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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Does it mean anything if he calls me baby?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy for a few weeks but he still hasn't asked me to be his girlfriend. We act like a couple and he calls me baby all the time. I asked what exactly our relationship was and he said that he didnt know but he likes me and likes hanging out with me and I ... (102 words)

What should I do to stop feeling crushed by the fact the love of my life will never be mines??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm in love with this guy that I know and I have been for about 4 years now. There's a big age difference between us but I don't care he's so nice looking and amazing. I know nothing will ever happen because he's got a girlfriend and there madly in love and plus he doesn't like ... (111 words)

Fingering...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - How many fingers should a guy be able to get into a girl's vagina when fingering her? Is it possible she could be too "tight" to even get one in?... (30 words)

She said she'd go out with me soon, but still nothing. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I asked out a girl, she said she would go out with me in a few weeks when she got over her ex.. It has been over a month and nothing! We have even made out! What should I do?... (41 words)

Can I walk up and say "I've been thinking of you"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with an older guy I never met. (I'm 18, which is the age of consent so there are no legal issues to my knowledge.) I've talked to him a few times, but only passing comments, if that makes sense. I think he might like me too but I have no way of knowing that, and I'm ... (147 words)

Not having my period a week later mean anything?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19. My bf and I always use a condom when we have sex but about a month ago when we were messing around I sat on his lap with his penis in me for a few seconds, and we didn't think anything about it. But we started worrying when I didn't have my period on time. Today it's a ... (112 words)

Any suggestions for us being civil to each other?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a bit of a bad situation here. Well my boyfriend and I share an apt I'm 7 months pregnant and our relationship has just gone to shit. He hasn't helped me with any of the prenatal care etc. I lost my job as a bartender because of the pregnancy and I'm finding it difficult ... (192 words)

Why is he starting to lie to me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi i have been in a relationship for 4 years now my other half and i have 2 babies together. we have been happily in love for most of the 4 years besides recently. i have been catching him in lies. some serious and some just immature. im trying to figure out why he just ... (95 words)

I constantly feel as though everyone is against me

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 23. I know everyone has their good days and bad days. Some days, I'm not too bad but other days, I'm extremely low and I don't want to know anymore. I know that there are certain times of the year that people tend to have low periods but I'm like this all the time. I just t... (130 words)

I've called the wedding off because of his ex! Help me, I'm going insane!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'll start by telling you that I was meant to marry him on Thursday! All this happened the day before. We're both students and he lives in university halls. We have known each other for 3 nearly four years and been dating for 2 years. Now some history of his ex, she still lo... (589 words)

Pros and cons of being gay

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ha to all around I definitely need help. I believe in gay life. I'm watching them most of the time. Nowadays i'm ending up in gay life. Is that accepted to be gay nowadays.How do the girls think about? What is the pros and cons to be gay !!! ... (56 words)

Using me??Guys?Are they all the same?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - About 2 weeks ago I met a guy he was gr8. I liked him I thought he liked me, well I did it. I had sex with him . We never went out on a date, after our first time together he brought up us being together. I was down with it so now he is my boyfriend, well i go to his place sex ... (113 words)

I love him but I can't be close to him

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i really need help with this: there's this boy-i've really loved him for nearly two years now. because of some stuff thats going on in his life, i can't tell him how i feel because i think it would be too much for him. i've tried really hard to move on. i've tri... (113 words)

Period should have started..and it hasn't yet

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok here it goes. My period is pretty much on track and on time. Last month I started on the 20th I had sex like 2 days after I got off and used protection about a week later same thing, sex-protection. Last week we had sex but for the first 2 or 3 min no protection We did that ... (118 words)

Unprotected sex..pregnancy possible..but worried about my parent's opinion

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 years old , my bf is 19 years olf, weve been together for nearly 3 years and we would love to have a baby, recently wevehad unprotected sex, and i cant recall the date of my last period as their so irregular. Im so worried if i am pregnant though as i feel as though my ... (91 words)

The blossom has left the relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ive been with my partner for 2 and a half years now. for the last few months the blossom has left the relationship he never ever wants sex n he could never go with out it before. i would like to have your opion as to why this is i believe hes been cheating please say im wrong ... (68 words)

Am I just a one night stand and being played by this guy?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I meet this guy (who is slightly older than me) who gave me his number (whole address in fact). Later that week he and i meet upand got on really well n talk about all sorts of things ended bein up all night and then spent the next 3days with him (In which he and I did sleep ... (346 words)

