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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What should I do it if my in-laws won't stay out my marriage?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What should I do it if my in-laws won't stay out my marriage. My husband is scared to stand up to them about his marriage to me?... (27 words)

I've fallen for my friend's boyfriend! Help!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a problem. I think I like my friend's boyfriend! I have known him since elementery school (which is longer than she's known him) but the thing is he never really looked that attractive to me until about a year ago. I think he knows Ii like him because one time I asked ... (263 words)

Will changing my appearance help me attract women?

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Will changing my appearance help me attract women? As you will see on my profile, my hairstyle is pretty unique to say the least. I've had it this way for the past six years or so, and I think it's time for a change. My hair gets me a lot of good and bad attention. When ... (194 words)

21 months after we finished, she's still on my mind. Help me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi there, It's been a year and 8 months since the best relationship of my life ended. It was a long distance relationship, and it lasted 2 years. She's been on my mind a lot today. I've heard her first name said a lot, and heard songs that were significant to us on the radio. A ... (217 words)

My boyfriend wants to be kinky in our sexual relationship.... But I absolutely hate it.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I love my boyfriend very much and I've been with him for about a year and a half. We have an absolutely great relationship... except for when it comes to sex (for me anyways). We first started having sex taking it slow. That kind of stuff turns me on the most and it was ... (350 words)

Will a threadworm tablet stop my pill from working?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey aunts please help! I started taking the contraceptive pill (microgynon 30) on Tuesday for the first time ever! I started on the first day of my period, and I've read the information leaflet about 4 times, the doctor told me and the leaflet says by taking the pill on the ... (199 words)

She needs time, I need help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, this is new to new and I'm here to find help with my situation. I recently met this girl who is prefect in every way, we have so much in common that it's scary. We both felt the same way about each other.(head over hills). Yesterday she text me that she talked to her ... (124 words)

What can you feed a man so his sperm isn't so salty or sour?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What can you feed a man so his sperm isn't so salty or sour? It doesn't have to taste like candy or anything.... (23 words)

My boyfriend is ignoring me.... HELP!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had a fight a few days ago. He wouldn't say sorry to me or even talk to me at all! It's been 3 days without communication. I see him at school but he pretends to ignore me. He looks for me in the rooms school and when he finds me, he goes away. Sometimes I ... (135 words)

My best mate's cousin!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy a few months ago, he's my best mate's cousin and it was her 18th. Anyway so we made out and I speak to him daily since then and seen him a few times. He know's I like him and I think he likes me to but I'm not sure. He had a girlfriend when I met him, but ... (189 words)

I don't feel I'm near ready to have sex yet... what will I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am underage for haveing sex be me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now and I told him if we get any time alone on him birthday we can do but the thing is.. that it's the first time for both of us and I don't know what to do and also I don't really feel like ... (78 words)

Frustrated with love, lies, needs, and possible pregnancy.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Whoever knows where to begin on these issues? I have been seeing a girl for roughly two years. We have had a few small break-ups in-between, but have ultimately stayed together. I do care or her, but now am facing a difficult question. We have both discussed the iss... (540 words)

Is there any way I can recall an email from hotmail if it hasn't been read yet?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP!!! I was really emotional a few days ago and sent my ex a really stupid email which I totally regret now. I am not sure that he has read it yet; is there any way I can recall the email if it is unread? I sent it from my hotmail account. Thanks ... (56 words)

Why is my mum acting this way?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - It's not really a relationship question but any help would be great! I've been going out with my boyfriend for 8 months and I've never had such a deep relationship or been this close to anyone before. We see each other about every other day and on the days we don't see each ... (265 words)

What's the best way to bring up "us"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a situation that, well, has been going on now for five years, but especially since last summer. The below link is the whole story to help you get a better understanding of what's going on to answer my question: http://www.dea... (292 words)

Should I talk to her about things? Or let it go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have made out with girls before and thats no big deal. well around a week ago or something a real good friend and i made out,well she for sure likes girls and its a toss up for me. well we kissed again last night and it was a little more hot and heavy we didnt do anything but ... (115 words)

