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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Why does being touched around the waist feel so good?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4417 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why is being touched around the waist by the opposite sex feels so good? Of course, there's more of a spark when its somebody I like, but I noticed whenever there's flirting, being touched on the waist just makes me feel attractive and alive. So why is that? sexual organs, ... (87 words)

Is he just scared ofhow he feels?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm a recently seperated woman with children, I met a guy nearly 2 years ago at work, he is the same age single with no children, we hit it off immediatly, we started texting, in the time we have been texting, we text every day and have never missed a day, from the moment we ... (210 words)

I need tips to spice up foreplay!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi cupids... Well in short, I'm after your best foreplay ideas, tips and tricks, other than kissing or cuddling... Not that cuddling or kissing are bad, but it's all I seem to be able to think of, and it can sometimes feel a bit repetitive, and I want to "spice... (77 words)

I lied and told him I'm not a virgin to seem more experienced.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey! at the minute, i feel like ive gotten myself into a right prediciment! ive recently met up with this amazin guy, who i actually like rather a lot! but he doesnt know im a virgin, the thing is, im kind of embarrassed about being a virgin and he assumed i wasnt, so i told ... (111 words)

I filed charges against my wife because she pulled a knife on me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age - a month ago my wife was arrested for domestic violence against me her husband She had threatened me with a knife during an argument over finances. The incident lasted 5 minutes and she calmed down immediately I was angry and called 911 immediately The police arrived and ... (146 words)

Is age always a factor and can it be overcome?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm 33 years old, my ex is 23. We were together for four years and recently she did a Jekyll and Hyde type switcharoo on me at the start of her senior year (5th year; she took a sabbatical) In October she asked for space and then disappeared. I let her go. We spoke once and ... (202 words)

Girlfriend wants space after 3 years--I was too overly friendly

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5672 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I have been with my girlfriend for 3 years, we've had some issues along the way but nothing crazy enough to break it up. Until now, its partly my fault as she asked to see my mobile phone and saw a text from a female friend ending with a kiss and a silly thing like good looking ... (298 words)

Can't get off from handjobs or blowjobs

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have a problem. Every time that my girlfriend gives me handjobs or blow jobs I cant get off. I dont know whats wrong with me but it's starting to suck because she thinks theres something wrong with her. Can someone please help me?!... (44 words)

Unprotected sex with my boyfriend, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i just had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of 6 months it wasn't my idea but i kind of liked it i had sex with him before but i used a condom what should i do... (36 words)

My boyfriend of 2 years is cheating and claims he loves us both!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found out my bfriend of 2 years has been seeing some1 for the whole time we have been together; they got together about 3 months after we started dating. He swears that he loves me but loves her too - is that even possible? Did he ever love me?... (52 words)

I feel unattractive and unwanted. Should I give up on finding a girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I tend to get depressed every once in a while, and one of the main reasons for this is because of my poor looks (face-wise, body-wise I look pretty decent). I have friends and acquaintances who are very good-looking, who have regular girlfriends and that just upsets me even ... (485 words)

Anal sex--does it hurt? Can I get pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend wants to have anal sex will it hurt can i get pregnant by having anal sex ... (18 words)

He came back after 2 months and has left again. I'm falling apart!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I allowed him back into my life after 2 months. i even took care of him when he was sick. On Sunday he bought me gifts. Things seemed fine then four days laterhe drops me cold again. I am devastated. Why was I so stupid. Is there something wrong with him. I have had many ... (121 words)

Painful sex and possibly pregnant.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i may be pregnant i took like 20 test also this was my first time having sex what do i do oh ya it was so painful having sex... (29 words)

I confessed my love and he "thanked" me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I am quite confused. Here´s my story: I have been in love with a very good friend and, after some non verbal communicating actions and signs, I have found out he feels the same but neither of us have ever verbalized it. The reason being is that I am in another relation... (421 words)

He insults me and calls it reverse psychology. Could it be true?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, a few weeks ago I wrote on here about my bf's emotional and slight physical abuse. (Basically the run down is he continually makes comments about me, my weight that really put me down, and for the physical part he "playfully" or so he calls it slaps me or likes to wrestle, ... (432 words)

I like this guy but am inexperienced! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have never had a realationship with a lad and my friends arn't that experinced. . but i really like this guy who is giving me mixed messages and i dont know how to react! He talks and smiles at me and i do the same back but its going no where and i am too shy and ... (87 words)

