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writes:My partner Mark and I have been together for a few years now. About a year ago, we were approched by one of my friends for a threesome. After considering pros and cons, we decided not to gof or it for the sake of our relationship. However, the erotic aspect of threesome has remained in our relationship. Quite often, Mark and I would have phone sex and conversations about us engaging in threesomes with different people (both people we know or celebrities). Sometimes we even talk about having group sex and different positions we can get into. We, however, had always kept it a fantasy ... until last week .. Acting on raging hormones of ours and the fantasies we had been talking about, we decided to go for it. We went a bathhouse and sure enough we hooked up with a third. It was hot. Both od us felt a little weird afterwards but we got over it. A week later, we did it again! And this time it was even hotter.We shared this experience with some of our friends and some of them expressed interests in having threesomes with us (both my friends and Mark's friends). We talked about it and fantasized about it but we are not sure how far we can go with this and how exactly we go about doing it ..I am attracted to some of Mark's friends but having threesome with them can be messy although the idea is super hot. But what kind of consequences that would lead to?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2009): Hi i'm married for a second time round, which is great i'm really happy, but me and my first husband had a threesome, and he left me a week later for her. I was shocked, now my new husband insist on having a threesome, he said i cannot blame him for what happend to me and i must just get over my fears that he will leave me we have been together for 10 years. yes i know he also want it, but how can i get rid of this fear i'm having, can anyone give me advise, i do get turned on by the threesome story but, their will always be a doubt in my mind as to whether he will leave me or not.
should i go for it ......
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reader, loving arms  +, writes (9 March 2009):
don't envolve friends, I think it's a big mistake as you or your partner could get jealous of a 'friend'. Don't ruin what seems like a lovely relationship. Keep the spice outside your friendship circle. You do not need to see strangers again so any reaction whether if be, falling for someone, havong to turn down a repeat hatever, will be less likely
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reader, pyan  +, writes (9 March 2009):
hi
be carefull and my advise is stay clear of friends. my wife and i wanted to try sevaral years ago and did it with complete stragers and yes it was very hot as you said and we both got a great deal out of it. she suggested we try friends and we did, that were it became hard as we both new the person behind the sex. one guy thought he could call around whenever he liked, which at first was a big turn on but it became deep. know we have a rule no friends and its very good. message if you want to know more and let us know ow you go
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reader, dddddddd +, writes (9 March 2009):
I wouldn't have a threesome with any of your or his friends. It is totally different to what you have already done because you know the people, you have some form of an emotional connection with them as friends, and you will see them again. I think it is best that if you have a threesome you do it in a similar way to the two you've had.
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