Can my husband investigate into my computer?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, I'm going on a trip, and would like to know if my husband can get into my computer to find sites I've been on. I have a password and erased my history, but can he bypass it all to find out everything? I once saw a show about computer forensics, but it went over my hea... (60 words)

"you have too many problems"

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend is telling me " you have too many problems I don't get it in which area is he talking about" and when I ask him he is telling me in general there are so much things going on in your life. How I supposed to respond with it, that means what ,break up or wake u... (72 words)

Ex fiance backin the picture and more confused than ever!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - A few months back I put up a question about my ex-fiance that recently came back into my life. Well, things have been... interesting. I'm not exactly sure where to go with this. Here's a quick synopsis of whats happened. Was engaged to this girl about 5 years ago, we br... (623 words)

I like two guys..they are best friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so I'll use fake names. The first boy is David who I went out with in Middle School but we broke up over something dumb. I don't know .. we were young and stupid. But we stayed really tight friends then in Sophomore year of high school I saw this kid for the first time ... (385 words)

How do you make sex beautiful for both of you?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Ladies what do you do to make sure you are satisfied during sex? What do you do to satisfy your man during sex? What do you do to make sex beautiful for you both? ... (43 words)

I have worked so hard on it, then we broke up. When do I give it to her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Recently my girlfriend and I broke up on good terms. During our relationship we both made strong commitments about love and the future. About a week later after the break, we were hanging out and everything went really sour. The reason is that the night before, we were out ... (240 words)

I don't see us surviving this rocky patch. I'm pregnant and I'm scared.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi im a bit scared. im 21 i have 2 beautifull girls who i love more than anything. i found out i was pregnant last week, my relationship is rocky. he doesnt take no blame 4us breaking apart and wont do anything 2 try and save our 5 year relationship. i have tryed everything, i ... (115 words)

What's your opinion on her telling me not to have sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My ex girlfriend and I dated for about a year but never had sex. We were in a long distance relationship the last few months and she told me she wanted her first time to be with me... Unfortunately we broke up before we got to see each other again. Great timing huh? So over ... (237 words)

Why did she send that text? And what should I do with my ex when I see her? Confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So my girlfriend dumped me after about a year of dating she started to tell me she still had feelings for me but just did not want a boyfriend...even I love you etc...I'm still so in love with her, perhaps more now because I lost her. After a few months after we broke up we ... (329 words)

Does interest fade in ALL serious relationships, or should I take it as a sign to move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5768 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm looking for opinions from married people or people in long term serious relationships.... I'm trying to figure out if what I'm feeling/not feeling for my boyfriend of 2 years is "normal", or is it an indication that we shouldn't get married? Here's what we have: 1) ... (309 words)

Everyone else seems normal and I don't know what's wrong with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know whats wrong with me. I feel like bursting into tears all the time for no reason. I don't want to go out with my friends anymore and my mood swings are so bad i just want to give up on everything. I get so many spots now and i never used to get them. I'm 14 and i... (87 words)

I have a sick feeling of betrayal since he had a texting flirtation!

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6 March 2009 (F)

age - If your husband of many years had had a texting flirtation lasting 3/4 months with a younger woman (also married) and swore blind it was just a silly game for them both would you be able to carry on life as normal? Would it still be going on if I hadn't discovered some of the ... (150 words)

He's giving me the guilt trip for running late for our quickie!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Does my boyfriend have a reason to be upset? We had plans last night to go watch a movie preview.. begins at midnight. Well we both got off work and I headed off to class. I get off from class about 10:00p.m. and he had time to be at home and rest awhile before we left to the ... (292 words)

Why do I feel bad when I hear his voice mail messages?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just found out by another woman that my boyfriend of 4yrs were together during the summer time and I just found a text message on his phone that he had sent her 3weeks ago..a nude pic of himself..he denied it at first but after I found out everything he stated that we were ... (110 words)

Porn addicted husband wants my help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My husband and I have been married a year in May. We have a son who just turned 3 months. I found out about 8 months ago that he has a porn addiction. I confronted him on several occations and he always told me he would stop. He didnt. I have a problem trusting him now. We... (310 words)

Should I tell my ex's new girlfriend that he asked me for sex?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Should i tell my ex new gf that a few weeks ago he asked me if i wanted sex with him, that he would offer his services 2 me, i said no but he also said he wanted 2 suck my tits a few days before he asked me for sex Im now wondering if he really ment it and maybe doing it with ... (132 words)

Now what do I do, after shaving?