Should I talk to the "other woman"?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend has been seeing someone else. i found out yesterday. i'm really sad, but glad that i know the truth. i told him its over, obviously. I think he likes the other girl a lot. But my question is: should i tell the her? It's not to get back at him. Its just becaus... (86 words)

3 guys all flirting with me..don't know what to do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. I've been in love with my best guy friend for 4 years now and lately things have got much better relationship wise between us and he's been flirting with me alot and stroking my leg in class, so i'm not sure if he likes me or not. HOWEVER -i also like ... (205 words)

Cant keep hard when entering me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a bf we are dating for more thn a year now, and we started having some sexual problems. He cant stay hard for me or get hard, only if Im blowing him he gets very hard, and when hes entering he cant keep it up, and also just wants to do it from the back all the time. We ... (95 words)

Do I give up on my chronically ill boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am very unhappy with my boyfriend of 4.5 years, but I want so much to be happy with him once more. He's a good person, he treats me very well, but he's had health problems for more than two years that have taken a grave toll on our relationship. His sex drive is close to ... (472 words)

He was keeping me a secret and I was the "one on the side"!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Earlier today i found out my boyfriend has been seeing someone else. He kept me a secret from eveyone important in his life and he didn't with this other girl. so i guess i was the 'one on the side'. Which really hurts. I called him up to tell him i knew and he wasn't ev... (138 words)

I'm being manipulated by a guy

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i think im being emotionally manipulated by a guy hes being nice one week and treats me like dirt the next last night he completely walked past me (last week he said i was the best girl in the world) this has been going on for a year+Im at breaking point. he was roaring in... (134 words)

I cheated on my abusive boyfriend. Now what?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I still love my bf very much. It has been a month that I stay clean. I realize what I was doing was so wrong. How to show my bf that I am really sorry and will not do it again? My bf wants to date other women. How to deal with it? I got jealous and talk to him about it and... (150 words)

Feelings of doubt in the relationship..will they go away?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for eleven months. im 17 and he is 19. He is the perfect boyfriend! He is attentive, affectionate, patient, caring etc. He is everything i could want to spend the rest of my life with. For the past eleven months weve spent all of our time together. ... (285 words)

Why is it always at work? Does he just want a quickie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice. I am 26 female (virgin), I work with a bunch of Army guys, I have never really bothered with any of them until a couple of years ago, when this corporal started, we started talking and flirted all the time, we arranged to go out and he cancelled on me at the ... (240 words)

What's my pregnancy risk from "dry sex"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi... I'm with the most amazing person- we have been together for over 2 years now,but we have never had sex (I want to be a virgin until my marriage). However what we do is usually called 'dry sex' - we touch each other and let our 'bits' touch without penetration. ... (293 words)

Should I wait till the 6 weeks is up or take it that I am not pregnant?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Heya. I was just wondering, I have had my last period about 4 1/2 weeks ago which normally I don't have a period for like 6 Weeks. But recently I have been very tired, aching and some white quite thick sticky discharge. I have been told these are signs of pregnancy so I did a ... (103 words)

I feel that she is using me and will not leave me alone.

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello, This is not a romantic question, but it is bothering me. Some time ago I met a girl at my current institute (both of us are freshmen) and we became more or less friendly. Some time later, she and her friends invited me to move in with them next year (I was looking for a ... (338 words)

Help needed please. I want to break up with my boyfriend but not sure how to do it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and I don't think I love him any more, at least I'm not in love with him any more. I recently met another guy and we went out as just friends but he's told me he likes me and I've said the same to him and I meant it. I think I want... (90 words)

Bored with Marriage!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I really do not know where to start.. Some of the questions asked seem "all to familiar". My husband and I have been together for almost 5 years. We have 4 children total, all under the age of 11. Two from previous marriages and our youngest 3 and 1, we have together. When I ... (467 words)

Are there any other techniques that I should be aware of that could maximize mine and his orgasms when the time comes?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My best friend of thirteen years and I got together five years ago on March 23rd and we've just grown so much stronger and closer since. We're both from Christian families and don't believe in pre-marital sex. Well, we're getting married next Saturday and each day we get closer ... (168 words)

We had an amazing date but it's been 3 days and he still hasn't called...

