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writes: Mums,If your daughter has children and is on benefits and is very attractive to men. What would you say to her if she said she will look for a man with a good financial position and chose him over love?obviously both would be ideal!butwould you agree?orwould you say find love first? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, The Gentle Man +, writes (9 March 2009):
It depends. Luring a man by showing genuine feelings is a cruel thing to do. But if both are happy then anything goes.
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reader, 1perrito +, writes (9 March 2009):
I say she is smart.
Love with a man who is financialy responsible is what most women want.
But, as is life, that is not always possible for all women. Sometimes young women make the mistake of falling for a man who (as sexy and good looking as he can be) is not financially stable.
Granted, most men of wealth (like myself) generally stear away from "hotties with children". This might be a truth that is hard to take. However, it is the truth.
My only advice to you and to her is to not "try too hard to catch that man". That scares away most normal men. I am sure that your daughter is a lovely woman.
Believe me, good men will come around if she just be herself. No pressure, that is the best way.
FRM
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (9 March 2009):
As I said to your last post!
IT'S HER CHOICE!!
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