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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He doesn't tell me he loves me often enough... I need to hear it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, I've been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years now and it's going good except that he doesn't tell me he loves me very often. He cheated last year and we are working through this and it has definitely been very hard but we are getting there, but when we split la... (241 words)

She's pregnant but she won't tell me when our baby is due!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello, I need advice everyone. I have been with this woman for a few years now and she became pregnant last year with twins. I will not go into detail but she was 20 weeks pregnant when she told me that the cord was coming away. I broke down for a week at work, I work away ... (356 words)

My boyfriend is going to kill me! I just had sex with my ex!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I had a one night stand and we weren't just kissing, I did not have a condom, I was not even planning to have sex, I was coming out of my job but worst of all it was my ex! My boyfriend is going to kill me. I am so afraid that he is going to find out he gets angry so quickly!... (65 words)

Should I go to Yorkshire after her?

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3 March 2009 (M) - All names are made up! - She was one of my best friends who was going out with another good mate of mine, they lasted 2 years but broke up 2 months ago. He's 20 and she is 18. I have always been shy and very nervous and have never had a girlfriend but the last year I have... (638 words)

Puberty means one thing to me... ACNE!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Huh!!! I feel soo frustrated!!! Puberty, puberty!!! Yeah I'm happy knowing that I'm growing and stuff but puberty also has a dark side!! ACNE!! oh my god I hate it. I feel soo self conscious about it, when is it gonna just go away!! I have it all over my face and it just ... (162 words)

Is it possible to have a surgery to get my virginity back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am not a virgin and for the past two years I have been sexually active. I would also like to know if it's possible to have a surgery to get my virginity back?... (35 words)

Guys - when is it just flirting, and when does it mean more?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I've been good friends with a younger guy for a couple of years and we've always had a light-hearted flirty relationship. A few weeks ago we spent the day together with a social group and he got really intense - sticking really close to me, leg touching under the table, ... (143 words)

I found another woman's panties in my boyfriend's glove compartment!!!!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I was driving with my boyfriend to his apartment. I stopped at the durg store to buy some condoms but when I got back to his car I found someones elses panties! He knows they must of been there before but how could I not see them??? Then worst of all he still tried to have ... (62 words)

I feel scared and very insecure off messing up again. Any pointers?

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - hi guys. I'm really in need of advice. I've been with my girlfriend for five years and I love her with everything I have. Last year we finally decided to move in together and talked about marriage. At first everything went well but then things started to go wrong. We started ... (281 words)

My husband is addicted to anniseed balls and beer!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband has started to become addicted to food, in particular, aniseed balls and beer... he can't start the day without them. Wherever he goes, he has to take aniseed balls and beer with him (or if driving, a diet Coke!). He's showed no interest in anything else in his... (262 words)

Help! I am in love!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi hello good day and so on. I have a problem. I am in love with this girl and I have no idea why! It started about a year ago when we were in the same class. I just ended up looking at here in all the classes we had together. I don't know why I fell in love with her, becaus... (529 words)

Pains in gallbladder.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age - So this morning I started to have pains in the center of my abdomen like in below the heart and 3 inches above the stomach. It was so excruciating and my dad said he though it was probably my gallbladder getting back at me for eating a lot of fried foods and a lot of meat. So ... (115 words)

His girlfriend is pregnant!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been talking to this guy who has a girlfriend, he's telling me that he plans on breaking up with her but he doesn't want to hurt her. As things come to a close between him in this girl (she knows about me) I get early in the morning a lot of text messages telling me to go ... (256 words)

My ex husband and I are wanting to try again... How do I break this to my boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I was married for eleven years and now have been divorced from him for just a little over year, and I have been dating a guy for a year. I don't want to hurt the guy that I have been seeing, but I have been having a constant host of feelings, thoughts, emotions, dreams, etc. ... (118 words)

I just feel like crap. Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I love this girl so much (lets call her K), I just can't stop thinking about her. I've known her for 6 months, but we get along really well. I was going to ask her out ages ago, almost just after I met her, but then I found out she's already got a BF (the reason I hadn't heard ... (322 words)

When I try to speak my throat goes all dry& I don't know what to do

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay i've liked this boy since november so thats been about 3 months? i've never liked anyone this much before, but he thinks im pretty and always tries and talks to me. and he always use to text me. and he always looks at me and tries to start a conversation he also asked me ... (109 words)

