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female
age
30-35,
*eatherfeather
writes:Hi, i tried to talk with my friends and family but i dont think they quite understand what i am feeling. so heres the story i started to date my ex boyfriend when we were 15 at first i thought it was a relationship like any other but i was wrong our relationship became really good we dated for almost four years it was perfet we fight a lot but most of the time we laughed about it i was really happy until last year when he told me that he his whole family had to move out of state we are like 2000 miles apart we without a doubt decided to have a LDR but i new deep inside of me that he wasnt happy with it i know he loves me i really know but we broke up two weeks ago he said that it was because he cant deal being so far and moving back here seems impossible for him but also for me, he is great and i think i am afraid that he will find someone soon we talked about marriage kids and everything i am not that sad because i know deep inside of me that someday we will be in the same city i talked yesterday with him and told him everything i feel he said that he didnt wanted to break up but everything was falling down and he didnt wanted to ruin everything to end the relationship hating each other somehow i understand but i miss him i really do i miss telling him i love him and everything even if it was just over the phone, we talked a lot better after breaking up i try to be his friend but i dont want to be only a friend for ever i mean i can be his friend but i am expectingea to get back in the futuree..have u ever been in a situation like this i mean loosing the love of your life without being able to do anything about it.
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reader, artian  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Unfortunately,
love is as much pain as joy.
But, if you do not experience love then you do not experience the depths of your heart. So, embrace the feeling and discover new bounds.
The storm WILL pass.
The sun will rise again.
Otherwise, uproot and go with him!
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (9 March 2009):
 It may be hard but you need to move on...it may seem like you can't butyou really can! As time passes you won't feel like you do at this time and you will find someone else who you can be with full time! X
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