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30-35,
*ndrew loves hali
writes:hi im 15 and my girlfriend and i broke up like 3 weeks ago and thats the longest weve ever broken up. i was kinda doing okay compared to the other times but dont get me wrong i missed her and still had feelings for her and i loved her more each day. well friday i texted her and told her good luck cause she had a basketball game and she didnt answer so like 4 hours later i texted her and told her how i felt:me: why did you even talk to him that night (her ex) u might not of known i was guna ask if you were but you knew i would get mad. and yet i go on each day blaming myself when its not my fault yeah sure i couldve handled it a lil better but i wouldnt of ever had to if you didnt answer him but you were just tyring to be a nice person haha so much for that now you wont even text me back. this doesnt even affect you. her: who says it didnt affect me? and u know what i think im a nice person. think bout it all the times you texeted me i couldve told you to leave me the hell alone but no i kept the way i was feeling to myself. and also i do still miss you and love and care about you. so in the end im a pretty nice person. oh and i answerd that msg cause i do stil have feelings for him (her ex) weather you believe it or not. me:how do you feel bout all of this? and im sorry for what i said i should just respect your feelings even if you like him im sorry i just love you so much and i want you to be mine only. her: well i really miss you and i made the right decision by not talkin to you but i think it should of been just a break cause i cant take it anymore. i miss you so much and i love you too. should i take her back? shes taken me back so many times. i really love her but she stil talks to him. idk what to do. any ideas?
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reader, andrew loves hali +, writes (9 March 2009):
andrew loves hali is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks and shes not a bitch sorta and i just need time to think about this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): 1) You're insecure.
2) Take her back if you want. As strangers, we can't give you an accurate choice as to what you should or should not do.
3) Accept that she still talks to her ex. If you cannot, stay broken up.
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reader, karasu10 +, writes (9 March 2009):
 hell no! if she has feelings for another guy and claims she loves you then she's just playing games with you because she knows you'll stay with her no matter what. the whole ex thing is a big red flag if she says that she still has feelings for him. you dont need that kind of baggage. stay away from the bitch! you are young. you have plenty of time to find girls. dont hold yourself down and look for someone so much better. take it from me, i've been in this exact situation. ibe been on both sides(the one getting hurt and the one playing the games). so just MOVE ON!
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