What is the purpose of life and why do we have to be tortured so much?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am applying for grad school. I already went to 9 intervews and I got rejected from all of them, I have 3.9 GPA, and I am really depressed. I can't understand why? I am completely normal, even in the interview they told me I am very inteligent and blablablab, I can't do it ... (96 words)

Flirting for fun versus flirting with intent in the office

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I was just wondering how a man can tell the difference, in the office, between a woman flirting for fun and a woman flirting with intent. Thank you for your thoughts on this!... (34 words)

My mum saw the dirty text messages on my phone and has now told me to keep away from him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13 years old. A few weeks ago I met the most amazing boy in the world, let's call him Jack. He is such a player but I really can't stop thinking about him, I was meant to meet him last week but I was on my period the next day, so when I told him he lost all interest in me. ... (279 words)

Am I just being used for sex???

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 4 months now. We have known each other for years. I feel like he isn't honest and loyal. He says he isn't with other girls but to me I keep feeling like he is cheating on me and just using me for sex.... (54 words)

How can I gain more confidence for when I meet her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - For some reason (dunno if it was a good idea or not) I registered on match.com a few months ago. Anyways, I got a message from someone on there saying they were interested, and she gave her email address. It was 12 days after she'd sent that I replied - had been quite a whi... (288 words)

My brother keeps spying on me!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and my brother is 12. He keeps spying on me, hoping to see me undressed. Should I invite him to look and get it out of his system, or should I continue to try to hide?... (40 words)

Sickeningly happy but how to propose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I've been with my girlfriend for about a year. She's the most beautiful and sweetest girl in the universe. I was over the moon when she agreed to go on a date with me. I was taken aback by her response when I asked. She said, "What took you so long?" Let me describe her for ... (253 words)

5 months to lose weight... what's the best way to diet?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've decided to go on a diet so i can be thin for my holiday in 5 months time which i am going on with my boyfriend. I want to look amazing in my bikini but the thing is i'm a size 16 and have horrible scars on my belly. Are there any good diets/exercises i could do to lo... (87 words)

Need Help to say Hi.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tell me if this would be weird...So there's this guy and I've seen him around a few times and he'll either smile at me if I'm by myself and so is he, or if I'm with friends I'll look at him and he'll quickly look away. So I feel like he may be interested. I've never gotten the ... (148 words)

We go for meals but I want her for dessert!

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3 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - There is a woman that I have a good relationship with. We eat together at least once a week. We do other things too. We take turns cooking and the other brings the dessert. Sometimes we feed each other in a playful way. Sometime for dessert I would like to have her instead of ... (78 words)

First Date Sex.... Now he's backed off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey everyone...well i am 18 years old and i have met a 38 year old man who i am rather besotted with ....i've only met him once in real life but have been talking to him on the net for a few months now ..but we spent the whole day together and he was very nice to me we went out ... (173 words)

I'm scared that I may be pregnant... what do you think?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i wonder if u guys could help me. I have not been feeling myself for a couple of weeks. I looked on the interenet last night and the symptoms I have been experienceing are, waves of nausea in the morning and evening, bad lower back, a bit of constepation, headaches,... (112 words)

Ladies, how do you feel when a younger man wants to have sex with you?

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3 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Ladies please give some info… Ladies how do you feel when a younger man wants to have sex with you? Do you as an older woman feel youthful/ attractive when a younger man wants to have sex with you? What things needed to be present to consider sex with a younger man? ... (113 words)

My b/f told me he would date this other girl if we broke up, this upset me, should I talk to him about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, My boyfriend of six months and I have a very open relationship but there's something that I haven't really been able to stop thinking about. Yesterday he randomly asked me if if I liked someone else, would i tell him. I said that I wasn't sure but possibly. Then ... (391 words)

How long to make a guy wait for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok I am getting a bit ahead of myself here but how many dates etc. should you wait to do things with a guy (first, second, third etc.), I mean how far should you go for each stage and at the end how long should you make him wait for sex.... (51 words)

Second thoughts because of the kids..am I a fool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (?) age 51-59 - My partner and I are both in the process of divorce from our spouses. We have had a two year relationship and filed for divorce from our spouses three months ago. My partner and I both have kids and his are, according to him, devastated that he has left home. They seemed to ... (269 words)

Pregnant by precum followed by sex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, silly question, how possible is it to get pregnant from pre cum? Followed by sex? We used a condom but needless to say there was some rubbing before the condom was put on and now I'm late. ... (38 words)

