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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My jealousy is killing me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been with my girlfriend for a month and a half now. And everything is going so well. She has a past with other boys and it bothered me a lot, but I got over it. But yesterday, I was on her Hyves (other sort of Facebook/Myspace) and I went to her ex-boyfriend's page and... (302 words)

I found my own sister in bed with my boyfriend!!!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My sister is having an afair with my boyfriend! I was going to his apartment and saw her car. When I got upstairs (I have a key) they were in bed. What should I do? I hate my sister now!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!... (45 words)

I get the feeling he wants to take our relationship to the next level.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been in a relationship for about 6 to 7 months but I feel he wants to have more then just love... meaning he wants to have sex with me. Should I and if I do decide what are the best condoms to use? ... (46 words)

She's found someone else but is it just a rebound relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my girlfriend about a year ago. We'd been a couple for 2 years. The problem is my parents doesn't agree if i dated her. I'm 24 and she is 22 now. So when we broke up I told her that I can't be with her any more. But the truth is I love her so much and she knows ... (379 words)

Should I continue on these pills?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I have been dating a guy for some time now. He's 38 and I am 20. I am also a teacher and I am ready to have a child. The problem is I have problems ovulating and my doctor puts me on fertility drugs - which I am taking now. He orders me to have sex regu... (165 words)

I need answers... To shave or not to shave, that is the question!!!

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5662 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi!!! I have a little doubt, its about pubic hair, I'm 15 years old and my vaginal area is really really hairy, would that be a turn off for guys??? Should I shave it, trim it, or leave it like it is? PD: I'm blonde but my pubic hair is dark brown.... (54 words)

Is it wrong to date an ex's sister?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it wrong to come on to your ex girlfriend's younger sister. I'm 22, my ex is 21 and her sister is nearly 19. I haven't been with my ex for 2 years. All opinions welcome. thanks... (42 words)

Help - lesbian sex advice needed!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've been with my girlfriend for about a month now. I'm 16, as is she. However, this is my first same sex relationship but it is not hers. She's a very confident lesbian, while I'm quite a bit more timid and only just come out as bisexual. Well we've experimented wit... (164 words)

His texts suggests that he likes me but I'm not sure... any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I would like to ask for advice if thats okay! I like this guy... he is very shy, well, not shy as such... just quiet... and so does not talk to anyone particularly a lot (except to the lads when they're goofing about). We talk more in text than we do in real life but although ... (162 words)

The test came back... POSITIVE!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had sex and I missed my period and when I took a test it came came back positive! I don't even love this guy. Should I get an abortion? Should I tell my parents? What should I do?... (44 words)

I sort of went through her stuff and found something I didn't want to see! HELP!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My future in this relationship depends on what you guys think. Please read it and give some wise advice. I don't want to make the wrong decisions, or tell her things I don't mean. Please read as much as you can, and let me know! I have a problem with my current girlfrie... (757 words)

I'm wondering if it sounds like he likes me? Is it possible it could develop into something more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex moved away and that's why we broke up. I went down to see him yesterday (first time in 2 years) and he: - Asked me if I'd like to go out for a drink with him. - Hugged me goodbye. - Ended up having a right laugh. A friend said she thought he was still 'fon... (195 words)

I'm 14 have a baby, want another. Should I?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and when I was 13 I wanted a baby really badly. Well I got one and my daughter is just the love of my life. The father left but still helps fnancially, other than that I am supporting the baby fully on my own, so don't even start with any of that "we have to pay for your ... (180 words)

Has anyone ever had sex in a public restroom?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Has anyone ever had sex in a public restroom? How did it happen? It seems like fun. How was it? Any tips for doing it? What positions work the best? ... (30 words)

He made up a story that a was seen cheating. Why would he do that?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been arguing for the last couple of months over the same things over and over. After finally talking everything over and analyzing our relationship we have decided to stay together and work things out. We had a long discussion about what ticks us off ... (272 words)

I find it very hard to make friends.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I find it very hard to make friends. I am very lonely at times especially after college when I go home and on some weekends. I don't know if it is my attitude as I don't believe I'm aggresive or whatsoever. For example at college, I go in, sit, listen to teacher, and lea... (123 words)

They are TWINS and they both like me!!! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay,I Need some advice please... one of my good guy friends likes me more than I thought and wants to start a relationship... but the problem occurs when him and his twin brother both like me. I have been into his brother since I first met him. I don't want to hurt his ... (72 words)

I like my friend's brother and she doesn't want me to like him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been talking to one of my best friend's brother for a little while and he asked me out (I said yes) but he is grounded and his parents took away his car until he graduates so he has to wait a month till I get my license to go out with me but he knows that and wants to ... (299 words)

Is texting another person with flirty messages when both parties are married considered 'cheating'?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age - Could readers please give their opinion. Is texting another person with flirty messages when both parties are married considered 'cheating'? My husband says it's just a stupid game to relieve boredom (yes you've guessed, he's the texter and I stumbled on some on his phone) but ... (164 words)