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6 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Right so i shaved my pubes, all of them, on an impulse and theyre starting to grow back....should i carry on with shaving? wax it? or wait for it to grow back and just go with the bikini line or the triangle thing? ... (47 words)

Help with shaving needed...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm confused, what parts of my pubes should I be shaving??? I've never shaved them before and I don't know where to start! Please help.... (27 words)

Ouch!!! I'm now regretting shaving my pubes!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently shaved my pubes and now am starting to think I made a mistake. Did I? If so, what can I do to rectify this? Obviously wait for it to grow back but how long will that take? and what style should I opt for instead? help!!! ... (54 words)

He's not doing his fair share of the chores and it's wearing me down...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my partner for three years and we have a lovely little boy. We moved in together in September last year and things just are not the same. Fair enough he goes to work so I can train at college to become a hairdresser but the problem is he just does not help out ... (243 words)

She wants to elope!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been with with my girlfreind for four months, we planned a trip to Jamaica and she has been talking about eloping after we get there, she went online and even looked up everything we have to do and how long we have to be on the island before we can elope. Does this mean ... (64 words)

At times I find myself hating her... should I call it a day with her?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have been with my girl 6 years on and off. From the start she has hidden things like texting ex's(denied for 1 year until he told me), joining dating sites, calling me by the wrong name, phone calls from males and then lies as she's unaware I'm not deaf - Phoning males. ... (120 words)

He's asked me out but I'm terrified as I've never been on a date!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice, I am a 25 year old female, who has never had a boyfriend, I am quite shy, but I have recently been flirting with a guy (who is very experienced shall we say), we kissed briefly (he kissed me, like I say very confident), he has sent me a message asking me out ... (103 words)

When it came to it I was like a rabbit in headlights!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I don't know what I am doing, there is a guy I work with whom I have been attracted to since I first saw him, we have been flirting for a couple of years (yes years) we finally snogged but I was rubbish I completely froze (my hands were shaking and I didn't really respond), I ... (206 words)

It doesn't seem to matter what he does or how much he makes me hurt inside, I don't seem to be able to get over him...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have had a massive crush on a friend of mine for years and last year on valentines day I told him how I felt but he blew me off. Ever since then he's been using me to get things. I know he is using me and that he doesn't like me in that way but I'm frightened to stop ... (147 words)

After getting back together he started seeing the girl he'd dumped me for... so I told her! Did I do the right thing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5765 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I recently got back with an ex. He had left me a few months earlier but I still loved him and was happy to take him back but after a few days he started saying he needed time alone etc, then I found out he was back with the girl he had previously dumped me for!!! He actually ... (139 words)

My husband seems far too cosy with his boss for my liking!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have become worried about my husband. He's spending far too much time with his boss. I know it isn't to get a promotion, as my husband's been promoted, and it certainly isn't in meetings either. I only know of this because my brother [he's 20] said he'd seen my husband ... (290 words)

This woman intrigues me and I'd love to ask her out for coffee...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5767 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I've recently become more friendly with a woman who works in a store I frequent. She's always been very nice and she's very likable and I enjoy talking to her. I'd love to ask her out for coffee sometime. I'm not sure if she's interested or just being nice. I don't know how ... (214 words)

Is it okay we're dating and we're third cousins?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm curretnly living with and dating my third cousin. A lot of people seem to be against it, I even think he double guesses it sometimes, what should I do?... (31 words)

The different "other woman" wants to know what this guy is going to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've known this man for six years now. We have always had a connection from day one, but one of was always in a relationship when the other was available. We would reconnect through the years just to talk and spend hours on the phone (we would pick up where we left off from ... (700 words)

Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it wrong in wanting to be actress and following your dreams? Why do people put the glamour world down? If you work hard in life and you have the hot looks and the acting talent and the right attitude we can achieve what we want right...? Then why won't my parents agree ... (62 words)

