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writes: well there was this boy who i've know since the 3rd grade and now im in the 7th grade (in other words from year 4 to year 8) and well we wern't good friends in the 3rd 4th and 5th grade because not many of the girls liked him and some of the boys becuase he was kinda annoying but then in the 6th grade when we started high school everyone kind off became friends with everyone. well sort off anyway and we made new friends. and i became friends with her. well anyway in the summer holidays of that year my guy friend was going to ask out my friend who was a girl but she was on holiday for most of the summer so he had to wait.(here's the importan part)He was really nervous and i would stay up with him until late at night talking to him about stuff so he wouldn't be nervous and he would tell me all his secrets and i would tell him so we were kind off like best friends at that point. And then when the girl got back he asked her out and she said yes, and after that me and the boy were still like good friends. But about a month later my friend who is a girl dumped him because she cheated on him with a boy my guy friend didn't like. So then i went back to comforting him and again we would stay up like all night talking. Then soon after he got another girlfriend who i didn't really know about and after that we grew apart and he never talked to me anymore. The girl dumped him like two weeks later.And since then he never talks to me even though i was the one who stayed up with him and supported him. He has got like 4 more girlfriends but the relationship only last from 1day to 2 weeks.Also i hd a small crush on him and i told him(this was before he asked out my friend) and he said that he wished i had told him sooner. What does this mean.But the question is why did he stop talking to me after i stood by him?
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reader, ashababe  +, writes (27 May 2009):
Ah best friend meets minor crush a classic. if u were best friends then theres got to be something still there be ther for him get close but not to close and see how he feels dont move to quick and just u know take it easy and never be scared if he's that kinda guy the one who dates many maybe hes not the one but if ur sure u 2 would be good go for it but not too quick see how he feels and the reason he said that about sooner is because maybe he seen u as more of a friend b4 but u were just trying to b friends with him first so he backed off so just show him slowely ur interested and that ur not like all the other girls
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