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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I want to sleep with my aunt

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5536 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay i think im weird.i'll explain. I have an antie she's 17 im 16 ( long story) anyway, i think she's fit and i get turned on by her I stayed at hers whilst she wa on holiday and in her room, i found loads of dirty bra's and knickers and well, ( what i did i am not prou... (170 words)

Women: Threesomes--MMF or MFF??

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5655 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Quick question for the women out there, which do you prefer, a MMF or MFF threesome? My wife and I are talking about it and she finds both pretty hot. I said my main concern would be for her to be happy and enjoy it and am willing to do either or both. Just curious what ... (80 words)

Fine line between love and hate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - right, there a girl at my schols says she dont like me, and i'm okay with that dont like her either, although she is fit, we've spoke now and again, anyway she's aways telling people that she dont like me, Why's she always talking about me if she dont like me so much? she told ... (139 words)

I really like this guy and just wanna know how to do the whole kissing process.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay you guys so, me and my bf have been dating for 3 months now and we haven't kissed or anything. So tommorrow is the last day of school and i really want to do it but idk like how to you know get him close enough to kiss him. And also I've never kissed a guy so idk how to ... (109 words)

Career or baby... what do I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay i know im gonna get some abuse from all angry pregnant teens or parents on this site, but i have a baby shaped hole that really needs filling, but im so torn i really want a baby more than anything but i really wanna get my career sorted first, im so torn career or baby ... (103 words)

In the last few months everything has went downhill...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I believe I need some advice. I know the answer to the question but still need something from some one. I will make this simple. I have been with my fiancee for a year, we were friends for over 3 years. Close friends, always hung out together. Since we started dating he ... (406 words)

No one is ever truly happy in a marriage... is this true?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello everyone. As my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non-hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway here goes.. first id like to ... (1002 words)

Engaged but not in love with him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 23 year old female living with my 44 year old boy friend for the past 3 years and 5 months. we broke up once for about 7 months just after he engaged to me because i fell out of love with him. Yes i lost all attraction for him. anyway for the entire time we were apart he ... (194 words)

Pregnant and scared...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. well basicly im 17, living in the UK and im not going to be all dramatic and cry at you, because its my fault im in this mess and whats happened cannot be changed. i was with my boyfriend for 2 years and a month. ill admit, im still madly in love with him, i got with him ... (339 words)

Do guys like tall women?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5188 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im majorly tall, as in over 6ft (6ft 3 to be exact). i cant seem to find any guys taller than me who are at all attractive to me, and i worry that im not attractive to anyone else. I always feel out of place in any public place, and people stare at me, or at least i feel like ... (73 words)

Pregnant - Having Issues with Boyfriend's Friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Recently I just found out I’m pregnant – My boyfriend and his whole family are very excited. The problem is there are two of his guy friends that have been creating some problems. They tell him to change his number or how does he know that he is the Father that I might be ... (220 words)

Heartbroken, confused and need advice

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Okay, I need some help here and I don't know what to do. For the first time in my life, at 41 I have truly fallen in love. I wasn't looking and a mutual friend thought we would like each other. So 6 months ago I met this wonderful women. We connected instantly and for the past ... (654 words)

Co-worker has a crush on me but I am married!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - okay so there isa guy at work who i would say hasa thing for me although i am maried with kids and the other day i was wating on a customer ,and he basically accuesd me of flirting with this customer although i said now i wansnt he said yes you were then the next day went on ... (121 words)

I need some help with my situation please

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5659 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I hope someone can help x This boy likes me , I like him back , but he has a gf , and I feel like I'm waiting untill they break up what should I do to help the situation ? Also when they do break up , another boy likes me but it's like he has an obsession and he's very pro... (102 words)

Honestly guys, do you really like the taste?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5487 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend goes down on me a lot and when he kisses me I can taste it and its so gross! He says I taste good but I feel like he is just saying that to make me feel better. Do guys really like how a girl tastes down there?... (50 words)

My wife or the love of my life? How do I choose?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5252 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hello everyone. as my screen name suggests I feel like im ready to make a choice but I need some real strong non- hateful advice. I have never used a service like this so I hope it will make me see things more clearly. I really need help. anyway here goes.. first id like to ... (998 words)

I never thought I'd like girls but I like her!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

