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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I just want some respect and romance.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband and I have some serious issues. The problem is the only one that thinks they're issues is me. Long story short we have been together for 8 years and married for four of those. There have been serious problems including infidelity, a sick child and more. We have ... (204 words)

My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this may sound silly but it's true. My girlfriend is obsessed with my penis. I don't know why, maybe it's because she's never seen one in real life before me... or something, I don't know. She's so fascinated by it, she's always wants to lay her hands near it or on ... (150 words)

Is there something else that might fit the description I've given of these bumps?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I posted yesterday about weird bumps on my vaginal lips. The headline was "pimples on my "lips"! There's a few of them, maybe 4 or 5 and a couple are bigger than the others, but none of them are huge. They are not on the outside of the vaginal lips, but more towards the ... (258 words)

He wants to sleep with other girls but said he couldn't stand it if I sleep with another guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been seeing a guy on and off for around four years now. But he has never considered me as his girlfriend. He tells me that he loves me but then won't call me, message me or answer my calls for weeks. When I do finally see him I try to ignore him but he tells me that he ... (138 words)

The girl I like has just asked my best friend out but he doesn't seem too keen...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, Basically there is this girl I like but she has just asked out my best friend (Aaron). I think they would make a great couple probably better than I would but Aaron doesn't like her as much as she likes him. What should I say to my friend because I think he needs... (70 words)

I'm pregnant but it's come at the wrong time and I'm freaking out about it!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out I am pregnant and I think I am in shock. I am a 21 years old, senior in college. I am a biology major and I planned on going on to medical school, dental school, or some other graduate school. I am an excellent student with my whole life ahead of me. My ... (313 words)

My boyfriend can't keep his erection and it's not doing much for my confidence.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello... my boyfriend and I have been going out a year in a couple of weeks. I'm 15, almost 16 and he's 16, almost 17. We've had sex a lot but then I went away over christmas and we haven't had sex since then. We've tried but it didn't happen. We were at his and "ready t... (149 words)

What else has she not told me...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well my fiance has a pretty bad past as far as boyfriend's and sex and partying and all that stuff a lot of girls do. She told me that she only had been with 2 guys before me. And that would make me her 3rd.... at the time of us talking like that before I understood and it ... (191 words)

Will my boobs go back to the way they were before after I'm done breast feeding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay this may seem weird (because I know most girls would prefer their boobs to be larger not smaller). Anyway, I'm 5 months pregnant and my breasts have grown by two cup sizes. I used to always want bigger boobs, but now I realize how much they get in the way and I can't even ... (111 words)

What is this awful smell?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Every time I open my legs there is a smell. It's coming from my vagina. It somtimes smells really bad and I have no idea what it is. What could it be?... (33 words)

I'm so depressed about my weight

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys... I know it's not so much of a love question but I really need help. I've been depressed about my weight now for a while [5 years to be exact!] and I don't know what to do. In the new year I decided that this was it and I was going to lose the weight, but nothing ... (142 words)

Mixed messages from a woman at work. How to decode...?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello. There's this woman at work who I've always liked. Problem is, she is going out with another guy - also from work. She has often flirted with me - though not when he is around. One day last week I caught her at the bottom of a stair-case. She appeared to be waiting for ... (219 words)

Stockings/leggings/tights fetish.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5733 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I love stockings/leggings/tights/anything else that really tightly hugs the legs of a woman (this includes tight jeans). I haven't really been able to pinpoint the reason why I have this fetish. Is there any reason why I like these things? Or is it just one of those many ... (65 words)

We are drifting apart in the bedroom, how can I sort this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been married 19 years and it seems we are drifting apart in the bedroom, she doesn't seem to want to make love any more. What can I do to corect this? drifter ... (36 words)

Would guys be repulsed by my body?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Guys, This may seem stupid but I've got a problem. I'm quite a big girl well actually I'm fat and that I have accepted, but when it comes to attention from men etc I can't handle it and get all self concious as I can't get over the fact if they seen me naked and have sex ... (108 words)

My friend told me his girlfriend has awsome control "down there". Has anyone else encountered this with a woman?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5384 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a friend that has told me that his gf has some awesome... how do I say It (control down there). I have never encountered a woman that can do the things he has said she can and was wondering can any woman do that? I have a woman that climaxes and drenches me and the bed ... (98 words)

