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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Too scared to ask her out...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I love a girl called Lois, I'm too scared to ask her out. You see me and her both have a lot of stuff in common and we kissed once. But this is the complicated part were both 13, she's seeing a 17 year old. I asked her out in class by reading a poem I wrote. That's when I found ... (86 words)

How can I make myself more confident with kinky sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my boyfriend for just over a month, we have liked each other so much for a very long time and he was, well still is, my best friend. We have had sex and I really enjoy it and so does he, I have had 3 other sexual partners but with him it's different, sorry for ... (185 words)

Could anyone possibly tell me why sex didn't hurt the first time but hurt when I did it again today?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last weekend, I lost my virginity to a guy that I'm deeply in love with. Well, it didn't hurt the first time we had sex (We did "Doggy style" then had regular sex) but just today, we had sex again (Yes we used protection) and it seriously hurt. He wasn't in pain but I know I ... (115 words)

My boyfriend has moved out of state because of his job. How can I cope without him? I miss him soooo much!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend of 8 years moved out of state for employment. I helped him move this weekend. I have been supportive. He is not happy about the move. He has been unemployed for months. I have a business so I am staying. We are going to meet up when we can but I am having a hard ... (101 words)

He said he loves both of us and won't leave her for me...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I been talking to this guy for a year. We dated briefly and after we broke up, we stopped talking for about a month. Well in that month he started talking to this other girl and they started dating. Well when me and him started talking again, he never told me he had a ... (175 words)

Advice needed. How do you get over an ex???

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone!!! I've got a question! When the guy you are absolutly IN LOVE with goes back to his shitty ex who always ends up breaking his heart after he tells you that he's falling for you too... what do you do to get over it?... (46 words)

How to reach out to fling/friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - To make a long story short I met a girl through a guy friend of ours a few months ago. We all have only been friends since about Sept 08. We started hooking up on a regular basis back in Jan 09 for about a month and then I believe that she thought I was only in it for the ... (768 words)

Excess body hair!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a teenage girl and I have a really embarrassing question. I see all these girls on tv and my friends in the locker room and everything and I have hair all over my body and they don't. I asked my mom because she doesn't have any hair on her stomach or back or anything and ... (141 words)

How can I let her see that I am NOT like her ex and would never hurt her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend's EX used to hit her whenever he was drunk, and she was very scared of him. I'd heard that he abused he sexually as well, but she won't talk about it so I'm not so sure. When we met she was on antidepressants, and hadn't been with anyone but him. We worked in a ... (257 words)

Ways for him to last longer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Me and my boyfriend have recently started having sex and we've discovered that he doesn't last very long at all... I'm talking like, a minute at that [don't get me wrong tis' a wonderful minute]. We've tried with a little foreplay, before hand .. a lotta' foreplay, no for... (101 words)

My friends say I shouldn't close the door on other countries, but I just don't feel attraction for non-latinos.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5257 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - If you're an American, white woman who is 29 (or older) but love latin culture... what are the chances that you'll find someone who will be not only latino, but be faithful, true and love you too much to ever break your heart? For years, I wondered what was wrong ... (778 words)

Is there a possibility that I may be pregnant after only 4 days?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well me and my bf had (unprotected) sex last Wednesday. We've been toqether for 2 years. I'm just very paranoid because even though he said he didn't cum I'm nervous. We didn't go all crazy and I didn't do anything to make him cum cause it was our first time. Is there a ... (65 words)

Am I just "chill time" for him?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age - I'm so confused about where to go with this sexy man who is not so young any more but still very sexy. We used to be lovers five years ago, and then he had all these affairs, saying we were broken up, but I never really felt we were, but now he seems to be hanging around with ... (101 words)

I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Ideas?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to surprise my fiance on our anniversary and dominate him sexually. Problem is I don't know how to. I've tried googling it but it didn't give me what I needed. Someone please help me I really want to surprise my fiance.... (43 words)

Talking dirty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girlfriend is in a driffent town and we can't see each other so she wants to talk drity on the phone and she wants to talk drity over the computer too so can some one help me with talking dirty? ... (41 words)

Could her nausea indicate she's pregnant?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I don't use condoms but she takes the pill religiously every day, but for the last 4-5 days she's had a stomach ache, could she be pregnant? I don't know if having a stomach ache means she might be or not, all I really know is that when you get nauseous a l... (66 words)

Natural remedies for period pain???

