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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I like her, she likes me, but I don't want a relationship. How do I put my foot down?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl Jess a few weeks ago and we started becoming good friends, openly talking and joking and having fun. Eventually, I realized I had feelings for her and she realized hers for me, so we're half flirting, half being really awkward and closed now since we're both shy ... (177 words)

Boyfriend has low sex drive--bad diet? circumcision?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has been circumsized from birth. He seems to have a very low sex drive and doesn't feel up to it much. It frustrates me because i want to feel wanted and have good hard sex. I'm very passionate but i hate having to ask him for it all the time, i prefer him being ... (127 words)

What do you think is going on here? I don't know what to think...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 3 years now, and i really care about him. But we have hit a rough patch these past few months. He isn't being very nice, and certainly not sweet and romantic. I talked to him and he said he would try to be nicer. But now its me that is having a ... (699 words)

I feel jealous when I see my ex with a new guy. Why do I feel like this, and what can I do about it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I came out of a 3 month relationship with a girl at college. Our relationship wasn't very good. She was always breaking plans, and she had the audacity to tell me that she didn't feel like I'd "swept her off her feet", which is the kind of guy I said I was not long before we ... (197 words)

How do I stop masturbating?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How do I stop masturbating? I think it has become habit rather than necessity. I do at least twice to thrice a week, after doing it I always get feeling to not do it again, but I break promise made to my self. Please help overcome this habit, I block porn on computer and I br... (76 words)

She asked what was in my pocket, but I had gotten an erection! So embarrassed!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5623 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hi, I'm 14, about to be a freshman in high school, and I have a problem. I've been best friends with this girl for longer than I can remember. Last week, our school had the end-of-year Spring Fling (a dance). We went together as friends. When I went to pick her up, though, she ... (329 words)

Ever since her affair I have closed the door to tolerance and patience

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm making the decision today as to whether or not i will remain in my relationship. Over the past year and a half I've been involved with someone whom i thought i loved. She definitely cheated on me and there is plenty of evidence that she did so towards the beginning of ... (351 words)

She says she does some crazy stuff sometimes and doesn't want to hurt me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - A girl that i had been talking to for a few weeks now, and had plans to date me down the road after some other guys got left her alone because she had no interest in them. Well they have and she sent me a message saying that she didn't want to date anyone right now, because she ... (215 words)

I'm a big girl and have trouble taking my clothes off in front of my b/f

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay so heres my problem im a big girl and well im not like a whale but im quite big and i have a problem with like taking my clothes off infront of my boyfriend i mean once im nakid im really comfy but i just wana no how to feel sexy, this man has kissed every inch of me ... (126 words)

What does he want for God's sake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - please help me with this, i have known this guy for a good while and l liked him from the start, we talk to each other almost everyday for hours, the thing is that.. i know that he is trying to make me jealous; talking about other girls to me. he does not even tell me ... (151 words)

He kept joking to her about running away with her. Am I wrong for feeling disrespected?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is older than me so his crowd is usually men and women (husbands and wives about his age) last weekend he had a gathering and just went on and on joking with one of his friend's wife, about how they should run away together and she should leave her husband (and i ... (130 words)

Why do men masturbate when they have girlfriends?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why Do Men Masturbate When They Ave Girlfriends???? Plzzzzzzzzz Help My Bf Dose It N It Make Me Really Angry N We End Up Arguein About Itt!!! I Think It Rude N It Make Me Fill Like He Dosen't Love Me N That He Get More Pleasur Wen He Masturbate!!! :( He Think It ... (72 words)

I want to ask her out, but don't know what to suggest, or if it really is the next step?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need to know what to do next in a potential relationship. (I am in uni btw) It has taken me a while to realise how much she really does like me. We met five months ago and have been meeting semi-regularly or regularly for nearly 4 months. I wouldn't say in my ... (362 words)

I told him I like him but he has a girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well i have liked this boy for about ages now and i finally told him ( over msn lol ) and he said he sorta likes me aswell but he has a girlfriend and when my bestmatee said to him why dont you dump your girlfriend and go out with louise he said no becuz he loves his girlfriend ... (74 words)

Now he thinks it's all my fault! Help!

