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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I know he likes me? What are the signals?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay i really like this guy hes locker is right next to mine.We talk a lot but i don't want to risk our friendship.And i don't really want to try to ask him out i just don't right now... Like i want to become his close girl thats a friend for right now.But we talk his friends ... (133 words)

He won't leave me alone for a day!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 7 years and have two children together i was young when i got with him and he was very controlling of me so i lost alot of my friends, anyway i found out he was cheating on me and he promised to stop, coming with all the tears, but then a ... (165 words)

They tell me I'm a fool

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

9 March 2009 (?) age 36-40 - I'm 23 yrs old and have been having an affair with my much older marreid boss for 7 months. I first I told myself it was just sex and thought it ws fun and exciting but now Im in love with him. He is 42 and has twin son that are 3 yrs old and he has been marreid for 7 yrs. ... (175 words)

Contact & say I am available for lunch?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, it is a little bit long but I need your help ! Question: should I contact him again and tell him that I am available for that lunch? should I wait to see if he contact me back? (which I do not think will happen) This is the story: I met a guy in MSN, we write very funn... (248 words)

My ex husband just won't leave me alone and it's scaring me.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age - I am separated three years now and have someone new in my life for a while now and it is serious to both of us but none of my children know about him, I have four sons. I have met my new man's children, grandchildren, his mother and family and they are lovely, he is lovely and ... (360 words)

After losing 80lbs my husband sees me as a new woman and is suggesting outrageous sexual acts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Well first if all I have lost 80 lbs from size 24 to a 10 so far and married for almost 21 years, he told me a month ago he had fallen all over again. He has spoiled me rotten for the past month which he has never done in 20 years. We have been talking like we have never talked ... (240 words)

How can you make a woman feel special and sexy and during foreplay?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How can you make a woman feel really special and make her feel really sexy during foreplay?... (17 words)

I don't know whether I should tell him and explain why I did it, or keep it hidden.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Little advice here please! I had an abortion last year and only told my best friend, and sister. They encouraged me to have the abortion, and at the time I thought it was for the best. I was in the middle of exams and just weren't ready for a baby. Now my boyfriend's friend, ... (151 words)

Girlfriend's sexual past is killing me, please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3985 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently asked my girlfriend how many people she has slept with and she said 6. Than a few weeks later she told me the truth of 14. She told me she made big mistakes in high school and shes not what she use to be. Yes, she has definitely changed and is a great girl. But this ... (315 words)

My boyfriend cheated and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I discovered nearly two weeks ago that my boyfriend of a year and half had been cheating on me for two weeks. When i confronted him he did not try and deny it and said "im sorry i do not know why i did it". He has told me that he has ended it with her, but they stil... (516 words)

Would you stay with this type of guy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I need advice from women. Would you stay with a man who: -Smokes around you even though he knows you can't stand it and you are pregnant and don't want to be around that sort of thing (we've been in his vehicle and he won't even let me role down the window) -Has been fire... (631 words)

Pathetic drama between my mother and partner

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, My situation is not very dramatic but its difficult for me to know what to do. My partner is Spanish and I am English, we have been together for 5 years now. Living together for 2 and have recently moved back to England to try and make a go of things here. My partner did... (582 words)

Question about outgoing guys?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What are some signs or things an outgoing guy does if he likes a girl? Like making kissy faces at her and then smiling [not saying just kiddding like most guys], ect? and is it possible tht he might like me cuz one of his friends [that is sorta my friend, but not really] asked ... (76 words)

She needs a sitter. Is it wrong of me to pay for them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I find myself going out with a single mother. Nothing out of the ordinary though it's something I never thought I'd do. She doesn't have any family or close friends so when she's out with me or at work she has to use a babysitter as she has two very young children. A fe... (193 words)

What is he thinking? Do I have the upper hand now??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I guess I will get right to it. I've been in a verbal, emotional abusive realtionship on and off for 4 years. He always breaks up with me, than changes his mind and I take him back. Or, I will show up at his place, or call him and then we start seeing each other again, ... (256 words)

What are some of the signs that a guy likes you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, well I want to know what are the signs that a guy likes you? How can you tell.. the reason for my question is because I know this guy who I always catch him looking at me, and he always smiles... Or laughs at what I say, but last time he walked up to me and asked me ... (102 words)

Is it MY semen or does she seemen?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner and I had sex two days ago, today while we were beginning to have sex I pulled out and my member had a big glob of semen just below the head, and I know I didn't just cum. It looks fresh and she says it's from the last time we had sex and she just hasn't showerd yet. ... (74 words)

Should I be looking for love at such a young age?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I was reading that "Life is too short" article, and the bit that said "..relationship without love" hit me quite hard. Me and my girlfriend split a few weeks ago and so many thoughts have been running through my head. At first I was thinking "Right, I'm young, I'm just gonna ... (84 words)

A question to all parents out there!