Is he trying to be cool?Or does he really like you?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how can you know if a teen age guy really likes a girl or is just trying to impress his guy friends and seem cool?his best friend is always with him.if he showed almost all the signs possible that he is interested in her,let her insult him more than twice(in front of his best ... (98 words)

Will he call? Or never call again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I just got out of a 2 year relationship. The guy I was with claimed to truly be in love with me and even proposed to me this past October. We have gone through ALOT during those 2 years. 2 weeks ago we broke up for 3 days and he tells me that I'm the one and professe... (338 words)

23 year old male virgin needs your input

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5357 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello. I am a 23 year old male, heterosexual virgin with no relationship/intimate experience. My problems in these areas resulted primarily from social anxiety and an overall lack of self-confidence. Simply put, I have never taken the initiative to ask a girl out for the ... (195 words)

Girlfriend wants a threesome with my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Ok, complicated scenario. I was with a girl for over a year and a half. I started sleeping with another girl, who lives out of state and was only in town for a month or two, but my girlfriend didnt know. I ended up breaking it off with the first girl for the second girl, ... (351 words)

Should I be this worried about her being with another guy?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my gf is amazing. and i love her to bits and bits. i cudnt imagine life without her!! but, she said to me that people r trying to set her up with a boy, and even her teachers r getting involved! she drinks a bit, and LIVES IN A FOREIGN COUNTRY! i visit her every 2 to 3 weeks, ... (83 words)

Am I doing right or am I holding onto something that would never be?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15 this mounth we have been going out for 3 moenths but my mam dosn't like him (to be honest not a lot of people do) she says he has bad hygiene and she doesn't like his background "he's in a different league to us" I'm not a big fan of his background ... (114 words)

I don't know if I still love him, or if he ever loved me...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age - I found out last year my husband was seeing another woman, through his text messages, when I confronted him he refused to discuss it with me and text the woman to let her know I had read the texts and to expect me to ring, he told me he was doing this as he was texting her, the ... (383 words)

How many times a day at 18 weeks should I feel the baby kick?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This may seem like a dumb question... I am 18 weeks pregnant and was wondering how many times a day I am supposed to feel the baby move? So far I usually feel a kick or two and sometimes it pushes up against my abdomen and it looks like I have a tumor sticking out of my belly. ... (93 words)

How can I tell if he wants to kiss me too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone: i've been dating my bf for a week and i really want to kiss him, but i don't know if he wants to kiss me. whenever we get off the school bus, we hug goodbye. this would be my first kiss and I'm 14. what should i do? and how can i tell if he wants to kiss me too?... (63 words)

How can I curb this temper of mines?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok, I really need as many help and as much advice as I can possibly get. I really love the person that I'm with right now and I would do anything or at least try my best to work out any problems a relationship sometimes have. My bf and I work together, live together and see ... (233 words)

Do men have a G spot?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Do men have a G-Spot?!? I'm curious..what makes a man go from Ahhh that was fun to Yes girl I want some more!!... (23 words)

How could I celebrate my birthday in a good way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This isn't really a relationship question but it's the only site I know of to come to for help and advice lol. It's my 20th birthday coming up soon, in 2 weeks and I really want to celebrate it as I never really do anything for my birthday. problem is.. I have no money wha... (162 words)

Is it OK for my girlfriend to classify her ex-lover as her best friend? How should I bring this up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Is it OK for my girlfriend to classify her ex-lover as her best friend amongst all friends (not boyfriend, but she seriously sought after him to be her boyfriend). I'm almost 25, her 24, and him 27... maybe older, can't remember. My gf still talks to her past love int... (155 words)

In terms of Personality, what is a man's turn on when he looks for a woman?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age - Though this may seem a little vague, what would you say is the biggest attractant for a man when it comes to the opposite sex? We know that sex is a primary need and desire, but aside from the physical part, what do most men look for or what is the biggest turn on for them in ... (124 words)

Is it normal to masturbate while watching porn?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) age 26-29 - sometimes, when i get kind of horny.. i masturbate.. and sometimes i think of sex or i watch porn while i do it, is this normal? do you people do it too? If u are, what age do you do this?... (42 words)

If I give in and have sex with him will I be just another notch on his bedpost?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on a guy that I work with, we have been flirting for about nine months, we finally had a quick snog, he has a rep as being a ladies man but I really fancy him, so I went for it, he text me to he liked it and I was just wondering if he is really into me or ... (87 words)