Can I trust him or have I made fool of myself?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy about a month ago.. his names James. Now I met him in a local pub whilst I was singing on the karaoke he was the karaoke man. I had a few to drink and when I was singing we started holding hands etc. Little did I know his girlfreind was sitting right behind us ... (368 words)

After using a spermicide is it safe to have oral sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may be a dumb question but it's important to us, so here goes. Me and my boyfriend use Encare spermicide inserts along with condoms. We're wondering is it safe for him to do oral on me after having sex, or would it be harmful if the chemicals from the spermicide got in his ... (65 words)

Can you ever really hate the one you love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex boyfriend and I had a pretty good relationship. He was generally really sweet too me, but when we got into the few arguements we did had, i'll admit we both got pretty nasty. All in all, I basically was inlove. I had pretty much everything I wanted with him and more... (405 words)

She's bi, I'm not...and feel she's interested in me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There's this girl i knew in my old school. I was in 7th grade and she was in 8th grade. We were just acquantinces. In 8th grade, i went to this freshmon for a day program, where u go to a highschool tht ur interested in and a current freshmon shows u around. I chose tht same ... (352 words)

Any way to handle this situation quietly and brush this guy off?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi - need some advice. I'm a first year university student and I recently applied for an internship at a gallery which I really want and need. I'm doing a history of art degree and without appropriate work experience, nobody will employ me at a higher level in the history and ... (536 words)

What to do about this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear All, in particular Satin desire, Star and Eve the ones who helped me with my problem over the weekend - i do hope you are there and read this.... (from im being played for a fool post) - the guy at work the bad night at the cinema!!! well today i did as you said ... (362 words)

Should my wife go out with our friend alone and talk to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I are both asking this. My wife is a teacher and in the same district for 3 years now. This past year they hired a new teacher. He is male and about 3 or 4 years younger than us. He is having a real bad time teaching this year. My wife and him have taken to ta... (269 words)

Weird pain in vagina

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay first off i had a colposcopy done about two weeks ago. the thing is they won't tell me what's going on. All the doctor said was that i need to get a pap smear every three months. they were unable to do a biopsy because i am pregnant. I'm worried sick and i constantly ... (149 words)

Is she interested in me? or just being friendly?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. On Friday I went to the pub and met a friend then got talking to a female friends of my friend. We spoke for ages about loads of stuff, laughed together etc. I then brought out my notepad to show my friend some musical material of mine and showed said female girl a we... (208 words)

What to do if your b/f is having a bad day

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - what would u do if ur BF is having a bad day? i want to destract him, and do something really sexy with him, but his ex gave him a blow job, and im willing to do it, but i just want to be sexy, so unless i have to, i dont want to just yet. so what is something sexy i can do t... (73 words)

3 years and can't get pregnant!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think something is wrong i have been trying to get pregnant for about 3years and nothing happen yet and im starting to worry that i cant and i wnat a baby so bad please haelp me out please.... (40 words)

Horny before period?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - most girls get super horny a few days before their period and during it. and i was wondering if there is anything that one can do so that they can control themselves? i hate being horny and i want to be able to control myself and not go to may man and stick his hand into my ... (66 words)

He asked if I'd love to come again...is that a good sign?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear cupid Aew days ago i went to a movie with a grou of new peole. Among them was a by whom i really liked. After he movie we went o grab some ice-cream and all the other girls were talking he ket on asking wich flavours i liked and ifi had fun at the movie. He even drove me... (122 words)

Why does my wife have to be in contact with the ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi everybody, need some help, i am 35 yrs, 2 kids and married for 3 years. i don't know if i have trust issues or just a general problem. my wife has been in contact with her ex-hubby regards her dog, which when they split up went with him. recently she bumped into him in a ... (224 words)

When he gets angry he takes it out on me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - right, well me and this lad have been seeing eachother. We have been out before, but now it is more of a seeing eachother thing, Im only 14. When he gets angry, he tends to take it out on me, and i hate it. He gets really frustrated and takes everything out on me. Earlier he ... (123 words)

What makes a woman sexy? guy's response

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Random question for the guys.. what makes a woman sexy? what does it take for you to capture there attention (and not just looks wise..) also.. How does a guy (if hes kinda shy) flirt with a girl say at college? like is making fun of her in a playful way a sign of flirting o... (63 words)

Shaving underarms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How do you get smooth, clean underarms, I have always shaved but it never gets all the hair away and I always have a shadow.... (25 words)

I want to be with her so badly and cant get her off my mind

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I love my ex girlfriend who broke up with me 4 months ago...there was a point in our relationship where i was going to visit her at school (Both freshman) and i didn't...That weekend served as the turning point and things snowballed and she broke up w me before i even got to ... (267 words)

Whats it like to be in love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This question can be to anyone really, what does it feel like to be in love? How do you know if you're in love and what does it mean to you? ... (33 words)