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Parents, Is it a wise choice to stand back and refrain from opinion to your daughter if she decides to be a gold digger instead of looking for love? ... (30 words)

Should I cut all contact with her and get on with my life or try to slowly purse a future relationship with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey Guys and Gals, I'm on a slippery slope in my head right now. I broke up with my gf who I've been seeing for 5 years now. I'm 21 and we've seen each other since school, after which we went to different universities but managed to keep the flame burning despite the 100 miles ... (255 words)

How can I stop feeling like a whale in comparison to my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, well I have been dating this guy. He's great and I love spending time with him, but I feel fat in his presence. I know it's kind of dumb, but I can't help it. He's very thin and small framed, while I on the other hand, am probably 15 pounds or so overweight and curvy. I ... (200 words)

How to relax when he is fingering me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, me and my boyfriend have been talking about him fingering me. I just want to know does it hurt and what should I do to help myself relax when he is doing it? Hope you can help.... (39 words)

Has his grandmother frightened him away?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend Robert, whose my best friend's cousin, he and me talked a lot and ever since we met and had fun at Burger king. Which was an accidental meet with him and his family. He hasn't been the same and his grandmother tells him that I'm a nice girl for him. Maybe that's why ... (143 words)

I want to gain weight!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 13 years old, turning 14 in a few weeks and am about 5'4? I weigh exactly 100 lbs but everyone says I'm way too skinny. I also have sclerosis so one of my ribs sticks out and the other one doesn't. It's not that noticeable at all unless I'm in a bathing suit. I'm sick of ... (118 words)

Problems with threadworms!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I know this is mostly for relationship advice but I need some medical advice. I had threadworms as a child which went untreated, I had no problems until I started my period when they reappeared, I was so ashamed I didn't tell anyone, I have had no problems for over ten years ... (96 words)

He says he loves me, but how do tell him he is a player not look like I am the insane one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - *deep breath* Here it goes. I'm kind of embarassed to talk about this because I sound so stupid, but I'm stuck.. that's the best way to describe it. I've known Mn for over 3 years now. My school is Mn's rival school, and vice versa. When we first met, he flirted and did ever... (589 words)

He tricked me & now I think I'm pregnant!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, im in a bit of a problem. I had sex about 2 weeks ago, it happend a few times, we used protection, but he said it split. But we both thought nothing of it. Normally my periods are regular, and i havn't come on this month, ive been googling early pregnancy signs as i've ... (127 words)

What made her change her mind & where do I go from here?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age - A little over a year ago my wife and I were in our bed room watching tv when one of those adult call line commercials came on.Out of nowhere she makes a comment about what nice breasts the girl who is doing the talking has and how attractive she was. I asked her if it would ... (327 words)

Feelings real? Or just liking the attention of the ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex dated for 4 months, three years ago and I've been with my current boyfriend for a year and a half. Me and my ex always avoided seeing eachother but a few days ago we met unexpectedly, and since then my feelings have been all up in the air. Me and the ex split be... (210 words)

Would you say find love first?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Mums, If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love? obviously both would be ideal! but would you agree? or ... (77 words)

Playing games?Likes me? What?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - A few weeks ago on Valentines Day an old flame got back in touch and wished me a Happy Valentines day. It was all very innocent so I replied back and we ended the texting pleasantly. Anyway a couple of weeks later I went out for my birthday and as i was leaving the restaurant I ... (477 words)

14 years old with health issue... any medical advice?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im a 14 year old girl and all of a sudden my vagina has just swollen up like the lips of the vagina and the hole is stinging loads. i cant hardly see inside of it because of how swollen it is i really dont know what it is, also theres white discharge. Im really worried, i ... (109 words)

DAD's!! Should I tell her to marry for love or just a nice credit card?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dads, If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love? obviously both would be ideal! but would you agree? or ... (80 words)

Relationship drama blown up and I can't cope or do my coursework....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - 3 days ago(Friday),rain gets into my boyfriend's phone and he can't turn it on..he told me this late on saturday via email..i tried calling him all sunday to see whether his phone is already ok,but still it was off..however,late sunday night i got through and we talked for a ... (156 words)

Did he act like that because he liked his ex? Or is he just an idiot?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend got into a huge fight last night. We had a mutual friend(who happens to be his ex from a really long time ago) over for supper, (we live together) and to make a long story short, I have an infected tooth that got really bad last night when I was eating. I ... (323 words)

I told one friend before another - now she's mad.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, my best friend is mad at me. You see, I kind of liked this guy for a while now (a couple months) and didn't tell her. However, I DID tell another friend who I am very close to. I have only known him for about a year or so, whereas I've known her for five. The reason I told ... (128 words)

