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Archived questions from: 14 March, 2009 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Tell me how to move on, please tell me how to live a life!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, It's been a month since my ex of a year and half broke up with me. I've tried to move on so hard, but I can't. I can't stand her absence in my life. I gave her everything I had. I gave up on everything for her. I've gaven up on my life and studied so hard to b... (410 words)

I've gone and dumped my boyfriend by text. And I didn't mean to!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey all. i need ur advice. ive gone and dumped my bf of 4 months when i didnt really mean to. when i first met him i really didnt know what i wanted, but over the months ive developed really strong feelings for him and its scaring me. due to this i seem to have all these in... (384 words)

He smiles when he says hey, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 14 and have only had one boyfriend but I've told people I've had tons. I've also said is kissed a guy before but that's a lie too. I started liking this guy and I want to know if he like me or not. I think he does but I'm not sure. We don't see each other that much but when ... (132 words)

What kind of moves do guys use if they want sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This guy invited me to his house the next time I'll be home (which will be around Easter). He hasn't said what we'd be doing; he just said perhaps the next time I'm home we can just meet at his house. I'm hoping we watch a movie or have dinner or something like that. Two ... (187 words)

Torn between my current boyfriend and ex-boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Im so confused at the minute. I was with my ex for 5 months and since then Ive been with my current boyfriend for 16 months. I love him very very much but every day now I find myself thinking about my ex more and more. I would never cheat on my boyfriend by the... (142 words)

Dating for 8 years, now he's moving away for work - am I overreacting to his comments?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Boyfriend is moving 4 hrs away for a new job. He has been unemployed since Oct 08. He would like something closer but it's just not happening. We have been dating for 8 yrs. Relationship has not been perfect at all. Alot of work on my part. But i have always been a supportive ... (183 words)

He might get expelled! And that would ruin my life...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - HELP!!! okay so the guy i like got suspended.. (ugh) but i really like this guy. I talked to him recently and he went to juvi and might get expelled!! I was so crushed, I started to cry a little. No body knows how much i care and love him. He is my best friend. and not ... (105 words)

Pain after anal sex, how do I stop it hurting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I just had anal sex and it hurt alot so we stopped. I'm having a lot of pain in that area. How do I get it to stop hurting?... (34 words)

His wife is moving back in, I've got to move out but still wants to see me! What should I do?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i have been dating this man for about 7 years he is married but him and his wife were separated, me and this guy did everything together i fell head over heels in love, he told me that he loved me too but the problem came in at when i moved in with him we have been living ... (204 words)

Help I'm a fussy eater need advice!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know it's not a relationship question but i know there's always some great answers here... I was just wondering if anyone knows any websites that can give good healthy recipes. I'm an extremely fussy eater and i mostly just eat junk. I'm not exactly fat, and i do quite a... (81 words)

Is it ok to see another guy before getting back with ex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I dated this guy for 5 years all throughout college, and I never really got to experience single life. There were no real problems in our relationship until a few months ago, when I found out that he was flirting and talking to another girl. After fighting about that for a co... (193 words)

How do I forget him, it's not easy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had this male mate i was really close to and we slept together which was a huge mistake as we now both hate each other coz of things that have been said. Anyway i found out how much of an idiot he actually is and i need to forget about him but i seem to not be able to and i... (151 words)

He's being appropriate with me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I went on a date with a boy 2 weeks ago and we had a really good time. Afterward, we went back to my room and made out for a little and then he was the one that ended it and said he should go. A few days later, we talked and he told me that he didn't want a relationship because ... (335 words)

I don't know why I'm so jealous!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Help me! I don't know why I'm so jealous! Im 15, bi and really fancy my best friend. She knows i like her but she doesnt like me that way. however, i find myself really jelous when my other best friend goes round to hers, or shopping with her, or hangs round with her at ... (271 words)

How do I tell the father that I'm pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and definitely pregnant. my mom and dad knows but the father doesn't know. how do i tell him also i used a condom but I'm sitting here pregnant?... (30 words)

Chance of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Someone please,help me out? (risk of pregnancy?) I'm with the most amazing person- we have been together for over 2 years now,but we have never had sex (I want to be a virgin until my marriage). However what we do is usually called 'dry sex' - we touch each other and let ou... (197 words)