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello Ladies, it's another women's health question really... I've got really horribe period pains, I swear if child birth is anything like this I may just adopt. I've tried taking paracetamol and ibroprofen (together and separatly), other so called pain killers especially for ... (123 words)

My boyfriend has stopped talking about it but I cant seem to drop it

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. Im a bit stuck... Ive been going out with my boyfriend for just over 10 months and things have been amazing! we've been so close and I really do love him. But about a year before he went out with me he broke up with this girl that he had been with for over three ye... (267 words)

She's become cold and distant and I don't understand why

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last 4th of July i met a girl and asked her out. She said yes! Everything was great! She was sweet, I felt Loved, and i made sure she felt loved. It was kinda a long distance relationship, but about Thanksgiving, by some miracle, I moved closer to her, only 30 miles away. Ever... (377 words)

I don't know if I can trust him again, even though I love him as a brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i dont know if im overreacting or taking this too seriously or anything but after and incident last year i've become extremely jealous... weel it's because last year i was with a girl, and our relationship was great, but she ruined it by cheating on me with my really c... (231 words)

Any connection we used to have seems to be gone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey guys ive been with my bf for 6 months now and i think its falling apart so if you have any advice please help! for the past month hes been really depressed and paid me no attention. I think some of the feelings i have for him in that time left but came back last week.... (116 words)

HE acted as if I was invisible.

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29 March 2009 (F)

- Hoping people can help here and will appreciate any feedback. I was at a party last night and my ex, who I have not seen in six months was there. things and When I walked in the door and said hi, he just looked away. He went out of his way to get drinks and look after my ... (126 words)

My girlfriend and porn

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend looks at porn and it annoys the heck out of me. I don't think it would annoy me if she was more open about it (I.E. watch it with me), but she is very closed minded when it comes to it. I've also noticed when she looks at porn, we won't have sex, which ends ... (212 words)

I'm not too keen on him, but I like the attention

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys. I have a question thats similar to one that was recently posted on here, despite a few differences. That one didn't have many answers so I thought I'd give it a shot :) I've been getting to know this guy for some time, through msn. He is two years older than me. I th... (171 words)

I know deep down he has returned to her. What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I know deep down he has returned to her - but what do I do? I have been seeing a guy who I am deeply in love with. He knows I would do anything for him - but I also know that he still sees his ex and would probably like to get back with her ultimately! In the past week or two... (147 words)

I see him sometimes and I get butterflies.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I broke up with this guy about a year ago and i'm still not over him. He's two years older than me. He hasn't talked to me for about 4 months. I try to talk to him but he doesn't talk to me. All I do is text him. I see him sometimes and I get butterflies. What should I do?... (62 words)

I found out that he's telling other girls that he is single

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I started dating this guy 3 years ago and everything was great. We loved each other's company, so after 1 year we decided to move in together. Everything was good in the beginning, he would cook, clean make breakfast, and cuddle everynight. Then 6 months later, he began to get ... (341 words)

Why can't I get hard?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i cant get a boner i watch porn i do all this stuff and nothing happens and i cant cum and my girlfriend hates so can u help me? please... (30 words)

How to interpret the way a woman rejects a man's advances

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. A quick 'Mars' vs 'Venus' question. If a man asks, via e-mail, a woman out on a date knowing full well that she read the e-mail as soon as he sent it, if he is rejected 100 minutes later via e-mail then does he read into this A) She hesitated, therefore she must have liked ... (161 words)

My boyfriend doesn't touch me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend dont like to be touched. what do i do? he dosnt even like to talk to me i been asking questions then talking. he makes noises when i talk or touch him. what do i do?... (38 words)

