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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My best friends ex wants me what should I do?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, This girl just broke up with my best friend now she is calling me frequently that i should visìt her and to buy something for her while coming. I tried to avoid her but she kept persuading me to come and visit her she îs staying alone. I have told my best friend abou... (97 words)

I'm tired of people talking about religion in a bad light!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm really tired of people talking about my religion in a bad way. I'll be sitting at school and the someone says something about how my religion doesn't celebrate any holidays. They say stuff like "that's really stupid" and they don't even know the reasons why we don't cel... (124 words)

My break up with my boyfriend is still eating at me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this one guy for a year and three and a half months and he would physically abuse me on a weekly basis and verbally abuse me on a daily basis. We broke up April of 2008 and a week later, I started dating another guy; that relationship lasted just under three months. ... (218 words)

No confidence! Don't know how to meet people?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi folks, I am stuck in a bit of a rut. My belief in my ability to find a relationship. I used to believe the main issue was being overweight. But I realise whilst it might be a factor, it isn't the single thing that prevents me from finding someone. I realise that ... (299 words)

He made me feel like a dirty little slut

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

13 March 2009 (?) age - Hello Friends! I have a scenario that I would like your opinion on. I was having a nice conversation with my boyfriend last night, and the topic turned to Hollywood actors. I was telling him who my favorites were. And then I said, Johnny Depp is my favorite! He's so hot! ... (251 words)

Should I visit her or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - This girl just brokeup with my bestfriend now she is calling me frequently that i should visìt her and to buy something for her while coming. I tryd to avoid her but she kept persuading me to come and she îs stayin alone. I have told my bestfriend about it, but he seems not ... (89 words)

Senior? Sophmore relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like this girl at my school, but im worried about the age difference. I am a senior in high school and she is a sophomore. We have been talking when we get a chance in between classes and have been getting along really well besides some differences in interests. ... (237 words)

She says I'm not important to talk to?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is it bad if the girl i love says that im not that im not that important to talk to? Were good friends but im not sure what this means. I've fell in love with her but does this also me she only considers me as a friend? ... (50 words)

I feel unconfident & ugly!

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi :-) I am 17 years old and everyday I just feel really unconfident and ugly. I know that a lot of girls struggle with this and that I am not the only one, but I just feel that something is wrong with me personally. I've never had a boyfriend and I feel that boys just aren't... (231 words)

Is it normal - my boyfriend sleeping with his ex-girlfriends child she calls him dad!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend helps take care of his ex-girlfriend's daughter. The three of them lived together from the time the little girl was 6 until she was about 9 and she calls him dad. They hang out at least 3 or 4 times a week. She calls him all the time, and on a few occasions ve... (143 words)

The guy I like seems to fancy other girls

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13 March 2009 (F)

- i dont know what to do :@. the boy i like keeps saying i fancy my best friend and going in moods over it.. and keeps accusing me of fancying my cousins friend.. and Then goes moody with me. But its alright for him to say he likes me, but then puts other girls on his name. Im ... (124 words)

How many kinds of sex traps are there?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - A recent discussion has bought to attention that both women and me trap each other for relationship. Whilst I am familiar with the 'pussy trap' and 'love trap' phenomenon. I was wondering how many different ways there are for men and women to do this? I'm sure if we a... (71 words)

I think my buddy had sex with my girlfriend

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5718 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I need help me and my gf are both 15 and we've been going out for 8 months, we love eachother (not sexually active yet)... but im a little concerned, let me tell you the background of the story: she went to a latenight party last night with about 20 kids includi... (355 words)

B/f cheated on me with his ex g/f?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey guys ive recently found out that my boyfriend cheated on me with his ex girlfriend... i know that we really love each other and i know how much he regrets what happened... since then we've tried to give it another go and he has done everything in his power to make me ... (230 words)

Need Help,Wife spoketo ex lover and its killing me!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone and thanks in advance for the help....I am a 36 yr old male and my wife of 12 years (been married 12-together 17) is also 36. We have two kids and up until last week i thought a very good realationship. Here is my situation. I came home last thursday and was... (629 words)