How effective are condoms? I don't want to get pregnant

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey people. Me an my boyfriend are about to have sex an he is goin to use a condom. but i'm so afraid i'm goin to get pregnant. A lot of my friends are saying i won't. But i don't know. I really want to do this. I'm not gettin birth control but how effective are the condoms ... (74 words)

How can you tell if your man is getting bored with you

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can you tell if your man is growing bored with you?....First two years we had sex almost every night. Now it's barely once a week. He makes excuses to work late, or have lunch without me. I don't know if it's just because he's really that busy at work, or if he's getting ... (96 words)

What exactly is "taking it slow?"

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Let me start by explaining myself or rather my past. I knew my ex-wife for 10 years, married 7. 4 years into my marriage she broke a few of my core values. This created a loveless marriage for three years until it ended. I had one relationship after my marriage but I had to ... (760 words)

Does wearing specs mean I'm a geek?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats your view as society on people who wear spectacles.? Recently i moved in to a new college and i am taking science and math classes. people call me a geek. Should i stop wearing them???... (39 words)

Love Me? Or a sexual gesture?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - with all these love language issues going around. im a bit curious about how people in general think. is kissing the strongest way of showing affection. Its been 8months since i started going out with my b/f. Each time we meet he kisses me. does he truly love me or its a ... (55 words)

Boyfriend? OR FWB guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I can't choose between my boyfriend, who loves me a lot and a friend who wants to be sex buddies. I love my friend more than I do my boyfriend. What should I do?... (34 words)

This guy makes me think "What if"...and I have a boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 11 months now. And I'm really happy with him and I love him very much. However, the past couple of days, I started talking to the guy I dated before him - just as friends though. This guy I have known for about 3 years now. We never ... (282 words)

When he's good..he's good...but when he's bad..its horrid!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 months and he is incredibly moody and controlling. He will be completely happy one day and the next he is sad and nothing at all can bring his spirits up. When he is happy he is the sweetest, funniest, most wonderful man I have ever ... (224 words)

I'm feeling lost and I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friend it's me again asking for our help. My question is dear is it possible leave with somebody for three stright years and don't love this person. I just don't understand why because me n my boy friend live all this time together, n he still doesn't know what love is. He ... (320 words)

Wrong to love one and be with another?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically i don't know who i want to be with. it's pretty much i want girl2 but i'm happy with girl1. Me and girl1 are in a great relationship. I do actually love her. I see her like 3 times a week and we always have fun if we go out or just watch tv. She's an incredible girl ... (1056 words)

Daughters friend was raped and I'm wondering if thats the real story

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a 13 1/2 year old daughter. She comes to me and tells me that her best friend was raped the other day. i din't know what to say to her but in my head i was thinking with the way some and i mean some girls are now a days i thought maybe she had sex for the first time her ... (119 words)

He says I need to be more open when I want sex

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it okay to let my boyfriend know how I'm feeling? He says I have to be more open with him and tell him when I want sex. He tells me all the time. Do guys like that? Makes you feel wanted.. ummm a turn on? I don't know..maybe send him a naughty text? Any ideas...?... (60 words)

What does a woman smell like?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i don't want to sound like a jerk or anything, but does a woman's vagina have a bad smell. what does a woman's vagina smell like? The reason i am asking because i don't want to get that far with a woman on pleasing her down there and then find out that the smell is horrible and ... (85 words)

Ladies: Poll about size

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Ok ladies I have been in a discussion with my girlfriend and many other females the age old question here goes . DOES SIZE MATTER ? IS IT THE LENGTH ? IS IT THE GIRTH ? IS IT BOTH ? I am just asking. Please do not assume i am asking this for me its just s... (137 words)

Was I in an emotionally abusive relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I dated this guy for a while and at first it was casual. I lost my virginity to him and became extremely attached. He would tell me that he has such a busy schedule and he said that if he didn't call me for days or weeks, I shouldn't be mad at him. I would only see him about ... (238 words)

We broke up, I'm pregnant and very uncertain about the future

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend moved in together, we fought a lot though. Well the last time we fought it was over myspace, I know stupid, his friend said she wrote something to me and I never got it, he believed her over me when I said that I did not receive her message. Well after that ... (160 words)