How can I see if I am still a virgin?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i wonder weather i can find out if i am still a virgin or not by myself ?... (18 words)

I lost interest in sex after pregnancy, help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in a relationship for 5 years, with a really nice guy. We have a young child togethor, and have a trusting relationship, but my problem is,I have'nt found him all that sexually attractive for quite a while. I lost interest in sex after pregnancy as I put a lot of w... (176 words)

I had underage sex and now I'm worried that I'm pregnant

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey im underage n i slept wid my bf about a week ago and im really worried i could b pregnant because ive been feeling sick in the mornings and ive been getting worried and im too scared to tell my bf or go to a chemist to get a test in case they dont let me buy it or judge me. ... (114 words)

How can I tell him I'm still not ready for a baby at 22? I'm afraid this will push him away.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm a 22 year old, just completed my varsity degree and have made a decision to move out of my parents' house now that i have a job- which i'm obviously very excited about... Been dating my boyfriend for two years now and everything between us is so perfect, he loves me and ... (376 words)

From relationship, to friends....now will he ever want to be lovers again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age - I have been in a long distance relationship with a widower for 5 years. We love each other very much, but he is afraid of commitment, so much so that when I asked him where he saw our relationship in a few years time, he said that he couldnt imagine sharing his life or his home... (272 words)

Advice on romantic weekends please!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I want to plan a romantic weekend for my girlfriend. Any advice as to where mountains, ocean, lake, or city. What are some fun/ romantic activities we can do on the weekend trip? Ladies what makes a romantic weekend special for you... (43 words)

Back in the dating game again after 11 years and now I cannot form a meaningful relationship with a man!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I came out of an 11 year relationship a little over a year ago and since then I have found it really difficult to form a meaningful relationship with another man. I don't seem to have difficulty attracting a man in the first place and over this past year I have been fortun... (193 words)

We are constantly doing things for each other but are we actually good for each other long-term?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age - we share, we give, we care, but she is not interested in me.........all of the above attracts me to her. i'm very much like that. she is 42, never married, and has a teenage daughter at home. i'm 63 but most people tell me i look like 50. i'm very young at heart. we've ... (203 words)

Can you suggest ways of slowing him down and suggesting he does more foreplay? Any examples of foreplay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I wish my boyfriend would try more foreplay when we are in bed. Can you suggest ways of slowing him down and suggesting he does more foreplay? What are some foreplay things we can do? Is suggesting that he lick my body with his tongue a good idea? Is it a good idea for me... (65 words)

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi. I'm in a great relationship with a guy that I'm completely in love with. we really don't have any problems with our relationship except we both get jealous. That has never really been a problem though, since we both are pretty jealous, we both understand how the other ... (369 words)

Does it sound like he actually likes me? Or is he just using me for sex?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Theres a man Ive liked for over 4 years now (I got talking to him more after I'd split up with my ex)and we became really flirty and really good friends with eachother (over the internet). Last year, we finally met up with eachother. The first time he took me out for dinner, ... (575 words)

Do you guys think that he will eventually call to reconcile or that I won't hear from him ever again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

My Boyfriend has just had a baby with his ex....I need to know where this relationship is going!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - i am in a dilema i met a guy last May, we hit it off straight away, started seein each other end of August last year just casual we are both divorced,i have two daughters he has a son. However i have since found out that he split from his live in partner, who then came bac... (158 words)

Pig headed man! Never wants to admit that he is wrong!

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age - When I get hurt by him which is not intentional he tends to look at only his side of the story. I usually dont even get a chance to explain. He justs gets upset and goes into the cave sometimes for weeks which really hurts me. Then we get back and we dont discuss it. I try ... (127 words)

Do I throw all caution to the wind and go for it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Is it to good to be true............. Recently I met a man who is in the process of getting divorced and we have been getting to know each other. Anyhow, we work together and spend a lot of time talking daily. Also, have seen each other outside work for a few months. Due to ... (237 words)

Unhappy unskinny teen

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I'm 15 and I live in New York City. I've never been skinny. I'm a size 6. I've never understood: I have a small chest, big hips, not flat stomach, huge thighs, bad skin, frizzy/ curly hair. I just don't understand! I feel like I lucked out on any good trait that ran in m... (151 words)

I found out about his affairs a year ago, do you think my husband is sorry and should I forgive him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age - I have written on this site before so i hope you can help me out again. It's been just over a year that i found out about my husbands 3 affairs one was 3 years into my marriage that lasted 2 weeks, one that lasted between 5-7 years(not every week he says many weeks/mo... (382 words)

I love my g/f but feel lost..don't know what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So ive been with my girlfriend for nearly 4 months now, and am having a bit of trouble... When we first started seeing eachother we were so happy, we were so in love, but now something seems to have changed, like somethings missing. I love her to bits, i would give my li... (182 words)

What do they mean by "you're amazing!"