I love my best friend's boyfriend!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5770 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I have a major problem!I love my best mates boyfriend!He texts me all the time and one of my mates sarah is always on the one to him and apparently he sed "i mean i like Kay and everything but theres just something about Beth" Please help i'm so confused!... (50 words)

He thinks I'm too young for him. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19, and a guy I really have liked since summer ,is age 24. We really clicked, we went on a trip together, and knew each other since summer. We see each other at dinners form common friends from time to time, but who knows. He's pretty much the first guy that genuinely ... (400 words)

How far does the penis have to be in, in order to get pregnant?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex a couple of hours ago, (the worst idea we've ever had) but when he comed he didn't fully pull out but he wasn't anywhere near totally in, it was as he pulled out he did. What are the chances of becoming pregnant from that? i know i need ... (95 words)

Is it normal to have gay fantasies but only crush on girls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am curious if it is normal for guys to jack off to gay porn and have gay fantasies, but only crushes on girls and wants a girlfriend and not a boyfriend.... (32 words)

He is not looking for a relationship but what if his attraction towards me will prevent us from even being friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Here's a background: I met a guy at a dinner(Dan) ,we talked every time we saw each other, which was about 4-5 times since then. I followed my intuition and talked to him--I knew for sure we'd be good friends, but yes, he's attractive too. He flirted with me the first time we ... (461 words)

Why do guys go hot and cold??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - It is THE most annoying thing in the world! Let me explain my scenario and see what you all think: This guy and I have known each other for about five years (he was a prof in my college major so I saw him often), we've been good friends for about 3 years now (ever since I gr... (503 words)

My girlfriend is mad at me for making of fun her sister!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - My girlfriend is mad at me for making of fun her sister (who's deaf and 8 or 9 not sure) when she was in the room as me. Her sister got picked on, her parents decide to home schooled her .The way only you communicate with her is sigh-language. My girlfriend got so angry at me ... (68 words)

What can I do to be taller?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - i am 16 and 5 ft 3, so am like one of the shortest in my class. what can i do to be taller? i mean, i already eat alot of veggies and stuff, and meat and anything which culd make me taller. also, i have G boobs, so its not like i have a problem there...so why am i so short? i ... (80 words)

Help me decide what to choose for studying!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5771 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So im in 5th year in school (some people might not know what that is but yeah) i have to make +16 choices on 4 subjects i want to choose to study for the next 2 years before going to uni. ive chosen already ICT Business studies and i dont know what to choose between . English ... (100 words)

Am I normal or just a sad, frigid freak?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I am 16 years old and have never had a boyfriend. In primary school I had a few childish boyfriends, though of course these were only jokes. Since then I have only had one small relationship, a month, where we were only seeing each other so weren't even girlfriend and ... (186 words)

Is this diet safe?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

1 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - This is the new diet I want to try... One day eat 200 cals, the next 400, the next 600, and then 200 again and repeat the 3 day cycle over and over again. Also, to do half an hour of exercise 3 times a week. Will I lose weight by this and how much will I lose? Would this be ... (87 words)

My boyfriend just doesn't seem that into me sometimes...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend just doesn't seem interested sometimes, and it really hurts because I'm really into him, but sometimes I feel like he doesn't want me any more? I don't want to lose him, but what do O do :(??... (39 words)

Bad pussy!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I noticed something that never happens to me before and I need some help. After I have my period, my pussy really smells terrible. I didn't tell my husband because I'm ashamed of it. I've no idea why and only happens twice now. Once my period is gone then I'll face that ... (87 words)

Why don't men want sweet, nice, educated and bad? What's up with this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age - Let me ask you this... even though an age old question, why is it that men don't always like the nice, sweet, educated women (even though we too have our bad girl side... wink!). Do they perceive us as weak and not tantalizing enough or what? Aren't there any nice guys out ... (72 words)

I am scared in case my b/f gets caught for using and selling pot, what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I'm dating this guy. The other night he asked if I would be his girlfriend so were together officially lol. But this guy smokes pot and sells it too . Its totally got me shaken up just because I think that its dumb and if we were together I'd always be like what if he got ... (122 words)

Is he in love or just confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I hope someone responds to me as I am very confused. My boyfriend and I have been together for 1.5 years, we have been living together for 6 months. He says that he loves me alot, is devoted to me and completely faithful. He treats me very well but I feel that by now he should ... (204 words)

