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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My wife admits that she is lazy in bed

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - The problem is that my wife is lazy in bed (she voluntarily admits that herself). Mostly she just assumes whatever position I like and then I take care of both of us. She says *partly* she is not more active because she needs to concentrate on her own enjoyment. I can ... (180 words)

What does "I don't feel that way right now" now?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - About 2 months ago I met this guy through a mutual friend. After a few weeks we started hanging out without the other friend. He has never once ignored a text. We talk every day, we hangout at least every other day. We have confided in each other our deepest secrets. We kiss, ... (292 words)

My husband never comes to bed with me unless he wants sex

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi,just wanted to know if anyone could give me some advice.i am married with two children and pregnant at the moment my husband never comes to bed with me unless we are going to have sex .he has always had an interest in porn and one particular pornstar for the last year the ... (136 words)

Leading a double life!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i was married for 10 years when i embarked on a affair with a old flame i left my husband to live with this man who divorced his wife been with him 3 years but i have been leading a double life with my husband hence i have a boy of 8 i go out on family days out my partner ... (131 words)

Should I leave my husband over his affair?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need advice, should I leave my husband or stay with him and live in eternal pain after his affair, which happened last summer? I will never forget what he did to me and our daughter. I found a text from his tutor at work saying night babe i love you. So obviously he had told ... (231 words)

Are these feelings that I have for him normal?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16. i was wondering about this feeling i'm having. there's this guy who goes to my school. we have no classes together, but ride the same bus. i met him this year. i really like him a lot. but lately i have this diferent feeling. he doesn't know i like him. i always look at ... (173 words)

Why do guys want to get back with a girl that they broke up with?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What reasons do guys have for wanting to get back with a girl they broke up with? I was with my bf for 8 yrs, then he left me, and I found out he'd been advertising on adult dating sites, sending explicit pics of himself to strangers and receiving flirtatious texts back, and ... (199 words)

How do I get rid of this guy before my bf gets out of jail?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - The guy i've been friends with really wants to have sex with which is my weakness but i have already told him i dont wanna have sex with him. I've tried ignore his calls and avoid him. Some how he always finds me. When my boyfriend gets out of jail, he's goin to be pissed. i ... (66 words)

Is he just afraid of committment or does he only want sex?

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30 May 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Ok so I've gotten into a real mess recently because I've fallen in love with my ex boyfriends best friend. We have been friends for over four years, and about 8 months ago finally took our friendship to the next level after I had broken up with my boyfriend. I had liked him for ... (428 words)

I made about every mistake possible! Can I save this relationship?

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met the woman of my dreams and turned something special into a mess. I admit not only is she the first woman I've ever been in love with, but the first I've ever even gone out with. We just seemed so perfect together. Yet looking back I realize I probably made ev... (137 words)

Did I give him too much space..has he lost interest??

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, me and my boyfriend (both 19) have been together nearly 5 years now, we're engaged and are usually fine but lately he's been talking and acting like he wants a different 'path of life' to go down. We're usually the typically 'cute couple' who love doing everything together ... (236 words)

Got stoned and had unprotected sex! What should I do??

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm am 15 years old, i have not done any drugs for 5 months. A couple days ago, my friends had some weed, so i smoked it. A friend(19) I haven't talked to for a long time called me, and I told him I was high. He was like really, well want me to come over, I said yes. I walked ... (154 words)

I need insight as to why my life is like this!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Why is my life this way? Hi! I must admit I have never really been lucky in love although I am quite good looking with a decent enough figure. To start with I didn't want to lose my virginity until I was 30 and then the guy turned out to be a wrong 'un. Then, I never got toge... (98 words)

In love, yet we can't seem to make it work, due to clashes!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of two years have had our ups and downs. Everytime things go well in our individual lives [ie: get out of debt, decide to quit bad habits] we work so well together, and I can see a definite future for us. The problem is, when we are down. Whenever we have car and ... (251 words)

What is love? What does it mean?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 16 and in high school. i was wondering what is love? i know its a strong feeling you have towards someone, but how do you know when your in love?... (31 words)

Need hairstyle suggestions!