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

3 March 2009 (F) - What do guys mean when they say ur amazing to a girl? I mean I always hear a guy say that about a girl who he thinks she's great in bed but we didn't even kiss!!! Male advice please?... (39 words)

Fear of commitment..how can I help him overcome this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age - My boyfriend and I have a great relationship BUT I really think he has a great fear of commitment. he was hurt very deeply in his past. What can I do to to help him overcome this and show him that I will not hurt him. When things are going really well and things get very ... (171 words)

She's 47, I'm almost 30, we have a child together, but can it work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

3 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi folks. This is quite a long story so please be patient. Thank you. About two years ago, I lost my job. It was just one of those things. Cut backs etc. I was worried about how long it would be before I found another job, as the bills won't pay themselves, and a friend of mine ... (826 words)

We have been with others, but want our relationship to work

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey woundering if you can help, I have been with my parten Ed for almost 5 years, and have 1 child aged 3 and half. Things were great until I was pregnant where it appeared if he could have a night or a boozed up long weekends he would causing many aruguments from both sid... (1215 words)

Guy 1? guy 2?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I seem to have got into a bit of a sticky situation. This may sound odd but I already know what I need to do. It's just not what I want to do.. Me and Boyfriend of a year and a half broke up in November 08. He was the love of my life, and yes I would say I was completely i... (450 words)

Unprotected sex and now pregnancy concerns..best time to check?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and me just had sex yesterday and we didnt use a condom . stupid i know and he promises to use one from now on and he used the pull out method o.o but he just took it out in time because he went everywhere and im afraid im pregnant when's the right time to check ... (61 words)

I have a boyfriend but am falling for another guy!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I'm in love with another guy whose totally different from my bf... He listens when i talk, offers his opinions on things we discuss, always makes me feel good when i'm down, we laugh about the same things etc... Talking to him is just amazing, always leaves me happy. On ... (348 words)

Give it another go with the ex?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My ex has recentley popped back into the picture and i really am kinda lost as to what to do. Background- we broke up after a pretty much wonderful relationship of 2.5 years. we're both 21. he was going away for two months with his single friends and i ended up saying stupid... (540 words)

How do I get my boyfriend to open up?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age - When my boyfriend gets mad he blows things out of proportion and gets angry and runs away and hides. Instead of communicating and talking about it he runs and says he cant take this. If things dont go his way he gets mad. To me he is being very self-centered and thinking about ... (161 words)

I know I still love my ex but I wonder what he feels for me?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriend and i broke up for about a month ago. but i felt like i'm missing him that's why i made a new yahoo account, because i forgot my password on my previous account. and then i added him on yahoo messenger. to my surprise, he accepted my invite and he guessed who i am. ... (149 words)

I can't be open with my b/f!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi, i cant get myself to be open about my feelings and stuff with my boyfriend anymore. i trust him but i'm afraid he'll end up thinking i'm too needy. i've got too many issues and i dont want to scare him off. what to do?... (46 words)

She hurt me... but I still love her

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My now ex girlfriend was one of the loves of my life, and she left me... well let me set up some background first... I'm a Pacifist and only defend myself, whether Verbally or Physically when I need too. I met her a year ago and we started Dating the day BEFORE Valentines ... (904 words)

I'm female and want to be with HER but I'm scared I've found this new side to me...

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. A couple of weeks ago, my best friend (a woman) and I went to the cinema and then for something to eat afterwards. Later, we went back to my house to continue the girly night. We went in to the kitchen to get a drink. We were talking then, all of a sudden, my friend grabbed ... (213 words)

He say we can take thing slow so that he can prove he won't treat me like dirt

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, i have been mates with this lad for about 4 years. i have always liked him, i had a boyfriend of 2 years. thats didnt work out. and i recently met up with my mate that i have always liked. and he told me he liked me too. we kissed... and he said he wants to get with me and ... (87 words)

Do guys take rejection to heart or blow it off?