I am worried I could be gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5769 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am a straight 17 year old and I have been masturbating to gay porn everytime i watched porn. I don't know why i did this but i am worried if that makes me gay. i never did nothing with a dude though and i never will. i feel really wrong when i come off to gay porn. what does ... (115 words)

My friend goes through a terrible ordeal with his wife, how can I help him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i have a dear friend that has just gone through a horrific ordeal with his wife. she has abused him mentally, emotionly. and sometimes even phisicaly. he is now going threw devorce, but his wife is being nasty about him filling for it. she keeps telling him that he will never ... (128 words)

What can I do to make my friend's cousin know that I like her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Last valentine, i lost da love of my life. I asked her out,she said no. Well i joined university last month. So there i met my cousins friend. When she heard i was rejected , she was so sad. Now we talk all night. She consoles me, she sends me flirtin texts. Is she ... (103 words)

When is it right for a man to be emotional in front of a woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - When is it right for a man to be emotional in front of a woman? I'm not the kind of person that wears my personality on my sleeve, nor do I open up to my own family. In fact I can pass things off quite easily with a straight face and the thought of showing anything externa... (125 words)

Can a realtionship like this work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Am I wrong to think that you can have a serious relationship with out being sexully exclusive? I'm not the jealous type, so when the guy I've been with for 10 years has slept with another, I don't even get upset. I'm bisexual and have had my side runs too. He doesn't lie about ... (99 words)

I had a small sexual incident and I feel guilty

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi, I am a virgin in my twenties. I had a small incident. while I was on a tourist package while sleeping in an auditorium my private part touched a womens vaginal area. I also made some movements but it was not an intercourse.. But that keeps coming in my ... (81 words)

I liked guys, then girls..and I'm confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well where to start ok it all started when i fancyed this girl at school and we got close but nothink happend she was in denial so i just left it at that then i met this 30 summink year old who i really trusted she was cool and i talked 2 her about everytink so anyway we got ... (194 words)

Flirting while dating another?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - is it wrong to flirt with another guy when you are in a relationship with someone you truly love?... (19 words)

My boyfriend is close to his brother but I don't get along with the brother

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can someone tell me what to do when you don't get on with yout boyfriends brother but your boyfriend is really close to his brother? Me and boyfriends brother really do not get on and we have rowed three times in three years, i don't know how to handle the situation anymore, ... (84 words)

I'm feeling very scared and want to trust my husband but I don't

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i have been talking to guy online for 2 years and i went to his country to meet him we got on great and after going to meet him 2nd time after few months we got marraid and im expecting his child but the problem is im still scared hes talking to other people online maybe ... (262 words)

Can you really have a relationship with a man who is unwilling to talk about a problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Can you really have a relationship with a man who is unwilling to talk about a problem? But yet talks about it with everyone else except you? time to move on?... (35 words)

How do I repair this problem??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - me and my girl fight at least once a week and always about me being moody and distant...i really love her but i feel like we are not meshing well together how do I repair this problem?????... (39 words)

I'd really like it if you could give me advice on how to get over her or at least not make my life a living hell????

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 years old and I was in a relationship that last a long time and it ended for some very good reasons and some very stpid ones as well. My gf (ex) was great to me she meant the world to me and she stil does. The night we broke up we decided we shouldn't talk any more ... (148 words)

Am I setting myself up for heartbreak?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So I am in a little bit of a dilemma. I recently broke up with my boyfriend and this other guy that I had liked for a while messed around not even two days after the breakup. I've seen him every weekend since (about 3 weekends) and things are great, it's not awkward or ... (86 words)

When will my life get better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - when will life get better? i am 25 years old and have been married for 3 months, to the man that i dreamed about for ten years, and now i feel so empty, i wish he could just feel me a little, most of the time i am not even alive to him, what should i do?? today is my b-day and ... (71 words)

Bust aint catching up with the rest of me!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I've recently been losing weight and have lost over a stone already. The problem I have is that my breast size hasn't reduced at all (and I'm a ff cup anyway)! This means that the clothes I buy are too tight on the top and really baggy round the waist, and they look hor... (88 words)

Why plead with me to be friends and then hide the fact from his friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I think I should not be in any contact with my ex-boyfriend, but your input would be nice. So, we've been broken up for 14 months now. Since January this year, he has been very friendly. Last month he visited me for the weekend and then insisted I visit him the weekend of Feb ... (182 words)