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30 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hey, sorry this isn't a relationship question but I really want to change my hairstyle and don't know how to go about it, i've always turned to this site with my problems and i've had great advice from it. first of all my hair is about just past my shoulders, light brown, nat... (189 words)

Does he love her more than me?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know if i should stay with my husband after his affair last summer. I still cannot get over it. He says he loves me and there is noone else for him. He has been really nice to me recently. However i live in eternel pain, as i honestly believe he loved the other woman ... (239 words)

How can I fatten myself up?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - SOMEONE PLEASE ANSWER MY QUESTION! im 14 about 5'6 98lbs. i want to gain FAT not MUSCLE and i want some fat in these areas: legs arms stomach and butt. I tried ensure but its too expensive. is there any supplement vitamin or powder i can drink? yes most of my family have fast ... (146 words)

Dad wants me to be a nurse..I don't want that! How can I get him off my back over this?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need some help, i posted on here before about this but here i go again!! I am 20, a student nurse in 1st year at uni and i donot want to do this any longer. i don't know why, i just don't want to continue to do this, or be a nurse, which is making me very unhappy. my dad has ... (269 words)

Boyfriend getting more immature and selfish

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to know what is going on with my relationship at the minute. We have been going out for a year and three months and over that last couple of months thisngs have changed. My boyfriend seems too be getting more and more immature and selfish. By this i mean that he sta... (304 words)

Why don't underage kids respect the boundaries that are put in place to protect them?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - just something thats bothering me. There are so many girls from the age of 10 - 16 having under age sex and not knowing a single thing about it then going oops could i be pregnant. its really depressing because when i was little i was content as a child i never even thought of ... (200 words)

Anyone know of a website that tells what dreams mean?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Not a question as such. I was just wondering if any of you agony aunts or uncles knew of any website, where you can get answers on what a dream meant. I know its a bit of a far out question, but i had an awful dream/nightmare a couple of days back and it woke me up, wit... (94 words)

The best night of my life...now what?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hiya, please help me. Well, It was my birthday party last night,,. and it was a joint party. So.. I have fancied this boy for nearly 2 years now... and lately friends have said he acts differently around me. But he is a ladies man. So at this party he picked me up for most o... (379 words)

How do I have a vaginal orgasm?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have clitoral orgasms but I have no idea how to have a vaginal one! Anyone any advice? Different positions? How? Thankyou x... (26 words)

Do men like older virgins?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Men and Older Virgins? I know most men are into young women - especially if they are still chaste and virginal - but what do men think of older women who are still virgins? For example women in their 30s or even 40s as there are still some of us about!! Do men still admire... (81 words)

I can't trust my husband

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've recently accessed my husbands Facebook account. I'm stunned, hurt, betrayed and angry! I found letters to and from his ex-girlfriend he found on facebook talking about how much he's thought of her over the years and how much he thinks of her daily. We had recently had an ... (518 words)

I really want a baby!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Im thirteen and i want a baby but dont want to have sex, what should i do ?... (18 words)

Am I right to trust him again?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - long story short, my boyfriend and i had been going out, my best friend was always very 'friendly' with him and caused a lot of problems, after we broke up they both snuck around behind my back and it didnt last long. she told me it was because she wanted to hurt me, he said he ... (285 words)

Is there a chance that I am pregnant?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5683 days ago

30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and i recently had sex and he ejaculated in the same condom more than once. However i was unaware of this, could there be a chance that i am pregnant?... (32 words)

Should I ignore him eyeing up other women?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age - I have a new partner, every time we are out, i notice him ogling other women who are younger, and thinner. He says he finds me gorgeous and attractive. So why does he do it? last night he spent all evening eyeing up women, and practically ignored me. I totally lost it w... (176 words)

Worried my insecurities will ruin sex.