I love my friend more than my own girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Right i have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 years now and recently i have been hanging out with a friend who is a girl and i don't know who want to be with anymore. i think i love my friend more than my own girlfriend. me and my friend have only had a little friendly ... (77 words)

I'm having second thoughts

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi aunts. I don't really know where to start. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost three years, and we live together. We have come through a lot together, and I am quite attatched to him. But lately, I'm having second thoughts. Sometimes I wonder if I can really be wi... (226 words)

Is he ever coming back or is he just using me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so me and my boyfriend were together 10 months. Then out of nowhere he says he wants a break. We havent been argueing or anything. So it was a huge shock to me. Things were going really good i was happy, And he seemed to really happy. When he asked for this break i instantly ... (376 words)

There's no limit to love, right?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi (: first off thanks for answering this, or even reading it haha. Okay so I'm 13 years old, but I guess I'm mature for my age. Me and my friends sometimes add people we meet on our social networking site, and they're not pedos or anything, at least... i hope not, haha. ... (310 words)

Hot and cold relationships

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi just an update! i wrote ages ago: .... why would a guy say one minute he wants to be "a friend" but say he used to have feelings for you more than any other girl? next minute he avoids you, next week speaks to you .. then tries to hold your hand/be touchy feely..and a... (376 words)

I've been trying so hard to lose weight

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I've been trying so hard to lose weight, and it's slowly happening, but right now i just need to know... 1] Is there any chocolate which won't be so bad to have every now and again... 2] Are there any healthy recipes i could try and make? 3] Do you have ... (103 words)

I don't know how I feel about my bf anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

- hey everyone in dear cupid land... im really conufused.... i dont know how i feel about my bf anymore.... me and him have been together for almost 9 months (he's 17 nearly 18 and im 18 nearly 19). we get on really well and he always tells me he loves me. the only thing i... (207 words)

Underappreciated and sexually frustrated

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and gay, and have been dating my boyfriend for the last 2 years. He's 33 so a bit older, but that's not why i am here today. I'm a very sexually active person, that's just the way i am. I don't sleep around or anything like that - completely monogamous. But i am feeli... (373 words)

Can he change or should I just leave now?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Pretty much, me and my bf have been going out for about 18 months now, were in a LDR (200 miles apart) and everythings pretty good overall, however... After a while i get upset because we havent talked in a while, like 4,5 days, no communication whatsoever. I send him texts in... (231 words)

Did I miss the boat with a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age - I fell in love at 16 and got engaged at 18 my boyfriend went to service. I met a boy at work who I heard was crazy about me. He wanted to ask me out. I happened to know that he was seeing a girl already steady on and off. I finally went for a car ride with him, and he ... (149 words)

Its not healthy for me to have this feelings for my teacher

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everbody, i know ur just about to kill anyone who wants advice about their teacher's crush. but please. hear me out. I have had really strong feelings about my teacher for the past year or so. These feelings just kind of started as an admiration. He's a music instruct... (420 words)

Guy at work staring at me, does he like me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Hoping that someone might be able to give me some insight. I started a new job a few weeks ago and since working there I have tried to knuckle down and do a good job so haven't taken much notice of other people and more or less just spent time talking with members ... (602 words)

Just wandering.. are guys & girls really that different?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F) - Hi Cupids! Started seeing a guy about a month ago and we have had several lovely dates and get on really well. He phoned me last 2 nights ago and said he wanted to see me - I am meeting him tomorrow again. Just wandering.. are guys and girls really that different? I wan... (150 words)

Follow up: I am dating my older married boss

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5563 days ago

14 March 2009 (?) age 36-40 - Well, alot of you had ALOT of negitive feed back with my first question, but I was willing to give it another try. for those of you who didnt read my first question, I have been involved with my older married boss for 7 months now. He just left his wife and wants to go publi... (117 words)

How to get over my first love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5730 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well im 15 and just broke up with my gf well it was a mutual break up. we broke up cause we were fightin about stupid stuff and she was doun stupid stuff like drinking and smokin alot and i just dont wanna deal with that and she doesnt want to have to deal with me. so my ... (165 words)