- I recently started talking to this girl online and we have been hitting it off more than well!!! We talk for hours at a time every day and night online and over the phone. we both really like each other but im so confused. I didnt think that I liked girls but with her its ... (149 words)

He was naked, I had on jeans..wondering if I'm pregnant

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5656 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I'm a virgin and I haven't had intercourse. However, my boyfriend and I were doing sexual stuff like oral sex and such. The one thing that has me scared is that I was really wet, but I had my jeans on. They're not heavy denim jeans more like stretchy mixed with light ... (225 words)

Please don't judge me for taking another woman's husband

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got myself into a relationship that will wreck so many lives, but i can't stop seeing my boyfriend. I love him too much. Im 19 and my BF is 25. He's my brothers best friend and i've known him all my life. He got married about 3 years ago because his wife was pregnant... (261 words)

We're both married, were once married to each other..feelings still there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age - In 1973 I was 17 and my boyfriend was 18 we married in 1975 and divorced in 1980. we both grew up in the same small town so our parents keept us informed through out the years. we both have remarried and have long marriages mine 25 his 23 both with children. A year ago he asked... (191 words)

He was a manwhore..do you think he still is?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there!, Well there is this guy i dated back a few months ago and well we broke up cuz he lives 2 hours away but now he is moving down soon, well he was sorta a man whore in 8th grade and now hes in 9th and he told me he isnt like that anymore and he promise, well i have lea... (264 words)

A year and 1/2 and still no sex?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Sooo me and my gf have been dating for a year and a half so a decent amount of time. We havent had sex nor have i tried. Our year n a half was a week ago n we were making out. Both our top layers came off n the moment just seemed right, so i tried for the bottom half. N she ... (184 words)

Co-worker crush won't go away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi I'll try not to waffle on too much -I'd like some advice to help clear my head up. I'm a 31 year-old man and I am very fond of a 29 year female co-worker. She is a single mother with a 6 year-old daughter and it seems the father was out of the picture very early on an... (470 words)

He invited me for coffee does that mean he fancies me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5644 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i'm Brenda and i'm 37.. been married no kids.. well i have a sandwich business and deliver to various offices, well theres this one guy who is hot - really hot - he has his own office (just him working there) we always chat for ages anyway he invited me in for coffee the ... (163 words)

He depends on me but I want to leave!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My problem is...... I have been with my sons father for 13 years on and off (we are not married). mostly on of course. We have a child together. About 8 years ago he got sick. He lost all function of his kidneys well he hasnt worked since then. He has since received a ... (375 words)

He finds the whole "liking thing" awkward

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well let me cut the story short i feel in love with one of my closest guy mates. Well everyone else already thought we were going out anyway. I Thought he realy liked me. Everyone said he did because apparently whenever we were together we would ignore everyone else ar... (179 words)

My sister's husband raped me but she chose to stay with him and now I don't talk to my sister

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 16 yrs old. i got raped by my sisters husband about 7 months ago when i was 15. i culdnt tell anyone because he use to say to me if i tell anyone he will ruin by sisters (his wife's) life. and i loved my sister alot. so for 2 months i dint tell anyone anything but then ... (185 words)

Why won't she tell me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am confused about why I cannot get an answer from the girl I like about whether or nor she would go out on a "proper date" with me. We have met many times, she has been to my place and vice versa (she cooked for me) and she has said things that make me think she might ... (201 words)

Dream about friend's g/f..mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okay first before i tell you my problem, i'd just like to say, i'm a good person, i dont cheat on girls,i'm a stand up guy, nice to all my mates, and they know that. i'd never go out fof my way to hurt some-one. right, last night i had a dream where my mates girl friends was... (115 words)

Why do I keep hurting this man when I love him so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 34 separated from my husband because in the relationship Was mentally and verbally abused and also betrayed by my ex and Now I am in a relationship were I know the guy loves me but I keep Hurting him by calling other men and having them all me and we broke up for 4 mo... (155 words)

Do guys get over their first love and girls dont?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just want to know one thing,which is really frustrating so guys get over their first love they say they do but y cant i ever agree to them although i want to.. isn't it hard to forget the first love? ... (46 words)

He isn't being very nice, and certainly not romantic or sweet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this guy for 3 years now, and i really care about him. But we have hit a rough patch these past few months. He isn't being very nice, and certainly not sweet and romantic. I talked to him and he said he would try to be nicer. But now its me that is having a ... (882 words)