Views on virginity

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5748 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I was just wondering what age did people lose their virginity and having lost it at that age do you wish you had been younger/older when it happened? I'm not thinking of having sex or anything quite yet, I'm just curious :) Thanks x... (46 words)

I want to play! How long do I wait!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my BF said he was willing to have sex, but i said to take things slow cuz i dont want to be a whore. but i want him to finger me so bad. so how long should i wait?... (39 words)

He wants to runaway to marry..not telling the family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and me hav been goin out for over a year he recently has been having problems wih his family and asked me to marry him i sed yeh but wen i sed we should tell the family and frends he refused he wants a secret ceremony should i mary him or not? P.s im a muslim girl so ... (96 words)

Sexually attracted to my b/f's best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hello, first of all my English may not be good, but i try. The situation is that my boyfriend has a friend that i long ago am sexually attracted. I'm a 33 years old. I know my boyfriend for 13 years ago and at that time i also met one of his best friends. That happen in ... (506 words)

I'm really messed up over the ex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend of about a year broke up with me a few months ago. We went to different colleges and a few months in she decided she couldnt handle having a boyfriend. School, basketball, and other things were keeping her too busy and so she decided to call it quits. Whenever ... (1113 words)

Losing touch with friends and not sure what to do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Recently I have found that my best friend and one of my other friends have been spending loads more time together and are becoming better friends than I am with them, I'm finding that I also just don't get on with them as well as i used to, we haven't fallen out or anything, I ... (158 words)

Father says he can't go to college because of me..what can I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey. this may be a bit long it needs a bit of explaining. well basically i love my dad to pieces, he was always the best thing in my life, fun, rebellious everything my mother wasnt. i knew he had his flaws but i ignored them as you do when you were younger. yesterday i was ... (194 words)

Am I questioning my sexuality because of college?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I am 18 years-old and a freshman in college. I am currently struggling with a huge issue. I have been in a three year relationship with my boyfriend and I love him so much. Recently, I have been questioning my sexuality, something I have never, ever done before. But, I go ... (233 words)

The darn back door

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Hi I'm 15 years old and my parents are fairly strict. I have a boyfriend and we've been going out for about 6 months now and Ive seen him in person once before I moved and that was the first month of us going out and more about when it hit the 3 month mark of going... (276 words)

Boyfriend immature and not sure what to do about it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I have a problem basically with the inmaturity of my boyfriend, on his favor I have to say that he is the best guy I have ever met, he treat me like a princess, he does everything to please me, he is aware of my needs,I am his first real girlfriend, because he saids... (381 words)

How to expand my social circle

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, my question is about expanding my social circle, basically I know quite a lot of people but they aren't exactly people I would hang out with as we've only met at parties and stuff so my group of close friends is quite small and it would be nice if I could get to know some ... (146 words)

I don't think hes that into me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age - Dear cupid, I have been in a relationship for 20yrs, I'm 61 female and most of that 20yrs have been very lonely. I live far away from my grown-up children. My partner has always liked a drink and is very abusive in drink, I myself rarely go out as I am not much of a drinker.... (136 words)

I got back with him as I was scared he would hurt himself, how do I handle this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I've been dating this guy for a few months now. And I have to say our relationship doesn't make any sense. For one he's already talking about marriage and having kids. When he has 2 kids and I have 1. I told him I'm not ready for marriage, but he insist that we get a ring ... (191 words)

Do guys keep in touch with girls they've slept with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do guys keep in touch with girls they've slept with? I had a fling with someone, decided not to take things any further then changed my mind so I sent him a text. He replied straight away, then later started texting me and we were texting for a couple of hours. Would a guy be b... (85 words)

The day before we broke up he said I was perfect for him, what should I do/think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, my bf and me have beeen going out for about 6 months, and he broke up with me today- not for any particular reason:/ he just said he didnt want a gf and that he felt he didnt desrve me ect, this is all fine i get that, it was just so random, lituraly the day befo... (237 words)

I think my friend likes my b/f, what do I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - im 13 and so is my boyfriend.my friend tells me she doesn't like him but I don't believe her because she always feels on him when she hugs him and kisses him on the cheek and says I love you.she tells me its only like a brother sister thing but that's so not true.What should I ... (61 words)

Do guys take rejection to heart?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5706 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - do guys take rejection to heart.becasue a guy asked me out and i said no.this was few years ago.and i meet him recently and he still mad at me becasue i said when he asked me.i actually did like the guy but i didn,t know if he saw me as friend or girlfriend?... (53 words)

Was his comment out of fear or a true reflection of how he feels about me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been dating this man now for about 2 months. We are both divorced. I have an 8 year old son and he has two teenage sons. We always get along great. He tells me he cares about me and he acts as if he does. He told me a while back that he would like to get married agai... (234 words)