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i dont no what to do! Long story but one of my mates who tbh you probably wont bleieve me but hes the ones of the nicest lads ever! Ok he liked a girl and still does and asked her out but then she changed her mind... and i got an email off someone else saying she wont go out ... (414 words)

2 weeks into my relationship and I've kissed another guy. Now I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

- Two weeks into the relationship and i've already kissed another guy whilst drunk... I feel awful I know how bad this sounds I really do. I went over my alcohol limit and stupidly kissed some random guy...It's tearin' me up I know it's only two weeks in but this guys someth... (81 words)

What is the best chat up line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need some advice please.. I came out of a long term relationship last august and its all most been a year and i think i am now ready to go and meet some one new so me and some friends are going out on the weekend (first time i have been out propley since my relationship as ... (130 words)

Should I wait a bit more to ask her out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - When everything seemed to be going nicely her closest cousin passes away and it affects my relationship with her. I was going to ask this girl out and i even kissed her in that day that all this happened. So now i dont know what next cause i feel that she isn't avaliabl... (106 words)

Fiancee says we are never going to have sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Me and my fiancee have been together for about 7 months, and we love either other very much, but she told me that we are never going to have sex. I love her and i would never cheat on her. but it is getting to me. We used to fool around but lately we dont even do that.... (58 words)

How to deal with exam stress?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Ive got like four exams over the next two days and can get really tetchy about them... What would you recommend me to do to calm down and stuff...they are all revised for and I'm quite confident about them its just I get cranky easy with them.... Please help... (53 words)

Emotionally tired and unsure if I should move on?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a long, complicated history with my boyfriend of over 3 years. When we first started dating, I thought we were in love. We matched in every way. I later found out, he wasn't completely honest with me and had not made a clean break with his ex. For several months he was ... (463 words)

He proposed to me in the shower and then did doggy style!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Like many couples, after sex, my boyfriend and I shower together. This usually leads to more erotic play; oftentimes it is the highlight of sex for me, especially since I find the water incredibly stimulating. My boyfriend is aware of this and surprised me last week by eating ... (459 words)

Sports Car or SUV?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a few days late on my period. I've been putting off taking a pregnancy test. I keep hoping it's just stress related. My boyfriend is thinking of buying a 'classic' car. He's very excited..having a mechanic check-out the car. And us test-drive it. He says, 'that's th... (79 words)

Sex or compassion..which one?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in love with two men. the one pleases me like you wolud not believe in the bedroom. our souls connect an we make love like no other. the second man gives me everything in a healthy relationship needed! (attention, respect, makes me laugh, loves my child, gets along with ... (109 words)

Going nowhere...AGAIN

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing this guy kind of over the past few weeks and I'm getting the feeling that it's going no where... again. The first couple of weeks were great, he took me out and we got along so well. I thought 'ya know, maybe this is it...' Well I haven't seen him in nearly ... (240 words)

Cut and paste MSN drama. Can anyone help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I’m 16 and nearly 17 and just come out of a relationship. The guy I was with was amazing, I wasn’t with him long (only 5 weeks) but me and him really clicked together, and on our second date he asked me to be his girlfriend. He’s 20 got a decent job etc but we only got to ... (855 words)

We don't have to get back together but I don't want him to hate me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend broke up with me recently when we argued in a club, saying we argue too often, and it's not working He does this alot and we always get back together, but this time, I told a friend of mine that he used to make himself sick for attention when we argued, he doesnt k ... (106 words)

Bi-sexual? Bi-curious?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heyy! I just want to find out what the difference between bi-sexual and bi-curious is?? Any ideas?? Thanks =)... (21 words)

21st birthday present for my g/f?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - ladies out there i could really use some advice. my galfriend is turning 21 in 2 days n i would lyk 2 knw wat would make a female happy for her 21st birthday? what do woman expect 4rm their boyfriends on their 21st birthday? plz help me out in any way that u can!... (54 words)