I used to mess around with my male neighbour - does this count as my virginity?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I am wondering about a few things and its making me worry and I feel soo guilty. A couple years back I was getting kinda sexual with my nieghbor friend we didnt have sex or anything. just kinda experimented together. like masturbated together and humped eachother and played ... (120 words)

She did stuff with an ex before we were married... how do I cope?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - After my wife and I had been married for nine years, she revealed to me that she had done everything but intercourse with her high school boyfriend. I thought that our sexual experience was with just the two of us. I have had a hard time trying to understand it all. I can't ... (78 words)

Does he like me? No. 89009987987987

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I need an opinion, does he like me… There’s this boy that I like and im not sure if he likes me. I don't want to ask him and i'm way to shy to ask him anyway. I would just like an honest opinion so I know. Here are some of the signs: He stares at me a lot from the othe... (153 words)

I wish my teacher knew I liked him

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5705 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... so I'm 14 years old (I know, I'm "too young for love, shouldn't be thinking about this kind of stuff", but save it for someone else please!) and I have a hugehugehugehugehugehuge crush on my Civics teacher! I was just assigned to his class in February and I've only had ... (575 words)

Birthday present for the guy who's got everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Me and this guy have been seeing each other for just over a month now, hes completely amazing! its his birthday soon and hes (no offence to him if hes reading this) basically got everything! i really don't know what to get him. Any ideas guys? ... (48 words)

I found spot of blood..did I rip my hymen?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i fingered myself and i saw a tad of blood on my fingers my period is due soon but i dont know weather i have ripped my mymen or its just period blood please answer if you have any ideas. if i have it has fot its ups and downs but...... (53 words)

How do we deal with racial insults?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 23, my girlfriend's 25 and from Germany originally, and we've been together for 2 years since we met at university together. We live together, and are doing well in our respective employment. Our relationship is great, however, it's outside of the relationship that... (182 words)

Are all guys like this? "geez, its just a game!"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Are all men like my boyfriend? Impatient?!? Or is it a guy thing where they think they are always right, no matter what?!? Ok, so my boyfriend will never, I mean never admit that he's wrong! If I'm wrong, I'll admit it. But if he's wrong, he'll say 'you know we were bought a... (176 words)

Orgasm by fingering possible?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well to start off me and my girlfriend have been dating for 9 months now and we both lost our virginity and we had sex about five times now and I haven't gave her an orgasm I'm always the one who gums first so I was wondering how do I give her an orgasm? Is it possible to give ... (64 words)

Why is he looking at gay porn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - why is my boyfriend of 2 years looking at gay porn online? What could this mean? Please advise... (18 words)

What does this break mean?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi there everyone. me and my boyfriend have been together for about 8 months and everything was goin well,we argued from time to time but nothing major.he now says that he wants us to go on a break though,which really shocked me. he said i'm his world and he loves me to bits ... (123 words)

I'm not good at giving bj's!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4792 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, so my borfriend and I have been dating almost 4 months now. I really love him, and he really loves me. He wants me to give him blowjobs somtimes. He has a bigger penis (biggest I've had anyway) I'm not very good at giving blowjobs, but the fact that he has a bigger penis ... (103 words)

Confused in Iraq

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - So, Im a US soldier currently deployed to Iraq for the third time. I met my wife in 2006, shortly after returning from my first deployment. We had a very strong, and wonderful relationship. Right before I left in February of 07 for a second deployment, we found out she was ... (352 words)

She likes oral sex but I hate the taste!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone... I have a little problem I don't like the taste of going down on my girlfriend is their anyway to fix this because I know she likes it but the taste is just so bad to me anything will help thanks!... (43 words)

I feel obligated to say "I love you"

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know whats wrong with me Ive been with my bf for 10 months now. Ive always had a crush on one of my old guy friends from college, and he me. The result of this in kinda disastorous, as it now means that everytime i see him or talk to him on msn or something, i end ... (226 words)

Other half has been texting women for a year

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just found out my OH (we've been married for 9 years and have a two year old daughter) has been texting other women for about 12 months. The texts are not explicit but do contain things like love you loads, hi sexy, you're so gorgeous. He says its part of a fantacy world he has ... (118 words)

He can't last during sex & I'm getting bored!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - my boyfriend can not last during sex. its getting a problem because i am getting bored. it doesn't seem to matter what position we try or condom types he just has not stamina. I have never orgasimed, i don't look forward to having sex with my boyfriend anymore because its ... (259 words)

Short time dating...love? Or infatuation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i met this girl who asked me for my number. we got texting and then dated for just short of two weeks. she was my first girlfriend. i have never got on as well with a girl as i have with her. i thought things were going well when she said to me she didnt think this was going to ... (286 words)

Married, relationship in trouble, and I'm thinking of divorce

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - OK, Here is my story. I am 27 years old and have been married to my wife for almost 2 years. About 4 years ago I met this other girl before I ever met my wife. We talked and it was like love before we met. We went out on a date and she was not very impressed and we just talked ... (408 words)