Ladies: How do you know when to consider sex in a relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Ladies help …. Are there aspects that need to be present in a relationship to consider sex? How do you know when to consider sex in a new relationship? How can a man let you know he is ready for sex in a new relationship? What things do you consider when thinking about h... (72 words)

Friends to lovers

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone.! From best friends to lovers...i have been realy close friends with my now boyfriend for 6 years.We started dating whilst he was out there after we both realized that it wasnt just friends missing one another it was a much deeper feeling we had....but i hav... (133 words)

She's very shy when it comes to anything sexual

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, Ive been seeing a girl for over 2 months now and been going out with each other 3 weeks now! the problem im having is that she is very shy when it come to anything sexual! when were alone i.e my room kissing, i would rub her leg and move my hand up, but she would just g... (176 words)

Need help getting home..anyone have good directions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Two and a half years ago I moved to WA state with my husband to be, who has now turned in to my ex-husband to be since he turned out to be an abusive a-hole. He does not want to get help with his issues since he thinks he does not have any, but was good enough to offer to be ... (414 words)

My crush in love with my best friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have a major problem. I am have a huge crush on this guy 'mark'. He's sooo nice, caring, and sweet. He's come up talking to me a few times, given me a few hugs, and i've caught him gazing at me quite alot so i really thought he liked me. I even sent him a few love notes into ... (179 words)

Could I wind up messing up a wonderful thing because of my doubts?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hello. I'm new to this kind of thing, but in reading over some of the other submissions, I suppose the way is to simply spill it. I'm a three-year divorcee from a marriage that I put my all into, and was met with a faithless, and ultimately decidedly loveless spouse.... (1116 words)

Is it possible for a guy to be that good in bed yet have no prior experience??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5702 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OK, this is my second question on here and and I just want to say thank you to everyone who responded to my last one, you were all very helpful. Anyways, I'm in an amazing long term relationship with my boyfriend. We are very much in love and and plan on getting marri... (616 words)

She "took" him from me and is now throwing it in my face, should I ask her to stop?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello I started a new job and this guy and i became close. He's married...Well this other older lady didn't approve of our closeness as she let me know here and ther. Well she befriended him and now they are' tight', and she likes to occasionally play 'innocent' and throw it in ... (268 words)

I feel like she could dump me at any moment, and for no reason, what's going on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Please help me! I just don't understand. I have been with my girlfriend for ages, and we have never once had any problems. When I first saw her today, she was perfectly happy, just like normal. An hour later, she was virtually crying, and very nearly dumped me, but didn't. I ... (98 words)

I discovered my b/f cheated and has had a child, how can I be sure he doesn't see his child?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - me and my boyfriend have two children together and going back last year i found out he has another child in between the age gap of my children he says he wants nothing to do with the other child. i found out he was seeing the child behind my back, ever since he hasnt seen the ... (64 words)

Is there a rule of thumb as to the number of dates you need to go on before having sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a friend who we started dating. We just had our first date it was fun. We were friends for a while before dating. I think she is cute and would like sex with her. Typically is there a number of dates to go on before talking, thinking about, or having sex? Ladies what is ... (78 words)

How do I prove to her I can treat her better?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I kept being a jerk to my girlfriend for no apparent reason and now she says she needs to think about things. I seriously will not let it happen again. I love her more than anything in the world, I WOULD DIE FOR HER. how can I prove to her I will treat her better before she ... (63 words)

He annoys me but I also love him, I don't know what to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend havent been together very long but i love him, but recently he really annoys me. like near enough everything he does. he practically lives with me and my family. i think we might be spending too much time together, the real time i get to myself is mainly ... (109 words)

How do you cope when you just can't have the one you have wanted for years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm out of resources. Out of hope. A long time ago I fell in love with a man who fell in love with me. Things were never perfect but it was "forever" or so I thought. Life got in the way. We were young and didn't have control over things. He got laid off and end... (407 words)

My best friend gets jealous when I'm with my b/f as she's used to having all my attention, what do I tell her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I Have The Best Boyfriend In The World, But When Im With Him My Best Friend Gets Really Jelous, I Dont Leave Her Out At All, Its Just Shes Used To All The Attention I Used To Give Her, She Has To Understand How Do I Tell Her? ... (48 words)

