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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What happens in the 1st weeks of pregnancy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey,im just wondering what happens in the first week of pregnancy?do you have certain syntoms or you feel different?if you drink is there a risk of loosing your baby?my friend is not sure that she's pregnant but she's been feeling weird this past days how can I help her .... (50 words)

I'm in love with someone I will never have

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in love with someone i will never have! I had him, and i screwed it up big time! Now i will never have him again. I am kicking myself. Has anyone been in this situation? how did you move on? because i can't seem to!... (52 words)

My friends say someday we'll be on the same page

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (?) age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been dating 8 months now. We knew there was this huge connection from the moment we met. It was one of those chemistry things. From the day we met pretty much acted like we were dating. He got jealous at a party we were at on the second night because I ... (325 words)

How can he be so ignorant of my feelings

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys.. I need you to answer me one question. Here's all short story. There's a guy which i'm totally attracted to. He's 24 and i'm 19. I'm quite pretty and a lot of guys would love to be with me. I know, he doesn't have girlfriend. We've been together one night, kissing ... (296 words)

I'm wondering if its an STD

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5713 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Right, so... where to start. Well, i lost my virginty to my boyfriend at the beginning of this month. We've had both protected and unprotected sex (stupid, yes i know). I started my period 2 days, 1 day early. Normally when I'm on, the blood is red, however this time it's b... (137 words)

Should I cheat?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been in a relationship for over ten years. This man has nothing to offer but child care. He is extremely selfish. He has been unemployed for over three years. Refuse to work under any circumstances. He complains when ever he do a chore and expect that no one dirty things ... (207 words)

Early stages of relationship and I'm already losing interest in sex

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue. When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was with my ex boyfriend ... (210 words)

Birth control options & opinions

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I posted a question like this yesterday but I didn't get many replies. So, I'm posting again and hope to get a few more answers than last time. Anyway, I'm 13 years old and I'm getting put on Birth Control next week. I was wanting the shot but my parents told me It would make ... (131 words)

He's been sleeping with one of his friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - HELP! ive just been told some really shocking news it feels almost like a close family members death. im 18 and i have been speaking and meeting up with a guy for about a month now, im interested and hes interested in me. whats basically happened is he's recently brok... (238 words)

I'm so scared I'm never going to be happy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am so scared that I'm never going to be happy. Lately, I've felt so discouraged that my heart is breaking. I know that I need to get over some things, and be grateful for the things I have, but sometimes the void inside me just makes me want to explode. I would like t... (1002 words)

He ignores me but talks to other women

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok,there's this guy i liked afew years ago who lived near me.He used to buy me a drink when he saw me,kept asking if i had a boyfriend,and once he wanted me to go to his house,for a drink,at least,i think that was why.Thats what he said anyway,but i couldnt go at the time.He ... (249 words)

How do I tell him I'm a 40 year old virgin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend of 6 weeks is 23 years older than me and very experienced in bed,well thats what he told me the problem is that i am 40 year old virgin whose previous boyfriends have never goto the bedroom stage, how do i tell him that i am virgin without looking like an idiot.... (55 words)

My wife is going to sleep with another man tomorrow

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I do not have a direct question, I just want some love from the dear cupid community. My wife of 12 years has plans to sleep with an old boyfriend tomorrow. She is in another state visiting her mother. While there, she met up with this guy. They flirted, she kissed him, and... (275 words)

He's cheating,..got another girl pregnant..but loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My child father cheated on me and got another girl pregnant but she miscarried.and he says it was an accident.he tells me he loves me.but he continues to cheat. I don't know what should I do?... (36 words)

My husband;s family is always at our place and we need our quality time!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been married for two years now and for those two years I can't remember spending quality time with my husband. We see each other and we actually don't speak to each other as much, when ever we can cuddle up, his family are always there and I don't know what to do. I a... (123 words)

I've invested a lot into this friendship. What do I do now??