Why am I so jealous of my friends?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I always have this weird problem, every time a friend hangs out with another friend I get jealous and it's not pretty, anyone know how to fix this? I even feel this way when other friends are out without me while I'm out with other friends.... (47 words)

My girl gets angry at me for silly reasons. What can I do to stop her immature behaviour?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am 27 years old and have been in a relationship with my girl for 4 years now. We met on the internet, and at first we were just internet friends, but one thing led to another and to make the long story short, she moved from her country to my own and now we are planing to get ... (440 words)

He's no sparkler... more like a damp squib!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5761 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 years old and I have been going out with this guy for like 3 days now... he's liked me a lot before so I thought I'd go out with him and give him a chance. I've spent a long time with him but I don't feel any kind of spark or like it's anything special like I've felt ... (87 words)

I want to get with my cousin

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to get with my cousin. We used to play and kiss when we were little but now we are older I'm 18 years old and she is 19 and I want to see if I can have something more with her, I don't care if she is my cousin, I realy like her. I hit her ass sometimes and she doesn't ... (108 words)

Does sperm live that long and if I wiped it away does it mean it's safe?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to sound a little sick, but I generally tend to masterbate in the bathroom. And I got some semen on the toilet seat (this being the rim on which the person sits). I cleaned it up with handsoap and anti bacterial wipes. But I'm worried that people could get ... (80 words)

Eye contact between the sexes

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Hi. I was just wondering... If a man looks at a woman, who has been looking at him, and she immediately looks away, is this generally because she 1) Does not want to give the impression that she fancies him? or 2) She wants him to think that she actively dislikes him? Tha... (62 words)

Am I turning gay or am I just curious?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I don't know what to do. I am married and have a child, I'm am 5 years married. When we have sex she stimulates my anus with her fingers or a dildo. Now I have a want to feel a real penis in my anus. And I spend hours reading stories of first time gay sex. Do you think I'm ... (67 words)

Madly in Love with my best friend, but he's a guy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5680 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm a 15 year old male and I'm having trouble coping with being intensely in love with someone from my year, the only problem is that it's a guy. It's been going on for a year and a half, he is all I ever think about anymore and I'm slowly going crazy. In the early days, I ... (410 words)

Advice needed regarding my long distance break-up!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, First of all thanks to all your guys for taking time to read and answer. My boyfriend of 4 years broke up with me a month ago. He lives in another country now because of a career shift. But for 3.5 years we were in the same city. We were thinking about getting married this ... (208 words)

Pregnancy? Or normal?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5773 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Using the contraceptive, depo provera. Got the shot on the 2nd day of my period( A thursday). Had unprotected sex the monday after. Now, 2 weeks later, im having cramps and what looks like a light period. Does it look like a pregnancy or is this normal?... (47 words)

Horseriding for 10 years..hymen broken?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hello i was just wondering about how do you know when your hymen is broken? i have been horseriding for 10yrs non-stop, will it be broken?... (27 words)

As if by magic she appears?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Dated a girl for two years. I find she seeing someone else, I walk away say ok. I respect you , I respect your decision, good luck with it. 14 month ago ! I had strong feelings for her, and I'm not a kid, we all work in the same building. I thought well maybe we can at lea... (467 words)

I'm 17 and totally in love with my friend.

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 and totally in love with my friend. We had a thing around 2 months ago and ever since then I haven't stopped thinking about him - even in the period of having a boyfriend. He keeps blowing hot and cold - flirting and calling me and then ignoring me and acting ... (200 words)

More than a friend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay...well i like this guy...he texts me everyday...but i dont know if he likes me. he always starts the convo and he asked me for my number and he asked me together with him and we saw a movie but with a bunch of friends but i was the one who asked if there was other ppl ... (110 words)

Abuse?Anger issues?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is this abuse? Minor fight something silly. Were toegether for days afterward and everything fine. Then when I am away It festers in him while he is alone. Is he getting bad advice?We had planned for over a month to go to a formal affair. he was so mad the day of the affair ... (124 words)

Does he deserve an apology?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5772 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I really was attracted to this guy, occasionally he would come to my job to see one of his family members and every time I saw him we would talk, well he ended up having surgery and I sent him a get well basket. I heard he was very thrilled in response he sent a thank-you ... (277 words)