Any there any toys that can help make anal sex more comfortable?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok so my bf of 3 years and i have been playing around with anal and i was wondering if if there were any toys or "bum nummers" that would make it more comfortable? i want to casue i like it but we cant get very far casue it is someitmes unpleasent... please help... (55 words)

All of his friends say he likes me, but I don't know whether his does?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Basically I have this little problem. For the past 3 years I was seeing this guy a lot younger than me. It was a very nerve wrecking relationship and we split up 7 months ago. Just recently, this guy who is older than me told me he liked me and my heart skipped a ... (233 words)

Could I still get a purity ring if I had sex before marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5704 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have already had sex once and it was the biggest mistake of my life.i wanted to wait until i was married.could i still get a purity ring?a promise to myself that i will not have sex again until married?... (40 words)

How can I tell my b/f I want to break up? I don't wish to hurt him!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need to end things with my live-in boyfriend. This situation may sound totally screwed up but it's my life. I've come to except that nothing in life is easy. But to get to my story. I am currently living with my boyfriend. I love him he is a great person and I know he cares ... (474 words)

Is there any way to tell if a woman is a virgin? How can I ask without offending her or sounding stupid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5762 days ago

2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a virgin and i am going to wait to have sex until i meet that right woman. But my question is, is there anyway to tell if a woman is a virgin? there is a woman that i don't know all that well but I am interested in dating her. Is there any way to ask her if she is a virgin ... (70 words)

Don't want to marry him because of his mother's debt... cruel or smart?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I am 21 years old and I have been in a relationship for almost 4 years. My boyfriend and I have not really talked seriously about marriage, as I have made it very clear that I do not want to get married until after I get my PhD (in 5-6 years). I want to make sure I can get ... (361 words)

What does it mean when he says stupid things just for me to reply back to him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - what does it mean when you text a guy and they tell u to tell the other people ur texting to stop texting you because hes texting you? and what does it mean when he says stupid things just for me to reply back to him?... (46 words)

Could I be pregnant since I didn't get my period yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dont know what to do. I normally get my period the twenty third of feb and today is march 2nd and i still havent gotten it. I have had sex this month but it wasnt my first time and it was safe. My period isnt always on time but its never been this late before! I took two ... (90 words)

How to forget the man I had an affair with?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear Cupid, I had an affair with my co-manager who is happily married with two kids. Despite of being happy with his wife who was away from him as he was working overseas, he chose to have a relationship with me. Our secret affair was fantastic, the sex and everything. Unt... (231 words)

I'm done with this marriage! I need help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm done with this marriage...I need help... Someone please shine some light this way.. I need to divorce my husband of 5 years. I can’t deal with this loveless marriage anymore. In the twincities, have anyone tried using this website www.ourdivorceagreement.com ? or... (68 words)

I want to continue being intimate but I don't know how to tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that I am very attracted to. I think he is attracted to me as well. We have been intimate. I want to continue being intimate but I don't know how to tell him. What do I do?... (42 words)

How can my husband and the rest of the employees deal with their weird boss?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted my problem originally here: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husbands-boss-is-making-increasingly-weird-demands.html I can give you some more info on the context of the situation. My husband works for a firm that distributes computing equipment and closed-cir... (328 words)

What do you think? I don't want to be the girl he cheats on his g/f with!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 March 2009 (F) - I've had a crush on this guy since my freshman year in High school, i'm 20 now. I recently got a Facebook account and added him as a friend. He e-mailed me so we've been talking. He asked me to hang out and gave me his cellphone number. I text him and now he has my cell phone ... (499 words)

Will he ever ask me if I want to be his girlfriend? Is he making fun of me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

2 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There is a guy who is coming after me for more than 1 year. We aren't even friends, at the beginning he was a stranger to me. Since he first saw me, he kept staring and smiling at me every day. Then, he started to talk to me and he didn't even know my name for a couple of ... (366 words)

Should I believe that he loves me now?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have broken up with my boyfriend of 1.5 years as he felt unable to say that he loved me or and didn't know when he would be able to as he wasnt 'feeling it' and he knew thats what I needed from the relationship after all this time. This was hard to hear as he freely admitted ... (525 words)

I'm not good enough to be with but he says he can't be without me! Is he at it?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Basically me and mt partner of three years split up a few months ago and I still see him on the odd occasion and sometimes end up sleeping with each other, but I'm still deeply in love with him, he is sort of seeing someone else and it's breaking me up inside, he just told me ... (166 words)

If a man cannot penetrate a woman because she is still quite tight - would he hold it against her...?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - If a man cannot penetrate a woman because she is still quite tight - would he hold it against her or would he be quietly relieved that she hadn't been putting it about much? By the way, the woman in question is not a teenager.... (45 words)

Anyone still with their husband after an affair?