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5731 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My best friend of a year terminated our friendship this week. I don't know what to do. I'm in a mess. This is the situation: We've been friends a year. He's a gay guy I'm a female "Grace". My gay friend I will call 'Will'. We hit it off immediately as friends. He inst... (865 words)

She doesn't believe it when I say I love her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - well i'm a 15 yr old guy. And i think i'm in love with this 14 yr old girl, she live's about 45 minute's away 4rm me. And i met her by a quincenera where i met her bestfriend, we dated, but didnt work out so i started tlkn to her. We've been tlkn 4 about 5 month's and dating 4 ... (122 words)

She's with a new guy but I want her back!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - me and my girlfriend was going out for to years one day we split up i begged her to come back i pushed her to a point where she asked for no contact i left her alone for about 3weeks i didnt ring her or text her she told my friends she hated me and now she is with another ... (99 words)

My wife's college sweetheart is now my next door neighbor!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - About thee months ago, my wife's old college sweetheart "Ken" moved next door to us. Ken was the all-American jock-football player, well built, and smart, and, I have to admit, nice. They dated for nearly 4 years until they each went to grad school in different states. Then... (377 words)

I fancy my best mate's ex

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - my best friend went out wit this girls and she dumped him im still gud friends wit her and now i really fancy her i don't want to tell her because i don't no if she likes me or not but i also dont want to go out wit her because i dont want to make my best friend angry because ... (85 words)

What can I do to get him to admit or show his feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok this might sund abit harash but honestly its not meant like that lol. I'm just wondering if a guy gives you VERY mixed signals on whether he likes you or not is there anyway of getting him to admit to someone that he likes you? Right because it was obvious this lad liked me... (334 words)

He cheated once. Do I cheat now?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5617 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - okay well i just currently turned 14 and i'm in a relationship wit a 15 yr old. But he live's in another town. And he currently cheated on me. But i got bak wit him. Now a 16 yr old asked me out and i don't want to cheat on my boyfriend. But he cheated on me once so wat's the ... (63 words)

So, how do I find out if he's single??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - right, i really like this guy, we clicked from the start. he said he had a girlfriend so i didn't think about him much. We were both at a party then where we were all a bit out of it. i THINK he said that he was going to break up with his girlfriend. Then he sent me a text a... (186 words)

Follow up: My husband has impregnated a girl-twice in our marriage

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is a follow up to My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage! http://www.dearcupid.org/question/my-husband-has-impregnated-a-girl-twice-during.html Thanks to all those who responded to my question i really vaue all your opinions ....I wanted to give ... (528 words)

Why every Sunday only???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (M) age 30-35 - I rarely get spontaneous erection, but for some reason EVERY sunday when i go too sell newspapers at a local flea market, i get a seriously hard too get rid of erection.I dont rub up against anything much, theres no "lovely ladies" there really, and the reason it bothers me at ... (68 words)

She says she just needs space

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - one of my friends whom i've had a bit of a crush on for a while now broke up with her boyfriend about a month ago. after that we spent more time together and i really started to like her. i let it slip about 2 weeks ago that i liked her, and she essentially said it was too soon... (158 words)

Am I right to tell my wife to drop this stupid idea?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a situation which could have serious ramifications for other people, not just my wife and I. My wife and I are married for 7 years now, have 2 great kids, and are timing out having a 3rd child. The issue is, when I was younger (18-19), I had a thing with this woman ... (419 words)

He is really confused and miserable, and so am I. How can I help him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in a kind of tight situation. my best friend is in love with a girl he has known for 3 years..but..he has been with his girlfriend for 7 years...he doesn't love her.never did.but he was with her,cuz she needed his support and he wanted to support her like she did when he ... (179 words)

Why won't she let me pick her up for our date?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

- We had a really good first date last night and we're going out again tonight. Tonight, however, she categorically does not want me to pick her up. She would rather meet up there (which isn't exactly centretown). It's a little confusing. Why on earth wouldn't she want me ... (71 words)