I asked him to leave and he was gone within 10 minutes!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have been married for 9 years. We have been having problems for a while(Nov). He was laid off work and I thought I did all the supportive things to help him. He also had a part time job at a department store which he still has. Since working there he changed, ... (235 words)

He wants to have sex. How to make him wait?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5755 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just started seeing this guy about a week ago. He is a sweet guy but he always wants to make out and do other stuff. I told him that I dont have sex without a commitment, as he still hasnt asked me out yet but he keeps pushing for it. Sometimes, we will be kissing and he will ... (170 words)

Breaking up because I'd like to join the national guard?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i graduate in 3 months and i've decided to go the army national guard. my boyfriend of two years doesn't think it's a good idea but i really want to go. we had a huge fight and we broke up. recently i met someone and i think i fell in love all over again but i still love me ex. ... (89 words)

I really like a girl that is in a long distance relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I really like a girl that is in a long distance relationship. We are both in high school so she hardly ever sees the guy. I feel that there is a mutual interest but I do not know how to approach the situation because she seems happy with him. But, I really like her and we are ... (142 words)

I'm really confused about what happened

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Sorry again keep asking about this annoying experience ....For what you answered me...Some might think that i hide some information acccording to what one guy saying it doesnt make sense that he came to your bed ...raised your blanket erected and didnt do something ..and iam ... (281 words)

Had sex with best friend's brother & now period is late!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and I had sex with my best friends brother- he is 23 and has a pregnant girlfriend. I can't bring myself to see her or him or anyone from their family because- well. We didn't use protection- an I'm a week late for my period.. :S. What do I do?! Am I pregnant even though ... (120 words)

Everything was great until we got married

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i have been married for less than two years, before that i was with my now husband for 7 years. everything was great until we got married apart from the few ups and downs,he just seemed to take me for granted spending time with his friends and on the computer til all hours, i ... (226 words)

He called me the biggest slag in town!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i was close mates with this lad (A), we told each other everything, then we slept together, and we didnt use protection, but afterwards, he soon chnaged, stopped talking to me, but was fine with everyone else, then we had an argument, and he called me the biggest slag in ... (283 words)

Girlfriend and I becoming distant and now we're going on spring break

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girl friend and I have been on rough terms lately. We got in a fight b/c of something she did then I needed time to think and didn't talk to her for a while. She said she was drowning that week and she blames me for it b/c she thought of me as her main support force. So by ... (479 words)

Unhappy in a foreign country

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5050 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello to all. So here is my situation. I left my job, family, friends, and country to be with the love of my life. We got married and I currently live in his country. We've been married for two years now but recently I've come to realize that I'm not happy at all. At time... (482 words)

Sex once or twice is OK?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is there something wrong with wanting sex more than once or twice a week? I find that sort of frequency EXTREMELY difficult, but on asking for help on here I've sort of been told that it's not that bad.... (42 words)

How do I let her down gently?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay I am only 18 so don't accuse me of being some pedo old man lol, but I was on my way home back from college and it was raining really heavily, but I saw this school girl walking by the side of the road - and there was steep grass banks either side, no pavements and cars ... (303 words)

He still hasn't given me an orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a month and he still hasn't given me an orgasm. After a couple of weeks I brought it up and he got kind of offended. He then talked about how he didn't want our relationship to be about sex. I told him 'no it isn't about sex, but I ... (300 words)

Should I let go of him for his sake?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) no i aint written on here in ages, but thats because everythings been going fine. well so i thought. I met this really awesome lad through a close mate who i really close to him. we became close from the off. thats now developed into a brother sister relation... (230 words)

Will he think I'm cheap for sleeping with him? Was that all he wanted?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hey people i split up with my boyfriend of one year 3 weeks ago on my terms as we argued all of the time and he wasnt very nice to me. Im quite happy about it. 2 weeks ago, i went out and met a ver attractive boy. We kissed and he asked for my number and said that e would li... (422 words)

Who has it worse: the one being cheated on, or the one doing the cheating?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age - Do you think that if you are the cheater and are full of remorse and regret for what you have done and love and adore your spouse dearly, could it possibly feel worse than being the one who has been cheated on? Before you ask, we were going through a very bad patch when my ... (122 words)