Help needed to stop arguing...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend is brilliant, he would do anything for me and I could go on forever saying nice things about him... We have a problem though! I have paranoia towards girls he works with or any girls he comes into contact with (for no good reason as he has never cheated and neve... (187 words)

Relationship worth saving! Just need advice to send us in the right direction

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years. He has a 4 year old daughter. We had a rocky start that involved getting together, breaking up, moving in together, him moving out and then finally us moving back in together. We have a great life together but we argue. La... (482 words)

Torn between Joe and Bob!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there is this guy, I'll call him Bob, he is um bigger... Bob is really sweet and funny, I like him as a friend, I've only hung out with him once (been on vacation the rest of the time, met bob before I left) anyways, I've never been a shallow person before, and I feel bad ... (315 words)

She won't have me back and she doesn't want time apart either, so what am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My gf split with me 4 months ago because she said we don't talk to each other. But we never really stopped seeing each other. We still have nights out together, she stays at my house, we still have sex. Yet when I ask her to be my girlfriend again she says she cant. The other... (159 words)

It bothers me that my b/f goes out only the times I can't accompany him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a new job and I work shifts and it involves me working till about 9-10 at night sometimes. My boyfriend has been planning lots of big nights out with just his boy mates specifically on the nights that i am working late. I dont mind him going out with his friends but he ... (163 words)

Guys seem to hate me, please advise.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have big problem every single guy i liked has hated me for one reason or another.guys just don,t like me.i find hard to get on with guys.i can be hard on guys but i don,t mean to be.but guy are rotten to me telling me i am not good enough for them or seen with them.or they ... (199 words)

Co-workers are chit-chatting near my desk, it's driving me crazy!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age - I work in a a government office and have a problem with co-workers standing near my cubical and talking to each other for hours on end. My supervisor has a problem with needing to be liked so she directly says nothing to address the problem. These talkers are friends with the ... (112 words)

Tired of using hands, what else can I use?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey iam 19 and as most guys I enjoy masturbation but iam sick of using my hands I want to use something new but I dnt know wat to use does anyone here kno wat I could use... (38 words)

Should I try to find him or just try to forget about how much I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm in love with a guy even though I haven't seen him in a year, we were at school together and since we went off to different colleges I haven't spoken to him but I can't get him off my mind, how could I find him? Should I try to find him or just try to forget about how much ... (64 words)

I'm not physically maturing quick enough!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey I am 17 and I have a 2.5 inch penis, hardly any body hair or pubes and I was woundering if anyone knows if I should see a doctor or do something?... (33 words)

Do women, once they reach 40 become less interested in their partners and is there something more I can do to help her get her mojo back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been with my wife for 20 years. We have been in and out of the ruts over time and each time climbing out has taught us somEthing new about ourselves and each other. My wife turned 40 a while ago and now she has no intrest in me sexually. She has told me that my ... (268 words)

How does a teenage guy act when he knows that the girl he likes likes him a lot as well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - How does a teenage guy act when he knows that the girl he likes likes him a lot as well? What could his attitude be towards her? If he ignores or avoids her, but he sometimes smiles sweetly at her when he sees her, what does it mean? please answer!... (53 words)

Why do people continue to lie even though they know that their lies are going to be found out?

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6 March 2009 (F) age - Why do people continue to lie even though they know that their lies are going to be found out? My partner keeps lying to me how can I believe what he says when I have found out so much about him that I never would have dreamed of, his cheating being one of them. ... (58 words)

I caught my mum and my boyfriend having sex.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5770 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - A couple of days ago I came home from University a little earlier than expected and I caught my mum and my boyfriend having sex. My Mum even saw me but instead of stopping and being all shocked she carried on more energetically. My boyfriend, who will be my ex when I recover ... (151 words)

Clubs are such a nightmare! Where else can I meet women?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in my first year at university, and since I started in September I haven't had a lot of luck with the ladies. To be specific, I dated a girl on my course for three months before we ended on mutual terms. Apart from that, no joy. Part of the problem is finding places to ... (115 words)