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2 March 2009 (?) age - Anyone still with their husband after an affair, and having trouble in knowing if you still love this man or feeling sorry if you leave him after all the his pleading of being sorry and never doing it again. I am a strong woman, but this affair killed me, I feel like I have ... (189 words)

All of a sudden my male friends all want to have sex with me!!! Why?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am completely confused. First off, I'm a 24 year old single parent. I have a 2 year old and have been raising him alone for a year and a half now. I've made a lot of friends, mostly male, over the last 3-4 years through work, and we've always been really cool. Over the last ... (150 words)

My girlfriend has anorexia. How do I help her?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello guys, I've got a big issue here. I don't have a clue how to deal with it, my girlfriend and I have been together for 8 months now, we had a break once and she kind of cheated on me then, Anyway I got over that part, she really needed me in her life. But I dont know... (260 words)

How can you know if a guy likes you for what you are?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How can you know if a teen age guy likes a girl only for her looks or likes a particular part of her body and nothing more? How can you know if a guy is not interested only in her looks and likes her for what she really is (personality)? How can you know if he wants a serious ... (68 words)

Am I being a fool and allowing myself to be played?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I don't know where to start with this. What I really want to know is, am I being a fool and allowing myself to be played? or is she real w/ what she has said... does she really love me and is true?.... I'm dating my best friend. we have been friends for over a year, and have... (445 words)

He won't respond to my text message about talking and it's REALLY frustrating me!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age - He won't respond to my text message about talking. I don't understand this. Why not a yes no or a maybe. If we wait any longer to talk about this misunderstanding there won't be anything to talk about. I have never been with an a man who won't communicate. I guess there is ... (60 words)

Newlywed blues

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2 March 2009 (F)

age - I have been married less than a year and for the most part it has been miserable. It is a second marriage for both, he is 58 and I am 50. We are both retired and while not rich we manage. When we got married last year, we both knew that I was not "in love" but love and care for ... (295 words)

How can I convince him to leave his family to be with me?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm a 42 year old woman, married for 17 years with two boys aged 14 and 12. A few years ago I got in touch with a man I fell in love with when I was 19 but due to family pressures we split up and I started to date my husband. When I met this man again I realised that I still ... (225 words)

Can you provide some suggestions on how I may react to recent detachment behaviour?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in a Long-Distance Relationship. Currently, he has a lot going on. (unemployed, singe-dad of 2, lives with mom and step/dad). He often withdrawls which I’m sure it is for him to refocus on his situation. He’s admitted being somewhat depressed (which tells me he’s mo... (429 words)

So close to something great, but unable to get there.

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been dating my girlfriend for a year and 1/2. We live an hour apart. Generally spend weekends together and sometimes weeknights. There has been growing problems about her expressing her feelings for me. I know she loves me, I can see it in her eyes. She has difficulty ... (279 words)

How good is Spermicide?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Which spermicide works the best and what are the chances of it not working properly? (Never used it before). My girlfriend likes to make love without condoms because we feel closer that way but we also would not like a baby so I am wondering just how good is spemicide?... (50 words)

Help ! I wanna confront my feelings for what He did to me... but I can't.

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so pissed off but at the same time sad. Please take your time to read this, it might be long but please read it and help me... I went out with this guy - let's call him Bob and so we lasted like 2 months and a half. I later found out that in his AIM away messages he alway... (731 words)

I know I need to own up but it is going to ruin everything!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend who is working abroad asked me to to go out and visit him for a holiday so we started planning and for some stupid reason thats when I stared lying. As the weeks passed I daren't tell my parents about the holiday (I have never travelled alone before and they don't ... (309 words)

Is he afraid to talk because he is afraid of closeness?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age - He said he would talk with me about what happened. But it has been two weeks. I did see him but he said he does not want to talk about it yet. I don't understand this. I just want an honest open discussion. It is hard for me to get closure without knowing why he runs away ... (227 words)

Why does my ex still want to remain friends with me?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex boyfriend is desperate to be friends with me. We went out for well over 4 years and we still care for each other. We haven't really talked at all for 2 months, just formally so I could give back his stuff and exchange letters for closure for myself to move on but he ... (151 words)

Does he care about what happened to me in my past or does he just want to score?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is really weird for me to say or ask about so please bear with me. I'm 20 and have a boyfriend the same age, I've been with him for like 2 months. We never had sex and I told him I'm not ready, I'm a virgin he is not. We just make out, he always tries to put his hands... (257 words)

Does this mean my wife has desires for someone else?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My wife of 8 years says to me, "I just don't feel the same for you as I did when we married". Does this mean that she has desires for someone else?... (32 words)

Can a person respect their partner if they have an affair?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age - my question is Can a person really respect their partner if they are having an affair and go to each others houses to have sex? ... (26 words)

How do I reassure him that he hasn't ruined my first time?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Me + my fwb i told him i was a virgin + b4 we i told hin we did stuff + now i told him he feels bad + that he has ruined my first time by doing what we did we havent slept with each other what can i say 2 him 2 reasure him that he hasnt ruined any thing 4 me + that i wanted 2 ... (74 words)

Any tips on asking a girl out?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey there I have my year 12 formal and there is this girl who I'd like to ask but I dnt know how to ask her can anyone give me any helpful tips like what should I say if anyone can help that be awsome Thnx ... (51 words)

Rythym broken during sex..my fault?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - often when im having sex with my bf he falls out meaning we hav to pause and out him back in. is this my fault if so what am i doing wrong and how can i stop it happening as it is kinda breaking the rhythm? many thanks ... (51 words)

How do you let go of someone that love & care for so much?