What should be the next step?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

Why did my wife ask my opinion and then do the exact opposite?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A few weeks ago, I got an email from my wife asking if it was all right with me to have my 18 year old stepdaughter's 20-year-old boy friend move in with us -- because he was kicked out of his house (his parents are going through a divorce). I flatly said no -- no wavering ... (270 words)

Will I get fat from the shot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys. im c0nsidering getting the dep0 sh0t as a meth0d of c0ntracepti0n t0m0row but im really w0ried that it wil make me fat. does any0ne take the sh0t here? hav they gained weight? any advice? thanx... (37 words)

Get over the issue? Or get over the girl?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 1 year and 5 months. I feel at this point that i was in over my head when i got together with my current girlfriend. I fell in love early in the relationship before i really got to know her. Before the relationship started i was made aware t... (576 words)

Guys: Would you stop liking a girl if she was stupid?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - guys,would you still like a girl(now you like her a lot) that got just a bit lower grades at an exam than you did?and you know she did better than you at every contest you went at?would you consider her stupid and stop liking her?would this stop you to ask her out?hope i made ... (62 words)

How to make your breath not smell bad?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey. I was wondering, is there any way other than breath mints, mouthwash, gum, and eating the right way to make you breath not smell bad? The mints I don't always have access to, and I don't have much control over what I eat. I don't have any chance to use mouthwash. So is ... (59 words)

First date--unsure what to do, what to talk about

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - tonight im going on my first date but im way nervous!!! ahh! im sure it will go fine but i dont know what to expect! im worried im going to come across nervous or that i wont have mauch to say or that we wont like each other. help! how can i calm my nerves! what are good t... (66 words)

Am I weird because I'm at virgin?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Iv'e just turned sixteen and im still a virgin most of my friends arent. Does this make me weird? help!... (20 words)

My husband told me he's gay but he wants to be "ex-gay"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

18 May 2009 (F) age 41-50 - My husband told me yesterday that he was gay. It wasn't a big announcement, he just said to me "I have something to tell you, it's important!" so I sat down and listened. He admitted he was gay, and said tearfully "I DON'T want to be this way! I want you, I want to like women", ... (201 words)

He's more interested in food than sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband does not want sex at all. No matter how I try to initiate it - sexy lingerie, romantic meal, kissing passionately - he just refuses sex. I know why - he's more interested in eating. He eats almost anything - from pizza to curry to a fish and chips meal. He c... (282 words)

I told her I had intense feelings but I haven't heard from her now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was a freshman in college. I say was because its summer time and I am now offically a sophmore. But i had to transfer from my first college because of something at home, but I loved my first college. At this school, I met this girl. She's a volleyball player. Only one word ... (322 words)

I made out with another guy but am not going to tell fiance

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5657 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have know my fiance for most of our lives. He's one of my best friends, but the other night I made out with this guy I've known for like 12 years (no sex, just making out). Yes, I was drinking, but I wasn't drunk. I only had one drink. I enjoyed the time I spent with him... (189 words)

Should I just accept that "boys will boys"??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've just started dating a guy who is very attractive and a huge flirt. He gives girls a lot of attention, and they give it back to him. Girls on Facebook are always asking him to hang out or call him, and every time we go out I catch him making eyes with or winking at some ... (204 words)

Bleeding after sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont usually bleed but recently i keep bleading after sex. Its only slightly but i don't know why and my periods aren't due for 2 weeks, any ideas?... (29 words)

Having sexual dreams..does this mean he does too?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i keep having repetitive intimate sexual dreams about one of the guys i went to school with, he stays just up the road from me and i cant seem to stop dreaming constantly about him, i think he likes me in a certain way, but we hardly ever talk, as i am happily engaged and due ... (126 words)

Am I cursed? Everything bad happens!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age - Can i be cursed? My bad luck never stops. Now I don't even want to try new things, because what ever I try turns out to be a disaster. One bad thing after an other. Even people around me sort of falling away from me, because they can't help me, or even to keep up with my chaos... (131 words)