Why do I become so stubborn and difficult to deal with when it comes to my boyfriend!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I am engaged to a wonderful man. We did the long distance thing for a year and a half, and I we have been living with eachother for over 3 months. Its wonderful, but in certain instances, I get upset with him and make it so hard for him to talk to me. He is more like a w... (274 words)

My wife is talking and flirting with her first love.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5626 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am a 43 year male who is married to a wonderful person. Found out that she has been emailing, chatting, probably talking to what I believe is a first love, the discussions she has are sexually (I miss you and would love you to touch me #@!$ on by boobs and @@#$@ under a ... (157 words)

Paranoid that my boyfriend will cheat on me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can anyone please help me with this fear i have that my boyfriend will cheat on me when he goes out with his mates. He doesnt handle drink well and doesnt know when to stop and ends up acting a right knob and not remembering what he gets up to. He doesnt go out often but has a ... (227 words)

We have not had sex for 2 years due to his lack of sex drive...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5658 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm asking guys, but not only... So, if my husband can't get it up with me, but he is not physically impotent,/night erections present// then is it possible he will be able to get it up with someone else? I mean, I just don't know, if I should trust him or not? What do you... (89 words)

Lesbian and proud FINALLY!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, some-one help, Last night we had abit of a party anyway we drank a lot and i fell asleep, i woke up during the night still a bit hazey and to be honest really very turned on, i quickly realised that i was being stroked and touched by another female i shot up, and she... (191 words)

Disturbing dream...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wonder, if somone here is familiar with dreams. I had this really disturbing dream last night. I woke up from it with a panic attack and now I wonder if it means anything. So I was walking down to a basement, looked like some big laboratory. There was a huge glass jar of b... (103 words)

Is it normal to feel this way or am I weird????

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Am I weird? Some girl at my school was caught giving head and it went round school, and when i saw her i got an errection, i kept picturing her giving it to me and i almost climaxed without even touching down there. She always has this really great ass and i know its pervy, ... (118 words)

Comments please... Am I wasting my time with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5279 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hello I met this girl on facebook who i quite like. We mailed each other quite a few times, got quite personal. She then asked me for my MSN address and i gave it her, but whenever i go on she never starts a conversation its always me. Sometimes she doesn't reply for like 1... (102 words)

I know I'm just using her.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - alright so here it is this girl that goes my school has been flirting. She's alright. Anyway we were talking and somehow we got onto having sex, now we're talking about having sex with each other and I think we're going to do it. I dunno if it's fair on her, cos deep do... (104 words)

I don't know what to do as he has a girlfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5612 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been friends with this guy for about two months, I've liked him a lot since I met him but I refused to say anything as he has a girlfriend. We've been flirting a lot and the other day he told me that he also likes me, I also told him that I liked him but he has a ... (320 words)

Males please-He seems to like me but I'm unsure about how to make the first move

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5649 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Of course all help and/or opinions will be much appreciated, but if possible a male's opinion would be amazing. There's this guy that I've liked for a while, probably a couple of months now and up until about 3 weeks ago, the most I'd said to him was 'hi'. I recently found o... (267 words)

I see a pattern here..should I be with her? Or not?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - my question is should i stay with this women who is separted from her husband and has been for 4 years. this same women has been with another man several times dating back to one year ago and now i ve caught her fancy..ive known of her for last 12 months. she has several k... (204 words)

I was pissed off because he went off with friends..am I being too sensitive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, this is my 3rd time asking a question on this website...thanks for all the great advice out there! Hope I can get sound advice this time round as well... :) Well I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 36 (the question I am asking does not relate at all to our age gap so p... (225 words)

Please help I cant stay hard whilst having sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a 18year old boy I am going with my girlfreind now about 6 months we try having sex a lot of the time and 9 time out of 1o when we are havin sex i go soft i dont know what 2 do it is driving me mad and also her mad we have even nearly broke up over it i am 6ft tall, and ... (133 words)

Sex with the ex used to be amazing and the new boyfriend doesn't quite match up!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5651 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello ladies out there, I have a strange situation and want to see if anyone else has faced this. About six years ago, I ended two year relationship with a guy. We were not compatible, no abuse, cheating, etc. The issue is that the guy had a strange penis. At first it was a ... (354 words)