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2 March 2009 (F)

- How do you let go of someone who you care for so much and love? I think I need to break up with my bf because he can be very disrespectful towards me, especially when he has been drinking. But the thing is, he can be the best bf I have ever had at times, and whenever I go... (265 words)

I become "damp" and wonder if others can smell me?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Several times duringthe day at school I bring myself to a degre of sexual stimulation that I becime damp and being at school I cannot change underwear each time. I was wom\ndering if anybody could smell and know what I have been doing. I cannot detect any odor myself. I have ... (58 words)

My boyfriend is bi and cheated on me with another man!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found a few months ago my boyfriend of 5 years is bi sexual. I found out through texts I found on his phone and pictures and also I found out through a device I installed on the computer which showed up as he been looking at gay porn sites . I confronted him about this and ... (316 words)

How can you have this typeof relationship & not talk about the problems?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age - i got a bit jealous and got mad. I apologoized to him. My jealousy was uncalled for but we had just been back toghether after a 2 month seperation, so my trusting him still needed reassurance. He told me it was disrpectful to him that I did not come over to the table where ... (277 words)

I want my sister's deadbeat boyfriend's friend to GO AWAY!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, so i started dating this guy that i met through my sister that isn't living her life right, who is dating a dead beat guy. the guy i met was his friend. i knew it was a bad idea but they said he was nothing like my sisters boyfriend. and he didnt seem like it. so a whole ... (513 words)

She is sexually stressed! What can I do?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with a woman for 10 months now, and we love each other alot. Things have been going well, although last night she admitted that sexually she feels a little stressed out. Part of the reason, she stated, was that she has alot of problems with her mother and brother,... (453 words)

My boyfriend gets mad if guys flirt with me.

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend gets jealous if other men hit on Me. For example, someone sent Me roses for valentines day and I didn't know from who. He got angry at Me. How is this my fault I still don't know who they were from. I went back home for 1 week once and only called 1 time was busy ... (165 words)

Torn between my mom and my dad who has major issues.

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My mum found out that my dad had been cheating on her although their marriage,she told him to leave he came to stay with me and my wife as he had nowhere else to go,my wife did not want him at our house because of the things he had done so i spoke to my mum and she took him ... (283 words)

Should I leave it for him to call me?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - ive met a new guy (online) and we've now had 5 dates in the past 2 weeks. He lives about 30 miles away. We get on really well, lots of laughs and banter and alot of chemistry. He texts me messages to say I make him smile alot etc. I have told him I would love to see him ... (158 words)

I fall in love very easily!

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a problem. I fall in love very easily and normally is unconditional. In that aspect no other woman catches my eye. Now I did it again but, she does not feel the same. Therefore my question is how can I stop falling so quickly. That way when I fall again it will not ... (70 words)

How to improve my reputation?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age - What can I do to improve my reputation? Now that I am feeling stronger after a bad divorce and can take stock of my life, looking back I see a trail of people I have disenchanted and alienated since my twenties in both my personal and professional life. Some I would like to ... (191 words)

I feel a break up coming on and am trying to determine exactly why?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife and I have been together for 5 years now and almost married for two, and have a 3 year old daughter. Our relationship started out as your fairy tale love at first sight and I even played the night in shining armor so to speak when her and her mother got into a fist ... (1000 words)

Lied about virginity 12 years ago..trust has been lost

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had Posted my question yesterday under the headding He found out I lied about my virginity 12 years ago! Hey guys thanks a ton for all your inputs and thoughts. Well just to add further clarity for a few of you yes he very clearly and specifically asked me before we ... (516 words)

Is this my period? Or something else?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I got my period today, well at least i think it's my period. It's not your normal, red flowy kinda thing. but like when i went to take the bathroom, i looked at the toilet paper, and it was reddish pink. so i was like oo i have my period, and i put a pad on. when i went to the ... (213 words)

I need and want her back horribly

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I broke up I accused her of cheating cause she was sneaking around and hiding talking to her ex and going out to lunch with him and hiding it from me, and started wearing some Jewerly he had gotten her for christmas again.(Normally that wouldn't be a bad ... (969 words)

Getting over a bad sexual experience

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm feeling traumatized. So the second guy I ever tried to have sex with completely crushed me. He asked me up to his room and things progressed, then when i tired to get undressed, he pulls away from me (pushing me off him) and says something about needing to get some sleep. ... (281 words)