Should I trust my feelings on this, or just be pragmatic?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have know this girl for three months now. I had a feeling that she liked me as more than a friend. Although we had known each other two months, we had only met twice since the first time we had met at the time I asked her to join me for a walk and a meal (I suggested that it ... (155 words)

Can he know about my past sex relationship?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i had sex with my four or five time but i am getting married to another man.so can he know about my past sex relationship? ... (27 words)

We met in an online game - he's 8 years older but I think we are in love!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5435 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so my life is messed up... completely. last year in my spare time i played this on-line game, never spoke to anyone it was really just something to pass the time. One day some random person came up to me and asked if i would help him fight and he would help me, somet... (377 words)

I don't know what to do anymore.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 2 years and my boyfrienddosnt talk to me anymore and we dont go out but he gos to strip clubs with his co workers. but he tells me we are fine.... (32 words)

Will this stop her from being pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - We have had lots of problems, all of them stopped =]. Last night we had sex for our first time and we were drunk, i came in her but she is on birth control, will this stop her from being pregnant? She had just got off her period the day before and then she got one right back. ... (64 words)

Should I stop sleeping with him until he commits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (?) age 51-59 - I have been seeing this man for 3 months and he says he wants to be with me but he's scared. What does that mean? We are in the getting to know each other stage I suppose, not officially dating. Is there anything I can do to make him not scared? Or is this a nice way of not m... (76 words)

What I want is a deep passionate, yet reserved relationship

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 16 year old female and I've had one boyfriend, long distance and it didn't work out (2 years ago). I never really wanted a boyfriend and then it hit me one day that I'm lonely and want a romantic relationship. My problem? At school everyone always laughs at me and guys... (152 words)

Is being in your 30s young or old in society

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is 30 ,31,32,33 yaer old is old or young. to some one in there 26+ old to some one who is there early 30s... (25 words)

I'm confused. When do you ovulate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,im just wondering when do you ovulate? Is it 14 days after or before your period.? Isn't the same thing,how do you know you are ovulating If your menstrual cycle lasts 28 days and your period was the 11th and you had sex the 23 could you still get pregnant This is really... (57 words)

I am finding it so hard to move forward.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I moved to the USA 9 years ago. I married an American. We have had the usual ups and downs but apparently now he wants to call it a day. He has gone up North to his family and I am left here with my 15 year old son from a previous marriage and our 8 year old daughter. ... (415 words)

I like her but I don't want to go out with her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her and every time i see her or even talk to her over the internet i get butterflies. i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she likes me or not but i also don'... (109 words)

His past relationship is hurting our future

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - he thinks im hanging out with another guy, im not he is the only man in my life. how can i assure him of that?... (25 words)

What do "1st base", "2nd base" and "3rd base" mean???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - something i have always wondered, and never known the answer to, is when people talk about "1st base, 2nd base" etc?! you know when someone says "we went to 2nd base" .. what exactly IS 2nd base? iv always wondered, so if anyone wants to fill me in, please do !! ... (57 words)

How do I let him down "gently"?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont know how to begin so im going to try as best i can and hope it comes out right .. i have a lovely boyfriend who i believe i am in love with.. the problem is, lately iv allowed myself to get close to another guy (through msn and texts), even tho i have no feelings towa... (167 words)

I'd like to ask him to go to Prom with me, but I've messed up. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey :) Well theres this guy Im good friends with and I kinda like him too. We go to different schools. Anyway I have my prom at the end of this year and a few people has asked me, although its girls choice!! And im very bad at dissapointing people so I kinda let them down ... (308 words)

I'm 13 and my boy friend wants to go to second base

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5717 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm a 13 year old girl and my boy friend wants to go to second base. I want to go to second base too however since I'm just starting to develop most of my chest is just bra. If my boy friend did any touching I'm sure he would be able to tell. I'm not sure what to do? Any ti... (77 words)