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently went on a date with this guy, and we had an amazing time, we went for dinner, a walk and then a drive. We were out for 4 hours so I thought we'd see each other again, but he hasn't text me and it's been 3 days. Is he interested? ... (53 words)

Why do I always feel empty without a man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4670 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey all. Since the age of 15 I've always always had a boyfriend. I've only ever split up with one if there's another one that I like waiting, as I feel panicky when I'm single. Sometimes I get hurt, but as I'm fairly nice looking (I know how that sounds) I don't find it hard to ... (223 words)

My boyfriend is such a drama queen.

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21 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend is such a drama queen. He blows minor things into major problems and then starts a cat and mouse game where he runs and hides. He is 51 years old. His behaviour is so childish. We do love each other but I am not sure I can continue with his childish games due ... (178 words)

Why is my life so depressing? Is it a curse?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I am in need a your sound advice on what to do... I am so depressed now. I am in a relationship for 8 years now the guy never shows me he loves me, we live together and all he ever need from me is just sex and someone to take care of the house like cook clean ... (442 words)

My one night stand 8 years ago my wife has finally dealt with. How do I now tell her a child resulted from it???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Eight years ago I met my current wife, 3 months into our relationship I had a one night stand, she found out and broke up with me. Then we got back together, it took her many years to forgive and forget about it. This past week I received a call at work from a lawyers office... (84 words)

My friend thinks my relationship is emotionally abusive! How can I make her see sense?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Help! I was talking to my friend last night and I told her a story about something my bf had said to me. Unexpectedly, she TOTALLY freaked out. She and my bf were close friends, but now she says she hates him. She thinks our relationship is emotionally abusive to me. I don't ... (67 words)

Will my parents ever forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Just a little backgroud if you didn't read my first question. My fiance cheated on my 3 weeks ago on a all guys trip. He told me right away and I forgave him. Our wedding is May 1. A few days ago one of his great friends posted pics of their trip on facebook, there were ... (192 words)

Am I mentally psycho???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and I sometimes have Panic attacks, it started off last November when I found out that my boyfriend has expressed his feeling to one of his co-workers. We are still together, when I ask him why he did something like that he told me that he needed to clear it off with her ... (338 words)

What can I do to get on the better side of her parents so that I can date her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I thought nothing could go wrong, she was really all over me, she liked me as much as I liked her, then when I go to ask her out, I get told indirectly as soon as I walk in the door that she doesn't think it will work out because of the age gap and she can't go on a date with ... (644 words)

Belly button hair, and I hate it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

- Hi, I'm an 18 year old girl, and I have belly hair! Thankfully it's pale, but it's still noticeable when you look. I know it shouldn't really matter but I've never seen it on other girls and my ex pointed it out once which has made things even worse. I love sex and I love my ... (172 words)

We used to be so happy together. What is going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and a month. He left his wife about 3 years ago and moved back home. We got together after that and he is going through the divorce. She lives in another state. I'm confused on why he won't ask me to marry him. He says we ... (306 words)

My sister has told me to get rid of my boyfriend and called him a scumbag!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5622 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here goes, I'm 22 years old and have been in an on off relationship for a year and half. My boyfriend is ten years older and has a child, none of this bothers me but I have not yet told my parents about him because they come from a well to do background and he comes from a ... (384 words)

Is the guy I'm dating gay? How can I tell? Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, so I've been on 3 dates with this guy I met on an internet dating site. On paper he seems like just the right kind of guy for me.. tall, successful, educated, looking for a relationship, etc.. but when we met, I seriously questioned his sexuality...maybe it was the lisp, ... (247 words)

My imagination is going wild thinking about things he's doing behind my back.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now. We're both currently studying and taking the same course. Just last month, I found out he was cheating on me. I found his messages to the girl on his phone. When I confronted him, he admitted that he loved her but he said ... (416 words)

Guys especially - how do I tell my ex's housemate how I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5712 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

- Right, basically I've just finished a 5-month open relationship with a lovely, understanding guy. He told me he loves me but he can tell I am obsessed with his housemate and he can't handle it. Being the angel that he is, he is telling me to go for it because he wants me to be ... (269 words)

Do you think he's just scared and will come back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm 4 months pregnant with my ex's baby we had been together 4 years and this was planned. We started going through a rocky period recently, during this time my ex slept with someone else and ended up finishing with me for her. I got in touch with him and he told me to get ... (153 words)