What does she want from me if anything?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi everyone. My problem isn't really a big deal but its been bugging me so I thought I'd ask some advice/opinions.I have just started at a new job a few weeks ago and have made some good friends. We had to do a collaborative project last week and I was stuck with two women, one ... (246 words)

Not use birth control pills?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone told me that a person who hasn't had kids should not us birth control pills. is this true?... (20 words)

She keeps talking about how big this guy was

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5699 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi' I have a little insecurity issue occuring lately. On New Years Eve my wife and I attended a party at a friends place. A while after we got there my wife said she had to go to the bathroom. When she came back she was all horned up. I asked what got into you she told me she ... (245 words)

How to tell my parentsthat I am sexually active?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Can anyone help me with what I wany to tell my parents. Well the thing is that am sexually active and i want to tell them but I just don't know how. The one that really scares me to tell is my father. So how could I tell my parents that am sexually active?... (57 words)

Am I being unfair to my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - It has been some time since i have sought advice. I just can't seem to get on with my parents. There is quite a history but for the last 2 years things had improved but things are increasingly frought of late. My dad isn't a touchy feely dad and when I was younger he showed n... (590 words)

Its a big step going from his, mine to "ours"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I recently decided to move in together when my current lease is up in June. It seemed like the natural thing to do, and I was even the one who suggested it, but now that it's 'offical' I find myself getting rather nervous. I've never lived with a partner ... (254 words)

I'm not circumcized and amafraid of what girls would think

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5694 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I found out that i am not circumcised when i was about 12 or 13 and my mom told me to wash my skin good. I am mad at her that i am not circumcised because i think everybody i hang out with are circumcised and they think if you're not circumcised that is nasty. I get a lot of ... (114 words)

Gay?Or just trying to be a loyal friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey guys .... well anyways/...im a 14 year old striaght guy and i have alot of close guy friends... but this one guy J.D is getting reallly too close to me...he's always tryin to make me laugh and allways touchy feely like a pat on the back or a handshake all th... (135 words)

Help us loose our virginity without the agony!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Im a 30yr old virgin male and in almost 6yr dating with a female virgin. All the time we try to have sex is like passing through hell for both of us, without any penetration, she always complains of hurting and pain. Please advice us what shall we do? ... (51 words)

He wants to "take a 2nd break", the 1st time he cheated. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf of 2 1/2yrs said yesterday that we need to "take a break". We had been arguing alot lately, and I was annoyed with his immature/baby behaviour (he's almost 26 years old btw) and he was annoyed with how I am apparently not "girly enough" (which I admit I'm kinda tomboyis... (535 words)

I need a REAL man's advice for my guy's 25th birthday

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey all you red blooded males out there, i'm wondering if what i'm going to do for my partner's 25th birthday is going to be enough. i'm a bit tight for cash but i really want to do something that will make him really happy. he said no ones really celebrated his birthday tha... (247 words)

How do I tell him how much I love him?How much I would do for him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5729 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have just started dating recently, and he is the most perfect boyfriend I've ever had (he's my first actually) I love him so much, that I would literally do anything for him. He's so sweet, caring, shy (you have no idea how cute he gets when he's shy, I love ... (319 words)

I love him but not IN love with him....no passion

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for over two years. I am now engaged. I do have a child by my fiance'. He is a good father. He helps me with her and the bills. I do not see myself marrying him. What should I do? I have told him several times that I am not happy. He wants to try ... (130 words)

How to tell if a guy is gay?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5720 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a guy. And there is this guy that gives me some signals. I would like to know if he is in to me. If he is gay or smthing. Well, he hugs me and when i am trying to sleep he comes near me and tells me to kiss his cheek for goodnight. but the thing is he has a girlfriend. So... (105 words)

I'm not experienced..what should I do next?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice regarding a fella I have liked for a while. We work together and we started to flirt about three years ago but we never really spoke until about two years ago, we arranged to go out once but he blew me out without an excuse after that we stopped talking.... (218 words)

I've never had a boyfriend before, not sure how I feel about one!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, some of you might know that i posted the other day about a guy i liked, well the day after that I was at school and a girl who keeps her horse at same place as me (call her A) sed that another girl (B)'s borther (who also has a horse at the yard and we'll call him C) ... (224 words)

Is it OK to crash at ex' for one night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