Should I move on or wait for her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so couple nights ago her ex boyfriend sister message my girlfriend (S) on myspace asking for her cell number. and she give it to her. so she text her saying that her ex boyfriend wanted to date her again. then next day S and me hanged out pretty much all day and she seem... (183 words)

I trusted him then but I don't now.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I just got in a relationship in jan.. he went away to go to college in early feb so i was thinking to my self should i stay in this relationship.... i also asked him did he want to stay in this relationship and he kind of got mad saying his is on his chill mood he wanna be with... (87 words)

L think he's straight?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - l'm gay, and he's straight. l have only known him since September, but it feels like l've known him forever. Recently l have developed feelings for him, but l cannot get the courage to tell him, fearing it will obliterate what we have now. I have sent him casual messages, a pa... (105 words)

I am just not attracted to men my age

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Basically I think I have a problem. I am and have always been very attracted to significantly older men - I lost my virginity to a man in his mid thirties when I was 14, and have continued to find myself getting into various situations with men of that sort of age ever since. ... (202 words)

Is cheating the way of the world now?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was in a wonderful relationship for 5 years - complete trust and no infidelity. However, now that I am 'back in the game' I am noticing that most of my female friends are cheating on their partners. The most disturbing thing is that it appears as though this has become ... (191 words)

I'm turning 17 and my Dad treats me like I'm 10!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey.. what can i do when i hate my dad that i don't even want to talk to him or look at him!!! he treats me like shit, just because i turned off my phone to have a bit of fun he freaked out and sed i don't deserve a phone and i'm never going out again... i mean what the he... (91 words)

Am I supposed to wait for him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, hope you can help im 18 and i really like this boy hes 18 too but hes just come out of a two year relationship and says he just wants to be casual at the minute with me , he still has pictures of his ex girlfriend on his phone and facebook they split up 6 months ago i a... (152 words)

I think I'm afraid to orgasm

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i'm afraid of sex. And by that I mean i'm afraid to orgasm. I know it's supposed to be this awesome feeling but i can't bring myself to experience it. I have a boyfriend, and i love him very much and am very attracted to him but every time he gets me close i make him ... (148 words)

The girl I dated recently is with somebody new. I feel upset for some reason. Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey. I just found out that the girl I dated recently has started seeing somebody else. I only dated her for a few months and we split up about three months ago, but for some reason, I feel like this has upset me a little. That seems unusual given I was with her for such a shor... (132 words)

4 years into relationship, and I don't think I ever had an orgasm. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i am in a relationships for almost 4 years..we didn't see each other often. when we we're together and we're making love i didn't feel any orgasm since the day we made it until now. i made different strokes or styles but it doesn't worth. i'Neverm not shy to ask an advice s... (59 words)

Today I lost my virginity. Could I become pregnant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey. Today i lost my virginity. I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time. The strange thing is, it didn't hurt. I've always been told it's sore and i'll bleed but nope neither happened. Is something wrong with me ? And afterwards because he finished long before me,... (113 words)

What do I do if he calls me and actually doesn't want to break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and I dated my ex for almost 8 months. He would ignore me on and off for a few months. Sometimes we would go up to a week without even talking, and I'd cry and feel depressed over it. He was with his guy friends a lot more than he was ever with me. The only time he... (587 words)

Female teacher is my best friend/second mother. Should I say "I love you" to her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone Before I get started I just want to make things clear...if you're going to lecture me please dont. okay.... Last year I met my female English teacher, and at first I just thought of her as my teacher. I always went in to her room first thing in the morning ... (238 words)

Is it necessary to let your ex-husband know of your present boyfriend??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age - My husband cheated on me. However I have no courage to leave the marriage until I meet my boyfriend. We are very much in love. I decided to divorce my husband. Now that we are divorced, we are still staying in the same house because of the children. Though they are ... (137 words)

I'm starting to think I sound really delusional

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - All of my life I've wanted to share my life with someone who loves me back just as much as I love him, but lately, I've been losing heart. I've been disappointed so many times, and I just wish there were that one person who loved me too much to cheat on me, disappoint me or b... (731 words)