Home remedies for removing moles

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello :) Well im going to a party in a few weeks, and I have a gorgeous backless red dress. Only problem is im reeeealy self conscious about this mole I have on my back. I know im being stupid, its tiny! And its slightly risen... so I was wondering if anyone knew how to remov... (84 words)

I told my wife to leave the marriage & finish her studies but now I regret!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - After 9 months of marriage, i made decision to let my wife go back to her parents and continue her studies. but after when she was leave me for studies and took back my decision and asked her not to leave me and instead save our marriage. They told me it was my decision from ... (92 words)

Young married parents losing interest in sex

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife is 21 and I am , we have a daughter turning 2. We are very busy as she is a full time student and works part time and I work 2 jobs. We are working hard to realize our goals of owning our own house and being financially secure. The problem is we are both so tired and ... (164 words)

Back together again but is it right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi there, looking for some outside objective on this. I recently broke up with my bf of 1.5 years 10 days before my 40th birthday. We broke up because he knew I loved him and he didnt feel as if he felt the ame ad said it wasnt fair on me. We stayed friendly and he took me o... (421 words)

It's all going well, he kisses me a LOT but I have to chase him for a date!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5763 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have gone out with this gentlman twice now, the first time we went to dinner. The second time I meet him at his house and we went to dinner and then the theater. He kissed me on the first date, not a peck but nothing aggressive at all, it was very sweet. The second time we ... (339 words)

How do I go into college tomorrow after trying to kiss my teacher?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Omg ! Ive just made a complete idiot of myself.So im 18 and Ive always had a thing for one of my teachers at college since he wasnt like the rest of the old fat teachers. Hes young attractive and really funny, however he is married and has twin boys. I just stayed back late ... (220 words)

A ladies perspective please on whether I have a chance with my ex...

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I began dating my now ex-girlfriend in December of 2007. In June of 2008 we decided to move her in with me because we were very much in love and we were driving 40 miles 2 or 3 times a week to see one another. She was having a hard time finding a job here in her field and my ... (1098 words)

On holiday with her, but we both have partners back home... do I make a play for her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am going on vacation with a girl who I really like. Here is the problem, we both have significant others but it is just us going on the trip. We've been friends for a few years and I really want to be with this girl. I don't know for sure how she feels, and I don't want to ... (139 words)

Sex Starved Husband needs help....

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age - I have been married 25 years to my childhood sweetheart, the past five years things are going down hill, my drive for sex is great hers is almost gone, what am I to do, she gets all mad if I look at porn or pictures, yet when I ask for it from her she gets mad, I feel like im ... (144 words)

How can I show him I've changed and won't nag? How much time and space do I give him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend left me because we had issues with my nagging instead of respeting his decision i cryed and made a whole lot of drama for 2 weeks. he got very angry, later he got better and said we should start as friends, we had sex and he said he still loved me. then 2 days ... (218 words)

Should I meet up with the Ex, even though I risk cheating on my boyfriend?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Please help - I was dumped over 8 months ago by a man I was head over heels in love with. I was devastated. I was so so down. I met someone else very quickly, who feel head over heels in love with me, and made me feel great, wanted and appreciated. I really care about this ... (236 words)

She's just found out her husband has a baby with his ex....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have a friend who found out that her husband's ex-girlfriend from college is the mother of his baby. My friend's husband used to have a cyber and phone affair with this ex girlfriend several years ago that had lasted 15 years until he got caught. My friend found out about ... (407 words)

A nice man is being nice to me.... WHY???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. I am feeling sort of confused right now. if a guy (elder to you by 10yrs),takes a lot of interest in your life and tells you to interact more with people,and not confine your life to just home and college. he specifically tells you that he isn't trying to give y... (166 words)

Is he not into me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I asked this question before but didnt get a lot of answers so here goes again. I met this guy through a friend. My friend lives with him and he told me that the guy doesnt really hook up and he mentioned that he wanted something long term and that while he is outgoing, he is a ... (352 words)

Should I be worried? She's hopefully not pregnant...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Me and my girlfriend where having intercourse and i finished in a condom and then she wanted to keep going so just to be on the safe side i put another condom on with spermicidal lubricant and it came off when i pulled out but with this condom i never finished again and i got ... (76 words)

His whole family really does hate me, there's a family event coming up, and I don't know what to do!

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok... So i did something really bad. I snooped and found out my future mother-in-laws e-mail password and got into her e-mail. it was just to prove a point to my fiance. I know that I invaded her privacy so I really don't need anyone scolding me on that. So I found what I n... (530 words)

Will I ever be able to trust my fiance again?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I want to know if i will ever be able to trust my fiance again?? Thing where not going good between my best friend and her husband i started to notice that my fiance and my best friend where getting very close as he was always there for her and giving her advise and attentio... (347 words)

I've decided to swallow my boyfriend's semen, but I'm still scared.