7 months since we have been together and I haven't climaxed yet, why, do you think?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been together 7 weeks and i haven't yet orgasmed during sex.... is there something wrong with me?... (23 words)

I relapsed and had sex with my abusive ex quiterecently! How do I get over him?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I dated for two years and one day. After three months of the actual break-up and two months of avoiding him, I relapsed and had sex with him quite recently. This guy physically and verbally abused me and even cheated on me and my hormones went into overdrive and I ... (116 words)

He lied about loving me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'd been dating my ex-boyfriend for a year and a half when he dropped the bomb. He was nearly my first everything- first kiss, first love, etc. He was the sweetest, most romantic guy ever, and he was everything I could have asked for in a guy. I fell in love with him when he... (268 words)

Should I give him some space until he can forgive me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age - He can't get over his anger with me. But I know I he loves me. He has been alone a very long time and I know relationships are tough for him. It is esaier for him to hibernate. Most people would not even be upset with me but when he gets mad he lets it fester and fester and ... (216 words)

My breasts itch around the nipple, should I worry?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 18 and have small breasts. my problem is they itch around the nipple is this some disease or let alone cancer?... (22 words)

Can a man tell if a woman has orgasmed?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5763 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not talking about the physical stuff that women do when they orgasm (like shaking, moaning, etc.); more like the internal. If they're having intercourse, can a man tell that a woman has orgasmed by the change in her vagina (it contracts)?... (42 words)

We are really nervous. What is the cause of strange symptoms after sex?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I've had unprotected sex with my girlfriend about 2 weeks ago and i finished inside of her. She has not had sex before that for a while. After that night i had sex with her again but she said when i went all the way inside of her she had pain there. A week later she has ... (123 words)

I think this guy is complex & plays more games than girls!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - there's this guy. i've liekd him since october. i used to hang with him and his friends every single day. but then it just stopped after christmas break. about two weeks ago he started being alot friendlier to me. i know he's really into artsy girls, he knew i was artsy befo... (279 words)

Dazed and confused! I can't advance in my LDR due to family problems.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (?) age - So, here I am once again, reaching out to my fellow Aunts! I need some magic words that will make everything better, and I know that's unrealistic. Never the less, I need something from you guys! Any suggestions or words of encouragement will be appreciated. I have bee... (376 words)

She's hot and I want to have sex with my cousin

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi guys , wat up! I wanna have sex with my cousin sister but she is in USA and I m in Australia , she is too hot 20 and I m 24 , I just want her she is my dream what should I do to find if she is also interested in me please help me guys ... (59 words)

Long & complicated story

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my story is long and complicated. I have 5 lovely kids, most grown up now. When i had my fifth child, in 1998, things went down hill. I had carbonmonoxide poisoning when he was born. I had probably been poisoned whilst preganant, as my ex hubby didnt want to pay a corgi fi... (839 words)

Never had orgasm during sex

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my lovley boyfriend for around a year and half and we've moved in and everything is almost perfect- however I have never "came" when we have sex. I am really worried this isn't normal. I can come when I am masterbating with a vibrator but apart from that I ... (91 words)

I know he needs help..he's got real issues, but I love him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - iv been married three times, i have 4 kids. all my husbands abused me. over a year ago i met a lovely guy through the paper. he was lovely, in time tho, he got real jelous, i couldnt speak to males, old male friends id known for years, couldnt call, my boyfrind slapped me if my ... (449 words)

He tells me not to leave him even thought he is staying with another woman!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey hows the going? have been dating a man for one year and unfortunately ,now is staying with another lady, and still he claims now and then he loves me and he dont want me to leave him,because he suggests that he is not married yet to this lady, please help me.... (52 words)

She stole my best friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi: I guess I'm here to 'hurt'. There is this guy at work who used to really want me around and such. Well this older lady didn't approve of our closeness. Long story short, she and he are 'tight' now, and I hurt over it. When I was a teen there was this girl, and unbengonst ... (210 words)

How can I ever trust him when he lies about porn?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5766 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age - How can a spiuse regain trust after sneaking in porn and lieing ab outout it? We had an agreement that he would not look at porn when I'm home as I feel that is very disrespectful, but I have caught him several times taking quickie porn looking at quicky time He knows it hu... (235 words)