Is this what orgasm feels like?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i was wondering if i had an orgasm. last night my boyfriend was giving me oral and half way during it felt like the room was spinning and my cheeks got hot and i felt like i had to pee and then i got this amazing sensation in my stomach and vagina then my knees started to shake ... (76 words)

Is there anything that can soothe me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - i had a school friend. we joined college together and she introduced me to her new girl friend. i fell in love with tht ga l[say 'mir'] from the 1st sight. well its been almost two years and i still couldn't tell her that i love her. we dont meet atall but we have some small ta... (199 words)

Does anyone else experience this with their spouse or partner?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When I was working in another job I used to earn an okay amount of money. My husband and I have a joint account and every month we would both put in £700 / mth that would then pay off all our bills for the month - ie mortgage, electricity, water, gas etc etc. Fast forward t... (510 words)

Any thoughts on getting over my nerves around him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, theres this boy i really like and we finally are boyfriend and girlfriend again, he says he thinks im nice looking and cute, and tells everyone he likes me and i feel the same about him. about 3 days ago he asked me out and i said yes, but we can't have a proper ... (120 words)

Overportective dad - How can I reassure him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 21 year old girl. I still live at home with my dad but he is so protective. Everytime I go out with friend or my boyfriend he goes in a mood for days. Its like hes never happy unless I in the house. What can I do about this to show my dad I'm old enough to take care of ... (66 words)

I think my ex is stalking me but I don't get why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - after getting out of an on and off verbally and sometimes physically abusive relationship that has gone on for 20 years and i where ive finally grown up and do not want to be abused anymore, i think my ex could possibly be stalking me now. i have already left the town where he ... (169 words)

Any tips to get this guy who I think may like me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - so there is this guy I really like, some ppl say that he likes me but others say that there you can't really tell. We have known each other for 7 months and see each other once a week. we clicked straight away, but he had a girl friend so i didn't think of him much. Now he's ... (121 words)

I feel like I can't have a boyfriend. Is there something wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - is there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have one.younger then me or older then ... (108 words)

How do I approach the topic of going out with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am confused! Basically me and this guy have been good friends for ages, but theres always been... like something more could happen. Anyway about xmas I started to have more than just 'wow hes gorgous' feelings, and more like I actually liked him. And he was acting in the same ... (362 words)

Unemployment is really getting to me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Going crazy waiting for unemployment. No work in meantime although I apply and apply..trying to stay postive...I am just absoluely miserable and hope I am not they only one on they edge of my seat ..jobless and feeling realy crappy like. Any other unmemployed or layed off peop... (74 words)

I really really want to get over my teacher... why can't I?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, Might remember me from two posts about me liking (well loving) a teacher? Well you may also remember I sent the first post in december of last year. 5 months on and nothing has changed. Well not nothing... the feelings have progressed and I really really like him ... (936 words)

My girlfriend won't stop mentioning her ex!

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've been going out with my gf for about 10 months now, and everything is going good, but she keeps bringing up her ex all the time, she keeps talking about things they used to do, and how he acted and stuff, but the one thing that threw me off recently, was when I was out of a ... (163 words)

I know he truly cared/loved me and I messed it all up and I don't know why?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My bf broke up with me a few weeks ago we were together for 6 month. I am to blame, I was moody, miserable and angry. I thought I was acting like this because of the stress of work, new pill etc. Anyway we were seeing each other every week still. He responded to all texts ... (436 words)

What did he mean exactly?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - What did this mean...? Right well background information - there's a guy that me and my mates always thought liked me because he stared at me a lot and he really showed it, then when asked about it by someone he denyed it but the way he said it seemed very weird, since then ... (286 words)

Advice needed! How can I get closer to him and make him jealous?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy at college and I can't stop thinking about him. I want to get close to him but I don't know how. I don't see him much and I want to make him jealous.. but how? I'm really confused, could you help please x... (48 words)

Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health??