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know I am to young to have sex and I should wait till I am ready and in love but lately I have been very self-conscious about my body. All my friends have almost perfect bodies…but I don’t….when I get undressed its obvious I have baggy breast that are anything but small, a... (204 words)

How do I control this sweating?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :) I have a problem and I'm not sure what to do so I'd like some advice! I use deodrant all the time but somehow I still sweat and it makes sweat patches on my clothes. I have like 5 different ones so my body doesn't get conditioned, but it still doesn't work! Anyone k... (66 words)

How do I turn them down?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need help on how to turn guys down. I'm single, have been for a while, just waiting for the RIGHT guy. I made myself a promise that the next guy I'm with, will be the last guy. Here is my problem, when I'm hanging out, I always get guys I'm not attracted to asking me out... (154 words)

My husband seems to be starting his mid-life crisis

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30 May 2009 (F) age - My husband ,after years of neglect,started to change like crazy. He works out,looks at himself in the mirror, and very snappy with me. He wants to buy new shirts, and pants, he never ever wanted it before. He has a weird expression,on his face,and I'm just so puzzeled. H... (137 words)

Does he really want me or her?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a friend who lives long distance. When he moves to my town he always breaks up with his girlfriend to date me, but when he moves home he gets back together with her. He hasn't told me about her but he is from a very small town so I hear about everything. I don't know him ... (167 words)

I want my wife to date others but stay with me!

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A litte history: I have been married for many years. The past few I have been not performing well in the bedroom to the point we do not have sex anymore. Her libido has increased but I just dont have the desire for sex. My doctor is trying to help but it is going to be a while ... (145 words)

How do I ask him out? I don't want to ask others for help

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some advise, there is this guy at work who I find attractive and we've briefly spoken to one another. I'd like to get to know him better but its difficult as I don't have an opportunity to chat to him. How shall I show that I'm interested in him? Some of my wo... (91 words)

Should I stay or should I go? What to do?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my boyfriend for the past 4 years and our relationship has a very rocky road. After dating for 2 years he asked me to married him without a ring but I a not a material girl so that did not affect me. We have never lived together since we both are financially ... (215 words)

Why do women like bad boys? Because they treat them badly?

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

30 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I like to think of myself as a nice guy. I enjoy breaking the myth that nice guys finish last, I'm well off, good at my job, phyisically fit and an acomplished sportsman. I have however fallen flat on my face when it comes to dating. Women just are not interested and one of the ... (93 words)

How can I convince him to do it?

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, Im a bisexual boy and I currently going outwith another boy who is gay. We have had anal a couple of times but just before he cums he always pulls out, I always tell him to finsh inside me but he never does. How can I convnce him to do it. And can you feel whe... (66 words)

I still don't know if he was really into me?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. A bit of an update on the "Angry, hurt and confused..." story I posted earlier this week. The guy had initiated contact via facebook the other night when we were both online, but we spoke briefly and about day to day stuff. I miss the way we used to flirt an... (428 words)

Why did my period end so soon and was so late?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, was having unprotected sex with boyfriend for about seven weeks. Period was three weeks late and finished after two days (my periods last 5 days) tests came up negative, and i took four including a hospital one. Whats going on with my body? Why did my period end so soon and... (60 words)

LDR & communication issues..I'm feeling really down

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in a long distance relationship for 2 months. We have seen each other last month, (for a long weekend, 5 days to be specific) and we are planning to meet again the following weekend. I never really dwell on the difficulties this kind of a relationship might have. This is ... (1087 words)

He misses me but doesn't show it

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend he misses me when I'm not with him but doesn't show it. I know because he talks about me when I'm not there! When i am there he sometimes talks to me. I'm trying to give him space and maybe he will be close to me again. Why does he miss me and then ignore me when i'm ... (106 words)

Am I controlling and difficult to live with?