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3 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Do guys take rejection to heart becasue a guy asked me out and I said no. This was few years ago and I met him recently and he's still mad at me becasue I said when he asked me I actually did like the guy but I didn't know if he saw me as friend or girlfriend? He said I was ... (113 words)

We want to be together but can't make it work

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex says she loves me, is desperate to have me back but cant yet, and her greatest fear is that I will not be in her life at all. She just couldn’t bare for me not to be in her life. But I cant just be friends with her, it has to be all or nothing. So I gave her the cho... (132 words)

Relationship breaking down

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I might start by saying I am not the perfect guy, which is the major cause of our relationship break down. I am 20 and my gf is 18. I have known my gf (as a good/best friend) for a year become we got into relationship. Before we got into relationship, (I Feel guilty saying th... (650 words)

She doesn't know how to french kiss

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everone. Me and my girl have been going out for 6 months now. And still she dosnt kiss all that well. Which I am not understanding, considering all her past relatonships and what not had to have taught her how nice a bit o tongue is. How can i get her to open her mouth u... (90 words)

I am in love with a guy who refuses to admit he loves me!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am in love with a guy who reuses to admit he loves me, I know he does because his behaviour shows he does. I know he has been through a lot in life, a bad realtionship, failed marriage but I am willing to accept everything because I love him. At times he behaves really sweet ... (129 words)

I have a new g/f but my ex made me become so paranoid!

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Since I broke up with my ex back in December, i've changed as a person and I could do with some advice. I got really close to my ex and things were going great, when one evening she tells me her ex wants her back and things ended. I've since met someone new, I met her for th... (178 words)

Will he wait for me? What if this was my only chance and I've lost him for good?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi I have never really done anything like this but here goes. I was with my boyfriend for over 2 years and during that time we went through a termination because we were at uni. It hit me hardest. We broke up oct 08 and it was hard but i realised I had troubles because of it ... (260 words)

PLEASE help me get my ex back!

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello there.. my gf n i juz broke up a month ago from our 3 years relationship.. we were very happy, great n a loving couple all dis while when suddenly she wants out.. she said dat she couldn't handle my ego nymore n she's lacking in my attention esp dis year..(which i don't... (632 words)

Cant make sex work

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been trying to have sex, but there have been a few problems. Twice he was unable to maintain an erection, and the other two times he came the instant he entered me. We were both virgins before these attempts. I have tried to relax him, coax him, etc, ... (73 words)

Easy positions for spooning

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i have a 5.5 inch penis and i cant spoon very well. are there any easier positions??... (17 words)

Attracted to one of my best friends! What can I do?

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm a man of 21, and I've got a good friend, who is a female. She's a nice, pretty and desirable girl. We first met and became friends over two years ago, when she started dating a guy I knew. They broke up over a year ago, and he has since moved back to where he lives, far ... (604 words)

I feellike an idiot! Why cant he say something?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I were together for several months on and off. It gets complicated but basically he didnt want to be tied down in a relationship so he broke up with me. He insisted that we remain friends because he didnt want to lose me and we hung out a few times since the break up. ... (307 words)

Tips for getting naked, having sex?

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3 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for about two years. We are both seniors in high school. We are going to be going to different colleges I don’t know what that means to our relationship. It is not that we don’t have something special because we do. Sometimes it seems that ... (190 words)

Father of my child wants nothing to do with his son!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well I met this guy off the net and we dated on and off for about 11 months or so. We even lived together for about 4 months and at the ending of the realationship i became pregnant. He already has 2 kids and had stated on several occasions he didnt want anymore kids so I ... (658 words)

Confused with feelings towards this guy

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this guy for about five years and have been good friends for about three. I apologize in advance this is kinda long, but I'm just so confused with everything! This feeling has slowly increased since last summer when we both started flirting. He asked me to help... (821 words)

Does this guy like me? I can't tell.

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 22-25 - I am a college student and there is this boy I recently became interested in. Last week, he had asked me to stop by and see him at work to give him some music he wanted. I saw him and we ended up talking for a while. Before I left, he asked for my number and I gave it to him. ... (363 words)

We have problems saying the love word, how do I tell him how I feel?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my Jacob for over four months. He's been so wonderful to me -he taught me to love myself again -to be more accepting of myself -he got me to start writing again -he's helping me to lose my stage fright when it cgomes to siting -he motivated me to do... (253 words)

Is it selfish to want a child when we are dealing with marital issues?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It is over a year since I discovered my husband ws having an affair - we are still together and things are going pretty well - however, we still have more work to do in order to be able to fully move on from this. We are both keen to have another child - and have been 'trying'. ... (98 words)

I feel too shy with girls.