- I would appreciate some advice and feedback on this one. I am going away for spring break and will be in the city that my ex returned to four years ago. I have a place to stay for three nights but note that there is no train on the day I want to go back. He said a year ago that... (174 words)

Could I ask my ex if I can stay at his apartment, he has a new girlfriend!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I texted my boss after work to tell him I really like him and was attracted to him, now he has arranged a disciplinary with me for texting him - I feel embarrassed and betrayed - what do you guys think out there???... (46 words)

Help! I think my husband is cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age - Help! I think my husband is cheating! He has been texting someone and when i found out he claimed it was a joke he and some other guys on his job were doing to a new guy at work. The text was "gd mor baby i miss you call me", i don't know what to do, i have the phone number... (74 words)

I really Like him what should I Do?!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I really like this person named Jonathan we both know each other from a hall we both go to, He knows I fancy him because I used to make it obvious. We started talking On FaceBook (which I added him) and we both make each other laugh and I always used to speak to hi... (796 words)

She in my head and I want to chill and maybe look else where'

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and in my first year at University studying Fine Art. My best friend is a girl called 'Sally'. We hit it off from the start of term (September 2008). She is in a relationship with this guy who lives somewhere else in England. She is European and so is he. They have ... (728 words)

Do you think he still wants me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay I have a huge question. Does he still like me? or does he honestly only think of me as a friend? There's this guy that I dated back in the beginning of november. We tried casual dates for like two weeks and then he told me he didn't think of me that way. Just as a f... (457 words)

I need some self-esteem!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Helloo there. I am aware that what i am going to say might sound like an average teenage girl but it is realy staring to get to me. I am 15, soon to be 16. I am 5ft 5ish and weigh 9st (126 lb) I know this might not seem a problem to some people but it is slowly starting... (225 words)

I'm on the pill, could I be pregnant now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, please can someone help! i'm on the pill but only came on for one day and was light. would this i could be preganet?... (25 words)

I'm feeling insecure and in a bad relationship, help me please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello everyone. This is my first time writing to a computer and letting out my feelings that i have, im not sure where to start so here it goes. Im 40 years old, i have children and my husband has children from 3 other women and we have 2 together and i also have children fro... (626 words)

Advice about kegel exercises..

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm single and haven't had sex in over six years and when I do, I want to be nice and tight. I started doing kegel exercises last month and would like to know how many I should do a day? I also want to know from those who do them, if they really work? And lastly, when I star... (75 words)

I want to get out of rut and start dating again!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! So my first boyfriend (V) and I "dated" for a year and two months but never got past a kiss that we shared at the end of freshman year of high school. I really don't think I loved him, but I certainly did like him a lot; it took a good few months to fully get over him, but ... (631 words)

I don't know if I should take him back...

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - God, what do I do? Me and my ex boyfriend...God, we're so in love, I mean totally. The thought of him just makes me go all weak inside. We split up 6 months ago and we still feel the same about each other. We split up because he wasn't spending enough time with me and seems to ... (398 words)

I'm looking for information on alternate, non-hormonal methods of birth control. Any suggestions?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My partner and I would like to experience increased intimacy during sex by replacing condoms with another birth control method. We are monogamous and disease free. For health reasons, I do not want to use anything hormonal. Would a contraceptive sponge or diaphragm be our best ... (101 words)

I can't win with him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey.. im a lil confused about a few things at the moment ...my ex broke up with me a few months back .last month we had a one night stand (al in fun according to him) he told me not to say anythin to anyone.. he knew i still have major feelings 4 him yet he asks me to have sex ... (442 words)

Should I be worried that we have problem with our sex life?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been living together now for about three months, and we've been together for about nine months. Since we've moved in together we have only been having sex about once or twice a week and pretty much every time it has been right before we go to bed and ... (203 words)

How do you get over someone you love?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - how do you get over someone you love? she was my first love and its hard cause i think about her all the time and all the memories we had and theres been alot cause we were together for 2 years. im not trying to forget her or trying to stop thinking about her but im trying to ... (141 words)

Is she just flirting or trying to make me jealous?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, so i like this woman (for a few years) who is quite a serious person, she knows that i like her and she told me she has feelings for me too. we are not together bcos she has a bf. not long ago she told me about this other man she's been flirting with, but wouldnt go any f... (120 words)