I don't want to lose a good friend just because my girlfriend tells me to!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a situation that is becoming problematic. See, I have this friend, we'll call her Sophie. Anyway, Sophie is a good friend, we get on very well, she is funny and interesting and intelligent, and she really doesn't like my girlfriend, Laura. This is understandable b... (261 words)

He says he doesn't want a relationship with ANY woman... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have an on again off again “relationship” with a man who is intent on not having a relationship and I am really confused. We get on great, the sex is great, we socialise together and have lots of mutual friends yet he does not want a boyfriend – girlfriend relationship with ... (208 words)

Wife's nude pictures!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 16 years was cleaning out the basement and she found some old family pictures. I joking asked if she found the nude photos and she says "I don't know where those are or if I even have them any more"! My heart almost jumped out of my chest. She has denied ever doing ... (296 words)

How can I get closer to my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I like this guy at college and I think he likes me too. He usually compliments me like "you look pretty or nice" and I'm not sure what to do. Sometimes he ignores me! so I ignore him too but I really like him, he often visits myspace so I know he likes me and he's always ... (71 words)

There seems to be two faces to my friend.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a good mate at work, we get on at work, we chat a lot and have a good laugh and that. When I ask him does he want to go clubbing with me to meet birds and have a drink he is like Yeah we should and talk about places to go. On facebook he is different, when I ask him a... (230 words)

How can I get sole custody without making this uglier and more stressful on me than it already is?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been in a very physically verbally emotionally abusive relationship on and off for 5 years. Recently I had enough when he beat me in front of our 1 year old and I'm pregnant... my mother called the police and my 7 year old was there, at first I refused to press charges but ... (403 words)

Any tips on how to get rid of water retention in the stomach?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys, I was hoping on getting some tips from you guys, well I've been trying to tone up for the past year, doing regular excercise and sit ups every day and eating healthy and frequently, I am of a medium build and 5'6, overall I have toned up, however my stomach is still ... (112 words)

Shaving pubic area and itchy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my girlfriend wanted me to shave my pubic hair off so i have and it itches down there now so have any of you got any tips please... (28 words)

Torn between ex and current boyfriend

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i just lost a baby to my ex we split up when i was pregnant as he was to obsessive and never wanted me to go out with my friends. im now withanother guy and he is with another girl. and im really confused because i cannot stop thinking about him and i asked him up to tzlk ... (170 words)

Are we stable enough to be together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend left his girlfriend for me 2 years ago. They have two children together and were together for 11 years. We broke up last week again but have decided to give our relationship one last go. The problem is since we moved in together we have been arguing often us... (176 words)

Advice for looking older?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello I'm 15 years old almost 16,I'm 5 foot and quite young for my year which doesn't make things easy for me.I still look as if i'm 12 and i get quite a bit of slagging from people because of that.I was wondering if you had any advice for looking older. i find that girls are ... (94 words)

Odds I'm pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I have been having protected sex always. there wasnt once where we did not use a condom, yet I am fiv days late, and this is vry unusual. the maximum tht happend was that one time when he pulled out, the condom 'stayed' down there and he had to pull it out with his hands...... (66 words)

Are we ready?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5424 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay here goes I'm 18 years old and will be 19 in june. I have been with my partner for over a year, we have been living together for 10 months and we adore each other. We both have stable jobs and have the option to overtime if we wanted. enough blabbering. The... (180 words)

Hangover advice.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Well, I need some advice... I'm so damn depressed so I have decided to go and get drunk on Monday morning after my first lecture at university, I won't be driving and will be with a sober person, I need to know how to get rid of the hangover by 3pm before I go home so my ... (68 words)

I feel emotionally raped! Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I have been in love with a girl for the last three years actually she proposed to me and I clear every thing to her straight forward and everything is smooth after getting in the relationship. The last seven months we have had sex a lot, we know each other quite ... (583 words)

I miss him like crazy... How long will it take me to get over him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I ended it with my boyfriend because (even though I'm totally mad about him) the way he treated me was not good enough. He never took me out, or bothered introducing me to his friends. He would take without giving and I don't think he was that into me as I was into him. We w... (152 words)

Should I forget ever had a sister to stop the conflict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A while ago i had posted that my sis phoned me in tears to tell me that her so called 'man' said he wouldnt mind a threesome with me and her. Some guys came back and said it aint a big deal, the thing is its put a strain on my relationship my boyfriend is understa... (190 words)