Am I pregnant even though I have a heavy period?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, all. Ready for another ''am I pregnant?'' question? My period was two days late, though I did get it and it seemed to last as long as a normal period did and was just as heavy. I took a pregnancy test today, just to be sure. It was negative, but I'm still wondering ... (78 words)

Her parents won't let her be with me

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2 March 2009 (M)

- SORRY ITS long..... So I'm in a tight spot.... I've been sorta seeing this girl for almost a month. We've been close family friends for a while but, my parents don't really approve. My dad thinks nothing good can come from me dating her, and he doesn't approve of the f... (227 words)

I get blood when he fingers me

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last weekend, my boyfriend fingered me and afterwards there was blood. I talked to quite a few people that I trust and they all said I might've ripped my hymen which I believe I did. But just yesterday, he was fingering me again and there was more blood. Not as much as there ... (66 words)

I would like to ignite my passion with her again

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2 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - About a year a ago while at language school my Brazilian language teacher and I hit it off. Her name is Yara. While the other students in my class would ask questions about the food and Brazil I would ask questions about her. You mentioned asking her out on a date. I did ... (335 words)

Fate? Just a really weird coinicidence?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Almost 1 year ago i called an old boyfriend and another guy answered the phone the new owner of that number and from then until now we are still communicating with each other but we've never met in person the strange thing is i now have strong feelings for this guy feelings ... (90 words)

Virgin who didn't feel tight?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I recently lost my virginity at the age of 28. I had always wanted to wait until I got married but as the years have gone by, it's just gotten harder and harder to wait. I have been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years and have known him for 8, so it felt like ... (400 words)

What do you think love is?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 years old and i was wondering what is love? is different kinds of love? I'm just curious. if you've been in love what was it like? if you haven't been in love what do you want it to be like? if you don't wanna be in love why not? so this question is for anyone who ... (156 words)

Flirting magic needed!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! This is a bit long, so I really hope you have the patience... I recently turned nineteen and the guy I'm into is turning twenty on March 8th. We met in Speech class (required for any degree) four weeks ago and I basically wasted the first three weeks not talking to him ... (759 words)

I hate kissing him knowing he has a girlfriend!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Theres this boy i'm talking to and we love each other dearly but he has a girlfriend.He said he's not in love with her but he does love her and he told me that he's in love with me and tells me he loves me and that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me ... (283 words)

Like me? How do I get him to ask me out?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so there is this guy. he is a senior and i a junior. (high school) we only see each other once a month. he liked me my freshmen year and i started liking him my sophomore year. so this last month we had to o to a workshop sort of thing. we go to a martial arts class together... (289 words)

Should I talk to him? Stand up to the parents?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay, my boyfreind and i were together for one full year. I loved him sooo muuch. we broke up on December 20Th 2008 and actually i still love him. We broke up mutually, but reluctantly, because of my parents. they gave him the cold shoulder from the begining just because he had ... (292 words)

3 some with bf & another male possible?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Sorry for the fashionable part of the title. I have a best bf in the world we got on great and have a super sex life. I have a few secret fantasies most of which i keep secret and would never even dream of trying or suggesting to him as sometimes a fantasy should remain as ... (269 words)

I thought I was in love, but now I have feelings for someone else!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for nearly two years now and we have really had some ups and downs. We've broken up, saw other people, and got back together quite a few times. He's away right now, but planning to come back to me and actually move in with me sometime this ... (284 words)

Why do girls go back to abusive relationships?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - why do girls go back to bad realationships, being it unhealthy or abusive? a friend asked me why im in a abusive realationship and i didnt no what to say. so please help me with what to say... (39 words)

Help settle an argument!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are having an argument about cheating. No neither of us is but we can't agree as to what can be defined as cheating. I said that if I made a girl on girl video (hypothetical) but he wasn't allowed to see it BUT I told him about it, it wasn't cheating.... (143 words)

I think my boyfriend does not trust me!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think My boyfriend does not trust me. I live in a small town and know alot of people and am really just nice and introduce him to everyone. I love him would never cheat on him but yet he gets jealous or something even when we were out with my mother. i love him dearly and ... (186 words)

Is she more confused then me? What gives...

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - About 2 weeks ago my wife out of no where says she wants a divorce. We have been together eight years and although tings have been very rough at times we have always made it through. We are still good friends and still live together at the moment until our lease is up. The ... (309 words)

She doesn't seem to be happy with me any more... should I just let her go?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi there to all of you aunt's out there. Well the story went like this, me and my g/f made love 2 days ago and I completely undressed her that time (but I forgot to tell her earlier that I want to have a regular day with her next time I come over because I got lost when we... (559 words)

I'm so sick of guessing what is going on with him!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know this man loves me his friends tell me. They say he really loves you but you should move on. What does that mean. I know he is afraid of trusting when in a relationship. He says he loves me in many ways but why doesnt he just say he loves me as friend? Is he just ... (173 words)