My crush went out with me for a day but it was a joke?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi, I've had a crush on this guy for a long time, we went out for like a day but it was just for a joke apparently. That was a while ago and he makes it pretty obvious that he might like me but i told him that I did, and he hasn't said anything and i'm wondering what to do, ... (70 words)

Can you really get over your soul mate when you're both still in love?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4836 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age - I'm asking if everyone has the ability to 'move on' and get over a deep love they share with someone? I believe I am grieving, and I know some people will judge me, however I am just hoping that there is some hope, which sounds a little dramatic I know, but feeling very ... (1031 words)

I want to give it a go with this guy but he already disrespects me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

- I want to know if I should give a relationship a go with this guy I've been dating for a bit. He really says he likes me and wants to make the commitment to a relationship. However, I am unsure. I feel like he doesnt respect me. I feel like hes very insensitive to my feelings ... (272 words)

Caught in the middle

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well I am new at this, but don't know where to turn. I need some advice and hopefully someone can help me. It starts off with one of my good friends, we have know each other for about two years and work together. She is married and is currently experiencing some problems. I ... (277 words)

Do I contact my ex to see if she's ok?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (M)

- Me and my girlfriend broke up about a month and a half ago for what I found out were many small reasons after having gone seen here 2 weeks ago and spoke to her. Most of them were things like, I did not see her enough or make enough effort to find a job ect. I did leave hers ... (520 words)

How do sort things out when your partner won't "come clean"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have sevaral questions to ask. How can we sort out our problems if my partner wont be honest about things and talk i know he has not told me everything i want to know? AS anyone stayed in a realationship just because it is easyier than walking away ? You know that ... (100 words)

Is he pushing me away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 22,and inlove with a 36 yr old man.we have been seeing each other for 2.5 months now.we are both very attractive.what confuses me is wheither he doesn't love me or it's just how older men are.he takes me to nice and expensive places, he is there 4 me whenever i need ... (119 words)

I don't want to wreck the ship..but I don't trust my husband!

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - It's been a while since I noticed a change in my husband's behavior, he is staying longer at work, comes back not interested in kids, barely shows up for planned activities. And when I started digging a bit deeper, I found some ( too kind ) emails to a female co worker and some ... (346 words)

He wants me to wait 4 years for him..I'm not sure about that

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a young man for some few months and he sent me a text saying he does not need the relationship again when he entered into one of the universities four years ago. He came back ten months ago and begged me for forgiveness. He said he wanted to focus on his studies. I ... (220 words)

I'm wondering about my feelings about my boyfriend

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know what to do... I'm not sure how I feel about my boyfriend any more. We have been together 7 months and get along great. I love spending time with him but recently a lot of things have begun to annoy me. His confidence is one, dont get me wrong, I like ... (311 words)

How do I get her to have phone/webcam sex?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I met my girlfriend over the summer, and we've had a long distance relationship for seven months. I love her a lot and we've had sex before. I'm so damn horny I have to masturbate everyday just to feel sane. I keep asking her if she masturbates, but she is too prim and proper ... (215 words)

Only been in love with one man

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5 March 2009 (F)

- Just wondering if anyone else is in the same position as me?...Im 25 and have only ever fell in love with one man. That was 5 years ago. I still love with all my heart although we are not together. We have dated a couple of times, each time only lasting around 6 months. We have ... (379 words)

I want him to know I'm interested

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - How do you know when a guy is interested in you? I have problems showing my interest in a guy and he may be thinking I'm not interested at all. I don't want him to believe I only see him as a friend. How do I flirt with him without being too obvious. I don't want to sca... (65 words)

Why would he say that to me?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My friends say a guy likes me. I like him too. He is a friend of ours so he told me one girl asked him out and he refused to it. He told her he is not looking for a love relationship right now, and gave me a lot of reasons why he shouldn't have a girlfriend. I... (91 words)

Highschool girlfriends

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Alright so i was in highscool 2 years ago. Senior year all is nice popular doing mma keeping in shape. I find this girl she was 16 i was 18 we became friends. After months we decided to start a relationship. Everything was going nice took her to prom. She was kinda prude but ... (495 words)

I think I'm ready, but how can I make sure that I will not regret it?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was completely ready for sex just a little while ago. My boyfriend of 6 months is 17. I'm turning 15, but I was completely ready to have sex with him a little while ago. We had a good talk and decided it was time, I love him, but I feel like everyone around regrets their ... (91 words)

Completely confused...Who's to blame?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been dating an older guy for about 7 months now. He is 37 and I am 22 but somehow mentally, I think we meet each other in the middle at 30 lol. Things were going great between us. We love each other and have talked about marriage in the near future and starting a family ... (787 words)

Fallen for my FWB!

