much. the problem is I was at a reception after a concert and I saw this guy I had a crush on in 7th grade. I never ... (160 words)

First date since e-mailing only situation, what should I wear, is it ok to cuddle?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - In two weeks I will be meeting my boyfriend at his house what should I wear. It is our first date is it okay for us to cuddle since we have only been talking to each other thru email for four days now? ... (43 words)

Interested in my "friends with benefits" guy to be more, should I just tell him or what?

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25 May 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I have had a "friends with benefits" situation for about a year now and although he is just a friend whom I see very very infrequently (sometimes twice a month, sometimes once every three months, depending on our workloads and whether we're dating someone else or not). I have ... (553 words)

She keeps crying her heart out for the jerks, while she wants me as a friend, any hope for me?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if a girl can ever learn to stop dating a-holes and end up with a decent guy who treats her well. Will she change as she gets older and matures? Will she open her eyes and see the guy who's always been there is the right one for her? How many nights spent cry... (177 words)

Is this really love or a crush?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well i dont want to brag but i am dating this amazing girl i love everything about her. i think i am in love with her we have been dating for almost 3weeks and, idk i mean i cant describe the feeling i get when i am with her so is it really love or a crush?... (58 words)

We broke up bitterly, I said some awful things, he does not want to talk, should I apologize with a letter and keep moving on?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age - After dating for 3 years, 2 months ago my boyfriend broke up with me. It was a terrible breakup, I still cannot believe how everything went down. I think about it and it infuriates me, that I gave him my love. One day I am upset and then the next day, I am dying to pick up the ... (197 words)

I am not American, married to stay in this country, now I am miserable, I need help with my marital problems, please?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i don't know my mind and i don't know what to do , i am not american and i come to this contry with work visa for 2 years and then i know with my boyfriend about 10 months before my visa exprise , and then i get marride with him because 2 reason and need to have 2 reason , if ... (635 words)

Reconnected with old girfriend now married, we want to be together, she wants a divorce, feels guilty, what do we do?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A few months ago I ran into an ex/gf whom I have always believed was the "love of my life". We have not communicated or seen one another in over 10 years. We talked for only 5 minutes, she had got married two years ago, does not have children, and lives in another state and was ... (391 words)

He is being very distant and I am feeling ignored, what can I do to stop this rude treatment?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My dilemma is with my bf of 5mths. At first, he was the running after me, so i got to know him and liked him mutually back. He's an awesome guy, and things are usually great between us. We both have history of being in relationships in which both of us have been cheated on ... (332 words)

Should I be with him, when he hides from his girlfriend with me and makes out?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I think I have an issue. I am in love with a guy that already has a grilfriend. We were dating for a while but he dumped me. We still like each other- it's obvious. We have kinda become friends with benefits we dont have sex we just make out. Last night was his Bar Mitzvah and ... (152 words)

Is it safe to have sex while on your period with a condom?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it safe to have sex while you are on your period with no condom? Im not talking about safe as in pregnant safe, im talking about disease safe, like could you catch aids from doing it during this time?... (40 words)

Any suggestions for a self-addictive, compulsive person, who wants a good relationship?

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25 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I know it is a ridiculous question really, but I need to hear other people's perspectives. Will I ever be able to be in a healthy relationship? I have an addictive personality. It has manifested in numerous ways. I have sought professional help, but I am still myself rega... (750 words)

An old flame. Should I pursue it or let it go?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have recently separated from my husband of 6 years, and have a 2 year old. Recently I reconnected with a guy that I had a casual relationship with for quite a while before I met my husband (basically a hook up when you are at the bar type of thing). The first time we saw ... (305 words)

Always the lover - not the girlfriend. What AM I doing wrong?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, So I commonly start dating people and fall for them. And they don't want to be my boyfriend, but instead my lover. In the recent instances of this, it is because they don't feel as strong a connection with me as they have previously felt with other people, and whil... (258 words)

Drama Queen! I'm sick of it!

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i am with a girl. we planned a trip to hawaii but she cancelled because she will have her period then. we were supposed to go to a music festival yesterday but she canceled because i would not apologize to her for not opening a door for her all the way. i am losing it.... (234 words)

He's big! Looking for position suggestions.

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25 May 2009 (F)

age - my boyfriend is a big guy, 6'2" and 350lbs i am 5'2" and about 125lbs. My problem is i want a suggestion on a good position to do it due to our size difference. i cant go on top well cause i have neuropothy in my legs and feet so there is no strength, any ideas?... (56 words)

What does a girl have to do to become COMPLETELY desired by her man?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I believe in some cases that the help provided here has shaped and even changed the outcome of some peoples lives. I desperatly need a little coaching or direction myself and would sincerely be gratfeul for any advice. What does a girlfriend have to do to or say to become co... (376 words)

She has a short fuse!

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So... Ive been together with this girl for a year and almost eight months. we have been having a hard time for already half a year, whats bothering me is that she is always on the edge, always annoyed at me, she has a really "short fuse". obviously i do things that annoy her... (258 words)

How do I gag without actually throwing up?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok....so my boyfriend and i have been together for nearly 2 years and we sometimes watch porn together to spice things up. he asked me if i was willing to gag like they do on porn films. i'm always up for trying new things and it was fine for a while but then i threw up on his ... (105 words)

He said we should keep things "public" and its too soon for fun

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I have been dating a great guy for a couple of weeks now. Enjoyed just really being together, he didn't even kiss me until our 3rd date, and it was well worth the wait! On our 4th date, dinner at my place, we kissed a lot and were a little intimate. On our 5th date we ... (323 words)

He hurt me, so will he do it again?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i met my ex last year summer time,he bumped into me in a chip shop got hes mate to ask for my number. i refused to give it. fate brought us together because he found me on a chat site a few weeks later. he was the type of guy that was unique send me msgs that a normal 17 yr old ... (610 words)

Why isn't he talking to me?

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25 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My guy friend has been not talking to me and I've stopped texting him because he hasn't been texting me. He never talks to me anymore! I don't know what happened, he says were still friends. he is usually online all the time and he hasn't been himself lately. Since hes my best ... (159 words)

Relationship worries! Am I insecure?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello again, well whilst writing my previous question, i began to think, am i insecure? paranoid? scared?? i was wondering if any of you might be able to lend a hand with this, you see, in short, if i get a girlfriend (like i have now) i feel like im gonna lose em, or they ... (137 words)

If I break up with him I don't need to worry about pleasing anyone

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25 May 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have a problem, a big problem, and I think this will mean I will NEVER be able to be happy in a relationship. Ok, I've only had one boyfriend, we're still together, but I'm thinking of breaking up with him. The reason being I'm too jealous, insecure, have low self esteem, ... (746 words)

I know I need to let go of the past, but how?

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25 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Alright, so I've met this girl and she is incredible. We love each other and everything is just hunky dorey. There's only one thing wrong. It's her sexual past. I was a virgin before I met her, but she wasn't.It's not too bad, but it still eats me up inside and I don't know how ... (270 words)