I have genital herpes, how can I get my fiance to get me pregnant?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well this is very embarrasing. but here it goes.... I have been with my finace' going on two yrs now n I want a child. We have set a date and every thing to get married but that's not the problem. the problem is that I have genital herpes and he doesn't.....Yea I knw WOW. ... (257 words)

Is there a word for the male version of pretty?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i have been dating this guy and hes so nice and when we're together he calls me pretty. the thing is i dont know how reciprocate to that. he is a very good looking guy and i want to say he is but i dont know how to say that. when he says you're pretty do i just say , so are ... (81 words)

He has a child by a psycho when it should have been me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok well I have been with my fiance' for the past 2yrs now. During them two yrs let's jus say a lot has happened. He cheated on me 3times...twice with one woman n once with another. The woman he cheated on me twice with got pregnant n he lied about that...he lied about a bunch ... (410 words)

I want to try lesbian sex!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5637 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I wana try lesbian sex, but i don't know who i would try it with, i don't have many friends and the ones i do have are too close to be asking that kinda stuff. girls really turn me on, i love boys though just the thought of women together gets me really hot. i also watch alot ... (98 words)

I don't feel anything since my ex boyfriend broke up with me in a text!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex boyfriend of a year broke with me in a text and and weeks later decided he wanted me back but i dont want to because he doesnt deserve any other chance with me. Its been months now and i dont think ive got any feelings for him but everytime a really nice guy asks me out i ... (105 words)

I'm a stressed out single mum but I don't want to lose my boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Where to start? Okay i dated this guy for about 8 months(I broke up wih him twice because i was scared to start a relationship but we put that in the past on Jan. 1st) things were really serious we were getting ready to move in to our apartment we got together. I also... (336 words)

Does anyone have any tips on losing weight quickly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This is guna sound really stupid. but does anyone have any tips on loosing weight really quickly. you see i just feel that my whole life would improve if i was slimmer because id have the confidence and i'd be able to look in the mirror. i dont wana get surgery because im a ... (154 words)

My mate's girl is always trying to get my attention

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My mates girl, well he aint much of a mates, fancy's me, she's always flirting and touching her breasts in front of me, keeps hugging my everytime she see's me, and i dont know what to do, i mean she is attractive and such, but i aint some dick that fools around with girls that ... (165 words)

My affair ended and my husband forgave me....but the guy I cheated with wont leave me alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, this is my story I have been working for a great company for 2 years now have a wonderful marriage well lets say we have our ups and downs but who doesnt. I started training this man that came to work in my department, well I started flirting he flirted back. One thing led ... (190 words)

Sorted things out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my long distance are on a break and its been 3 weeks now, and she whats to see me and work this thing out, and i am going to in 2 weeks time, also she told me that i am the one for her and now one else also the other night she was crying because she needed me so badly, ... (98 words)

Can you have a meaningful relationship with someone if it started out as just sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I would just like some advice and opinions here... Do you think a relationship based on sex alone can turn into a real relationship? I met a guy at a club and I wasnt looking for a relationship at the time, he was cute so I ended up going back to his house and we slept t... (446 words)

17 years and counting? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am a 30 year old mom of two children ages 13 and 8. I started my relationship with their dad at the age of 14. Over the past 17 years a lot has unfolded.. Really bad times... Really good times. I try to sum it up to we were kids and had a lot of growing up to do. But now ... (205 words)

Falling for someone I can never be with! Please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well this is the short and long story.... I'm in a casual relationship right now, although i really do like him, actually love him alot. The thing is, i'm starting to have really very strong feelings for the company i work for, workshop manager! I know it sounds crazy, he will ... (182 words)

I want him to realize he's treating me wrong

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - help, I got involved with my ex boyfriend after 21yrs, we dated wen i was 16 then split wen i was 20 and he found and contacted me after 21 yrs, after we met he said he was still in love wit me and i felt the same way, but this guy has a lot of baggage we we are 2gether it is ... (274 words)

We find ourselves in each other's arms again and again but is it love?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5662 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - there is this lady we are "truly in love" - I don't know. We have dated for the past three years but every time we have to part for a while, she would call and say it's over with us... then later, after a few months of silence and everything, we will always find ourselves in ... (75 words)