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've decided to swallow my bfs semen and i'm still nervous about it. i'm afraid i'll gag from the taste. people said it's better to let it shoot down your throat but i'm horrible at deep throating. i was wondering, does the semen shoot out fast into your mouth? or does it come ... (86 words)

My fiancee wants an abortion, but the thought of it makes me sick. What should I do?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. My fiancee was scared to death of becoming pregnant and now she is. We use contraception but nothing is 100% as you all know. She has always been adamant that she will get an abortion regardless of whether I want it or not and she says that she is getting one as ... (165 words)

I just found out he has a child!

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid i have been in this relationship for four years with this guy i love him very much and i know that he loves me too.the problem is tht this past week the was a lady who came to him and told him that he has a 4 or 5 year old girl whit her and said he was the father,h... (108 words)

I took 2 morning after pills at the same time!

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i bought some morning afterpills after having unprotected sex last night with my husband. i took both pills immediately without reading the instructions, which after i read i saw i had to take one then the other one after 12 hrs from the first one. i just wantd to find out if ... (74 words)

Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again? Should I just forget him?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age - I can not understand this behavior. Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again. I dont understand this cat and mouse game. We got back together for 2 months I got jealous ke got mad and then said it hurt him and he cant be hurt anymore. How could it ... (179 words)

I feel like I was his second choice. Should I stay with him?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We have been together for almost 2 years. Since the beginning of our relationship he never told me about this girl until I found out trough his friend he used to like her and wanted to go out with her but she never wanted to. Everytime we had a fight he would call her or even ... (210 words)

Unfortunately I don't think HE think's I'm the one...

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Alright, I have been dating a great guy for the last year and four months, unfortunately I have have a feeling that he already knows that I am not the one. First of all he has never said I love you, only that "you are my best friend" and "I care about you deeply." That is ... (159 words)

I bled for 11 days after having sex, is this normal?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm sorta worried now! I always said I wanted to save my virginity until I was older, mature and in love.. I've been in a relationship with this amazing guy now for just over a year, and we both felt ready, we'd spoke about it for about 6 weeks, I went on the pill.. and on ... (243 words)

Is talking on the phone ok? Or should I just end things?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am 22 and I worked with a girl thats 15 and we became good friends. I never hung out with her nor would I because of the age difference and the possibilty of being reported. My question is, because we are friends, is it okay that we talk over the phone constantly, nothing ... (69 words)

He looks at younger women

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9 March 2009 (F)

age - Im getting married in August to a wonderful man. We are so happy, both widowed, both 52. Our life together is absolute bliss, except that he will look at young girls when we are out. He has always appreciated women, I know he wouldn't cheat on me, and we have discussed how bad ... (215 words)

After having sex I lose interest in the girl

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I hv a problem and dats after hving sex wit a girl i wil lose intrest in dat girl. I wil not tel her so bt wil start avoiding her and my behavoir changes. Pls tel me wat might be d problem.... (45 words)

Boyfriend is cross dressing & lying about it

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a 19 year old female and a few months into our relationship i found out that my bf liked to cross dress. He is 24. I was disgusted at this and confronted him about it. He said he would try to stop but things got flung out and more stuff got ordered. After a few months of ... (281 words)

Pregnant without sex by touching organs?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hii i'm interest if it posible if a virgin can get pregnant without having sex, only touching sperm in her sexual organs?... (22 words)

So desperate to be with me and yet now he never calls?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello to all of you, I am currently going out with a man, he says he loves me very much but there is something that happened recently which got me thinking a lot about his feelings. It's been a long time since we met and he was very really very eager to see me, he could no... (217 words)

Because we don't have sex he accuses me of having it with someone else?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I've been dating this guy for a few months. Things moved pretty quickly as far as emotions are involved. I have deep feelings for him, and from what he says the feeling is mutual. I decided to wait a while before we had sex. He said no problem. Then a few weeks later he ... (237 words)

Should I go out with him if he asks?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - While i have decided not to call the man i used to date the last year because it didn't seem that our relationship was serious enough and he hasn't called me for some time either suddenly he made some calls to me lately. Sometimes he talks to me as a friend and some times as ... (176 words)

Husband says he never masturbates! Lying?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi i have been with my husband for 25 years a while ago he was having a bath i went into the bathroom he did nt hear me enter and he jumped up and i saw that he had a hard on he tried to cover it but i know what i saw. Aked him if he was masturbating he denied it and said he ... (168 words)

Should I contact the ex and wish him good luck?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hello. My ex boyfriend broke up with me about 2months ago due to arguements and he said that special something isnt there anymore. he said he would always love me. he begged to be my friend and i told him i have reservations i.e still have feelings for him as we went out f... (260 words)