Losing weight and having erection problems

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age - I am a 57 year old male who has lost over 110 pounds and have 100 more to go. Any other big men out there have erection problems? I am seeing my doctor on Monday. For a long time it take a lot for me to get an erection, then that does not mean I will be able to keep it long ... (91 words)

My first love has said "I love You" to someone else before me and I don't feel special to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my boyfriend for a couple of months now, I'm 19 and he is 21. he is my first love and i really care about him, he says he loves me and i trust him and i hope we will be together for a long time. however there is one issue that brings me to tears every ... (250 words)

I want more than one boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how can a girl who has never had boyfriend get a few boyfriends? I would like some advice from the males. like flirting,clothes,makeup,how to talk to guys etc... (32 words)

How can I delay or prevent my period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been on birth control for 2 months now. And I know that my period is becoming regularized because, in the second month I was only a day delayed, but given that, I figured in April, that's when I get my period, that I will have it on time. Problem is, I realized that I c... (152 words)

I cant be anything more than friends with the girl of my dreams!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - About 2 years ago I met a girl with more confidence, charisma, personality and sense than any girl ive ever known. On top of that shes stunningly good looking. She became a really close friend of mine for about a year. The closest friend I think iv ever had. Fairly soon, ev... (298 words)

How do I leave my girlfriend to get back with my ex?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have a thing going on with this girl, problem is that I'm still in love with my ex and now she has said that she also still loves me i want to go back to her, but my problem is the other girl what do i do?... (48 words)

Should I feel guilty for sleeping with him whilst living with my ex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I just barely broke up with my boyfriend and we're still living together because he has no where to go. I've known i wanted to break up with him for quite a while but didnt know how and another guy ended up coming into the picture... Ill try to explain the story in a short ... (531 words)

I realise they are only friends but am I the only one who finds this a bit weird?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hiya, yesterday my boyfriend came to see me from Manchester. We have a long distance relationshop as I live in London. We were going to spend most of the day, playing with each other and generally being a bit naughty. However every few minutes, one of his female friends kept ... (76 words)

My husband went to male prostitutes "to talk"! Should I forgive him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm writing in with a problem that I can't get my head round. My husband admitted to me last night that'd he'd been going to male prostitutes for the past few weeks - in fact, the past 6 weeks. Now I know why our sex life was so lacklustre (his claims of work-related stre... (205 words)

My boyfriend has trust issues....is he hiding something?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - OKAY! i dont know if this is okay or not,ive been dating my bf for 6 months now and he has no trust for me, he tells me all the time how he doesnt trust me to go to my friends cuz they smoke weed and drink but they dont make me do it although i do it somtimes just cuz i enjoy ... (234 words)

My g/f wants me to wear her ring but I don't want commitments!

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend wants me to wear her ring. she loves me a lot .i dont want any committments or bondings as of now but i cant refuse her obviously because that will hurt her a lot. can i wear the ring just as a gift? also on which finger should i wear it as i want to play safe... (59 words)

My ex bf wants to be friends with me

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13 March 2009 (F)

- My ex bf wants to be friends with me. I dont know if its a good idea or not. I broke up with him because he was abusive. I still care for him alot, infact I still love him, but I dont know if I can be frineds with him. I dont feel I can trust him, he is not the person who I fe... (493 words)

Why does my ex want to be my friend?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I can't grasp the rationale behind why my ex would want to be my friend? And I've heard the stories about the using and the control and the not wanting me to be with other people, but seriously, and I'm asking women this more than men I think, what does she really want? We b... (247 words)

What does it mean find love when you least expect it?

