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*mma09x
writes:I'm scared my boyfriend of 8 months will leave me. I'm 16 he's 19. When me and him first got together he was all lovey dovey with me talked 2 me all the time texted me a lot, told me he loves me a lot and he cudnt bear not to be with me. But now eight months on he's changed a lot, he doesnt spend hardly any time with me as his excuse is he wants 2 play his games. He goes mad at me when i ask him 2 go on msn 2 talk to him and he never tells me he loves me or kises me i have 2 say and kiss him first he said its because he's growing up. He's my first proper boyfriend and ive lost my V to him and everything whereas he has had his fair share of women. He says he's experienced all this before and needs 2 spend time on his own 2 play his games and says he's not what i want him 2 be because he's growing up. What have i done wrong im madly in love with him but don't think he feels the same no more help please i don't wana lose him! X x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2009): I'm really sorry but he's trying to create excuses to end things with you. This happens and it's nothing you've done wrong and most relationships your age don't last forever. When relationships are about to end because you are growing apart, it's hard for young people to handle so they invent excuses to be apart (like playing his games) and starting fights. He's just being as honest as he can by saying he's growing up. It's not that he doesn't care or doesn't love you but just know you've done nothing wrong. Take care.
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reader, keysha  +, writes (27 May 2009):
 what you can not forget is that life is about learning people come and they go he just prepared you for future relationships that you will come acrosss you have to take all the things that you think made the relationship go sour and try not to do it with your next relationship, girl you are still young guys come a dime a dozen it's not the end of the world!
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): You haven't done anything wrong!
You both have some "growing up" ahead of you. What's happening, is you're growing apart.
I'm sorry you are hurting! You will have lots of boyfriends before you find The One!
Enjoy life while you are so young! Don't be in such a rush to tie yourself down to one guy!
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