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Would masturbating or having sex regularly even after joining a gym for exercise affect my health?? I have a very good healthy body, I'm 34" in waist and 5'5" in height with 73 kg weight. Kindly advise me and let me know if I ejaculate 3-4 times a week and side by side I have ... (92 words)

Sister in law is teasing and flirting, what's actually going on in her head?

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need an answer please! My sister in law has been flirting with me and teasing me since me and her younger sister were engaged, she is 7 years older than my wife. She oftenly sends signs with her sister that I only understand, she makes erotic moves in front of me often, i... (176 words)

I love him very much, but he is breaking my heart, and using me as a doormat when he needs a babysitter.

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29 March 2009 (F)

age - I was married to my husband February 14, 2005 and we have been married 4 years. I have been dating him since 2000. His son is now 12 years old and has become a menace to my life. My husband was dating a women before our relationship to whom he had a child with and all she ... (1497 words)

Is it just about sex?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a guy I've become quite friendly with over the past year. He lives quite far away, so I don't see him often. Whenever we're together we act like a couple, with him intiating most things (as I didn't want to seem to keen, as I like him loads) we kiss alot, cuddle, hold ... (402 words)

He says he doesn't have "those feelings"

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I am curious if a guy really digs you and spends all his free time with you, and doesn't see other women, and there is lots of good loving sex, and has talked about the future ect... but then sez he does'nt have 'those' feelings, what does it mean? why would he be with me ... (104 words)

I want to tell her but I'm scared that she will not like me in that way

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have this fantastic friend, we have been best friends for nearly 8 years and we're pretty close. We dont see each other alot but when we do its like we can just pick up from where we left off and we talk every night over the computer (we go to different schools). She has ... (197 words)

Tips on how to keep my relationship fresh, please

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29 March 2009 (F)

age - I need a bit of advice as to how to keep my relationship fresh. I have been seeing wonderful man for two years now, we see each other for one or two days a week and it seems to have fallen into that routine where the excitement is going. Little things like the no kiss and ... (183 words)

Told my best friend I liked him to be told GUTTED!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i've liked my best friend for about a year now and last night we all went out. I realised i left my phone in the car so my friend lets call him mike and i went to the car. On the way he randomly mentioned a text that i sent him years ago telling him that i liked him. I was a li... (262 words)

I've been rejected by this woman at work - but how can I regain her respect for me?

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello there! My issue is that I asked a woman out at work a while ago who I really didn't know that well. At the time, unbeknownst to me she was already going out with another guy at work. She rejected my proposal via e-mail and that was that, basically. Word on the street w... (399 words)

Do things fall out of place so better things can fall into place?

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I after a while broke up. I was great to her, we had a very great relationship and we never fought and we always had a ton of fun while hanging out. We broke up and decided to take a week space from each other to help figure things out. We then decided ... (517 words)

What do I when he changes to be cold hearted and doesn't care anymore?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i've been in this relationship for 2 years and my boyfriend and are now common-laws we live together and we have 3 cats. he just turned 21 and i'm going on 22, he changed 3 days after his birthday it went on for 2 weeks and after that he was fine for 3 days and then back a bein... (537 words)

Help! My boyfriend has a low sex drive!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi Friends~ My bf, 33yrs old, and I, 26yrs old, have been dating for 6 months now. On our second date he told me that 3 months prior he had dated this girl for 2 weeks and after he broke things off with her she came to him 2 weeks later and said she was pregnant and it ... (643 words)

How do I regain my husbands trust?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - how do i regain my husbands trust after i lied about meeting one of my exboyfriends just to hear how he screwed up by leaving me and how he is still single and how alone he is... (37 words)

I am insecure when he's out

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am expecting a child with my partner. Having only been together 18 months i am worried a little. I do feel our relationship is strong but my doubts start when he goes out drinking with his friends. He drinks too much and cant even speak when he gets home. If he is ... (176 words)

Tips for having sex with a taller woman

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29 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I am on the short side and have been dating a woman who is taller than I am. I don’t think the differences in our heights should be a reason for us not to have sex. Any tips for having sex with a taller woman? What positions work well? ... (50 words)