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, i am shy relating to ladies. I feel sexually active like any other man. I also even imagine having sex with girls whom i am sexually attracted to. I have never had a girlfriend just because of my shyness to girls. There is a girl in our college that i feel attracted to but ... (95 words)

My ex is moving on but I still love him!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't like talking to people about my problems so this is my only option left. I'm hurting. I can't even think about anything. Me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I'm still not over it. He wanted a break but I said a relationship or nothing. While we weren't ... (224 words)

Do you think he will call or is completely over me?

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3 March 2009 (F)

I like him but now another girl is all over him. What do I do?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I have a huge dilemma here. I'm almost 22 and have never had a boyfriend. I've never had a lot of friends and I don't party like people my age. So you can see why... Anyway, my problem is that a guy supposedly likes me, or so say my friends. It's been a year since we me... (366 words)

Tampons don't seem to fit.

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - alright so i am on my period. and when i put a tampon in it seems like it curves into my vagina. like it doesn't go straight in it like zig zags sorta. and then when i pull it out it does the same thing. is there something wrong? i mean i've had sex before with different people ... (72 words)

We fight all the time but don't want to break up.

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend are always fighting. It's becoming a daily routine. But we don't want to leave eachother. What do I do ?... (25 words)

I broke up with her out of anger and now I want her back!

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I made a huge mistake! I am really really in like with this girl (she is awesome its only been two months dating). We have been having a great time, great sex, getting really close. The problem is communication. She ignores me sometimes when we are out with her friends... (459 words)

I like her but she doesn't want a boyfriend right now.

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I like a girl and we talk almost every day. she knows i like her but she says she dont want a boyfriend right now.how should i approach this?... (29 words)

My girlfriend broke up with me, and I am absolutely heartbroken. What can I do to move on?

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i feel like crap right now!!!!! im in a terrible situattion!! so i've been going out with my gf for a little over a year and i absolutely adore..i cant live without her, we do every single thing together a we get along so great....we're perfect!! we make each other l... (336 words)

My fiance is wonderful, but we don't have the same connection that my ex and I had. What should I do?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 19 and i am enagaged i love my fiance but i find myself always making up excuses to not get physical. is like i am not sexually attracted to him as i was with my ex. i feel like i stil love my ex i think about him and i miss him. my fiance is a great guy and he is ... (135 words)

Rough month with my boyfriend of 1 year. Is it too late to make up?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend left me because he needed "space", instead of respeting his decision i cryed and made a whole lot of drama for 2 weeks. he got very angry, later he got better and said we should start as friends, we had sex and he said he still loved me. one night i drunk dialed ... (216 words)

Black and love white boys

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i'm "black" and i love white boys but they don't seem to like me all the time.i'm not a "gettho girl" at all.HONESTLY i act "white".Is it because i'm black? i don't really know can you help me?is it because i act white but not purposely.and i refuse to be a normal black gi... (76 words)

How can I leave someone I love so much

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear friend, I decided write to you because I need your help, and I cannot talk to anybody else about my problem. My problem is I met somebody a three years ago after I broke up with me ex that I've been with for about eight years. So when I broke up I was feeling really sad ... (631 words)

Childhood friend like me?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So my childhood friend that i have known since i was 5 has been giving these weird looks. i dont see him that much like once a week and we talk every time we see each other. but since i've been single whenever i've been around him he stares at me no matter where we are ... (125 words)

Should I quit my job?

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3 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - My wife and me haven't had sex in 6 weeks because I haven't been feeling too well and I have high blood pressure (she knows about it) and it makes me really tired. My high blood is due to my very stressful job. My boss over works me and some other coworkers. My wife have been ... (144 words)

What does it mean when a guy asks you if you'd like to go get coffee?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Here is my situation (sorry if it's kind of long.) I met this guy in a professional context (actually, in a job training class I assisted with teaching last year). They graduated. We got back in contact when he texted me wanting to know when the main instructor's pregnant wife ... (322 words)

My new husband may have to go back to Mexico...

