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writes:Hi, I am wondering about a few things and its making me worry and I feel soo guilty. A couple years back I was getting kinda sexual with my nieghbor friend we didnt have sex or anything. just kinda experimented together. like masturbated together and humped eachother and played with eachothers penises. I am not gay or anything it was just kinda like an expiermient and we did it more than once though. but that was like awhile back and I am over it and think its stupid haha. but I am curious. I am catholic and everything. and does this make me still a virgin? and will god forgive me for doing this? I need help. so please respond
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 March 2009): i'm a devout catholic and i would say that you are no longer a virgin, the whole principle of virginaity is that the only person you engage in a sexual act (masturbation, humping, sex ect...) with is your wife. the idea of you losing your 'virginity' with a guy isn't so great on the whole catholic thing, neither is masturbation or any other lude thoughts
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 God will forgive you because he's a forgiving kinda guy! Exploring your sexuality is normal and you are a virgin until a PENIS has been inside you or Your PENIS has been inside someone else.
The Christian faith isn't great on exploring sexuality, but to be honest the bible talks about Dragons, gays are bad dragons are real, yeah thanks for that!
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reader, jessica04 +, writes (9 March 2009):
 It all depends on what you consider virginity to be.
For heterosexuals, some believe that even if they do every things except vaginal penetration, they are still virgins. Some consider anal and/or oral sex to be losing your virginity.
Some people think once a girls hymen is torn, she is no longer a virgin, even if it wasn't done by sex.
For some homosexuals, masturbating together might count as losing your virginity.
In my opinion, I think your sexual experiments were ok, that you were just curious. I would consider you still a virgin, but it is ultimately up to you. How do you intend to live your life? What are your plans with other sexual partners? What do you (not your religion, your parents, or your friends) consider sex to be?
When you can answer that question you will know whether you are a virgin or not.
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reader, xx-lilmiss-xx +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Hi,
Yes You Are Still A Virgin Seeing As You Both Did Not Have Intercourse/Anal Sex, Dont Worry About A Thing :)
Lil-x
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): yes you are still a virgin - according to my manual, chapter 1 unless you had full sex with a female (human). there might be a more updated one somewhere mine is from a few years ago now.
why would God care if you were doing this - has more important things to worry about (assuming she\he worries) sigh - you judge you and your actions -thereby making it a little easier for God. if your actions were wrong to you then stop and move on.
Star.x.
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