If I think he's cheating does that mean he is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I sure hope someone can help me or just tell me it's all in my head! OK here it goes: I was married for 16 yrs got divorced after finding out he was cheating ( He left me and his 4 kids for her) I tried to get back in the dating game only to be cheated on time and time again. ... (337 words)

Going to boot camp! Leaving the guy behind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I moved to california about 5months ago to start a new life. While I wasn't looking for love, I did find it. When we met, I made it clear to him that I was hesitant about rushing into a new relationship and that I would like to take things slow because of what I had been ... (428 words)

I would love to swap roles with my wife for the day!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My greatest fantasy is to dress up as a woman in my wife's clothes. I want to go all out on this. Like shave my legs and armpits, bra stuffers, blonde wig, makeup... the works... and have my wife become the man for a day. Any advice?... (50 words)

Do I continue with my new boyfriend or see if I can work things out with my other friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So i had this guy friend, and we decided to start a courtship... and it did go well, but later on he made up these stupid excuses like" you remind me of myself when i was like that" and "your voice sounds like a 13 year old, your so imature" "your a freakin child" and he told ... (133 words)

Please help, I'm really upset. Do you think I'll ever get another chance with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex and I have known each other for about 9 months, we work in the same place but in different departments, we were friends for 6 months and we were gf/bf for 3 months. I'm six years older then my bf I'm 28 but we act and look the same age and that was never a problem. we ... (989 words)

Commitment phobic...?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I’d like your advice, about 4 weeks ago I met a guy on an internet dating website who I was initially extremely forward with me. I saw his pics on line and we chatted online for a while and he seemed really nice and intelligent as he has his own business etc.. Within about ... (505 words)

Is this an STD? I'm scared... help!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok basically im 18. i was having oral fun with my boyfriend (my 1st) and then his semen was like white/water (maybe precum?) then dark yellow. he even said oh its dark yellow lol... he's only had a sex with some girls and always used protection he said he's had all the chec... (131 words)

I would love to carry out this fantasy for my wife!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife fantasizes about watching me sleep with another man and I am bi curious, so I'm willing to do it for her. I'm just wondering how I would go about finding a man without "outing" myself, because I'm not actually gay... just curious.... (45 words)

Any ideas for bringing this relationship back from the grave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my fiance have been together for nearly 3 years and the last few months he has been completely withdrawn from our relationship, he hardly talks to me, he is all the time saying mean things to me and so on and so forth. Last night i finally put the pieces together and ... (144 words)

Is paying strippers for a lap dance cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5652 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I are going on a trip to Vegas soon and I'm wondering if it's okay to pay strippers for a personal lap dance...or is that cheating?... (29 words)

Is it cheating if I fantasize about having a relationship with someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5664 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I masturbate often thinking about Mariah Carey. I guess you could say that Mariah is my fantasy girlfriend. Is it cheating if I fantasize about having a relationship with a woman other than my wife?... (37 words)

What porn do women like to watch?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I love watching porn together, but I admit porn is geared more toward men. What kind of porn is fun for women to watch?... (28 words)

I feel threatened by her and I wish I wasn't so insecure.

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and i have been back together for a few motnhs. We have been doing pretty well..or so i thought. My ex best friend had gone out with him behind my back, almost a year ago. I have put it in the past, and i feel like he has earned my trust back, but now i feel like ... (349 words)

I didn't think I wanted children, but now I'm rushing into relationships because my friend has a baby!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

- im 21 and ive only really been in one serious relationship, when i was in that relationship (from i was 14 to i was 18) we had talked about having children and i really wanted kids because i was settled and living in my own home with my partner but i never got pregnant. Then we ... (350 words)

What is the ideal penis size ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have talked about me getting a penis enlargement. I'm already just under 8 inches, so what is the ideal penis length for women?... (28 words)

We're just friends, so why does it hurt knowing he slept with somebody else?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - For some really crazy reason i'm really hurt my best male friend, we had a random conversation regarding sex questions, he asked me how many guys have i ever slept with, i answered him and asked him the same question, his answer was 3. I cant understand why i'm so hurt about ... (165 words)