When you are feeling up a girl does it bother you if she has small breasts?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a question for the guys. When you are feeling up a girl does it bother you if she has small breasts. It's just this guy was having a feel and well, to be truthful it's all padding, do guys mind if a girl wears padded bras because I found it a little embarrassing cos ... (68 words)

How can I pick up the pieces and heal myself??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My brother finally made me cried after two weeks of breaking up with my alcoholic boyfriend when he told i was fool for putting up with a loser. When am I going to learn to stop picking these losers? Therefore all efforts I made to stay strong were flush down the toilet. ... (109 words)

Pain during doggy style. What could be wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Okay so this is very frustrating for me and my boyfriend, but for some reason doggy style is very painful for me. It's not too bad when he doesn't go in all the way, but when he does, that's when it hurts. But I have no problem when he goes all the way in with other postions! ... (132 words)

I'm bi and so is my friend... does she like me? What should I do when she comes over to mine next Saturday?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5774 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Im bi (recently come out to my friends), and i have a friend (X) who is also bi, and we're really close and for ages i've fancied her. For ages I thought that she might like me but now im sure, this is why: On friday, me, X and 3 friends wnt out for my friends birthday... (315 words)

I'm 15 years old and I hate the fact that I'm so slim. Any ideas on how to deal with this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5764 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i'm a 15yr old girl and i hate my body. i know people say this a lot but i do. it's not that i'm fat it's the complete opposite. i am naturally slim. my mom was. i eat and eat and eat - like comfort food eating.. but were it goes is beyond me. i nevvvver wear a skirt bec... (159 words)

Any sex tips for plus size girls?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5588 days ago

1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Any sex tips can help I need some here's why I have a thin boyfriend and I'm a plus size girl much bigger then him and we have sex but not as much. we have more oral sex then sex and I feel bad that he douse most of the work when haveing sex and I feel so bad that I'm a b... (102 words)

Why do adult men play games and lead you on??

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1 March 2009 (F)

age - Just happened to find this site and it seems very interesting, Ive had a lot of life experiance myself and yet many questions, so here I am! Why do adult men lead you on? I met a man and we connected well, at least he thought so and I did to,he led me to believe that. Th... (140 words)

She blames me for everything...how can I make this work and is she seeking someone else??

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife has become cold and distant and has told me she doesn't think she wants to try any more(try to make this marriage work)and that its over unless things change. We have been married for 2 years this june and been together for 5 years this march. ive been out of work now... (150 words)

I lied to a guy I fancy...do you think he will question me more??

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I lied to the guy that I fancy basically because I have never done anything with a guy, we had a quick snog, I wasn't very good (first time), he stopped and asked me what was up, I just said that it had been a while and my last boyfriend wasn't very nice to me and it has made ... (141 words)

My ex keeps staring at me, even though he has a girlfriend. Any thoughts on this?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi people, just a quick one, Me and my ex split last yr he dumped me but have remaind on speaking terms, anyway 2 weeks ago he stoped talking 2 me as he has a new gf, anyway even b4 we stoped talking we would occasionly have sex, and when ever i saw him down the pub, i could fe... (174 words)

Any advice on how to cope with my fiances 'open door' policy??

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1 March 2009 (F)

age - I am about to get married again for the second time. Everything is great with my fiance apart from one thing which I am finding difficult to cope with. He is an extremely sociable man who has lots of friends and I am very quiet and am happy with being on my own or with very ... (213 words)

I feel like nobody that knows me actually knows me and I am living a lie!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've recently come to terms with the fact that i am gay after being in a relationship with a girl for almost 9 months! It took me ages to admit to myself that i don't infact like guys as anything more than mates anymore, before i met my ex girlfriend i was straight and ever... (204 words)

We snogged. He likes the idea of having a cheeky fumble at work! But I want more...

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1 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I have liked this guy at work for a while (I mean a few years) and we finally snogged, the thing is I am not the type of girl normally just to do that sort of thing (he knows I am shy) and he now thinks we have this sort of work thing, it was good but I am very shy and to be ... (168 words)

No matter what I do to get rid of underarm hair, there is always some left. Any tips?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice on underarm hair, I hate wearing tops with no sleeves because it doesn't matter if I wax, shave, whatever, I always have hair left and my underarms always look a yellow/green colour, I went to my GP and she said it fine just that I had dark folicals, which ... (81 words)

Over several years, I've been dating girls and guys... I feel more comfortable with girls. Am I lesbian?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When I was 16, I had a 3 year sexual relationship with another girl. After 3 years she left me for another girl. I thought it was just a phase I was going through. Since then I’ve had the odd boyfriend but only for a month or two and never had sex with them. Then one night I ... (131 words)

Our first kiss, he felt me up! Is he using me for a quick thrill?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, I have done a stupid thing, I am always very professional at work however, I have fancied this guy for like ever and we finally snogged but it wasn't right, what I mean by that is that normally when you kiss someone for the first time it's just touching hands, face neck may ... (151 words)

Soldier left alone behind enemy lines... Wife keeps leaving, then coming back to me.