How can you tell he likes you?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everybody, I absolutely need to know this. I know this might sound really pathetic. If a boy doesn't tell you that he likes you, then how do you tell? Please be gentle because I am new to the whole boys-liking-me thing. Thanks. (Mod Note: Please use some punctuat... (53 words)

Rid of the shine on my artificial hair extension?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I recently bought a hair extension, that clips under my normal hair to make my hair look longer. This hair extension is artificial hair. The problem is, the artificial hair is extremely shiny, much shinier than my normal hair, thus it looks very fake when I wear the exte... (93 words)

Does he have an ulterior motive?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Cutting to the chase, me and this guy were casually seeing each other between October till about mid January. After the middle of January things dwindled off. He called me the day before Valentine's, I didn't pick up so he left a voicemail casually asking if we were still ... (220 words)

Irritated swollen skin after sex

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have been with my wife for 5 years now and every time we have long oral sex (3-4 hours) followed by Intercourse, my Skin that covers the head of my penis get really big (swollen) but the next day its goes back to normal, My Wifes Vagina is very tight after taking breaks, ... (145 words)

Almost 21 and ready for a baby but my husband is not!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im almost 21yrs old.i work at a daycare center in the infant room.so im arond babies all day!of course im going to love children!i absolutely love my job,and it just makes it so hard to be around babies when i am so desperate to have my own child!!my husband is 21.we've been ... (163 words)

What are the signs he's going to break up with you?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - what are some signs a guy gives if he wants to break up with u? or at least thinking bout it... (21 words)

Why do guys get all two faced?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Why do guys get all two faced? Like why do they talk to there guy friends an say one thing an then to there girlfriends they all nice? For example my boyfriend had said to his guy friend that he doesn't no if he wants a serious gf an all this stuff. But then with me it like ... (90 words)

I am tired of being lonely and played by dating! What can I do?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey I am 27 year old, attractive female. I do not have any family or too many friends in the place i live right now (the whole state - actually the whole country). Its depressing, hard and lonely life I live at times. Lately I have been getting into this deep depressio... (421 words)

Red bumps on my vagina after trimming! How do I get rid of it?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I have a HUGE problem here. My boyfriend told me to leave the pubic hair I have but I trimmed the pubic hair just about a half hour ago while I was in the shower and now I have red bumps on my bikini line and just above the lips of my vagina! I've always trimmed and shaved ... (142 words)

Can she persuade him to stay with her, if he likes me?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age - Well, I'll try not to make this too long. Here goes! I've been attracted to this guy at work for over a year, and he's known this (he was chasing me, she got jealous and chased him). He dated her (for sex only) for several months but continued flirting with me, then I got a ... (231 words)

Coach acts creepy

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I'm currently playing a sport at school and I'm starting to get worried about how my coach treats me at times. Here are some of the 'weird' things he has done and continues to do: He'll randomly repeat my name and pretend that he's looking for me...but he sees me ... (216 words)

Ultimatum: Answer tonight or done forever

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now. For the past year it has all been long distance and it has definitely been trying. We have visited each other a few times during the past year, though. Anyway... We keep going through periods of breaking up and ... (339 words)

He wants to get engaged! We're so young!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - does he really love me and want to get engaged im only 15 he is 14 he wants to start and family and get married when im 18 and he is 17 what should i do?... (36 words)

Chemistry or imagination?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A few days ago i went for a movie with a couple of people. The thing is I didnt know them. Im kinda new in this city and y aunt hooked me up to these church people so i can have frends.Among them was a guy.As he walked to the movie theater i felt as if he was giving me an eye, ... (320 words)

Maybe I went too slowly and pushed him into the arms of a hooker

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in my 40's and only really started dating after my mother past away some 5 years ago. Well 3 years ago I met a guy but wanted to take things slowly since I had a constant fear of someone coming in and taking half my house. Anyway, I went around to my guys house but would ... (181 words)

