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DAD's!! Should I tell her to marry for love or just a nice credit card?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 6 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

Dads,

If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love?

obviously both would be ideal!

but

would you agree?

or

would you say find love first?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009):

What sort of father are you? you might as well send her to work as a lap dancer. Totally out of order. Its her life not yours, and hopefully she will marry for love not money.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

Love, Love, Love!

Imagine catching her eye as you all sit around watching a romantic movie at Christmas. She's just looked at her own partner and looked disapponted that she'll never have that delirious happy love.

If you married/ mated for love yourself, imagine swapping that experience for a bigger bank balance!

We all know its ten times more fun to go rowing with your lover than to play on an expensive yacht with a rich man you know will never make you really smile inside -and even more so with children!

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

AskEve agony auntPeople go into relationships for lots of different reasons and unfortunately love doesn't always come first. Security is one, money is another, status is another. If your daughter can be happy living with a man she doesn't truly love and he KNOWS that and still decides to go ahead then by all means she should go for it. BIG risk and doesn't always work out.

~Eve~

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

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Obviously its her choice! but would you agree or say find love first. A dads opinion counts does it not?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

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Is it moral to let you daughter to be a gold digger?

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A male reader, ArmyMedic United Kingdom +, writes (9 March 2009):

ArmyMedic agony auntHER CHOICE NOT YOURS!

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