Falling in love with friends husband

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I think i'm beginning to like my best friends husband. i know the stigma's involved with that, but let me explain the situation first. they have been together for about 6 years, married for 2, and both are quite young (i'm talkin early 20's). At the moment, she's left him, she... (667 words)

STD but never have sex?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am 16, never had sex or anything like that, but all of a sudden there are these red dots on the tip of my penis and it burns when i pee. If i didn't know any better I'd say it was an STI but like in said, i've never had any sexual activity.... (54 words)

A temporary break?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been in a long distance relationship for the past couple of years. She has been the love of my life since 6th grade. We had a crush on each other for back in 8th grade but we drifted apart. Again, when I was in college, we started meeting, and we fell in love. I am in my ... (1056 words)

How to seduce a lady & have sex

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Wants 2 no how 2 completly seduce a lady and hv sex wit her. Cos i hv been wit 4 girls bt non respond properly.d 1st didnt allow me 2 touch her panties but we ar kissing. D 2nd after much strugle i remove her panties but refuse me 2 penetrate. 3rd only alow me 2 romance her. ... (94 words)

In the loop with 2 guys

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I was dating a guy for 6 months and he told me he wasnt ready for a steady relationship. Since then i moved on and met someone else who is 20years older. Been dating him for 3 months. He is very nice to me and he is looking for something very serious but friends/family b... (154 words)

My guy is very stressed about his life..how to help him?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello pips Sorry for the long story. just need to let it out here is the story. me and my ex got back together like 2 months ago, he is the one who actually initiated the get together thing, however i knew that he had a girlfriend, the intention was not to get togethe... (499 words)

He refuses to go down on me

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am just wondering why my boyfriend won't go down on me anymore. We haveo nly been together about 4 months and I keep myself well groomed. THe most it ever gets to down there is a little stubbly which he has commented he likes because it "tickles" him. So I don't understand. I ... (526 words)

Have I lost my sex appeal?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i have been wondering for the past maybe 7 months of my almost 2 year relationship that my girlfriend, now fiancee has been wanting increasingly less sexual things, not just sex, but everything of a sexual nature, even just making out or fooling around. call me parano... (179 words)

My girlfriend's beng beaten by stepfather

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm seeking advice I am 17 and my girlfriend is 15 we live about1,000 miles apart so we have a long distance relationship right now I'm moving down in roughly 6months. We are alot alike and I love her zoo much but lastnight she told me her stepfather has anger problems ... (364 words)

How do I become a caring guy interested in girls?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had masturbatd 4 4yrs,bt had stop and i hv noticed dat i now find relationshipt boring, so i find it difficult 2 enter in2 a relatnship even though i had many girl as friend bt i cant love any of dem. So pls wat should i do 2 start lovin girls. and how 2 becom a carin ... (63 words)

Very bumpy textured vaginal wall?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, I was never one to touch myself at all and one night i decided to try it, and well because it is sort of embarrassing to ask people in person I was wondering if anyone could tell me if i was supposed to have a very bumpy textured vaginal wall? Oh gosh its making me blush ... (95 words)

Child abuse? Was it wrong for me to say something?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have this friend I have not seen in years and we had a get together at his girlfriends house. His girlfriend is divorced with a son and my old friend lets call him Sam is divorced and has a son. But to get to my question, I don't like the way he disciplines his son and his ... (402 words)

Do I have reason to worry about what's on his facebook?

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9 March 2009 (F)

- My mum looked at my bf's facebook and had some very negative things to say about it. This has caused me to have so many doubts in our relatiosnhip. She critised alot, such as how the majority of his friends are girls, he has photos of himself snuggeling up to pretty much ever... (206 words)

How can I move on knowing what I am doing to him?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently posted a question... I just broke up with my boyfriend about four days ago. We had been dating for a year and a half with a brief break up period around 8 months. Everything was great at first and I thought that I might actually spend the rest of my life with him... (697 words)

Try to rekindle things with her? Or continue play the waiting game?

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9 March 2009 (M)

Wrong for 15 year old to date 19 year old?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am a fifteen year old girl, and I am currently interersted in a 19 year old man. We have known eachother for about a year now and have become extremely close in this period of time. Is it wrong for a younger girl and an older guy to date? ... (52 words)

Open up the relationship due to long distance?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with my boyfriend for a few years now but for the past year, we have been in a long distance relationship. Although at time it has been extremely tough, we have managed to sustain our relationship. Lately, we had discussions about opening up the relationship, th... (131 words)

Can stress majorly affect your heart?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 17 years old, and have struggled with really bad anxiety/depression off and on, since the age of 12. Panic attacks, and anxiety disorders run in my family... In fact, all of my aunts, my mom, and my uncle are on anti-depressants to cope with it. Heart disease is also ... (564 words)

