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Open up the relationship due to long distance?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2009)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

I have been with my boyfriend for a few years now but for the past year, we have been in a long distance relationship. Although at time it has been extremely tough, we have managed to sustain our relationship.

Lately, we had discussions about opening up the relationship, thinking that it would be healthier for us when it comes to our sexual outlets. We promised that we would tell each other everything if were were to do anything with anyone else.

But once we open up the relationship, is it possible for us to close it up again? Also, is this the solution to our long distance relationship? (we know that we will get back together in about one year because of our own reasons)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

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Thanks man. It was helpful!

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A male reader, enjoimx United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

enjoimx agony auntSounds like you guys may be able to pull this off because of your great communication skills. By being honest and talking about it, you seem to be making it transparent that you love each other but want each other to be free to move on if it happens naturally. If it doesnt, great, you two will be back together when time permits. I say go for it, be mature about it, keep communicating everything.

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