Somebody please give me some thoughts before I head to the doctor.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi. since august 08 i have been irregular with my periods. that was the month i started college. since i started college, i believe i had one in august i don't believe i had one in september and i had one in november. then i didn't have one in december. from then on i didn't ... (157 words)

"You look cute today..." means what???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So what does it MEAN? I know this sounds like a daft question, but I really don't know what cute actually means. This was said to me today by a guy who I know vaguely, and is about twice my age, but whom I think rather likes me.... (48 words)

Will I ever be able to love again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age - i was married for 24 years to a man that didn't love me. i fell in love with another, while married, our feelings seemed to be real, specially his, he had been hurt before and he said it was very hard for him. he said that pain is too hard so he erase the other girl from his ... (609 words)

What can I do to tell her to stop?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - my friend had failed.we became friends.she always talk behind my back and call me names. i call her names she gets mad. i told her it upsets me when she talks about me the same as it do to her.she says i say around other people same as she do.and she is really starting to get ... (104 words)

How do I tell my friends it's not right and it's not lame?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i am going to stay a virgin until im married but my friends say i have to have sex or i'm a lame. how do i tell my friends it's not right without becoming a lame?... (36 words)

Should I secretly have a boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - well me and my mom don't have a really close relationship i want to tell her things like i want a boyfriend or something but she won't listen. Should i secretly have a boyfriend?or What? i can't explain to her... (41 words)

Is he sending mixed signals or is he being a duche?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - heyy can ppl please help me understand this its driving me crazy ... my ex boyfriend was at the same party as me last week ... when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him even thou he broke my heart .. after stuff that he told my best... (543 words)

I keep asking questions and its driving him crazy

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my boyfriend is 29 the kind of guy that doesnt like to be touched. and very quit.been together 2 years. met in a strip club. well i found out from one his co workers that he stoped careing for me 4 months ago and planing on moveing in augest and brakeing up with me a month befo... (142 words)

How to start a conversation with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. I really like this guy in my year at school, but we are both shy and don't know how to start a conversation? Any ideas and please help because I really like him?? xx thankyou... (36 words)

She doesn't talk or chat with me anymore. What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Hey, Erm I have been in a relationship with this girl for about nearly 2 weeks. About 5 days ago, i told her I wanted to kiss her. She replied that "We haven't even been on the first date yet, and there is loads of people around here," So i left it at that. Ever since then... (126 words)

Come and help libyan's gays hassles please!!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hiya ,,, I actually need HELP? Four weeks ago i joined an English institute where i fell in love with a nice and blond guy, 26 Libyan. How can i come closer 2 him? And to tell him that i wanna have sex with him. I'll wanna marry him if that possible. You know we re both Musl... (78 words)

I don't know whats going on with him and I need help figuring this out before I go crazy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok theres something going on between my fiance and i and i cant figure it out... we have been fighting for about 2-3 weeks now. we've been together for 4 years and we have 2 kids together. but some things are little as him chargeing xbox stuff to our checking account and liei... (210 words)

I think he still has some feelings for me a little

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I love my ex so much we split in july last year but carried on having sex after we split, about 2 months ago, we had sex for the last time, as since then hes got himself a gf, but about the 10 feb of feb he said that he wanted to suck my tits and offer his services to me even ... (175 words)

The day the earth stood still

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - Why is my ex being so unfriendly. She saw someone else behind my back, i found out walked away no questions or trouble. Very hurt. I thought if thats your choice good luck. Time passed a year or so i did everything i could to be friends or at least civil as we all work in t... (463 words)

I cant take this. I almost cant sleep. I almost cant eat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hi i cant take this. i almost cant sleep. i almost cant eat i smoke a lot, i am so sad. I loved her my whole life, i took the pain from all the relationships she had. I feel like i am nothing, nothing has any sense,nothing is fun any more. I feel so empty, i do noth... (360 words)

Have I gotten too clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a friend that I've gotten VERY close with but we have not yet reached the point of being boyfriend-girlfriend. It's a long distance relationship (about 100 miles). We were supposed to meet over lunch recently when she left me a voice mail saying she had an accident ... (277 words)