No photo on wife's desk

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been married for 10 years, and feel like our relationship is still solid. However, recently I visited my wife's office and noticed that on her desk she had a photo of our son and a photo of her late (gay) boss, but no photo of me. Do you think that is weird or am I bei... (65 words)

2 Problems! Girlfriend stopped wanting sex and also started smoking behind my back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is going to be kind of long but I am a 19 year old guy and my girlfriend (18 going on 19) of 2 years and I are going on a break and i have 2 big problems. Before i tell you what recently happend I'm going to tell you our relationship before today. The first year with ... (714 words)

What advice can I give him, and how can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago. After we broke up my ex slept with a few girls, as an attempt to get over me. He admitted to me that it didnt work, and he still loves me. Last night I found out he got one of the one-night-stand girls pregnant. Im pretty dev... (80 words)

Is he interested or something? And what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, there's a friend I met in college. We have to work on a group assignment since the start of the year. Sorry it's gonna be a little long. At the beginning, whenever we had meetings in a group, he would look at me very often, especially when someone says a joke or somethin... (596 words)

Just ending a long painful relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Just ending a long painful relationship where I was verbally Abused and mentally as well. My ex said I was terrible in bed and I couldn't kiss well And said I was boring in bed but he bugged me for sex all The time. So now that the relationship is over I don't know where... (127 words)

I defended her, now she dumps me. WTH?

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my girlfriend an som other friends were hanging out. and my girlfriend was messing around playin with one of my other friends, and somthing hapened im not sure what but he ended up hiting her hard. i got up and hit him so hard tha my hand is in a cast right now.... (152 words)

I just wish I could tell myself it was a mistake, learn from it, never do it again

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I seriously need help, I need real advice. Well, I've been with My boyfriend for almost 5 months and right when We first started going out there was a guy I used to hang out with and he liked me. So of course he wanted to kiss me and he pretty much forced me and I kinda gave... (225 words)

Do guys act like this when they're not interested in a girl?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5727 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been talking to a guy on MSN, my friend introduced me to him, he's friend's with her sisters boyfriend, and I really, really like him, but I'm not sure if it's mutual. The conversations we have are totally random, anything from ice cream wedding cakes being the secret to a... (384 words)

Should I let him go or try and see if there are any feelings left?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I need lots of advice. I am married with 3 kids. I have always thought about my ex. He is also married with kids. I have dreamed about him and how we will get together again. But the other day during marriage therapy I figured out that my dream will not be reality. I love ... (216 words)

I want to take charge of the conversation somehow,but I don't know how

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been going out (aka - Not yet in a relationship), with this guy for a couple of months. He's really sweet and seems like good boyfriend material but he seems so boring! At first I was overjoyed with how much of a gentleman he is, and didn't mind his calm, quiet, rese... (191 words)

How do I know if I am bisexual?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone who is bisexual tell me how they first realized they were bi? I definitely know that I am attracted to guys and I have had a bf. I have always assumed I am straight but my really good guy friend thinks that I am bi because we always talk about what girls are hot.... (121 words)

Why do they always come running back crying to get a second chance?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Maybe someone can help me understand this. why is it that when men want to end a relationship they act like jerk/assholes to make you leave them. and when you do and have moved on without them, they always come running back crying to get a second chance. That they made a mista... (110 words)

Should I stay with her?

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well its about my girlfriend, she has a hard time expressing her feelings, we talk but have a different sense of humor, i cant ask a serious question without getting a “your mom” joke, and i dont really understand her cause her mom doesnt let us spend enough time together. I... (202 words)

Boyfriend's newest job is moonlighting at a night club

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it ok for my boyfriend to work at a night club? I have told him it bothers me because I don't trust the situations that could easily happen in that environment. Also, we now get very little quality time together because he is so either working or is exhausted all the time. ... (77 words)

Anyone remember the first time they were pregnant?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Sore boobs, slight sickly feeling in my stomach...maybe im pregnant, who knows...last time i was it was over 10 years ago and i was sick in bed very unwell for 4 months befoe i knew why! Would love to have children with my husband so if im pregnant its a good thing...i just ... (125 words)

How doI make an inexperienced girl comfortable on a date?

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21 March 2009 (M)

- I'm interested in a girl whom I don't think has ever had a boyfriend. I acted on what appeared to be mutual interest but then I ran smack into an icy cold front. Very confusing but I now realize that she is interested but simply never knew and does not know what to do. She ... (112 words)

Being apart hurts all the time

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I was in a relationship with a man who was is still is my soulmate. He is the only person that has ever understood me, he is the only man i have every loved. The problem: he is black, I am white. This caused a huge problem as my parents said they would disown me if I did not ... (271 words)

Why is she still contacting me after 3 years??