Why does my ex hate me so much?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - HELP guys my ex boyfriend and I have stayed friends but since 3 weeks ago we stopped talking because apparently I was spreading stuff about him, anyway I still see him down the pub sometimes with his new girlfriend, but he still stares at me, I think he stopped talking to me ... (206 words)

Besotted...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, so I'm kinda in a pickle. I was once friends with a girl as a little boy, she moved across the planet. I haven't seen or contacted in almost 10 years? except for a brief encounter about a year or so ago where neither of us said anything so when I saw her then I fell in ... (510 words)

How do I keep both women in my life?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been in a committed relationship for the past 6+ years with my girlfriend, "Rachel". I love her with all of my heart and I had planned on proposing but something recently has caused me not to. One of my close friends, "Tammy", and I have been flirting like crazy recen... (205 words)

Crush on my daughter's teacher

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I am married and fancy my daughters teacher I am a women and she is a women, I can't get her out of my head, how do I know if she is flirting with me - she often makes small talk, smiles when shes in the mood, dresses alot better and I just feel the connection, but ... (118 words)

How do I know if its time to end it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I have been hitting a few rough patches in our long distance relationship. I have been flirting with the idea of breaking up, but am finding it extremely difficult. Every time I tell him I want to end it, I wish I hadn't. Yet every time I tell him I want to stay with ... (75 words)

My fiancee's mum shamelessly flirts with me! What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi people. I have a bit of a problem and was wondering if anyone could give me any advice on how to approach the situation. You see, the thing is that my fiancee's Mum shamelessly flirts with me. When my fiancee is around she doesn't do it so blatantly, just little things that ... (303 words)

He slept with a few girls after our break up in order to forget me - is it a good idea to get back with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have just moved states, and for that reason me and my boyfriend split up. I am heartbroken, and I know he is too.. But its only been a few weeks, and he has already slept with a few other girls... I'm pretty devo about that, and Told him to stop contacting me. But he s... (128 words)

My period is late, why could this be?

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6 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - my period is late. but i havent had sex. i can't be pregnant if i haven't had sex can i?? help.... (21 words)

Sickeningly happy but how to propose? UPDATE!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone! I would like to thank everybody who responded to my question, you all gave me some great advice! Well, I did it. I popped the question and she said... YES!!! I asked her, on Wednesday night, if she still had the silver fitted dress and if she has then she sho... (240 words)

Help, I might be pregnant!

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so ive had sex about 4 times three with condom 1 without. I know it was wrong not to use one but we did anyways im not going to explain why i didnt use one. :What is the chances of me getting pregnant if I didnt go off but he did... :We dont have jobs, any suggestions for ... (131 words)

I'm scared the stress will harm the baby!

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Me and my boyfriend been dating for 5 years and I am 4 months preg and when he found out that I was preg he seems happy and now that I am 4 months it seems like he not happy about the baby. Because we always fight and like I told him that I don't need no stress because of the ... (147 words)

Should I call him? I want him to take me seriously!

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I wrote my ex boyfriend an email telling him exactly what I feel for him and he hasn't responded. The email was basically telling him that I can't be friends with him because im still in love him ( he's married). I just want to know that he's read the email and understa... (196 words)

In love with my husband's best friend

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i'm in love with my husband's best friend and i told him my feelings and i think it ruined our friendship. But now I don't know what to do, cause i've felt this way for really long time. what should i do?... (43 words)

What can I do? I'm so confused, guilty and regretful for having sex so early. Would telling him this help?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16. I just had sex with my boyfriend for the past year. I love him and I'm lucky to be with him, but I feel so bad about sleeping with him. It was my first time and I feel like I gave up a part of myself. I'm scared people are going to find out and I don't know how to make ... (105 words)

Who do I choose: the man who couldn't commit or my friend who comes home from jail soon?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I was seeing someone for about 10 months that i really felt like he could be the one and was scared to tell him i loved him because he didnt consider me his girlfriend and i was being faithful to him tho. That was my fuss between us why couldnt he commit. So I didnt bother with ... (325 words)