Deployed for 10 months to Iraq and now my wife claims she is no longer in love with me!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I need a little help with my marrige. Im in Iraq right now and i have been deployed for 10 month. I call my wife last sunday and she tells me she loves me but is no longer in love with me. This came out of the blue and i have no idea where i stand in my own life ... (242 words)

What is love then?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - love my bf more than any body even more than myself whatever i did till date i did it for him and never looked at any other guy or felt like looking at nude men even...my bf is the only person in my mind..since paet 8years and i have no inclinatons for any male celebrity also ... (466 words)

Thinking twice about our relationship

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

- Ive been dating this guy for about a month. But some things have happened that are making me think twice about our relationship. I am 20 years old and he is 24. He keeps asking me if im a virgin, how far ive gone etc. I've told him im not that comfortable talking with him... (262 words)

Do girls hate guys who are vain?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - do girls hate guys that are vain? i dont walk around thinking im gods gift to every girl but i work out alot, always try and look my best, and look in the mirror loads. do girls find this a turn off?... (50 words)

We were texting non-stop but as soon as I suggested we meet up he lost interest!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok hope you can help! A friend of mine was out with her boyfriend and she met one of his friends. They got chatting and he asked her did she have any single friends so she thought of me and told him about me. He seemed pretty interested anyway we got in touch about 2 1/2 weeks ... (229 words)

I think my mates girlfriend fancies me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i know this sounds big headed, but i think my mates girl fancy's me.. she's always texting me and telling me i'm cute, she always wants me around and wen im not in she beggs for me to come in, WE recently had our school prom and she was on my arm al night, her bf was off w... (121 words)

Do girls like guys that try really hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5663 days ago

20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - do girls hate guys that try to hard? I like this girl, but she's interested in some-one else i think, anyway when i talk to her i just feel like i need to spill my feeling for her? if you get me.. but if i do will she hate it? should i hang back and not tell her?... (63 words)

He's always reminding me about past relationships

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i used to love so many guys before, i cried i almost have killed my self,but luckily, i have God in my heart. well i have this present relationship by now and if you have read my other questions you might know my life...im having a relationship with my uncle my mom's cousin ... (145 words)

B/f 11 years older than me is abusive and I don't know how to get out of this relationship!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I'm 15 going on 16 in a couple of days; my boyfriend is ELEVEN years older than me. We've been together for 7 months and I do really like him, but every single month I've tried to end it because he's made me feel like sh*t, I have really really low confidence a... (452 words)

We are so finished if we get busted!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is how it started. My mom need to work for our tuitions in our school so she need to leave the country. but before she left she organized us her children. well she doesn't want us,her children, to be endangered,so she looked for our guardians yo be. when she left the ... (182 words)

How long will it take for this breakup and bad feelings to go away?

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20 May 2009 (F)

- my relationship broke up nearly 2 months ago. We were together for 4 years and lived together for 1 and a half. We had been arguing about stupid things but I finally cracked and finished it with him. I then said I had I changed my mind within a few minutes and he just said fu*k ... (279 words)

How do I accept her past?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i think my other question was rejected so im asking again. ive recently found out my girlfriends ex boyfriend used her for sex and blowjobs... alot, and pretended to love her, she was a virgin before him. im 16 and a virgin and i had always wanted a virgin to virgin first but... (249 words)

Why did something so good between us turn so bad?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This boy that Ive known since september use to text me every day, visit me during shop break, talk to me on the bus, make me laugh, stare at me, touch me a little. My cousin use to talk to him and people were asking him if he liked me and he would say no which is a lie. i knew ... (113 words)

Still have feelings for my ex but I'm very close to his adopted daughter.....what would you do if you were me?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my ex 3months ago.But we still keep in touch.He lives overseas and has an adopted child here.I help him with stuffs relating to the child and me and the babygirl are very close now.She is adorable and I love her.But I still have feelings for him and I think I ... (120 words)

He told me initially he wasn't attracted to me..he likes curvier girls

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, Please help me. I have been seeing a guy for 3 months now that I met at work. We were just friends at first. Then after about 2 months of knowing each other he started giving me signals he wanted more. Our friendship deepened and we eventually starting dating.... (329 words)

We've been friends for 10 years but now I'm having sexual thoughts about her

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been friends with a girl for the past ten years. She has been there through lots of ups and downs in my life and I know she see's me like a brother or cousin and has mentioned jokingly that there is no way anything would ever happen between us... We have gotten alot... (105 words)