I don't want to push her but I know she wants space

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some help here with a relationship issue. Im 21 and my girlfriend is 18 and we have been together for neary 2 months. we have fell for each other and say the "I Love You" to each other all the time. but because she has college and i have work commitments aswell ... (594 words)

He's my friend's ex but I can't stop thinking about him

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, umm heres the story: i liked this guy a while back. my bestfriend got with him, so i started to like him more as a friend, well she broke up with him, the thing is, is that i cant get him out of my mind, like i dont think i have feelings for him... but hes in every single ... (87 words)

I would like our frienship to include sex

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29 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I have a friend who is a beautiful woman. I would like our relationship to include sex. I hope she wants the same thing in our relationship. How can I hint at the fact that I would like our relationship to include sex? How can I mention this indirectly? Any tips?... (53 words)

My 2 friends & I all like the same guy!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid... i just met this guy an we get along great an according to my friend we look like a good couple but my other two best friends like him an i thought we decided none of us get him coz are friendship is not worth losing then they came up to me an said my one best ... (192 words)

We keep fighting about my past and my b/f's "lack of trust"

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am seriously involved with a guy now and it has been going on for 2 years. I was in quite a few relationships before which ended badly. I did not speak about them when me and my boyfriend started seeing each other initially. At one point I told him everything but he seemed to ... (146 words)

I'm too hairy!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so im a 15 year old hispanic and i used to think that it was just my race well it isn't . Im much too hairy for a girl. I have hair on my stomach,back,pubic area, arms,legs, face. Basically everywhere! No exceptions. I don't know what to do! It's not hormones cause i... (107 words)

Ex suddenly very affectionate..never was in the past!

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. after stuff that he told my best mate i decided i had enough of making an effort with him so i decided to... (484 words)

After 30 years friendship turns sexual?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age - I have been having a very platonic relationship with a man for over 30 years..we are very very close and he has never once made a pass at me..or disrepected me. Only recently I realize that I am crazy in love with him and we kissed and made love. I am now very confused because ... (79 words)

Will he be put off by my breasts?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have got a new boyfriend of 3 weeks, but i am worried that when he asks for sex he will be put off by my sagging 48f breasts.... (29 words)

Will she want to go out with me again?

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29 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi well my ex that i loved with everything i had (but i dont anymore only a lil) and i broke up um about a week or two ago and she told me to stop textin her so i did and we havent talked for like a week. the last time we broke up she told me the same thing and i did as she ... (207 words)

How many positions during sex?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Quick poll/survey/whatever you want to call it: How many positions do you like to go through during sex?... (24 words)

LDR and I have so many doubts about his love for me

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29 March 2009 (F)

- I wish you could all give me a little advice, and tell me what you think. I am 30 years old and I've been in a LDR for about 4 years. My bf and I have been through some really ups and down. We have had fight about the distance, trust, dishonesty, etc. In our relationship, I ... (332 words)

I asked my b/f to marry me and he said "I don't know"

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i feel as though i may have made the worst mistake in my life. i have been dating my boyfriend for a little over a year and i have never felt the way i do with him with anyone else and i have a ton of exboyfriends. i asked him to marry be because i was tired of waiting for him ... (107 words)

Too much pressure on my b/f to help me?

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 16 and have been having problems at home with my mum and i usually talk to my boyfriend about it but im worried im putting to much pressure on him to be there for me. because about 4 hours ago i had an argument with my mum and she walked out of the house for about an hour i ... (90 words)

Fiance addicted to porn

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok i think my fiance is addicted to porn. he likes to watch it all the time on tv like there regular movies and hes really badabout it on the internet but he hides it from me. well i kinda started watching it tv with him thinking that it would maybe help are relationship and ... (109 words)

I went into his myspace account and found out he's cheating

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29 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have been with my boyfriend for 2 months now and recently had suspicions of him cheating/flirting with other girls so i went on his myspace account to look at his messages (the ones only he can access) and he is cheating i want to end it now but dont want him to know i ... (74 words)