Is it possible for my vagina to become tight again?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4267 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya. I'm a virgin and wondering... If i was to have sex now once evry month.. then did not have sex or anything for 5years in a row. would my vagina become "tight" or still stay loose. thanks... (50 words)

I got back together with my ex, only to find out he cheated on me. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Soo. My boyfriend and I dated for 10Months. We were usually a really happy couple everyone always said how cute we were. We would call eachother in the morning and hang out till late at night, everyday. whenever we got in a fight and i would think about breaking up he w... (840 words)

Is this the right way to do it for the first time? Does he make sense?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hiya, im 18year's old and i met this guy through the net he's 28. he's always been straight with me from the start.we're different religons and will nt be able to get married hesn ever lead me on. now before you think fo me in a bad light i want to say.not as a excuse but i'v... (348 words)

What sorts of things should I look for to figure out if he likes me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right ok imagine theres a lad/guy that really liked you at once point however because you as a prson were quite shy and didn't put it out there that you liked him back he never did anything about it. Also that when comfronted by people in the class you denyed liking him to them ... (244 words)

Do guys mind/like if a girl sends them a long letter regarding feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I really want to send a guy who is currently in a different country, an email explaining how I feel about it, in depth. I know a letter is far more personal but I just wanted to send an email, but I don't want him to be put off??? Even though I can't think how a long ... (104 words)

I'm still in love with my ex. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5758 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my EX asked if I have a Boyfriend and I said no cos I don't and I don't want one right now cos am still inlove with my EX but he doesn't know.. haha.anways when I told him no I don't have a BF.. he siad I was lying cos how can a good looking girl like you not have a man ... (188 words)

What was her purpose in telling me about her plans to move out, what is it that she wants?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have this situation where I started to see someone who was married. She and I got along great and she kept telling me she was getting a divorce. She told me that she was in love with me after a couple of months, but the separation never came. I never demanded it. I j... (663 words)

We are very happy, except... he's not interested in me sexually!!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5337 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 5 years. I am 36 and he is 29. We are best friends, soul mates, partners and co-conspirators at times. We both love each other madly and would rather spend time with each other than anyone else on earth. We have the usual tiffs that all ... (543 words)

My son's father is completely heartless. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Sometimes we live our lives base in ilusion, expecting thing or people to get better, but at the end nothing changes.....The sad story is that i fall in love with the wrong person, a man who has done evrything in his hand to make me believe i am nothing, that i am just a sex ... (279 words)

He's younger and I worry this is an issue for him - do I ask him out anyway?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I recently met someone on a course during the course we seemed to just click. I felt really attracted to this guy but at the time he had just started dating someone, so thought ah well he's taken so kind of backed off. 2 weeks later though they split up. We've since ha... (196 words)

Husband chats up other women and tries to meet them, what shall I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i need help.i am 27 with 3 children and another due soon.for the past 2 years i have constantly found my partner on online dating websites looking for women who live around our area.also he when he goes out he chats up other women,takes their numbers and has also tried ... (161 words)

Why did he move so close to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - hi i had a relationship for 6 months, it is now over due to him stealing from my account, i have pressed charges, and he is saying he had full access to my money as and when he wanted, i used to give him the card to take the odd 10 pound out but not the amount he took, nearly ... (178 words)

Guys are so nosy. Why are they like that?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I work as a contractor in an airbase. 2 years ago I became friends with a GI that left after wards, been in touch since. Each time the communications are more often and familiar. The thing is he sent me a picture of him in his honor guard uniform, so I have it on my cell ph... (195 words)

She's a couple days late, but we are so scared. What are the chances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I live in the US. My GF of 17 months might be pregnant, we had intercourse 7 days ago today. she is worried cause her period was suppose to happen and it hasnt yet. I did use a condom with spermicidial lube..but after i came, i kept going. and i think a little of my come might ... (188 words)

I can't stand the way we talk to each other!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone I'm having a little trouble getting through to my fiance. We've been together for a long time, and i am currently prego with a baby girl due this June. Ok so here's the issue...i cant stand the way we talk to each other!!! It's usually him who starts with the ... (196 words)