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30 May 2009 (M)

age - Am I controlling? I have already asked one basic question about my relationship and have had some good responses that have been helpful. I want to ask something more specific now on the subject of control. I want to know if you out there feel that I am controlling and therefor... (741 words)

Doggy style versus woman on top?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is more of a sex question than a relationship one but recently i've discovered that i really like sex in the doggy style position andmy boyfireend really likes it when i'm on top. I was just wonderng what everyone else thinks about these positions and why people find ... (55 words)

I find oral sex incredibly boring!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5673 days ago

30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for 5 years now..and recently he has been asking me to give him oral alot. I dont mind doing it, because i love him and want to satisfy him, but i find it incredibly boring (he says he enjoys it when i do it) but is there anything i can do to get ... (128 words)

They've cheated one me once and I'm afraid it will happen again!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im having some issues with my boyfriend, that being his ex girlfriend/my ex best friend. they had secretly gone out behind my back and after that i ended both relationships. it took me a really long time to trust my ex again but he tried really hard to be friends with me and ... (459 words)

He can go two weeks without talking or texting me

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey people. I need your advice. I was in a 2 year long distance relationship with my boyfriend. But since this year started we have been fighting alot. Once he got problems he would not want to talk to me.Few months he changed completely it became worse he stopped talking to ... (157 words)

If only I was more outgoing like her...

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My good friend, (probably my best friend) is starting up a small part time business with another woman, her busness partner, this has happened very quickly in a matter of a month. Its all my friend can talk about - she is 100% focussed on only that and is a lot happier than... (354 words)

How do you spot girls like this and not have to wait so long to have sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5675 days ago

30 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I've been dating this girl for about 3 months now. She has consistently told me she wants to wait for sex. The first time I attempted was very early on, about the third date, when she told me she wants to wait at least another month or two. I get to the point of getting ... (199 words)

Should I have sex with this girl I don't know well just for the sake of it?

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im going to a party soon, and this girls going i was wondering if i should have sex with her there or just mess about as this would be my first time and i want some experiance. And i dont know her that well?... (44 words)

Should I pretend that I am only interested in friendship with her and see what happens?

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Where to start I wonder? I am a 39 year old male who was dating a wonderful 33 year old woman for around 5 months last year. We had so much in common and spent a lot of time together. We travelled a lot and were making plans to move in before Christmas. She built a great ... (591 words)

Had unprotected sex 2 days before my period was due. Any risks?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i had sex with my boyfriend few days before i.e. 2 days before my periods.after having sex i had my periods at the right time.The problem is that even after having my periods safely,do i have chances of being pregnant.plz help..... ... (41 words)

Fiance cheated, I cheated, and now I have feelings for another man

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, ive been dating this man for over 2 years we got engaged at the begining of this year. he cheated on me with at least 4 women that i know about, he got 1 pregnant and now has a daughter about to turn 1. he made a complete change and is faithful now and i love him. its what ... (468 words)

I am worried I have some kind of ovary problem!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been having sex with my boyfriend for 3-4 months now, we never use protection. I was 1-2 weeks later starting my period, so I took the test which came back undecisive. This morning I came on, but the blood flow is just water, I woke up to the usual period pains I normaly ... (107 words)

Why is alcohol so popular? Can it help me become less... shy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

30 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - it seems like everybody nowadays loves alcohol. i've never consumed it. can you tell me why it is EXTREMELY POPULAR? also, will drinking alcohol help me socially b/c i'm one of those shy, insecure people and i was wondering if having a drink or two will make me less shy and ... (98 words)

In need of romantic inspiration!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I am currently single, and enjoying my life. I am doing quite a lot of dating, and getting to know different men in order to figure out what i want. I came out of a 5 year relationship last year, as i just didnt feel fufilled enough. I suppose i am just worried,... (130 words)

Pantyhose kink! Is this unusual?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5685 days ago

30 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am a young guy in my my twenties. tanned nice body etc. I have a kink for pantyhose and stockings. I like wearing them myself and masturbating in them. I like the thick shiny oness. Or the school opague type. I would also like a girl to wear them while we have ... (81 words)

Engagement on the ropes...