Best place for a tattoo?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey Everyone I'm going to get tattooed on Tuesday and I'm going to get my Dude's name on me I don't have any tattoos and I'm wondering if I should get his name on my wrist or my forearm which would be best for a girl or does it not matter?... (51 words)

He took the carrot out of my mouth and he smiled at me. What should I do now??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hello, So.. I went to a party last night and it was very good. I don't have a boyfriend... but i danced with every boy there. And we played a game, where you take carrots out of each others mouth with your mouth. Lots of boys did it with me. This boy is called J... and ... (200 words)

This, in my mind, has broken my trust for my fiance.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5719 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age - I am very much in love with a man and we are about to get married quite soon. I have been married before and I bought my first husband a very expensive watch which he left behind when he left me. I gave my fiance the watch to sell for me as he knows a lot of people and is good... (285 words)

I guess he’s more mature but I’m totally confused what to do,

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, a few years ago when I was young around the age of 10-12 I liked this boy name him A. so I was a typical girl to go after him instead of being straight upfront that I like him. You can say I chased him, (at that age I knew nothing about love he was my first). As I c... (707 words)

Do I really fancy him, or do I see him as a father figure?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like a man who is 26 years older than me, he's married and has a son and daughter,who are similar ages to me.He flirts with me a lot,and says he is fascinated with me,that i am attractive.He also says that he wants me to have an affair with him,although nothing physical has ... (149 words)

I don't know what going on. Can you help me solve this mystery?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - ok so my fiance and i have been having some minor/major difficulties in our situation i thought we have finally worked everything out opened up to each other but it dont seem that way. well we have been fighting for weeks over everything and i was finally tired of it and made... (146 words)

I'm in love with my FWB....he is my ex boyfriend.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5740 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am in love with my friends with benefits....he is my ex boyfriend. we became best friends and then we went to being friends with benefits. the thing is that i have fallen for him and i don't know what to do. he is a really sweet guy. we have dated twice before but as he stat... (80 words)

I think my teacher is in love with me!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5679 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am in high school and i think my algebra teacher likes me. first i want 2 say i do not like him other than a teacher and nothing more. but him i am not so sure about. he always is staring at me and flirts with me. one time i was absent for like a week and he asked my best ... (195 words)

I want my son to have his father in his life full time, but his dad has two other sons that wont leave home!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have been together for a year and we have a 2.5 month son together. We don't live together because he has a 21 year old son and a 26 year old son that live with him. He says that he wants to buy a house for us but I dont believe him cause his ... (111 words)

I cant stop flirting with other men and it is driving my boyfriend away!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i was with my exboyfriend for 7 years on and off i cheated on him and he has left me a few times and gone with other girls and i have bagged him back and he used to come back cos i do belive we loved each other but he could not cope anyway we had 9 mounths away from each ... (211 words)

My flirty fiancee wont stop flirting with our younger friend...why does she need to do this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age - I am 47 and my fiance is 41. She constantly flirts with a younger 23 year old friend of ours everytime she sees him. She says she has no attraction toward him and it's innocent but this really pushes my buttons everytime she does it. I've told her I don't like it and have ... (130 words)

Old-flame back in my life again....should I call her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age - I am 61 years old and a widower for 5 years. I recently found the girl I was dating before my late wife. She lives fairly close to me and after a little phone tag we finally talked for almost two hours about when we were teenagers and so much in love along with the normal ... (135 words)

Is he just trying to find an easy way out of our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So recently stuff has been hard. I'm under quite alot of pressure from school to get the best grades I can and at home as well. So me and my friends started going out on a friday night and taking off the pressure by drinking. We've only done it for a few weeks and I've told my ... (263 words)

Can our relationship be saved? Or is she just one of "those" girls who cant be faithful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So me and my girlfriend first started going out almost a year ago now. Although, it’s been very far from perfect. At first, as it is with most relationships I imagine, it was great. I thought it was perfect. But time went by, and we began to see the flaws in eachother. She ... (582 words)