Threesome with partner & friends?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My partner Mark and I have been together for a few years now. About a year ago, we were approched by one of my friends for a threesome. After considering pros and cons, we decided not to gof or it for the sake of our relationship. However, the erotic aspect of threesome has... (277 words)

If he has erection trouble only with you, does it mean he doesn't like you?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've dated this guy for two months, and from the beginning he had trouble either getting an erection or maintaining. and he's in his 20s! now, the only time i noticed he didn't have a problem getting hard or ejaculating was when i just gave him oral and we didn't do it becau... (213 words)

Why is my teacher starting to act differently?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently been noticing that one of my teachers has been acting differently. Here's some of the things he's been doing: When he walks around to check in our assignments, he stops either next to my desk and takes extra time filling in his grading book thing, or stops and ... (210 words)

Need experienced mature advice from Mothers/Fathers, should I take him back?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Pregnant, should I take him back? need opinions from experienced mothers/fathers? Ok this may be a little long but just had an overwhelming week and feeling kind of lost and confused. Would appreciate EXPERIENCED mature opinions. Me and my ex got pregnant once before and... (537 words)

What are the signs to falling in love?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello! I need to know how I can tell if I am falling in love. What are the signs? ... (19 words)

What does this all mean? Is he flirting or...?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay so this guy and i were just hanging out and so he started to try and tickle me so i tried to get away but he grabbed my hand and pulled me back into him and he gave me a hug aand said "hmm someones ticklish". what does that all mean?... (52 words)

We're always fighting, she's always bossy, can someone please help?!?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for nine months and it seems like everytime I'm with her she does something that bothers me. we always fight about really dumb stuff and I'm the one who gives in and takes all the blame. She is always bossing me around and telling me I need to ... (87 words)

Is being long distance really worth breaking up over?

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9 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hello. Well, long story short; I am leaving for college in 2 months. A different country (and continent) and all. I have been dating a FANTASTIC guy for 4 months now. he is perfect, i have never had such a perfect bf in my entire life. But I have recently been feeling th... (124 words)

What does a spontaneous back massage mean?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - when a guy just comes up randomly and starts giving you a back massage. what does that mean?... (18 words)

Multiple choice question: Guy A or Guy B?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I’ve been having trouble deciding between two guys for months, and this weekend has brought me to the point where I really need to make a final decision. Guy A and I have been dating for nearly 4.5 years, starting when I was 17. Things went very well for a few years and I ... (948 words)

Am I in love with him or do I just love him?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've liked this teacher for over 6 years. I'm 17 right now though. When my crush on him just began I would get butterflies in my tummy before his class but never know why, but looking back I know now that it was because I was starting to like him. Back in the day I would notice ... (252 words)

My lying and drug usage has hurt her and now it is hard for her to trust me.

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, my beautiful wife and I have been married for 3 and a half years now. We have a 3 year old daughter. Having that said, I have been smoking marijuana for nearly 6 years habitually. When we started dating she knew of my usage but it never changed my attitude or personality. ... (230 words)

What does my ex telling me all this stuff mean??

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so me and this guy dated for about 2 months then he ended it because he said he didnt feel the same. it was very rough on me for some time, but me and him ended up becoming very good friends. whenever we talked we would talk for hours on end, which is still the case today, ... (255 words)

Is it back for him if I touch his penis after he comes?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - when you are having intercourse with a guy and he orgasms, do you keep going if you haven't come or do you have to get off of him immediately? i heard that if you touch the penis after he comes, then it hurts him because it is so sensitive at that point. is this true? ... (57 words)

A date turns into a FWB, but I'm confused as to WHY?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I dated this guy for 2 months, we had sex on the first date and continued to date for several weeks. i was unsure about him the whole time, and he kept hinting that i could see him and date others. about two months in, he became a bit distant and very short with me out of the ... (231 words)

He's giving me a car for my birthday and wants sex, does my ex-husband want me back?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am currently separated and have been for almost a year. My husband left me last March saying he wasn't in love with me anymore and needed space. The past year has been painful but i've manage to be strong for the sake of our 5 year old daughter we have together. I've gone ... (202 words)

My mother is abusive and I don't think I can take it anymore.

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 16 years old. When I was born, my mother was 16. She was an abusive parent since I was about two. I can remember being thrown against walls, having glass thrown at me, and being beaten with a stick. I also remember her drinking alcohol and giving lap dances to strange men ... (319 words)

Should I save the marriage or just get the courage to leave it?