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Its long, but i desperately need help.. Me and my fiance started dating in Dec 03(we were 14). In Dec 05(age 16), she found out that i cheated on her. I swore to her that i would never do it again. Then i did at some point and she found out not long thereafter the l... (586 words)

Am I not a virgin? And do yout hink he didn't like giving me oral sex?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright so my boyfriend and I always do lots of foreplay, but I wanted to wait until marriage before actually going all the way and having sex. Well my boyfriend got a little carried away and started to stick it in me. I got upset and he stopped, but does that technically make ... (246 words)

Why does he keep going back and forth and not just choose one of us?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - [Moderator's note: Please concentrate all the details in one question next time. It is harder to give accurate opinions on pieces of a fragmented question.] Help my mother is making me insecure. My mom doesn't like my boyfriend and she always says he will just use me. She tell... (663 words)

Does he love me or should I end it?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age - I'm a little lost as to just what this man wants,well for starters he is married and we have been having an affair for many years, but he is in a very high profile job and he sometimes has to work 70hours a week so we don't get to see a lot of each other sometimes .many times i ... (190 words)

Confused about my feelings for him

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright so I started going to a new church a little over a month ago and I made friends with a lot of people there. There's this one guy that I got along with very well, we have a lot in common and he's like the male version of me. We like the same sports, same movies, same ... (428 words)

Tips to please my boyfriend?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im sixteen years old and am going out with this guy i really like, he has already fingered me, and hes amazing, but i feel like i should do something for him. The problem is that i have zero experience and dont know what to do or how to go about it. Any tips or advice you can ... (65 words)

She wants a break

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok so here's the rub, I'm a male 6 - 7 years older than his ...girlfriend? It's complicated. She recently decided that she wanted to take a break from the relationship because she constantly feels like a bad person due to the fact I'm making most of the emotional, material, ... (442 words)

BUGS IN THE HOUSE!!! How to get rid of them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5681 days ago

30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - lately there has been these tiny lady bug looking black bugsin my hojuse and they fly but not usually. today when i got home and went to say hi to my dad there was one on the pillow . then when i went to the kitchen they were in the pantry and all over the food.me and my mom ... (158 words)

Can't stand the friend's friends

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, this might not be the best site to ask this, but here goes: My gf and I are friends with this other couple. It's not like we're best friends, but we are pretty good friends. They are friends with this other couple, who, unfortunately, we can't stand. My gf told our f... (123 words)

Dreaming of my past love.

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30 May 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Ok, I'm feeling alittle guilty about this as I've been married for 20 years and have two teenage childreen. I've been daydreaming ALOT about my ex lover! I haven't seen him for 25 years and I find myself so curious on what he looks like now and how his live turned out. Wh... (490 words)

We did bjs, but does he have feelings for me?

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my friend told me I meet me in my room and when I got there he had stripped down to his undies and had an erection. I stripped of and he said he'd give me a bj and I accepted, and I gave him one. By today he is acting like it didn't happen and said he doesn't like ... (71 words)

Was moving an excuse to break up?

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30 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My boyfriend of more than a year recently broke up with me [via phone] because he said he was permanently leaving town immediately to start a new job. He said he was absolutely devastated and sorry he had to do this, he was sobbing and kept repeating that he loved m... (234 words)

Can you kiss with braces?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5684 days ago

30 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey. I'm 13 years old and I Might be getting braces soon..I have a boyfriend and I was just wondering, can you kiss when you have braces?... (27 words)

Husband is 'too tired' but watches porn

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband is 59 and I am turning 40. Suddenly he has become too tired and has become undemonstrative with his affections this last month yet I found out he was watching porn while I was at work. I love him, we have been married for 17 years with two teens. How can I save my ... (65 words)

Broke up my first serious relationship. Talk to him or distract myself?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just broke up with my boyfriend of two years yesterday. We're both 25 years old. This is my first serious relationship and as such my first heartbreak. The reason of our breakup is because he lied to me again and again and I couldn't find it in my heart to forgive him and to ... (279 words)