Was I wrong to make a rude comment about his new girlfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm so afraid that if people that I think of as my true friends were to find out what I had done, that they would be let down or disappointed in me. I'm afraid that they might think I'm a bad person. Maybe I'm wrong and just listening to fear. A friend from college is reall... (747 words)

Will my boyfriend leave me because I don't want children?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't want kids. I have never wanted kids. I just don't like them, have no motherly instinct, plus childbirth = ow. My boyfriend does want kids. He's said he used to think about being a father a lot. He knows I don't want them, and knew that when we got together, and he s... (209 words)

I'm the one making all the effort in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been seeing my ex again for around six weeks and it seemed to going well but... My problem is he used to text me a fair bit through the day, not loads but enough to know that he does like me. Now though I only get one text a day and he leaves hours and hours to reply to ... (228 words)

Should I expect my man only to be interested in sex when we met whilst I was working in the sex industry?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5358 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - after meeting my man while i worked in the sex industry, should i have expected him to only show interest in being with me if we were having sex?... (29 words)

Religion is getting in the way of our relationship....How do we make this work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - im dating this girl who parents are jehovas witnessness and she is too but not my choice anyway im not in anyway relgion n she isnt supposed to be seein guys or even me but we been sorta datin under the radar for awhile i find her really amzing unlike any chick i've met but she ... (150 words)

Why does he treat me so differently?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i dont understand anything anymore theres a lad i like,he knows i do cuz my m8 thought he liked me n asked him n he sed he didnt like me tht way altho he did show it! thing is i don't understand y hes so different with me. With anyone he'll have a laugh with them, he'll t... (350 words)

Buzzing in the ears from clubbing. Any advice?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Everybody has had the experience of going out clubbing, and going home with a very loud ringing and buzzing in their ears, and it can last for half of the next day buzzing. Is there any advice or remedy that someone might know of to make the buzzing go away or is it just a matt... (74 words)

I miss the intimacy and don't know what's wrong

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been in a very loving relationship for 8 months now. My boyfriend is so caring, understanding, lovely... everything I could ask for and we very rarely argue. When we first together we had sex basically every day. This is how I was with my ex boyfriend too, I've a... (189 words)

I was hoping that I might get a card but ....nothing!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi guys, this isnt a relationship question as such but i need to vent off. I've been at my current job for 5 months now and on Wednesday it was my birthday. I bought in cakes and savoury snacks as you do. Well...2 things pissed me off... The 1st being that i didnt get a ... (199 words)

My vagina smells fishy after I go to the toilet

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi Wondering if anybody can help me. I have a fishy smell coming from my down below, BUT it is only there after i have pee'd and wiped myself dry. Once i wash myself, it goes away, and there's never a problem during sex- it smells fine. What could it be?... (55 words)

Now I'm being bullied by the co-worker he's dating

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5746 days ago

28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I dated a guy in my workplace:we kept it secret due to policy.i previously helped him get a job there. he didn't know at the time that i was bullied there.i didn't want to get him involved and was scared he would think less of me. anyway, i fell inlove quickly:he was my angel... (475 words)

Said he liked me but in the morning just walked off!

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - see, i met this boy last weekend. We were drunk and kissed before falling asleep in eachothers arms.he said he liked me but the next morning he just walked off and ignored me.the thing is though, i really like him but i dont know if he likes me or if it was the drink ... (55 words)

Aren't our feelings for each another enough to make things work?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted a question on here last week about how my boyfriend and I seem to want different things. Last night, after 2 and a half years, he broke up with me because of it. He wants to focus on his career and while I do to, I had also suggested living together. He feels he's no... (184 words)

If I try to move on I will be lonely. I don't have that many friends.