Cracking sound, pain in shoulder, anyone have any ideas?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 years old and have recently been doing many pushups(every other day of course). I read the best way to increase pushups is to increase both strength(Few Reps with heavy weight) and endurance(high reps). I've been using a 35 lb backpack to do pushups atleast twice every ... (140 words)

Do good looks mean a better life?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - do good looking guys have more options of girlfreinds and more freinds and be very popular ... (16 words)

Are girls not attracted to me because I am a ladies man?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been single for about a year now, i took some time off from girl becuase i had exams and thing, and now i cant seem to get one, girl i like dont like me, and i dont know any girls that do. I'm not ugly, i'm funny, and have lots of female friends some really close, i ... (96 words)

I feel like he decieved me and wasted my early youth....should I leave him?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy seven years ago,and six months into the relationship I asked him when we were going to get married he said soon.The following year in 2004 I asked him again and he said soon.In 2006 we had a break and we got back together in 2007,that is when he said he cannot ... (238 words)

Fed up of my boyfriend's friends!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fed up of my boyfriends friends... Me and his friends don't get on... I've tried everything to sort it out but because of me and my ex (he's at the same school as my boyfriend) had a huge argument when we broke up all his friends obviously are going to back him up. Basica... (165 words)

Mr Perfect

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We Met years ago and so happen to have a thing for each other...So we talked..we both knowing were my heart was really at...We've always been more like friends...That's it and that's all.....And then ....True feelings came about??And Yes I believe everything happen for a ... (256 words)

Planning on marrying my fiancee but my other girlfriend is pregnant

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - morning, i'm a young guy of 33years old. i have a problem with my girl freind.the probleme is this.i have a fiancee in my own town,but i came in this small town for work almost 8 month now and i find another girl freind.before we started ,i spoke to the new girl that i have... (130 words)

I think we are falling apart...

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now Iam 20 and he's 21 we have a 3 year old child together and lately I've been feeling lonely like iam in this relationship by myself we never go out or do anything fun.Were always fussing and everytime we have sex after he cums he ... (114 words)

Is it a good idea to stay with her even though she cheats or should I move on?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - i have a question,,i have a girl friend who ive known for 11 months and i found out she had been doing any guy she could get her mouth on ..or in her vigina.. this was before me..is it a good idea to stay with her, or let her go.. she is a nice looking girl but i was t... (93 words)

We really hit it off but then immediately after we met up he left me for another girl!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met a man 10 months ago on the internet and fell in love with him. He had everything in common with me and we instantly hit it off. We spoke for something crazy like 12 hours the first time we ever spoke to each other and it carried on that way until we met after a month. ... (337 words)

Soulmate vs the good guy

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Two years ago I met a man who absolutely blew me away. He was perfect for me in every way and whenever I saw him, I felt elated, happy beyond words. If there is such a thing as soulmates, he would be mine. Complications arose and I acted irrationally, causing all contact ... (232 words)

Why does he continue to flirt with other girls online?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - for a while now I've been logging on to my boyfriend's bebo and facebook(I know his password) and looking at his phone.and i've been finding flirty messages, like he told one girl he thought she was fit on bebo and is often asking for girls' numbers. everytime i confront him, ... (111 words)

Am I being paranoid or is she actually cheating?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im not sure if its my gut or im reading into it too much, but is she cheating on me? I read into things way too much. I feel like shes cheating on me, or seeing other guys. The reasons for me thinking this way: She texts me way less than before. Used to text each other like ... (140 words)

Curved penis....

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My penis have left curve and downword curve and it is too bend. I want to know that it has difficult for me when I will do sex and my wife will satisfy with me. pls give me ans..... (41 words)

Miscarried my baby after I was raped....now all I want is to have a baby!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - a year ago i was raped and i got pregnant. then i had a miscarriage and i never told anyone but now all i want more than anything is to have a baby. do you think thats nuts im 17..... (42 words)

I think I am in love with him

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i met this guy 6 month ago. when i met him i told him i had a boyfriend that lives in africa. he accepted it and continued to see me. at the begining i hung out with him for fun but now i started to fall for him what do i do please help.... (54 words)

How do we get our daughter to realise her boyfriend's a loser?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok... here's my problem... my daughter is 19, and has been dating this guy for 2 1/2 years. We've always had our reservations about him, but to keep her happy, we've welcomed into our house, treating him like one of the family. He's repeatedly hurt her emotionally over the past ... (516 words)

