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writes:My ex want me back but until he proves to me he changed im not sure. Deep down he prob wont and i kind of no this. Anyway do u think it wrong 4 me to be texting and possible other men that could possibly give me what i want. I dont know why i feel guilty should i. Me and me ex have slept together. But unless he proves too me and boy hes got loads to prove i told him i wont put my life on hold.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): I think you're doing absolutly the right thing. By moving on you are giving yourself the best chance of finding someone that will give you what you want. Even if things work out with your ex and he finds out or you tell him, it may give him the push he needs to see that you are serious about moving on and that he stands a real chance of losing you unless he actually changes! x
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reader, XxXDaniXxX +, writes (27 May 2009):
Don't wait around for him to change, because he'll change for a few days then go back to how he was again. You shouldn't feel guilty because it's your life, you shouldnt sit around waiting for something that might never happen, push for the things that you know will.
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (27 May 2009):
 Again, without providing detail this is an unanswerable question. You are too vague. Please provide some examples of these "loads" that he has to prove.
You came here to get the best advice possible. Please be specific.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): no!
if you are not with him anymore it does not matter if u text or see other guys. he is an ex not a current bf.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Not many people do change as they're to set in their way's, but it's upto you if you want to give him another chance. I think you should decide about that second chance b4 texting other guy's tho coz it will mess with his head and cause more problems than the one's he's trying sort out, and that wouldn't be a fair chance.
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