I think my best friend is in love with my boyfriend?!!!?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think my Best Friend is in love with my Boyfriend?!!!? Me, my best friend met my boyfriend-to-be in a halloween party. the following year, in february, this guy proposed to me, and i accepted. something happened a month later- something stupid got into my head, and i deci... (354 words)

I feel like I hate him and love him because of his porn-watching. How to deal with this?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - When my boyfriend and I first started dating, I told him how I feel about porn. I think it is nasty and hurtful. Well, I just got out of the hospital delivering my son. I'm only 18 years old. I found out on our e-mail address he was not only looking at porn, he made 2 profiles ... (186 words)

Should I tell him how I am feeling and how?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have known this guy for about three years now. When we met there was mutual interest, but nothing ever came of it romantically, basically cause we worked together. And there were several times when I knew he wanted us to be more than friends and vice versa for me. Either way, ... (217 words)

My husband slept with other women while we were dating, I don?t know if I can forgive him, any advice?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year it came to my attention, that my husband of four year, was sleeping with other women while we were dating. When we were dating, it was a really big issue that he was hanging out with other girls, but for some reason i trusted him and didn't believe it and stayed with ... (190 words)

My question is, was I a fool to forgive him? How can I stop worrying now?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - In December 2007 my boyfriend of many years told me that he didn't love me the way I loved him. He said that he had always felt as though we were best friends but not lovers. He had gotten together with me hoping to build a relationship because I was the only girl that had ... (664 words)

Lost cause for this awkward love interest?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi. I am having some issues with a male friend whom I really care for. He lives in my building and we met about four months ago. We've been out a number of times for drinks, meals, etc. He always insists upon paying to a point that makes me uncomfortable. Any... (303 words)

Sincere or just stringing me along?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age - If a man says that he is 'madly in love with you' and wants you by his side, is this maybe a line or what does one look for to know if he is sincere. Here's the situation...about 2 months ago, I had been seeing this man on a regular basis and out of the blue, he ... (163 words)

I'm 26 connecting with a 20, but afraid of how his family will react

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 26 years old women that has soooo much connection with an 20 years old guy. I'm shy to ask him if he has feelings for me. I'm also afraid what his family would say specially his sister who is the same age as me. I want him to be apart of my life. He makes me smile ... (77 words)

How do we make our relationship yummier?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi everyone. I'm a 40 year old female and have been with my partner for 11years and am 10 years older and have a 5 year old. He tells me that he loves me but wants to be on his own at the same time. We are mostly happy but are in a rut how do i spice things up without going ... (69 words)

Should I make the first move or wait?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and this guy have been best friends for about one year. We talk on youtube, hotmail and all that we were just about going out. He emailed me one day and said he was in love with me, I told him that I loved him too. Now I wish that he would kiss me. It's been 5 months since ... (88 words)

Where am I supposed to go from here?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I have been with this man for the last 2 years, everything was great till our restaurant shut down and he got a job right away, and it has taken me a little longer to find a job. but i have found one. but in the mean time, he has made himself out to be the key holder of all ... (124 words)

Two faced ex I still love

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6 March 2009 (M)

age - i was with my ex for 14yrs and we are separated now she said she did not trust me and i lied to her about small stuff and she did not have the energy to work at the relationship anymore,then i found out that she had been cheating and lying to me for about 4 or 5 months before ... (96 words)

Pester him or leave him alone?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are currently separated. I still love him, and want him back, but I don't know if it's really over this time, or if he just needs alone time. Should I call him everyday to let him know I'm still interested, or stop calling him, and risk losing him forever?... (53 words)

He tells me he loves me and yet then he says he's "stuck with me"

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 20 years old and pregnant. ive been with my boyfriend for going on 3 yrs...in the beginning, the relationship was really good, dont get me wrong it still is...but things have changed......he's really insulting when he talks about my mom, and my cousin.....when directing his ... (301 words)

Should I really believe he's just that busy or is it all about sex?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I'm so confused right now. I'm currently in medical school and I met a guy who is also in my class. We have many mutual friends, and we've hung out at a couple of parties together. My third time hanging out with him we ended up sleeping together, and have continued to do ... (671 words)