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well.. Im 14 and I have recently broken up with my ex. He was my first boyfriend that I fell in love with. He is in the year above me. And well when we first met he was crazy of me always phoning me texting me and I knew that we would be going out soon. And we did by the next... (681 words)

Does anyone else have this same problem like me?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so obviously I know the response I am going to get from people are either "get over it", "seek counselling" or "everyone has them". However my question is more for the later. I am black, I have stretch marks all over my butt cheeks, other than that I have a good body - ta... (527 words)

Dont want to push him further but don't want to give up either

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28 March 2009 (F)

age - Can time realy heal I met this guy on line Jan 08 shortly after joing a chat site. We became friends instantly as we had a lot in common. About 4 month into the friendship he met another girl that he almost instantly fell for. As there relationship grew she became gealous ... (737 words)

My husband has left me for another woman and I am devastated,

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - my husband has left me for another woman and i am devastated, i can not cope, he was my whole world and my world has collapsed, just need to know how to get myself strong again. ... (36 words)

I really think I might be bi but I'm scared to date a chick. What should I do?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I really have 2 questions 1) I really like this girl and she live in MA and I live in PA. She has A boyfriend but she wants me And I want her. Is it possible to have a long distance relationship like that? Btw I'm 17 she's 21. 2) I've never did anything with a gi... (121 words)

How do you know when you've ruined a friendship?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This is bugging me so much that I can't sleep. Sorry it's long but I need to get this off my chest. I'm feeling very conflicted about a friend. Part of me feels overcome with guilt because I think I've ruined the friendship and part of me is furious at him. I'm angry be... (1626 words)

Who cums first between a guy n a gal?

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi there good people. I'm back again for your excellent advices. here's what I've been wondering most bout: who cums first between a guy n a gal?... (27 words)

I'm wondering if I should break up with my girlfriend...

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello, I have been in a relationship for a year with my girlfriend. My girlfriend is a waitress. I recently moved in with her 2 months ago. Everything was going great but then she left her myspace open so i looked at it and saw that she was talking to some guy that always comes ... (214 words)

Should I leave my wife for this other women and risk end up being alone?

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28 March 2009 (M)

age - I am in a 20 years marriage that has lasted 10 yrs too long. I have been seeing another woman twice a month for 2 years. I don't want to hurt my wife, but I'm not in love w/her anymore. The other woman loves me, but is married w/three kids. She is getting seperated this ... (119 words)

I saw a txt meant for my friend from my boyfriend that upset me.

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend and i were texting on the phone... my friend nick was sitting next to me and wanted to talk to him so i handed over the phone. they started talking but he wouldnt tell me what the were saying i took away the phone after an hour and the text i got right when i got... (226 words)

I want to break up with my girlfriend!

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello everyone ...i am 21 and my girlfriend is 18 ....we are having an affair since one year but due to some reason i have decided to dump her ...she has been a very responsible and caring girlfriend and i am really very lucky to have a person like her in my life .... well... (308 words)

Others say I can do better than whom I am with and I might think the same.

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok. So I'm dating this guy and I love him dearly and we've been dating for 1 year and almost 7 months, but everyone I know/work with say I can do better. There's a coworker that I like a lot and he likes me back. He's completely sweet, makes sure I'm careful driving home, is ... (152 words)

I don't trust other guys after I been cheated on!

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - First off, I'm nineteen. My ex and I dated for two years. He physically, emotionally, and sexually abused me on an almost daily basis for about a year and eight months of that. Four months ago, he cheated on me with a girl who had already had eight partners and she was barely ... (300 words)

I don't know what to do in a relationship?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone!!! I need help ummmm this guy asked me out and I said that I would think about it!! And I honestly don't know what to do sure I like him and everything but I've never been in a relationship or anything that has to do with that except for likeing boys but other than ... (96 words)

I can see us breaking up but I still have fun with him

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend of 3 years and nearlly two months, lives with me and my family and has done for 2 years. Recently tho we;ve been argueing alot, we usualy argue but neevr this much before. He says he doesnt think thing's are working out and doesnt want to waste my life on something ... (128 words)

Am I becoming evil? Whats wrong with me?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Lately, I've been having a series of really vivid dreams. Some of them seem to have a dark thread running through them, and I'm getting scared because I do terrible things in my dreams. I'm so angry all the time. In waking life I force myself to focus on my goals and the ... (405 words)

