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writes:*deep breath* Here it goes. I'm kind of embarassed to talk about this because I sound so stupid, but I'm stuck.. that's the best way to describe it.I've known Mn for over 3 years now. My school is Mn's rival school, and vice versa. When we first met, he flirted and did everything that a girl loves. He led me on to believe that he actually wanted to be with me. But I found out that he had actually gone out partying with this girl from his school, and made out with her at every red light in town. I felt so stupid, used, and hurt when I found out. I cut off all relations with him. Well a couple months later I started dating this guy Br. My relationship with Br was good at first, but when it became violent, I started talking to Mn again. And one night, after Br had ditched me to go to a club and made out with another girl, I was so upset and went over to Mn's house. He just let me vent and held me. He tried to kiss me, but I couldnt let myself open that can of worms. After Br and I broke up this October, Mn stepped in. He wanted to hang out, but usually only at night, but he was sweet about it. Ive been going over to his house and we make out and chill. I love just sitting in his garage while he plays guitar. I love the simple things like that. But Mn wants sex. And I told him under two conditions. He would actually have to be my boyfriend, and we'd have to wait a month to see how it would go(him not flirting with other girls and crap like that) but he says that he doesnt believe in relationships. He doesnt want the title of "Boyfriend". He told me that he would be faithful, and not be with any other girl, just not be my boyfriend. But im not buying into it.I know him and I know how he is. I look at his myspace, and it's nothing but girls commenting him, and him commenting them back, telling them how pretty they are and just the kind of stuff that girls like to hear. When I read that, it makes me feel horrible. Because I know he doesnt mean it at all. He just wants someone for sex. Mn has told me "I think that I love you. Im not sure because Ive never been in love, but youre the only girl that I go out of my way to impress and make happy. I dont see the point in a title." and on top of all of this.. I was told by one of my best friends that another one of my best friends... made out with him in November. I don't really have proof, just word of mouth. I dont know how to confront them about it.But my question is, How to I end it with Mn. I'm too passive of a person to just say "HEY J**K I DONT WANNA SEE YOU AGAIN CAUSE I THINK YOURE GETTING WITH OTHER GIRLS!" How do I tell him that I think something is up, and that there's something he isn't telling me. How do I just end it completely and not look like the insane one? Thank you so much for reading about my silly little problems.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): alright well.. he proved my suspisions correct.
tonight he brought up some freshman girl who likes him and bends over in front of him... and im like do you like her?
and he replied with.... "im gonna hit it and quit it"
ARE YOU SERIOUS?
i said... why do you tell me that you love me, when you dont?
and he said "I do, but its a two way street"
WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?!?
i left his house and went home. im never going to talk to him again.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Who cares if you look insane? It may scare him off for good! Honestly direct action is the only answer here!
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