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been married to my wife for just over 18 months, recently she has become really cold and unloving towards me and our intimacy is now more or less non-existant (it was fine until 6 month ago), before and even just after the wedding we spoke of having a child now she plays ... (109 words)

How do I get the two to settle their differences without me having to choose?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in serious problems now. My boyfriend of five months and my sister is at war and I am left in the middle! Its like this: My family adores him, however,my boyfriend is a "say it like it is" type of person and my sister has similar personalities. I get along with both of t... (174 words)

What do I do with his "boys" while giving a blowjob?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - how do i suck my bfs testicles during a blowjob? ive never done it before so im a little nervous as far as what to do with them. do i lick them? suck them? and my bf says he enjoys the blowjobs i give a lot but i want to make them more enjoyable. any tips? please help! thank ... (60 words)

Have you ever been there? Losing the love of you life and there's nothing you can do?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, i tried to talk with my friends and family but i dont think they quite understand what i am feeling. so heres the story i started to date my ex boyfriend when we were 15 at first i thought it was a relationship like any other but i was wrong our relationship became really ... (342 words)

This girl means the world to me, and I can't let her be the one who got away...

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, I have been seeing a girl for 4 years. Things were great. After graduating college we moved to different cities and accepted jobs. Anyway things were going well for the first several months. Then all the sudden she started to become distant. She was not very enthused ... (428 words)

He's hiding porn in the ceiling, should I just leave him?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband lies about porn, he hides them in the ceiling and an unfinished room wall. I've caught him several times and he lies to my face. Then just pretends everything is OK. To top it off he has every excuse not to have sex We are 43 years old and our sex life consists of... (69 words)

Is the awkwardness because we just don't know eachother enough?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm having difficulties with something that I think is a bit stupid! Well, I've been going out with this guy for about a month and a half ....and everything was okay, but I feel a little bit awkward from time to time,probably because it is my first relationship ...I really ... (93 words)

Since he went to the GP, I can't deal with my husbands impotence...

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9 March 2009 (F)

age - I'm having a difficult time dealing with my husband's impotence. Interestingly, it wasn't a major problem until he went to the GP about it. We've been married over 8 years and we are both terrific people and terrific parents. We were good friends before we married and we a... (499 words)

I really love her, but she still talks to her ex!

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9 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and my girlfriend and i broke up like 3 weeks ago and thats the longest weve ever broken up. i was kinda doing okay compared to the other times but dont get me wrong i missed her and still had feelings for her and i loved her more each day. well friday i texted h... (403 words)

He just won't take the hint that I'm not interested, what do I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi there, I recently went away on vacation for a week to another city about 2 hours way from where I live. I stayed with my best friend, and the frst night I was there, I went out clubbing and met her cousin. I was completely drunk and ended up kissing him most of the night. ... (198 words)

Suggestions preferably by males, on ex's behaviour, please help!!!

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please give your advice. Me and my boyfriend broke up over a year ago. We kept in contact a bit and I text him, until I decided to tell him that I wanted to be with him and still had feelings for him. He told me to move on, so I did. Have not had any contact now for over three ... (170 words)

I tried to break it off with this married man but he still flirts with me, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I began dating a guy at work a few months ago. He is married and I knew it from the beginning. (I know it's horrible). For the past few months, we've gotten relatively close. We emailed several times a day, went out on a few occations, (no sex, just kissing and PG13 stuff) and ... (235 words)

What is it like to swallow semen?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5615 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What is swallowing like? I want to swallow my bf's semen but I'm kinda afraid because some people say they gag. What do they gag from? Do they gag from the taste? or the semen going in their mouth and down their throat? I have horrible gag reflexes and I'm afraid I'll gag ... (81 words)

Should I start initiating contact with her or leave it be and let her contact me again in a week or two?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5766 days ago

9 March 2009 (M)

Where did it all go wrong?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating a married man for two years. He always told me he was preparing to divorce his wife but he wanted to make sure his kids would be okay (ages 10, 14, and 18). He finally got a divorce about two months ago. He stayed at his house for about a month but because of ... (143 words)

It was just getting good what is his deal?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Things were progressing so well with this new guy. We met online. Emailed back and forth for a while, talked on the phone and have been on four dates. Our dates have been great and he called me several days in advance to plan the first three and he has been such a gentleman. He ... (221 words)

I feel trapped, unwanted and depressed...

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been in a relationship for 4 1/2 years. The first couple of years was great, but the last 2 1/2 years have been hard. It seems like just for me. I have a daughter from a previous relationship. Me and my partner had a daughter together. She is now 18 months. Since ... (254 words)

Blowing on a girl's neck?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What does it mean when a guy makes kissy faces at a girl and blows on her neck and is always like copying her or making fun of her [in a funny way, not to piss her off kinda way]??... (40 words)

Is it a good idea to break your hymen before you have sex?

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9 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I was wondering if it was possible and also safe to break your hymen using something other than a dildo. Like, a hairbrush or something of that sort. I'm not planning on having sex any time soon, but I would like to break before I do have sex, to avoid pain or discomfort. ... (78 words)