I think I love her but she's so childish!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have been dating this girl for seven months and i have begun to love her.we are like 21 now.nearly everyday she behaves like a kid.if something goes wrong i am the one getting blamed. she often praises about herself that she is really pretty. her, the attitude and egor.and ... (70 words)

Asked her to meet up but it went a bit wrong, now I've not heard from her.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi all, just a strange situation goin on and would like some input. Ive been chattin to a girl and we arranged to meet up, then on the day of the date she kinda gets flaky to which i send her an email stating a few things to put her mind at rest if she was nervous about meeting ... (186 words)

Is it really a bad idea to tell her I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Afternoon Aunts and Uncles. I'm finding myself in a strange situation. I'm seeing a girl its fairly new. Infact we've had about a 5 dates, and if anyone asked i would have to answer we have not reached the stage of Girlfriend and boyfriend. We get on very well and the last f... (257 words)

He is in a relationship but wanted to sleep with me...what is he thinking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - im still madly in love with my ex and cant seem to get over him at all no matter what i do hes always in my thoughts... we slept together on a few occasions i only slept with him because im still really in love with him and thinking he might be still in love with me.. ab... (660 words)

Thinking about changing myself so I can get him back

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok, last time i asked this i dont think i got enough answers, i need to hear everyones opinion, cuz im really stuck and madley stupidly in loveee me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 years. and during a break in these 2 years i had sex with this other guy. then me ... (197 words)

Was he trying to brush me off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

- Always good answers on this site. I broke up with my partner of 12 years three years ago and a year ago he starting calling me. I flew to where he had relocated to test the waters only to discover that there was someone else he had been seeing. I was no sooner on the plane that ... (126 words)

Why doesn't he keep in touch he appears to really like me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I'm new to this, never really posted a question before. Basically i've known this guy for many many years.. i used to fancy him LOADS about 5 years ago when i met him but let's just say, i was too young and hadn't got my looks then! However. we havent always been in... (209 words)

He has two children, am I being selfish and can this relationship ever work?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok im 22 nearly 23, and just started dating a new guy who's 29, 30 next year....we got on so great then we had a heart to heart and i found out he has two kids from his last relationship aged 6 and 10.....im confused now! How could this ever work? Am i being selfish? I need h... (102 words)

Can I enlarge the size of my manhood?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5665 days ago

18 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I want to ask you folks if there is anyway to enlarge my manhood without an operation and are those oerations good and effective in enlarging manhood?? I have a high sex drive and i can last very long 40 minutes but i am very shy of the size "4 inches only".... (53 words)

Can someone tell me where to find a decent man!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, im just wondering if anyone can give me any advice on where to meet decent down to earth men. It seems to me that men can't be faithful to one woman. Perhaps that's nature, i don't know but if a woman behaves like that then she's branded a slut. I'm tired of being u... (179 words)

He thinks he can change but is it fair for me to ask that of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in an online relationship for nearly 4 years until i met and made a friend. Through this new friendship i realised wanted i really wanted from a relationship. It made me realise that my online relation wasn't the "great" thing that i had thought it was and it was just ... (379 words)

Am I making a big mess of my life or do I just need to let fate decide for me?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My life is going through a pretty turbulent patch at the moment and I would like to get some opinions on what direction I should be going in and whether I am making a big mess of things at the moment! Basically I have just found out I am losing my job at the end of the month... (1074 words)

Help me please

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18 May 2009 (F)

age - help I am so unhappy in my marriage i no longer trust my husband and cannot get over his cheating he wont talk about what he has done and gets violent and throws things and he crabs me hits me i know i should leave but have no where to go and i dont think i can make it ... (131 words)

Divorce and dating.....