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've got myself into a bit of a situation and i don't know what to do. It's a bit complicated... i've been seeing this guy for about 2 months now. It's was kind of 'friends with benefits'. I used to go round his in the evenings and 'chill'. But i've totally fallen for hi... (313 words)

Why do I miss him? He treated me like crap!

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex and I have been broken up for 2 years. He cheated on me and has been with that girl since we broke up. He did some horrible things to me, aside from the cheating, his best friend raped me and wasn't on my side, he spread rumors about me in my neighborhood saying I made it ... (179 words)

How do guys stay so skinny?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Obviously I know everyone is different but the majority of men are so skinny. I exercise a lot and watch what I eat but I cant seem to lose weight and so many of my guy friends eat absolute crap and never exercise and they are sticks! Its just not fair! Why cant girls stay that ... (66 words)

How can I stop getting turned on by naked men?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - im in high school and im not bisexual but i get turned on when i see a naked men. i have swimming classes and most of the guys get naked in the locker room and i wanted to know if any one knows a way that can stop me from getting turned on? ... (57 words)

What is the average size for a Mexican's penis?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ummm i was wondering what the average penis size for a mexican was? because my hubby is a mexican. it isnt big but not to small.... (26 words)

Why do people like seeing their partner sexually excited by someone else?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do folks like seeing their partner sexually excited by someone else?... (12 words)

How do I give the perfect blowjob?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hiya could anyone give advise on how do give the perfect blow job? X... (14 words)

I told him no but should I give him a chance?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm new to a skewl n this boy likes me n I like him.but since I'm new I had 2 do my research.n I asked teachers n the other girls n without a thought said noooooooo.mayb its because he's a thug but should I give him a chance?... (49 words)

He's shy, how can I get him to ask me out?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend has these roomates and one night, I had a makeout session with one of them. He wanted to have sex but I said no and left. Even though I like him, I found out that he is a complete manwhore so it will go nowhere. I have been talking to my friends other roomate, whom I ... (244 words)

How do you know what to do for your partner?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, so, i'm kind of new at the whole dating thing. I'm 15. I know that true love is extremely rare at this age, and honestly i'm dating for experience, i'm not expecting marriage out of this or anything. Anyways, i have a boyfriend now, and we've been together since va... (99 words)

He gives me mixed signals

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok. so i met my bf where i live. but for a year he left to another country and we promised to wait. we would talk online and phone everyday. and his friends family knew about me. so he decided to move back here with me. he came with no cloth, money or family. this is when we ... (295 words)

Going back into the dating arena after 5 years

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It has been a long time since I have dated and I am really interested in getting back out there but I guess I have difficulty finding people I am interested in. I am in my 20s and I am normally attracted to guys a little older (in their 30s or early 40s). I haven't date... (101 words)

Should I start a new chapter in my life?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 22 years old and i have been married for almost 3 years. My husband is 24. We have 2 kids together, a 3yr old and a 5 month old. I don't know if i still love him. He is a good father and provider.He does not cheat on me. But to me he is not thankful for me and he does not ... (262 words)

Abrupt silence. What's going on here?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, I need some help/advice/opinions. So i recently contacted an old flame. First of all, Im terrified of rejection, so I'm generally not too forward when it comes to relationships. But I feel so strongly for this man I took the chance and contacted him. Things star... (207 words)

Why can girls turn down sex but guys cant?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid, Why is it that if a girl turns down sex with someone she just met it is seen as normal, but if a guy turns down sex then the girl gets really upset and/or thinks that he is gay? I dont like sleeping with girls I dont know properly but they dont seem to believe this ... (82 words)

Should I give this guy a chance despite everything in the past?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a man that I have been considering getting involved with. We met a few years ago. Since then we have maintained some correspondence through email, always friendly, a little flirtatious but mainly professional. The truth is when we met it was obvious we had a great ... (188 words)

2 months pregnant but look like 5 months! Will this change his feelings?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had two other kids and now my new love and I are having a third baby and our* first. I have always been very small and went back to the same but this time I am like two months pregnant and look nearly five. I haven't gained much weight but my stomach is just swelling. ... (74 words)

15 lb weight gain in 3 months??