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I been with my boyfriend for 5 years, and last week we got married, but he doesn't have papers and I would like to fix his papers, but he came to the United States when he was 4 but according to the lawyer there's a new law that says he will have to make up time in Mexico for ... (92 words)

Am I just a piece of ass for now or does he really like me?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a little confused! I'm recently divorced and I just started seeing an old flame like 2 months ago, the chemistry between us is great and we couldn't get along better. We live about an hour away from each other and both have kids from previous marriages, so we usually only ... (145 words)

Should I stay with my fiance or go back with my ex?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been with my fiance for a year so far. Things haven't been going well because I feel like I still love my ex. I had recently started talking to my ex online and now I miss him even more and I want to be with him. I love my fiance but I love my ex as well. My fiance wants ... (281 words)

Too tight for sex!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and the other night I was going to have sex with my boyfriend. We were foreplaying before and he got two fingers in me then once we were actually going to have sex he couldn't get in me. It would be my first time and I told me best friend and she said "woww that's ... (94 words)

Is it too early to propose to her... I'm 14!

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now and I'm a sophmore in high school and she is a junior and she's going to enlist in the national gaurd and me in the navy but I really really love her and I was thinking about proposing march 31 her birthday is it too early? I ... (63 words)

Why does my weight fluctuate in this way?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay so I'm so confused! All weekend I eat whatever I want, then I weigh less or the same (110). but all 5 school days I workout hard and eat really healthy, then I weigh myself and I'm like 112! What's up with that! I really want to get back down to my old weight of 105 ... (112 words)

Maybe his equipment is faulty... or does he just not know how to use it properly?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Regarding the issue of penis size, people always say that it's not the size that matters but how you use it. How else can a guy use it aside from plain old boring penetration? What are some techniques other than changing positions? I ask because I've never once gotten a... (122 words)

I truly want to be with him but I'm not sure if I'm willing to be put on the backburner again.

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for a couple months and things started off great, he's a real sweetheart and a total gentleman. But since he's started school again (he just got into med school btw), he doesn't seem to have time for anything let alone time for me. We had a ... (435 words)

Even though we live together, he's still married. Will he ever be free?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay, I have an issue and I hope that someone can give me a little insight on how to handle the situation without being judgmental, brutal, and malicious. I dated a young man when I was fifteen for almost 2 years so there is a little history. I seen this gentleman again ... (158 words)

Do guys find genital piercings on women sexy and a turn on?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I want to get my clitoris hood and inner labia pierced. I would like to know from the guys if they find genital piercings sexy and a turn on. Of course, I'm doing it for me but would like to know what guys think of them. P.S. I'm single so I have no boyfriend to ask.... (59 words)

Is porn addictive?

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok well me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months but have known each other for 7 years. Just recently we moved into our own place. I was unpacking one day wen his phone vibrated so I took a look to see who it was. Just a message. I had that gut feeling just to take a ... (194 words)

Are those symptoms normal?

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - My girlfriend is taking metformin. She is complaining of constant headaches, weakness and she sometimes feels like throwing up (vomit). Is anybody here taking or has any knowledge of it? I called her doctor and he suggested she continues as she only started taking it yesterda... (54 words)

The thought of a girl giving me oral sex aroused me??

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I have a wonderful boyfriend, and I love having sex with him. When I've masturbated, I haven't needed to think of anything sexual or look at anything sexual, because it seemed like everything I thought of (involving a guy or girl) turned me off while doing the said ... (273 words)

Starting a new job but my ex works there... my boyfriend is upset that I'm taking it.

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm starting a new job, my first job but the problem is that my ex also works there so now my boyfriend is very upset with me.... (27 words)

Does masturbating stunt the growth of your penis?

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3 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Oh man!! I feel so embarrassed asking this question... I feel so sorry for myself.. but does masturbating stunt the growth of your penis?? I'm 14 and 5.5 inch when it's hard and have been really self conscious lately about my size, will it ever grow????.. One of my female f... (75 words)

Licking a penis!

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, So I'm 15 and a virgin. What can you get from licking a penis? It's a really stupid question I know.. but I want to know. Is it dangerous? Can you get an STD?... (36 words)

I'm pregnant and am giving my baby up for adoption. Now I'm getting called nasty names for making that decision.

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3 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in high school and pregnant, I decided to give my baby up for adoption but in the meantime people keep on calling me nasty names even the guy that is the father who I'm still dating, that's another thing he is so nice out of school but ever since I told him I was pregnant ... (63 words)