Is this sex or not?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ther is a story im really ntrested in finding out. My boyfriend of 6years who of recent i have sared my first kiss claims he had half-sex. He said he only inserted his penis halfway into his ex girlfriend, which was his first and only sexual expirience. is this true? mean dos ... (67 words)

Do men like women who are a little hard to get?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age - Do guys like women who aren't too anxious to talk with them...in other words those who play a little hard to get more than those who seem like an anxious puppy waiting to hear from them again? Is this a matter of individual preference or it it a universal answer among men in ... (83 words)

Do guys like being a girl's first?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Do guys like being a girl's first? I'm a virgn. my boyfriend isn't and I'm just wondering what it's like for the guy. In general, however, do guys mind being a girl's first time or is it something they like? By the way, my age is wrong, I'm 16. I'd appreciate any answers... (54 words)

I really don't see how she could be pregnant but why does she have a headache & puking?

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - well i have a simple question. since the day me and my g/f made love(protected) and i came inside her with a brand new condom and so i was sure that there was no leak cause i checked it before i put it on and i know it didnt broke because the fluids didnt even flow out of... (213 words)

How can a girl approach guys in a club without appearing desperate? or slutty?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a birthday party to go to tomorrow night at a club, im 20 yrs old and a virgin and im not seeking for sex just yet but what i want is to find a good guy for me and im known to be a bit daring and not take bull from anyone although im not a fighter at least not physically ... (83 words)

Normal to look this way?

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - when i have an erection the head is not on show and it is quite hard to expose it. i am uncircumsized is this normal?... (25 words)

Weird to think sex is yuk?

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - This will sound really stupid, so if you ant to answer more important questions first like teen pregnancy ones go ahead. I am 13. I had my first kiss at 12. I have not done anything with a boy past a short make out session. I have friends that have already "done it" and some of ... (122 words)

Condom broke pregnancy scare...

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - yesterday me and my bf had protected sex...and then the condom broke but he pulled it out before he even ejaculated and i asked him if he ejaculted he said i trust him...could i still be pregenant or am i safe? please someone give me answer very soon im going crazy than... (56 words)

Is it right to keep her close to me even though I'm going to break up with her again? The sex is good!

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi my name is Sam this is the second time i come for addvise on the same relationship. my previouse question was answered with appreciation. Well i,ll start by saying that there is much to say but i will keep it short. I have broken up with my girl 4 times, we are currenly ... (177 words)

How do I approach women in clubs?

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, I'm in my first year of university. It's been an interesting 7 months, but unfortunately, I haven't had much success with women since I started. Before I came here I was lead to believe that university students have a lot of sex, but in the past 7 months, I haven't been ... (199 words)

I'm a forty year old man who is fed up with his marriage.

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6 March 2009 (M) age 51-59 - I'm a forty year old man who is fed up with his marriage. I've only ever had sex with my wife as she was my first girlfriend and I have never cheated on her in the 20 years we have been together. There have been 2 occasions at least where she has tried to have an afair but I ha... (144 words)

I'm in love with him, I don't know why we're not dating or even married!

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is going to sound so cliche, but I have to know what exactly it is I'm supposed to do here. I'm 31 and I have a two year old daughter with my best friend whom happens to be a guy I've known for about twenty years. This guy and I are not married. We're not even dating and ... (113 words)

I've never had sex so this can't be an STD! Any ideas?

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem and I need some answers please. Okay aunts the problem is I'm scared that I might have an std, but I'm a virgin and haven't had any sexual contact with anybody so I dont think that's possible.. The thing is I have a few pimples on my anus and some on my pubs ... (121 words)

Good boyfriend or a head-fry? How do I keep her interested and happy?

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6 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18... we met last September and have been on and off since. When we first got together I wasn't into her as much as she was into me although I was into her a lot; I tried to stop myself falling in love because I wasn't sure whether to trust her. My ... (302 words)

After we broke up he started calling me all these names... I'm so hurt!

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6 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok me and my boyfriend of 2 and a half years broke up. I broke up with him first because he stays in new orleans and I stay in monroe lousisiana and I was tired of being upset by poor communication. I was also interested in other people and I felt bad because I already had a ... (246 words)