Apologise? Or stay away?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when people feel about something they have done is it normal for them to stay well away from the person they did wrong to? if they feel that bad then why dont they go and apologize to that person?... (39 words)

Should I stay with the guy in rehab or try the new, clean guy?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have started dating "lee" since dec i actually drove 2000miles to met him he drove w me back to my state to live w me everything was fine til he started his new job which was a nite job which ended up him finding drugs and booze... i kicked him out and sent him back to his ... (134 words)

She likes me as a friend, or she loves me but isn't sure??

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everyone :) I got a wicked situation right here. I fell in love with a girl I knew 2 months ago. There are a few things that are pretty weird. Sche ist the ex and first girlfriend of my life-time best friend (we know us since he was born, just one year after me. We are ... (962 words)

I'm slowly developing a hatred towards women...

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl that I've been crushing over for about a year just rejected me. In my lifetime I've developed crushes over many girls and not one of them ever said yes, I can't fucking take rejection any more, I can't even feel the pain, I'm slowly developing a hatred towards all ... (61 words)

Sex and virginity

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, ok I have a million questions, but ill ask this one question that I have had in my head for a while. im a virgin and I always think guys want to have sex with me because of that but I also think once I tell a guy im a virgin they don't want to talk to me, I know its ... (80 words)

Ugly hair!!!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 years old. I have been thinking of doing the anti curl thing in my hair not myself ofcourse but at a salon. my hair is curliesh wavyesh and very poofy. to school i usually scrunch it with gel and hairspray but i want straight hair badly! i have a few questions though: *... (146 words)

How can I let my neighbour know I like him?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have had tea with my neighbour several times now and thought I saw there was a connection, went for a spin in his car, eventually flirted on line, but he seems slow on the uptake! Help!x... (38 words)

I don't want to be skinny any more!!!

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So heres my issue. im a 14 year old girl (yes i know i put the wrong age) and i am wayyyy too skinny. im about 5'6 and weigh 100 lbs. i HATE my body. i have only a little bit of curves and my rib sticks out a bit and i have skinny legs no chest no behind no NOTHING! right now ... (230 words)

I feel abandoned for wanting a serious relationship.

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So tonight my boyfriend and I broke up, but I'm confused about the whole situation. Over the whole of our relationship he's sort of imposed his ideas (not living together / not wanting children / not wanting to plan for the future etc) and I pretty much took them on board, more ... (243 words)

He says he can never be my friend which saddens me...

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I don't know what to do about this guy. I once liked him a LOT, but he didn't like me back. Fair play. We have been talking for about 5 months, and in this time I have got to know him [I think] quite well. I care for him and his welfare deeply. I don't like him... (173 words)

Stuck and don't know what to do now... any advice?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi, i recently told a guy i fancied him by email then then after a few days we had a convo on msn that went like this: (23:02) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: heya (23:02) -: hi (23:03) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: ta 4 the email (23:04) {xW!LL.EV!Ex}: u going 2 the quiz thingy 2morrow? (23:05) -... (522 words)

Does he not like me any more?

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Here's my story, there is this boy at school, who's liked me for like 3 years now, he would tell his friends to hook him up because he was shy and afraid to approach me. Well a few days ago we started talking, he told me he really wanted to settle down with someone like ... (104 words)

I had sex with him yesterday and now I don't know what to do.

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30 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and old friend just started talking to me again. Me and him had sex yesterday, he's 19 going on 20. I don't know what to do, I have known him for a long time, he doesn't want to hurt me. Can someone help me, please... (47 words)

Please help me understand her...

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30 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This girl and I are fairly close... well, really close. We have never been boyfriend and girlfriend, but we have kissed and we exchange "I love you"s a lot. The things I don't understand: 1. She said she loves me and likes me, but she doesn't wanna be with me. She sa... (191 words)