She is family through marriage....is it considered forbidden love?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My cousin was maried about two years ago and introduced a new family to us. but her husband soon invited his brother and his family to stay at our city. one of his daughters likes me and wants to know if theres is any chances. shes cute but i dont think that it is apropriate ... (81 words)

It's very hard for me to not "relive the memory"! But I don't want him if he isnt sincere!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my ex and i dated for 2 years in high school and about 2 years on and off at college (we went to different colleges) and decided that it was too hard to have a long distance relationship and broke it off. We fought a lot, but untimately it was the distance that seperated, i ... (461 words)

I find myself wishing I was with someone else and having dreams about other people.

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here is the basic. I am seventeen with a nineteen year old guy. I am pregnant with his baby. We have been living together for just over a month. I love him with all my heart but lately it feels like I am just not good enough for him anymore. He doesn't want to talk to ... (207 words)

What do people think about casual sex?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like peoples opinions on casual sex (one night stands and friends with benefits). Do you think either are morally ok? I am trying to make my mind up on weither i think they are accetable and would like some opinions. ... (53 words)

She's just not "in" this relationship...

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have a dilemma with my current girlfriend and I'm not sure what to do. The problem I am having is I am getting a sense she is not all "there in our relationship". We have been going out for almost 7 months now. She says she is in love me and I'm a great guy and things like ... (424 words)

Breast implants?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my husband and i have been talking about me getting a breast augmentation , i really want one and i know it will help my self esteem level rise........ does anybody know if silicon or gel implants are better? which ones feel more real?? ... (44 words)

How do I talk to a professor about a failed exam?

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20 May 2009 (M)

- I'm at the end of my program. I fulfilled all my obligations and as luck would have it, I failed one exam in my last semester. I'm mortified. This is horrible! I'm meeting my prof and he's a very blunt, hard nosed man. I've never been in this situation before. I have no ... (134 words)

Husband wants me to be submissive, but I'm not comfortable

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband wants me to be completely submissive to him but i just can't seem to do it. I have tried in the past and he has asked me to do things that I felt were against my best interest and the best interest of our child. Can I ever get over this and be truly submissive or ... (72 words)

Missed two periods. Ladies, help!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heya. well im sorta of freaked out at the moment. Im 16, a virgin and havnt gotten my period for two cycles, its suppose to have come this week but it hasnt. Ive been having the regular pms things...extreme hunger, emotional, lack of hunger in other times...ladies you know what ... (56 words)

Could my past be getting in the way of the present?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, I have been seeing this guy for about 3 months(talking for 4). We talk every day and send each other cute messages quite often. We get together about once a week or so since it's kind of a long distance thing. We recently had a little talk about where things cou... (326 words)

I really need to get over him. Help!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help, I really need to get over a guy I like, I don’t know if he likes me back and I can’t keep making myself high hopes. And I don’t want to keep waiting for something that might never happen, I thought I was over him, but whenever I see him I get those butterflies and ... (72 words)

Why am I not over him yet??

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so the guy who I crushed on in 3rd 4th and 5th grade came back to school after Christmas. He is really hot and he was like amazing! ok so I totally picked up where I left off (totally in love with him!) every time he was around I would get really shy and all that good stuff! ... (250 words)

My flatmate's nasty when she drinks

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, Iam currenlty living with one female flatmate. I moved in almost a year ago and we are now like family. she is old enough to be my mother and we relate to each other more like mother and daughter than flatmates. The problem is that when she has been drinking or is a bad mo... (205 words)

I'm having second thoughts about moving in together

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i dated a girl for over two years, and recently we broke up on trust issues due to events in the past. For the first year of the relationship i took it as a free ride and cheated on her twice while away at uni. I admitted both of this two her and we did stay together for just ... (409 words)

I want to talk to her about sex, but don't know how.