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay so this may sound a little wierd, but I'm a person who most people call a "health freak". I jog in the summer and swim during the winter. Well for some reason over the past three months all I have done is gain weight! This is odd to me because I have maintained my same ... (225 words)

Spermicide harmful to baby?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and I have been having sex and only using spermicide(the foam). I found out today I'm 2 months pregnant and I was wondering if the spermicide we've been using could have caused harm to the baby? ... (38 words)

I lied and now I'm in trouble

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay, big problem; I have a BAD habit of lying a lot. Usually they're just little white lies and it's not that big of a deal. I just did something really stupid. So me and my friend are getting teased by this guy who we both can't stand, and he's been spreading around... (169 words)

Just move on and forget?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi and i know this is long but please read it cause i just really need help from anyone please, im a 15 year old boy and just got out of a two year relationship. well my girlfriend (ex now) and i were very good friends before we started going out shes a year older than me but ... (472 words)

A married teacher who is middle-aged who is crushing on a student.. is it possible?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Right now, I am 13 years old and for the past year or so I have noticed one of the PE teachers giving me signs that he might have...particular feelings for me. He's married, but for the past month he hasn't been wearing his wedding ring. I tried to convince myself that he ... (499 words)

He gave me the ring after he found out that there is another person interested in dating me.

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5 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend gave me a ring on Feb 2006 and I accepted it but he didn't propose. He gave me the ring after he found out that there is another person interested in dating me. After he gave me the ring he said that we're engaged. And now I feel like he has changed his mind and ... (139 words)

I don't feel she loves me. I feel like she wants to 'end' it but strange, I just can't. What should I do?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone. I've known a girl online for 2 years. We have this online relationship for over a year now. She is about 10 years older than me, divorced few years and have a kid. She keeps in touch with her x husband. She said, she makes him support most of their kid expens... (231 words)

Is being fingered even anything like sex?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a virgin and have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now. I'm 18 and I've never had sex before so I'm kinda nervous but we both feel ready to do it. I've heard it hurts when you have sex as the hymen tears but my boyfriend has fingered me several times before so will it ... (73 words)

Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman?

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it cheating if I want to experiment sexually with a woman? My boyfriend said it's cheating even if it's just for experimentation. I on the other hand have no problem with him experimenting with a man if he so chooses. What do you think? ... (45 words)

I feel as if I'm deceiving my boyfriend by not telling him about my friend.

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am in a very loving relationship with my boyfriend of six years. We live together and have a six month old son. Our relationship got off to a terrible start but we've worked through it all. A few months ago a guy I met while doing a business course two years ago got back in ... (218 words)

Why is he being so distant???

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, I'd really like someones help! Well ok it all started last July with this guy who is 37, and we became bf and gf (I'm 17) and at the start he was really kind... always told me he loved me and texted me loads... now its March and I went to see him Friday 27th till Sunday ... (493 words)

Do I say something and risk upsetting her more and losing her, or do I believe her when she says she's ok, and hope she gets better?

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My friend broke up with her bf (my best friend too, to make life difficult) in early Jan after 9 months with him. I've liked her for ages, and was there for her to cheer her up but tried to ignore my feelings for her. A couple of weeks later we were chatting on night and ... (234 words)

We both want to stay together when she goes to uni but I can't help but think about the inevitable.

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5 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl and I have been together for one year. When we started dating she mentioned an interest in an exchange program that our university offered. She applied and got in after months of waiting. She will be leaving the counrty for 8 months at the end of the summer. I love her ... (160 words)

Irregular periods and pregnancy.

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5 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last year I had the contraceptive injection for 6 months, then 4 months later I had the pill for a month and then stopped because I was having periods and wanted go them back to normal, so I haven't been taking any birth control since December 2008. I haven't had a proper per... (111 words)