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm a 25 y/o man in the army and currently deployed to Iraq for a year. I've been here for six months and my wife has told me she dosen't love me anymore. She said she feels that she needs space to be alone and on her own so she can be independent, self supporting, and to ... (266 words)

Advice on making first time sex a wonderful experience

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My girlfriend and i are thinking about having sex for the first time, but i dont know what to do to set the scene. i want it to be wonderful for her, as well as me. any advice on what i should do?... (56 words)

Unprotected sex and the pill

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have always been very (perhaps obsessively) worried and careful about contreception. However, recently, I started taking the pill, so we 'relaxed' a little the other night. I have never missed one, always taken it properly and so on. Now, a couple of days ... (104 words)

My husband's boss is making increasingly WEIRD demands of his employees

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband told me this morning he is not looking forward to work at all. He said that his boss has started acting strangely over the past few weeks making all sorts of weird and excessive demands on him and the rest of the employees he works with. He said to me he would like... (487 words)

He doesn't return my feelings and I'm afraid these feelings will never go away!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i've liked this guy for ages and now i find out he doesnt like me. so basically its rejection and everyone knows i like him and he knows i like him and it just hurts and i'm scared that these feeling are never going to go away and i'm going to feel like this all the ... (157 words)

Girlfriend split with me but won't let me move on either, what do I do?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Girlfriend split with me but wont let me go. She said she couldn’t be with me at the moment but gave no reason why. We had been going out together for over a year, everything seemed good, and I was heartbroke as I thought we had a very strong relationship. She said her hea... (280 words)

My best friend recently got married, we had phone sex, I don't know what he wants from me?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Confused bigtime- my bestfriend recently got married and moved away. We talk regularly on the phone but haven't seen each other for about a year. Last week we was talking and he suddenly starts telling me how much he misses me and that he wishes I was with him. I thought he was ... (188 words)

I want to expand mys ocial circle, any advice?

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1 March 2009 (F) - Hey.. I have a problem and I need advice. I'm a very pleasant, fun-loving person and I know a lot of people, but my close friends are very few. Lately I seem to go out with the same people all the time. I want to expand my social circle and start going out with many di... (74 words)

Husband has went into the military and I am suffering from separation anxiety!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm having some issues. My husband has been away at BCT (Basic Training or Boot Camp) for 2 weeks. I know it hasnt been that long, but it feels like a month already. I thought I could rely on the comfort of family while he was away, but instead I'm having to deal with family ... (310 words)

LDR immigration question...

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi. I have been in a LDR for almost 3years. I'm in Canada he is in the U.S. We plan to marry in a couple of years so that I can move there. I'm curious: Can I just move there once we are married? If so, how long after does it take to get papers so I can legally work the... (91 words)

Should I feel bad for "doing things" with a married man?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night me and my friend went clubbing, i ended up meeting this guy who brought me a few drinks and we ended up dancing, then he was grinding against me and was touching my chest, then he ended up fingering me in the corner of the club, and we proberly would of had sex if my ... (107 words)

I feel as though she doesn't care - should we just go our seperate ways?

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1 March 2009 (M)

- Hey guys, I'm looking for some help! Me and my partner of about 2 years recently broke up. It was really her decision over some small things that I don't quite understand, like attention and so on. When we spoke about it at the time of the break up she gave her 'side of the ... (214 words)

How to date a girl you don't know?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - look guys its difficult for me ive never been in a coed school always been in a boys school never talked to anygirl honestly a bit shy but i really like a girl she lives in the same colony but i dont know her address her name and i dont know which school shes in im 17 and i ... (106 words)

He found out I lied about my virginity 12 years ago!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for 12 years and had lied to my husband that that I was a virgin when we got married I was sure that he would never find out as he was a virgin himself. Everything was fine until last month when he met a few old friend at a local bar and as they were ... (229 words)

Losing erection due to watching pornography & masturbation?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so i'm 18 years old and i'm having issues with keepin an erection during sex because i'm just not feeling anything. I masturbate to pornography and it feels great, it feels like what i think sex should feel like, except i've had sex twice now and both times i cant keep an ... (100 words)

I don't think I'm fertile!