Is divorce the only reasonable option when someone refuses to try?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - We met when I was 16. Since then we've been the best of friends, lovers, secret keepers, supporters of the other's dreams, family, and an occasional shoulder to cry on. If I had to sum it up I'd say it saved us both when we needed it. Our relationship gave two outcasts shelter ... (542 words)

How can we tell my parents we want to live together when they don't like him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well am only 17 years old this year am going to be 18. I'm the only girl my parents have out of 5 kids so they take care of me alot. But I've been dating this guy for about 1 and half year. My parents don't really like him so at first we both agreed to make them think that ... (151 words)

I don't want to mess up my first time with my boyfriend

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 and a virgin. I want my boyfriend to have sex with me but I am scared not knowing what to do or if it will be any good. You see, I don't want to mess this up since he has experience with one other person in the past. Though, he hasn't done it for nearly one year. ... (91 words)

Am I wrong to desire what he feels about me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I asked this guy last night,via email about his feelings for me. We've been going on dates for months,and even slept over at his place last weekend. He's not the typical asshole kind of guy.Hes very sweet and anybody would assume by his actions that he really has feelings for ... (132 words)

A man of the cloth and dependent on him, but he's always lying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My fiancé and I have been together for a little over a year now. When we first starting dating I explained to him that I had major trust issues with men and I didn't tolerate lies and deceit in relationships. He promised me that he would always do his best to be "worthy" o... (507 words)

What do you think would've happened if I'd gone through with it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I just got into a relationship with this guy named Josh. He's so sweet, and I really like him. We'd just gotten together on March 10th. (just a few days ago) Tonight I went over to his house for the first time. We played with his dog for a while, then I went up to his ro... (309 words)

He wants to come back. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, it's me the wife with the cheating husband 2nd time. We still communicate and he has aksed me if he could come back home, but I, I want to but I'm scared. This really hurts and I'm too young to go through this. But I also stressed to him before and during our vows when I ... (93 words)

Kegel exercises - do they really work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm single and haven't had sex in over six years and when I do, I want to be nice and tight. I started doing kegel exercises last month and would like to know how many I should do a day? I also want to know from those who do them, if they really work? And lastly, when I s... (78 words)

We've been through more than anyone can imagine, and now, years later, I want to find him again. What should I do?

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, this may be a bit of a long story as the saga has been going on for 14 years. I believe in Destiny. I believe in love. I do not understand how it works though, and sometimes I question my sanity. I was 14 years old when I met my first love. It started out pretty norma... (1130 words)

Still in love with my man but can't get some other guys out of my head.

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello I Have Been With My Boyfriend For 6 years now, we have been through a lot, at one point I sent him to jail for one month with a two year probation... I deeply and truly love him to death I never thought of any other guy besides him never even looked to me he was it the ... (379 words)

Will this relationship devastate my parents?

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I probably know the answer to this already but wanted to get various viewpoints (male, female, young, old) and see what you all had to say. I graduated from college three years ago. I was friends with one of my professors while I was still a student and ever since i graduate... (424 words)

I have been controlled by 2 men, now I feel my 16 year old is doing the same

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14 March 2009 (F)

age - hi not sure what to do... left my husband 9 years ago after being married `16 years - he was controlling, with money, kids, my life ..eg wouldn't let my family take my daughters out for walks when they were babies, let me have their hair cut or buy clothes for them without... (498 words)

Should I? I want to tell him I like him...

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I really like this guy. He is like my best guy friend and I always help him with his relationship problems. He was just getting over this one girl and people started to think he would ask me out. But now he is going out with a girl a year younger and I really, really like ... (76 words)

Hard times and parents saving money!

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My parents are trying to save money. I'm starting to grow out of my jeans, so I want to buy a couple pairs of skinny-jeans. Whenever I ask my mom, she always says something, like, "You always want something, do you? Times are tough, and we don't want to waste our money." ... (58 words)

How can I cut off my friend without hurting her feelings?

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14 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How can I cut off a friend without hurting her feelings? My friend is annoying and I really do not want to be her friend no more. I have already told her why I felt this way before but she always tells me we can make it work, but I do not want to make it work. HELP!!... (63 words)