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21 March 2009 (M)

- I was interested in this girl three years ago. It appeared to be mutual; she was very flirtatious. In fact she lead me on and went out with another guy and has been with him ever since. That's fine BUT SHE KEEPS GETTING IN CONTACT WITH ME! She always wants to chat an... (213 words)

Signs of a shy guy liking me?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy in my school that I really like. When I walk past his locker if he is with friends they will hit him or something then he will quickly glance at me and turn away. We have one class together and he sits in front of me. He will sit on my desk until I walk into ... (399 words)

Uncontrollable sweat!!

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this is embarrasing. i am a girl 13 turning 14 in a few days. and i have this issue. I WONT STOP SWEATING. for example i alwaysss wear jackets because my underarms sweat even when its cold and so do my hands. i would love to hold hands with the guy i like but my hands just ... (210 words)

Getting over someone I never wanted to be in love with

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey you all know i ama gay guy and i am in total love with one of my straight friends Okay the situation, which i thought was getting better, was actually getting much worse. okay so i think im in love with one of my friends but the problem is that he has a girlfriend, and ... (223 words)

3 days after period unprotected sex..pregnant?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got my period this month.I had unprotected sex 3 days later.He cumed. but I didin't feel any cum go in me.Could I be pregnant?... (25 words)

Accused of being someone else, should I still meet this person?

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If you have been chatting to someone online that you met on an online dating site. Chatting has gone well for many weeks, but then they accuse you of not being you - that you are someone they know pretending to be this fake person, what would you do? Would you still meet t... (59 words)

I love the man that is cheating on his lover

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i work as an ofw and luckily i have families where i was now.I live in an apartment together with my family..my question is well i know in the eyes of GOD it is wrong to have an affair to someone who is committed but I love him..I am single and i already gave up everything to ... (139 words)

I'm stuck in an abusive relationship

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So,confused..just left my boyfriend of 4yrs because I just found out he cheated on me for the 3rd time. He said the reason he did that was because I had a lot to do with it,being that I moved out from his apartment and into mine..kept on breakin up with him.can't forget the ... (178 words)

I feel I can't be myself around my friends since she came

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well okay here's my problem right now. I go to high school and currently the only thing I actually look forward to is spending time with my friends and just enjoying their company because that's where i feel like me and I feel good about myself. Well okay today at lunch i ... (275 words)

What's your dream girl/guy?

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - If you could have a dream girl/guy what would they be like??... (12 words)

I feel guilty that she broke up with him, help!

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well, here's the thing, umm a few months ago there was a new kid, so I totaly fell for him. Well my best friend got with him, I didn't mind at all, I was beginning to see him as a friend more and more, well today she walks up to me and says that she feels bad for betraying me, ... (136 words)

Do I trust him???

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 10 months but we moved in with each other shortly after we started dating. I sometimes think that wasn't the best decision because he hadn't ever lived on his own before and i had for almost 7 years. I think sometimes he feels ... (304 words)

I feel I've got over her really quickly, is this normal?

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 almost and my ex and I broke up like a week ago or so and she has hurt me a lot by cheating on me with her ex that cheated on her. She got drunk and didn't tell me and she smoked for over 3 years now and she just told me a couple weeks ago. I was concerned for her ... (167 words)

Some confidence

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 28 and have no confidence or self esteem. I know I'm ugly and it's obvious by the way guys look at me I'm disgusting. How can I get some confidence to make myself feel better... (36 words)

Libyan's problem!

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Can you help me mates? I'm so happy to have found such a helpful website. I'm 22, a hotty and sweet boy as I was told by loads of friends. One day it was pissing with rain outside. I went 2 my mate's room. I was feeling cold, so he brought me a blanket... Anyway that night ... (106 words)

He always likes the lights off when we make love...

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21 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have known each other since second grade but every time we have sex he turns out the lights, he says it's for a dramatic effect! What should I do?... (34 words)

Can pregnant women still orgasm and how can I make a woman orgasm all the time?

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21 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - How do I make a woman have an orgasm all the time? It seems sometimes only. Is it possible that pregnant women can still alsoo have an orgasm? Confused, please advise ... (35 words)