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1 March 2009 (F) - i think i might be over reacting a little but i don't think i am fertile, my periods are always on time, but before i get my period i get a sore on my ..area and a cold sore in my mouth, i also get a fever.. but this only happens when i get my period. is this an ST... (106 words)

What age do men want to live with someone?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year. he is 26 and i am 20. i want to get a home together. i dont want to buy one with him yet. i just want to rent one with him for a while so we can see if we can handle each other, but he does not want too yet and i dont understand ... (84 words)

Why does she get to name the child?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My fiance and i are planning on have a kid soon but im kinda worried, because she seems to think that she gets to decide on what their names are because she is carrying them and is going to push them out not me. I understand what she is going to go through but at the same ... (136 words)

Is it dirty to love giving my b/f a blow job?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it dirty to love giving me boyfriend a blow job. Sometimes i just fantasize bout turning him on and giving him one say in a dressing room when we r out shopping. I just love giving him one and how it makes him feel and me. He says i turn him on so much and that i could write ... (68 words)

Ladies advice on the handling of their breasts

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1 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - Ladies can you give me some advice about loving my girlfriend’s breast during sex???? When is a good time to touch them? How should I know that she wants me to touch her breast? What kind of things can I do with my hands on her breast that she may enjoy? What kind of thi... (118 words)

I am 15 and want to have a baby!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to keep having sex....i was 14 when i started to and now 15 and want a baby. I really want to have one but my mom don't want me to i wanna fellow my own desires... (38 words)

How can I determine if I'm destined to be heavy?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so sick of being a fat, disgusting piglet... It's gotten to the point that looking in the mirror makes me crazy. I'm 29 and don't want to speculate about how much I weigh but it revolts me even look at my reflection. Looking at the big sloppy rolls of fat on my stomach ... (233 words)

She loves mebut needs indepence and to find herself

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I have been searching for answers for the past 4 days. On monday night, it is saturday night now, my girlfriend called me and told me she basically needed a break. We are in college about an hour apart-- over the weekend she got sick and had a urinary tract infection ... (834 words)

I'm too skinny! How do I gain weight?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do I gain weight? I am 5'5, about 100 lbs. I have been skinny all my life. I don't starve myself, but I also do not have a big appetite. Eating has never been something that I crave or thoroughly enjoy. I have always been very self-conscious about my body and I feel abnor... (143 words)

Dad wants to put me up for adoption because I'm wild!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age - My dad and i have a far strung relationship but i dont turn to him alot anymore ever since i started 'Developing' he thinks that im up to no good no matter what. I have guy friends and we hang out like we're all guys we even play football together. My dad is always freaking out ... (147 words)

I'd like to have sex with this lovely older woman..any advice?

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1 March 2009 (M) age 41-50 - My long time friend is getting married and asked me to be the best man in his wedding. He will be marrying in a few months after he graduates from university. He and I have been friends for a long time and have been attending the same university and graduating together. Besides ... (707 words)

Do women fake orgasms?

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1 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - I am having a problem having an orgasm with my bf. Ladies do you fake orgasms? I don’t know if it is a good idea. I rather help my bf help me have one. What tips do you have for having an orgasm? Are there some better positions for having one? ... (57 words)

I want to have sex with her how would I go about it?

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1 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - Some time ago I was introduced to a very cute Italian woman. Since them we have become friends and have done some fun things together. I mentioned that I would like to go on a trip with her to Italy. She agreed. We have planed it. In a few weeks we will be going. Besi... (183 words)

Pregnant, alone & scared!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 9 weeks pregnant and my boyfriend just left me and our 14 month old daughter and 2 step children. He said I pushed him to do it, that he did not abandon us. Its all my fault for seeing how far he would go. Is this a man thing to do. He cheated and we fought over it but how ... (109 words)

How do I gain her trust again?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well this is my story. I started going out with this girl and 2 months into our relationship i cheated on her with my friend's girlfriend. It's has been almost 3 months since she broke up with me. For the first month we talked and i always told her I still loved her and that i ... (124 words)