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18 May 2009 (M) age 51-59 - How long should a person expect someone to wait on them if they are in the process of a divorce? Is it fair for the one waiting to date someone else?... (31 words)

I want to make a move on my friend but I'm afraid

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 25 y.o (i think bisexual) female - who has never even been kissed by a girl or a guy. I am completely in love with my same sex best friend, and would like nothing more than to make a move on her, but am scared that I will scare her off. I do not want to lose her as a fri... (67 words)

Why doesn't he get it that I don't want to talk to him?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm so confused with guys right now. a while ago i went to a party, drank and hooked up with this boy i met. after that night he kept texting me nonstop. at first he only bothered me by texting twice if i didnt text back within a certain amount of minutes. and it kept happening ... (159 words)

She's trying to keep me as a backup, what should I do?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I know that by now I should be completely over her. Hell Have been going out, was seeing somebody else the whole deal. But for some reason I just can't get her out of my mind. It's been almost six months. After the break up she still came to my birthday and being desperate back ... (181 words)

He built up my hopes for nothing?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so i met this really amazing guy he was so sweet and stuff calling me all the things i've always wanted to hear in my life and i thought finally!!! i'm going to have the relationship i've always wanted! so i wanted to meet up with him Saturday so he agreed but then S... (486 words)

Why are we not together?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay I've been confused for sometime and it's hard not talking about it we'll i was pretty young when I met this guy his name was jose we met through his cousins which is along story but we went to the straw berry festival in Florida and he want with his cousins and met started ... (291 words)

My ex told me to date around but I want him back!

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Question. My ex just started talking to me again. Its been like 4 or 5 weeks since we broke up. He says he misses me and loves me but he doesn't want me back yet because he can't trust me. I don't know what to do. Should I wait for him to want me back or just try and move on? I ... (122 words)

Does he want me? Or just a relationship?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had an affair while I was married and unhappy. It happened once (he was not from here) and was totally unexpected. I kept in touch with him for a year by email and sometimes phone until I recently divorced. I refrained myself from showing any feelings for him until I sorted ... (355 words)

Why do they all want sex from me?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi ,im 25 yr old girl ,tall and goodlooking...frnds call me sexy too..even if i move in a normal way with my male friends,after somedays they expect sex from me..cant i get a genuine friendship?im fed up of guys mentality....among them i like a guy,infact wanted to have ... (76 words)

Can it be salvaged? Or did I already screw it up?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, was seeing this guy for about 3 months- yeah, not a long time (though he'd been trying to get a date with me for 2 years), but I felt we had a good connection, and it seemed like feelings were growing between us...him saying stuff such as "I like you alot" and "I'm really ... (266 words)

Relationship starts within two weeks of meeting and now he wants sex?

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18 May 2009 (?) age 41-50 - I met this cute guy in my local gym two weeks ago. We had a little chat, two days later he asked for my number. I gave him and immidiately he told me he liked me and wanted me to be his galfriend. I didnt take him seriously at first because it was way to fast. He called me, we ... (187 words)

How can he be so heartless?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dont know what to do. I had a guy play with my head and heart for 2 years. He never said he didn't care about me but he never said he did. God I can almost say i love him. Anyway, after 2 years of being "friends with benefits" (i never wanted it, i was naive in the beg... (145 words)

IF he likes me he has a weird way of showing it!

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a long story and for that I'm sorry..well the situation is that I have a crush on this guy who is named Pedro.For the past couple of weeks I believe that I have gotten some hints which is leading me to think that maybe he might like me.I'll start writing down all the ... (432 words)

Swingers: Have sex with friends? Or strangers?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I are both attracted to each others' friends. Is it a good idea to be having sex with each others' friends if we are swingers...or should we only have sex with strangers?... (36 words)

I want to be a woman for the day!