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship with this girl for over a year now, I want to talk with her about sex, but I can't ever bring myself to... How should I start the conversation?... (35 words)

Our sex life is gone. Can the marriage continue?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age - How safe is to plan to stay with my husband in this life, if he stopped being sexual with me at 43? What kind of future a marriage have, without sexual intimacy? He does not know what is wrong, but he wants me to accept this, that he is off sex, for unknown reasons. I mean ... (209 words)

Waiting, waiting, when will it come?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this guy for 1 1/2 he is in a relationship, when i bring up him being with just me he says we need to wait at least 2 1/2 years before talking about getting serious, but when i tell him im going to break it off he says he won't leave me alone and we have the ... (119 words)

Does he like me? Should I tell him I do?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know any other way to tell him with out actually telling him that i like him a whole lot. he always flirts BIG time with me, and everyone notices. and he gives me hugs, but when and if he texts me its boring and plain out stupid, and also i think he really likes me when ... (213 words)

Why would he ask me to see him if he does not call me...?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met this guy through a dating site recently and we went out for breakfast. We hit it off really well and got intimate with each other. He then asked me during it if I was seeing anyone else and I said no and I asked him if he was seeing anyone else and he said no and he asked ... (148 words)

The guy I love doesn't love me back... PLEASE HELP!!!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone and PLEASE answer my question I REALLY NEED YOUR HELP! Plizzzzzzz. I'm 17 I'm a very pretty girl nice body , a lil shy but I'm very funny and fun. I'm really inlove with this guy I met about one year ago. We used date but after a time I started to noticed that he ... (212 words)

I'm a straight girl that's in love with a gay guy... is he confused?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a really close friend who says he's gay, but at times I feel like he might just be confused. I'm falling deep for this him like if he were my lover. He's always flirting with me, but not like he does with anyone else. He's always telling me that one day if we have no ... (267 words)

Why do these jerks act like this?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whenever I do a broad presentation I get a nervous break down and anxiety attacks. Next week I will have to give a very broad presentation. I don't think I could give this presentation to the class because there are classmates in my class that makes me feel bad, provoke me, ... (94 words)

Why are my crushes friends acting like this?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've never told any one I like him first off so no one knows that I do. I think he might like me as well, but I'm not completely sure. Today in class I looked up and I saw him and is friends looking at each other. His one friend kept moving his eyes toward me and tilting his ... (136 words)

I really want to get pregnant!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok here goes... I really want to get pregnant.. I got married in jan of this year and my hubby and I are trying to have a baby but nothing has worked..i dont think at least..i took a pregant test about 2 weeks ago and it came back neg..well it showed neg but it was a really ... (131 words)

Ever since I got pregnant I've been mean to my husband and dislike everything about him!

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi I have a serious problem since I got pregnant. I have been very mean to my husband. I don't want him to touch me sexually, I dislike everything about him, and I feel like we can be friends other than lovers. this has been going on for a while... help!... (51 words)

Why does my girlfriend enjoy making me jealous?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend likes making me jealous. She talks about different guys a lot, even her ex-boyfriends and people she used to like. It's getting really annoying, because sometimes she acts as if she still likes them, to see what i would say. I am getting to the point where I ... (155 words)

Why do women use the Pill and other hormone based contraception?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a copper IUD. It works great. My question is, why are hormonal contraceptives so popular when hormones are so volatile? I don't understand the reasoning why women use the pill and hormone based contraception which has adverse side effects when they can just use a c... (190 words)

Why do I love her?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - we got into a little argument, and after we got everything worked out she asked me what my reason for loving her was. i told her bc i cared about her, and that its amazing just being with her. she said that wasnt a reason. shes asked me twice, but she was mad at me both times ... (98 words)

I feel trapped by my extremely controlling girlfriend, but I think I love her... what should I do?

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright, so I really need help here. I have been with this girl for almost 2 months now. Basically, I feel soooooo trapped. She seems so controlling, untrusting, etc. I need opinions on what to do. Basically, She wants my myspace password, and get's extremely pissed of... (223 words)

Am I stupid for wanting to stay?

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Okay here it goes. My hubby wants to separate cause he met a girl on internet. He says it means nothing, but I don't know if he has met her or not. About 8 years ago this happened. Am I stupid for wanting to stay?... (45 words)

Should I just go for it? She wants more and I do too.

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20 May 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - She said she wants more, and said i need to take chances. I think (i kinda know) she wants to move below the waist. She likes to go into things fast so should i just do it, or should i move into it? (going below i mean) ... (47 words)

Polar opposites...

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20 May 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello all. I was just curious as to how many people have been part of or are currently part of successful relationships where you and your partner are polar opposites in your political views. I've just started going out with this guy who is extremely intelligent and ... (136 words)