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13 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - what does it mean find love when you least expect it? how does that work? but there are guys who have loads girlfriends who don't have to find love when least expect it like wise for some girls,i don,t understand, do guys only fancy tall good looking hot looking gir... (164 words)

Shall I admit my feelings for him and hope something sparks or completely wash him out of my hair?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I actually have no idea what to do.. I fancy this boy who i think, loves his ex?! im in a bit of a mess. Theres this guy called craig who recently broke up with one of my friends, well she dumped him. I fancied him before he went out with my mate even though i knew he didnt ... (419 words)

Will they get a Fairytale ending?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My fiance and I just broke up after a 2 year relationship. The cause of the break-up is the obvious-THE EX with kids. I find this is a rebound on the basis that they were together for 20 yrs when they split. Their relationship was very rocky, had a lot of issues, cheating, ... (186 words)

Question for the guys: how can I help my boyfriend 's erectile problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - For the last 12m, my bf of 8 yrs (who I live with) has had problems maintaining an erection. We had some financial problems, and I found out he'd been flirting with a woman from work, posting himself on 'adult dating' websites and sending/receiving intimate photo text mess... (255 words)

Are people ever just joking about threesome offers like this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Do people really joke about threesome invitations? I don’t want to over react over nothing. Im sorry for how long the question is. I am 19. I am still a virgin mostly by choice. I have a long time close friend “bob” that has sort of a girlfriend or fuck buddy ‘jane.’ an... (469 words)

I don't want my boyfriend to get bored of me.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really don't want my boyfriend to get bored of me. We've been seeing each other for a few months, and we have sex on a regular basis, but I refuse to give or receive oral sex. I don't know why, but it really is a big turn off for me, and theres something about it that I real... (142 words)

My ex is gay and he is going through a difficult time. Should I help him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Need some advice I found out (because i was being nosey and looking where I shouldn't have been) that my ex the father of my child is gay. He has been seeing someone for 2 yrs and I didn't know! Our child spends time with them both and constantly talks about the guy an... (154 words)

Farting contest stinks up the family!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Our family go down to my parents' every other weekend. For the past few weeks my husband, son and father have been having "farting contests", and over-eating in an effort to fart in the house. The stench is usually unbearable and me and my mum have to go outside. We've t... (142 words)

I don't even want to hug my husband..let alone sleep with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5578 days ago

13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I never thought this would happen to me but I really don't like my husband anymore. We've been together for 10 years, since we were 18, and married for 3 years. No kids and both aged 28. I always thought we were so great together - a perfect fit. We'd fight occasionally but... (480 words)

He's always texting..

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well hello ppl..Dunno really how to express myself..Will bring u out the clear pic..I'm in relationship but not very happy these days.. I no i love him a lot and can't imagine life without him...When we meet up and are together then things are fine but the moment we are hom... (276 words)

Depressed after breaking up

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I had a few problems with my girlfriend of 2 years. We couldnt get over some things that happened in the past, and hence, split up. In the months leading up to our breakup, I was feeling more and more confident that splitting up was the right thing to do. I started to see o... (313 words)

How am I going to know if the guy is gay or not?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - thanks everybody who have contributed in answering my questions. again even though i can not change the nature of bein a gay and a mascline guy, how do i know that those mascline guys that are bein attracted to me are gay or not? how do i aproach them? what do i tell t... (103 words)

Why is my husband having "business trips " to Canada and lying about them?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was cleaning the house up earlier this week, I was stunned to find receipts for flights to Canada in drawers around the house. I thought it was strange, particularly as we'd never been to Canada before together. When my husband came in from work, I confronted him w... (356 words)

Best friend's ex keeps contacting me

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently, my best friend brokeup with her girl friend. Even though when they were lovers i was in good terms with the girl. But when they brokeup, she started calling me frequently on phone to visit her and that i should buy something for her when coming, even though i try to ... (70 words)

Cool or more forward?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - theres this guy who i like and i know he likes me to a point but because weve been to the cinema and he mentioned going out again a few nights ago. But we never see each other in real life because we never bump into each other or have mutal friends. Its like one minute he... (207 words)

I don't think I like my girlfriend

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid i am 25 year old and i just got into my very first relationship. we been together for 8 month now. i should be happy, but im not. i am kinda in this situation like in the movie "i think i love my wife" 2007 by chris rock. if you seen it, you'll probably know wh... (203 words)

I fell in love with his friend

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - am 18 and has a serious problem... i always fall in love with my boyfriend's friends do not why.. i always wanted to confess something to them but i just though i should hold back for a little while.. because i still love him the same way as i always did..... do you think it ... (192 words)

Possible for 2 people who have feelings for each other to just be friends?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. and all of a sudden, the guy i dated before him starts talking to me again and admits he still has feelings for me. i have to admit, we never got our closure, so there's a part of me that's always wondering about what would have ... (105 words)

I lost my temper, she ended things..I want her back!