Being used just for sex?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him came to me a condom and ready to go amd i said no because i'm a virgin now he said next week he want's me to suck his penis.but he want's he's friend there to.is he using me just for sex?should i do it?... (53 words)

Been out a few times, didn't work out..confused!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, im only 14 and i dont care if people say 'your too young to be in love'. I am. I am really confused about me and this boy. We have been out a few times, and they didnt work out. We still both love eachother, but we are scared to try it again. He told me we should move on, ... (118 words)

He doesn't know whether he wants to be with me or his ex!!!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Almost three weeks ago, my boyfriend decided that he needed time because he was confused about wanting to be with me or his ex girlfriend. I told him that I would give him time, and that is what I did. I started no contact and for almost three weeks, I didn't hear from him. ... (236 words)

How can guys be so sleazy?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There are these two guys who are like best friends that I know. They both sleep around and when we went to a party once, one of them was having sex with a random girl and his friend joined him after a while and they "double teamed" her. The guys joke about it and say that the ... (92 words)

Secondary school friends or Uni friends???

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My birthday is coming up soon this weekend and I don't know whether to celebrate it with my friends from secondary school or university. The reason being as follows: Although I have known my secondary school friends for most of my life, we haven't been close as before for th... (124 words)

Can a guy love one woman and be sleeping with another?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age - Hello, everyone! Can a guy love one woman and be sleeping with another? He has indicated his love for me but is with a girlfriend. Now I'm with another guy and the guy who talks about our love is angry with me. Should I tell the guy who say she loves me that I love him as ... (118 words)

Was this experience an orgasm?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - last night my boyfriend went down on me and after a few minutes i got an amazing feeling! my vagina felt like it was pumping my legs and hips went all funny and all i wanted to do was scream, my breathing got heavier and i couldn't stop squeezing my hands around my boyfriends ... (88 words)

I'm kind of insecure as my boyfriend is very attractive and a lot of girls like him!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm 21 and I live in the US and my 2 year boyfriend lives in Mexico. He comes and goes because he is in school over there. I have a big issue with him not doing a lot of things, I am a wonderful girl, I'm smart, strong, outgoing, easy going, funny, and the problem is I just ... (250 words)

Engaged and cheating

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am engaged and been in a relationship for almost 7 years. However, I have cheated a handful of times throughout the relationship. Since I have been engaged I have cheated 3 times with different people. I feel guilty and know that this can't continue once I am married. I find ... (136 words)

I am so confused... I think I'm gay but I don't want to be...

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I am a 13 year old boy, when I masturbate, I think about boys feet. I know I have a foot fetish. When I look at girls they don't turn me on... I tried to watch a hot girl on tv and masturbate but I couldn't, Am I gay? I really don't want to be gay, I am stressed out bec... (150 words)

Almost losing a close family member has made me see life differently. Should I tell her I love her?

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend broke up with me about 4 months ago and it really crushed me. We were really in love and distance and other circumstances kept us apart. Even after the break up we almost got back together and she confessed her love for me but due to other reasons like it being ... (299 words)

Did I pop my cherry???

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I are very much in love, believe it or not. We had sex and it didn't really hurt... and there was no blood. Just a tight burning sensation. Someone told me I probably already popped my cherry via tampons or masturbation. I mean the last time we had sex it f... (146 words)

Hair problem!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! When I wash my hair it gets really curly and I like that. The only problem is is that when it dries, it gets frizzy. I would really like to keep my hair looking in the way I like it, like if I go to school or something. Is there anything I can use in my hair that will ... (89 words)

Does his attentiveness and effort mean anything in terms of his interest in me?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met a guy online and he just asked me out. We went to the same college years ago so I know he’s not some strange old man :) We’ve been emailing for just over 2 weeks and I've seen load of pictures of him. He’s very attentive to what I say and remembers things I like. O... (169 words)

Boyfriend drama!

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just found out that my boyfriend of a year is cheating on me. What should I do? Should I give him another chance or should I break up with him? Please help me.... (37 words)

Crying during anal sex normal?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is crying doing anal sex normal it was so painful my boyfriend said if i don't get things straight he will brake up with me what should do... (28 words)

I think he's cheating and seeing other women

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am a 33 year old woman who is in a relationship with a married man that has been going on for a while, him and his wife are separated, and we live together, i feel that he is cheating on me because when we are home together he turns his phone off, or when a particuk... (220 words)

Vaginal pimples normal?

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2 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi...um....i don't know why, but i've been getting pimples in my vaginal area and i havent had sex or anything! i don't know what to do! is it normal? is there anyway to get rid of it? with house hold appliances cause i dont want my mom to find out. please help me!... (53 words)

I think dad will ruin plans to have sex

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2 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok well my dad asked me to talk to im before having sex and me and my gf are planning to very soon and her dad know and i think hes getting her birth control pills i want to be responsible so he will trust me more but i think he will ruin our plans wat should i do... (59 words)