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How can I convince my wife to let me dress up as a woman for a day and take me up the ass with a strap-on?... (26 words)

How do we find other swingers?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I are becoming more and more open sexually and we have both decided that we would like to start swinging. I am really turned on by the thought of watching her have sex with another man while I watch. My question is, how do we go about finding people to do this ... (59 words)

Why am I having trouble leaving him?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been seeing this guy for about a month and a half, and at first he was really great, but now I have noticed somethings that don't set right with me. I keep thinking that it would be good for me to get away from him but again I hate to leave him, why am I having a such a h... (65 words)

I want to lose 50 pounds by the end of the summer

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - please help me. I need to lose weight so bad. I need to know the best excercise routines I can do at home (not run around the neighborhood, that's embarrassing) and the best foods to eat and times. and just be really specific. This boy I'm in love with really inspired me to ... (77 words)

Cheated on b/f with best friend

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i cheated on my bf with my best friend......... now i don know how to tell him as i reli jus don wanna lose him at any cost.. i love my bf a lot... should i tell him...???? if yes, how????? plz help........ (43 words)

No romance for me but he's still madly in love. Should I leave?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - First, some background - I'm 26 and my boyfriend is 30. We've been seeing each other for almost 2 years now and I'm thinking of calling it quits, but I'm afraid I'll regret leaving. What should I do? From the start I've noticed big differences between us in values, opinions... (392 words)

How do I change my own behavior in regards to his actions?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Currently I'm dating a man I find somewhat challenging, and that is part of the reason I'm dating him. He's very flirtatious with other women, and since he is very attractive and lavish with his attention to them, they give him a lot of attention in return. He also seems to ... (234 words)

Any way to keep him from assuming I'm an easy lay?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so about a month ago i met a guy online. After a few emails and interesting IM conversations, we planned to meet up to help me with a homework assignment. We hung out spur of the moment two days before (a Friday night). Things started out ok but i was very quiet. As i'm ... (294 words)

What should I do I'm in love with my cousin!

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with my cousin sister since a year now. I like her a lot and want to spend the rest of my life with her. What should i do coz i can't live my life without her and she stays far away from me. I'm not going to forget her if u think it is a temporary feelin... (137 words)

Could I possibly be pregnant without penetration?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend were messing around but we have never had sex. He pre cumed and after he teased me with his penis but never penetrated me. About 5 minutes later he ejaculated but it was a hand job. Could i possibly get pregnant from pre cum the day after my period?... (57 words)

How do I get along with my dad we always falling out?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, okay so my dad is a douche bag, this is the story. I just moved in with my dad in December, and i've been alright, then he started calling me a liar, and he just never lets me do anything, i have been thinking it's because of my step mom who uses him for money and i ... (370 words)

Why has he lost sexual interest in me?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - What are the causes for a husband to lose sexual interest with his wife? Any opinion is appreciated.... (20 words)

Any men willing to share their views on platonic friendship?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks for reading this - this is a rather open-ended question. Without going into the details of my situation, I was wondering what attitude men have towards being platonic friends with women. I have a new-ish straight male friend who is simply a platonic friend. It turn... (202 words)

He said "I love you" and I think it was too soon, what now?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well I just started seeing this guy and well I really like him. But he asked me to be his girl friend a few days after I met him and then one night I went over to his house and he told me he loved me. I think that was way way to fast. What should I do? I mean I really like him ... (75 words)

Was it love or what?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex-boyfriend said it's stupid to say i love you. even if you do mean it. and we went out for 9 months and said i love you all the time. So... did he really love me or what? i'm confused. help?... (42 words)

Is she ignoring me because I was awkward?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - this is kind of stupid but its annoying the hell out of me. so at random this girl i don't really know asked me to chill with her and her friend. so we did and it was really awkward. like we didnt talk at all the entire time. so i texted her a few days later and she didnt ... (68 words)

How long do I wait for her?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok, so ive known this girl for 3 years, and ive really been into her the whole time. However after I had known her for a couple months she moved to California, and came back this year. We began talking alot, and i asked her to Prom. We went to it, and had an amazing time. ... (218 words)

My friend gets nasty when she drinks, how do I deal with her?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Really need some advice please, I have a good friend who has some medical issues and personal and work stress and the moment, somis stressed and likes to drink at her house, (she doesnt go out often) in the evening, I will often visit her at her house. I do not drink. ... (376 words)