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently realized how bad my temper can be. I have a very short fuse and I blow up. I came to realize this when I scared the girl I wanted to propose to, the love of my life. I didn't harm her in any way, or touch her in any aggressive way. I was just very vocal and I can be ... (432 words)

How can I make it so he won't dump me after a month?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can u make our relationship last long. I really want this to work, between me and my boyfriend in the year above... But how do I make him like, NOT dump me after a month?! His last relationship was eight months, mine, 2 months... I dumped my boyfriend last time and I'm not ... (62 words)

Sex with my boyfriend's friend?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - should i have sex with my boyfriends friend? well he's not technically my boyfriend but we do things that a boyfriend and girlfriend would do... (25 words)

Online boyfriend being pushed into an arranged marriage

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey im a young girl 18 yrs old n a student, never had a boyfriend but found one over the internet chatting last year.He is 25 and a working guy. I met him through chatting n added him in messenger. We chat often, day by day we become closer.After chatting for 3 months He start ... (1204 words)

5 year marriage and my love is fading

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, here it goes. I have been married for almost five years. For those past five years, my attraction to my husband has faded. I have tried so many different things to spice up our relationship. Nothing has worked. During those five years, I have never really looked at anyone ... (137 words)

He won't ask me to be his girlfriend

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So, I have been going out with a guy for about 5 months. We have gone out before, but our relationship has never been as good as it is now. However, he will not ask me to be his girlfriend. I asked him why and he said he does not want his family to know about him having a ... (100 words)

6 month anniversary important?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, im 15 and my gf is 14, weve been goin out for five months now, and in two more weeks, itll be six. Is a half year anniversary significant? If so, wud it be even better if i got her a gift? I rly do love her, and can see my self being with her a very long time:) ... (60 words)

3 handjobs a day..is it ok?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 21 years old guy , I do 7 hand jobs in a week. and some time I am doing 3 hand jobs in a day. And some time I was make it so longer round about 2 hours. Please tell me its ok ... (46 words)

Should I tell my pregnant sister that her husband is sleeping with other men?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - okay so i have this huge problem i discovered through his phone and the internet that my sisters husband is sleeping with other men, i dont want to upsett my sister she is just pregnant for the second time and she always says how much she loves him, i hate hime for doing this ... (98 words)

How can I get rid of this temptation of having fantasies with hot guys who are not my boyfriend?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years. Before I got into this relationship I was pretty promiscous. I have never cheated on my boyfriend and do not intend to, but the problem I have is the temptation when other guys look at me with that eye that he wants me. ... (76 words)

Any advice for peaking a girl's interest when I randomly approach them?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been dating a girl for 4 years. She broke up with me and I'm trying to move on because she already has. Since more guys approach girls she beat me to the punch. Any advice or tips to meeting new girls. I have a co-worker I am interested in. Also when at bars ... (106 words)

Sex when you're not in the mood

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it so hard to have sex with someone you love when you're not in the mood? Personally I've never found it difficult. I mean you love them, how bad can it be! My partner seems to find it difficult. If he's not in the mood it just doesn't happen, period. Can anyone give ... (65 words)

How can you let a guy down easy?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you let a guy down easy? I like him as a friend only and he wants more. How can I let him know I just want to be friends? and if I tell him that a friendship is all I want will he stop being my friend? I really don't want to loose our friendship. How can I still keep him ... (78 words)

How do I make it clear that I would like a date without scaring him off?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok, i basically want to know how to ask out this guy i know who has social anxiety disorder. we met about 3 weeks ago and i knew instantly that i liked him, so i chatted to him online and stuff. he asked me to the cinema, but just as friends, and we've been to a couple of gigs ... (150 words)

She thinks I'm trying to change her, but I'm just concerned for her, and now she's broken up with me! Help!