Which birth control is better?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So here's the thing. I'm supposed to get Birth Control next week. My mom wants me to get the shot but my grandma says it'll make me gain weight and in my opinion, I would hate that, But my mom says it stops periods completely sometimes and really helps. My grandma wants me to ... (130 words)

He's not handling our break up well

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend of 8 months yesterday and he didn't handle it very well at all. I said we can still be friends, and the next day he tried texting me again because he's upset still. Should I keep talking to him as a friend and console him? Or will that make things ... (72 words)

I wouldn't kiss her and now she won't talk to me

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My girl friend tried to kiss wile we were going out once i said no, and she wont talk to me. what should i do?... (25 words)

I'm getting addicted to porn but don't want to!

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Friends plz advice me I am married and away from home. I get into bad habbit watching porn sites...I m feeling myself getting addict to it... I want to get rid of this... Please advice... Thanks in advance...... (50 words)

What can I do about an anal penetration problem?

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a bit disgusting but I really need advice! My boyfriend likes me to put a finger or 2 in his rear when I do other stuff to him, and that's ok with me, I have no problems doing it, the response I get from him is great, it's erotic and fun. Only thing is, sometimes ... (209 words)

Are we over? He hasn't called in a week

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm seeing this guy that I have known for several months. We are on spring break now but at school, we communicate about every other day via calls/texts and I go over to his place a lot. We act like a couple when we are together, and the day before break, he spent the night and ... (279 words)

Should I still give her the gift?

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28 March 2009 (M)

She wants to go see an old guy friend, but won't let me come with her...to meet him! Right or wrong??

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a 28 year old male, in a long distance relationship with a 22 year old female. I had plans to go visit her, for a week in April 3. But we hit a snag here and now I am not sure if I should go, (in light of what's happened) After my visit with her in April, she was p... (690 words)

17 and no girlfriend!

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I am just 17 years old and i have not gotten a girlfriend before, i am not desperate. I do have female friends and i have fallen in love with one of them but the problem is that she is older than me(20 years). I dont know if she loves me, she tells me to visit her,always laughs ... (127 words)

Who do I choose...my wife or my lover?

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I ended up having an affair due to lack of affection from my wife. I know I was wrong and I take full responsibility for my actions. Obviously, I wasn't looking for affection, it just grew from a friendship to an emotional level, which turned physical. I started distancing ... (325 words)

My husband has impregnated a girl twice during our marriage!

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Should i stay with my spouse after i have forgiven him twice for impreganating **PERSON-A**,who happened to miscarry on both occassion. I gave birth to our daughter (**PERSON-B**) three months ago and he is now telling me that **PERSON-A** had a child by him one month before ... (79 words)

My ex invited me & my b/f to a housewarming party and played a sex tape we had made together!

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - dear aunts, my boyfriend and i have been dating for two and a half years. he's funny, honest, smart, hard-working, just everything i could want in a man. i have never connected with another person on so many levels, and i can't imagine loving anyone else as much as i love h... (670 words)

He left me for another girl and it's killing me...

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - This guy left me for another girl. It's been a week. She is prettier and more popualar. I feel really gutted. But also, we parted on bad terms and I can't ever speak to him again, and I know for a fact he will never contact me ever again. I miss him a lot. I used to share ... (91 words)

He told me he ended their affair... but I found out he hasn't and I'm heartbroken...

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28 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had an affair a year ago, I found out after two weeks, he ended it and we stayed together. I found out a week ago that he did not end the affair it has been going on all the time. He has left me for her and I am totally broken, we have been married for 19 years, I ... (110 words)

After a breakup, is it normal for the person that has broken up with you to still respond to kisses and lingering hugs...?

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28 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - After a breakup, is it normal for the person that has broken up with you to still respond to kisses and lingering hugs, and engage in sexual activities, as well as calling you beautiful in text messages? I know this person loves me and cares, as they have told me, but feel the... (66 words)