What does it mean when a woman sits on your lap?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was sitting on a chair recently at a ramp party, and this girl sits on my lap. And she said she did it because her feet hurts. There are a few chairs. She proceeds to give a compliment like "your hair is hot." So, instead of trying to 'agree' with her, I used reverse psy... (138 words)

I still can't get over him

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18 May 2009 (?) age 30-35 - ok there's this guy I liked well long story short we were out and he walked me home we made out and kinda did that for a week then he asked me out but we only dated for a week until he dumped me and went back ok with his ex than he dumped her and is now going out with this ... (100 words)

Why did she contact me all of a sudden?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend who last month turned 25 broke up with me over 4 months ago. It was not a bad break up, she felt as if she wasent putting the effort i was in the relationship. I was sad , heartbroken but went on. We dated for 1 year, well I kept busy did not call,text,email no ... (208 words)

Can a man love a woman, when's he's been emotionally abused by a woman in the past ?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - can a man love a woman, when's he's been emotionally abused by a woman in the past ? i found out through his friends, he had a girlfriend 10 years ago. he really loved this woman, and he's bitter about it. and i think he was really emotionally abused by her. i'm in a relati... (166 words)

Is it right of me to ask her to cut contact with her male friends?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my question is; i have been with this women for 9months and its on the internet only. iam over 3000 miles away from her..is it right of me to ask of her to cut the contact with her male friends ,she seems to have an open door policy when it comes to allowing men to come th... (77 words)

Should I tell him I cheated? What he doesn't know won't hurt him, right?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have made a huge mistake, And when I was drunk last week at a party I cheated on my boyfriend and had sex with another guy. My boyfriend doesn't know as i'm too frightened to tell him, because I know it would be over as soon as I do tell him. Being drunk is no excuse so I ... (157 words)

Do I treat him the same way he treats me?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think my marriage is headed for a divorce and we haven't even been married for two years. Our one year anniversary was April 9th. He forgot. Which is nothing unusual, he would forget his own name if he didn't have to sign paperwrk at his job. His job is stressful, he's the ... (272 words)

I am anxious about her touching me "there" because of size

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I have a problem... okay im in a very open relationship with my girlfriend and we really like eachothe. everythingis great and we've been going out for a few monts...but lately i've noticed she's been getting a little touchy feeely...i know she's like dat...and i'v e notice... (135 words)

LDR is causing me concern..could he be cheating?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well i have been in a long distance relationship,,in the start it was amazing but now its a total mess,,he doesnt call me like he used to,,he doesnt text me like before,,we dont even chat anymore,,we have been fighting alot these days too,,but im the one who brings up the ... (181 words)

Should I hang out with my friend's ex?

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18 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right, I'm quite good friends with this guy and girl who were a couple of about 8 months until yesterday. The girl had a crush on me a few years ago but as far as I know, she doesn't anymore. The guy was pouring his heart out to me tonight, and I feel really bad for him; w... (162 words)

My husband is gay and is seeing my BROTHER!

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out my husband is gay a while back but although i moved out we were still very close and we have 5 children one who is disabled, but 3 weeks ago my brother turned up and they started a relationship straight away and moved in together! I still love my husband even ... (150 words)

Please give me some advice I do not won't any rude replies.

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18 May 2009 (F)

age - Hello: I was dating a guy who's religion was Jehovah's Witnesses, we only dated a short while he told me a little after we started dating, we dated when my daughter was younger and he had joined them. Ok here yesterday I call he tells me the relationship wasn't going to ... (502 words)

What to do about this discharge?

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so i started my period when i was 11 now im 15 and ever since i started it has never been normal. I have discharge for the past 4 years non stop. My doctor says it's normal and that it will go away on it's on but it hasn't yet. She also put on the pill so that it regulate ... (98 words)

I'm still a virgin and I'd like to keep it that way!

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18 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, First i'm sorry if this has already been asked before... But here we go. Well about a year ago, i started dating a guy, that i eventually thought i was in love with. He was kind of a jerk, he took things really fast, as in he tried to make out on the first date, and ... (159 words)