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and goin through a hard time. okay heres how it all went down. my girlfriend who is 15 but older than me still told me she smokes i was shocked cause she said she hates people who smoke which doesnt make any cents. anyway i asked her why and she said i don't know its ... (280 words)

What do these signals mean?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy I've known for a while now. We never really talk. I've always kinda thought he was an a**hole. Well he is in 2 of my classes. We had to be partners in biology one time. He didn't really talk to me that much he just talked to his friends. Also in math the day after ... (214 words)

Does the fact that I love giving oral sex make me look bad?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i love performing oral sex on men. it makes me extra hot and ready. does this run guys off? like do they look to me as a whore for doing it? ... (32 words)

He's my ex-fiance. Should I make him my ex-boyfriend too?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, I am quite confused. My boyfriend proposed to me right after we got back together after our third break up. Then four months later he's having all of these doubts about us, how he thinks he has missed out on experiencing his late teenage/early adulthood years (we got ... (312 words)

My boyfriend checks out other women all the time, how can I get him to stop?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyf is constantly pointing out the hotness of other women. at first when we met i laughed it off but it's really starting to hurt my feelings. i'm not an especially jealous person, i dont care about him saying some actress is hot or anything but just women in the street, i ... (264 words)

I hate adult friend finder

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year and a half and last year he have me his email and pw so I could go and fix something for him, so while I was on his email i came across this adult friend finder thing and I went to his page and I got really pissed off ... (298 words)

Sex or sweetness?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am in love with two amazing girls and I cna t figure out which one to pick and I am hurting all of them including myself. Girl A I dated for 8 years and everything was amazing except the sex. She is caring, loving, and would do anything for me and is the most loyal girl I h... (369 words)

I like to touch myself...is this bad?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so we are gonna say that I am young like middle school young and well....I get really turned on by lots of things..im bi and even occasionally my best friend turns me on but she like a sister so never.Anyhoo I like to touch myself is this bad....?... (49 words)

Why don't I get wet anymore?

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13 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I have a girlfriend, and we've had a very good sex life. I am straight, I admit, but I love her so much, and her body does turn me on. (Bi, I guess?) Anyway, I've gotten wet just by using falaces, and doing the act on her, or even thinking about it! But now, I don't. I ge... (151 words)

B/f went on spring break without me!

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13 March 2009 (?)

- ok so i need some advice....my bf and i was to go out of town for spring break however at the last minute i wasn't able to go so i told him that. i would assume he wouldnt want to go because i wasnt and would want to spend time with me, but no he was still persistant on going. ... (113 words)

Should we just be 'best friends'?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - You know those stories about how a guy and girl know each other for a really long time and they're best friends and they fall in love and get together? Yeah, that happened to me. And then you know about those same stories but they end in actually breaking up and being totall... (326 words)

My guy threatens and accuses me of cheating!

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am losing my mind. My boyfriend accuses me of cheating on him on a daily basis. This has been happening for the past 9 months or so and I am really at a loss for what I can do at this point. The first few months I was patient and reassuring and would explain to him that I ... (371 words)

Is she just sick or could she be pregnant?

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13 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - This is just an update about the whole pregnancy question of mines I guess that was like 3 weeks ago. I don't know how to update my posts so I'm writing this as a new one. My girlfriend started puking the night after the day we made love and it continued till now and du... (265 words)

Under-developed?

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This is a little weird... I'm a 13 year old girl and well I look younger. You see I haven't really started puberty. My period has not come, I'm almost completely flat chested and the only changes I've had are hair down there and growing a little taller. I feel really ackw... (296 words)

How can I ignore these feelings towards my friend and continue with my boyfriend?

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13 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - So, I have a boyfriend named *Joe and he is absoutley perfect. We've been going out for a long time and he's a dream come true. He does everything for me and treats me like a princess. I'm truly in love with him and I can see myself spending the rest of my life with him. ... (166 words)

Trying for a second child after the death of our baby...

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13 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Trying for a second after the death of our baby. My husband and I were high school sweet hearts and both knew we wanted to have children. Sortly after we got married we tried to get pregnant after 3 years and many tries we finally got pregnant. Our daughter Piper Faith, w... (157 words)

Tormented woman needs coaching

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13 March 2009 (F)

age - Can someone help me think of the right words to say now that I have decided to take a painful step? I have known a man through work for a little more than a year now. From the moment we met I felt that unbelievable chemistry you always hear about, and I believe he does too. We ... (516 words)