In love with my friend that have rejected a lot of boys

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a lot going wrong in my life right now. I'm in love with one of my friends. I know that it's not going to work out because I'm kind of quiet and awkward and she's rejected guys more attractive and popular than me. So what should I do? I've already tried to get over... (338 words)

Is weed worst than cigarettes?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age - Is weed worst than cigarettes? Which has the worst long term effect? ... (13 words)

Girlfriend doesn't want sex anymore

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Im 17 and my girlfriend is 16, we have been together for 14 months we didnt have sex until 7 months into the relationship. It was her first time and we had sex about roughly once or twice a week an then about 4 months after that it just stopped. we went through a whole month ... (304 words)

Casual random sex

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - seen this women around she is pretty, 25yrs old and just recently sent me an email sayin she wouldn't mind having sex with me because she likes my built body. I'm 18, she knows that and she said she wants to do roleplay sex, which is why she wants to do it with me because of my ... (97 words)

Hubby visiting porn sites..I don't want to keep having this fight!

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Three months ago, I found out my husband was visiting a ton of porn sites. I don't have a problem with him looking at porn, however, I do have a problem with him viewing live webcams, and registering for accounts on websites that appear to be sex dating sites. We have been ... (188 words)

I think I am being used

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1 March 2009 (?) age - I think I am being used.. I am dating a married man who claims to be very deprived, to the point that she never wants to do it. To complicate matters, he's impotent. Says I make him feel like a man again. What does this line mean?... (50 words)

How can you build a relationship without solid trust?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi all. I'm writing this here because I don't know who else to ask or talk to. Earlier this month, I found out my boyfriend had been receiving sexually explicit letters from a long-time female friend. Years ago, when I first asked him about who she was, he told me she was ... (478 words)

Sick or pregnant?

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1 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - ok so here is the story. 4 days ago me and my g/f made love and i had a brand new comdoms on and it had no leak and it didn't break either but she's now worried that she's pregnant becuase i came inside her with the condom on and had no leakage and early morning on the 2... (375 words)

Is it obvious to tell if a condom breaks

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my partner had sex twice in february. When we had the 2nd time, he had a condom on and before he finished, he took his penis out of my vagina and so i saw he finished in the condom OUT of my vagina. the first time we had sex that month though, he didnt finish at all. ... (134 words)

Info about sunbeds?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 and have I've been thinking for a while about going on the sunbeds because I'm really self concious about how pale I am. I'm just really worried since it will bemy first time I won't know what to do so I just wanted to ask if anyone who has used them before knows whether ... (68 words)

B/f cannot feel my vagina during sex

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1 March 2009 (F)

age - 9 Years ago I had a baby by C-section. I had not had sex for 8 years (From 2 months pregnant until 14 months ago). I met my current boyfriend of 14 months and on 3 occasions (1 recently) he told me that he doesn't feel my vagina at all during sex. I learned how to give him ... (207 words)

Possibly pregnant and don't know how to tell my parents

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - on my 15th birthday my boyfriend came over. since my parents were away we were going to party. we drank vodka all night. then we had sex on the dinning table and the bathroom floor. now my breast are sore and i have morning sickness. i think im pregnat and i dont no how to tell ... (60 words)

Should my boyfriend and I keep our baby or give it up for adoption?

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1 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - Should my boyfriend and I keep our baby or give it up for adoption? I am 15 years old and pregnant by my 16 year old boyfriend. Both of our parents know and want us to decide on what to do with the baby when it's born. At first, my boyfriend wanted me to get an abortion... (228 words)

How do I tell her that I can't let go?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So, I've decided that I'm not gonna let him go. The thing is that one of my friends likes him too and I promised her to give him up but I just can't, I've decided that I'll fight for what I want, but how do I tell her that I can't let go? HELP.... (54 words)

Sharing things in a marriage is one thing... but him wearing my clothes????

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband has always like for me to do anal sex on him with a strap. But now he is wanting 2 dress in women's clothes. I let him know I was not into this so he quit. But I came home early from work the other day and he was dressed up in my leather dress with his (woman) boots ... (127 words)

Opinions please... Should I give him another chance?

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1 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My partner and I met and started dating a year ago in May, we were very serious from the start and fell for each other quickly and spent all our time together. He asked if we could look for a flat together many times, I thought it was a bit soon but I was ready and he seemed ... (431 words)