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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How can I make myself believe that there are good men out there?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Don't know if I did the right thing. I just left my boyfriend of 4 years after him cheating on me twice cuz he said that we were having problems, thru physical and mental abuse.. I finally woke up and realized that I shouldn't allow him to do this and I changed my # it's been ... (130 words)

Married man pursuing young girl...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5756 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - There is this married man that keeps calling me. I don't understand why he wants to talk to me (he got my phone number through a friend) since we have nothing in common and the age level is too far apart. Well yes I do because he probably just wants sex from me but I'm not ... (264 words)

How can I repair months of damage of making him feel unwanted and allow him to feel happy and secure in our relationship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I love my husband and want my marriage to work. I've spent months thinking I don't love him and then when we're about to split up I feel like my heart is breaking in two. How can I repair months of damage of making him feel unwanted and allow him to feel happy and secure... (134 words)

Did I miss my boat - why can't I forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5690 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age - I need to put this all together so that you will be able to understand. I fell in love at 16 and got engaged at 18 my boyfriend went to service. I met a boy at work who I heard was crazy about me. He wanted to ask me out. I happened to know that he was seeing a girl already ... (446 words)

Inconsiderate boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey, I have a habit of falling asleep on my boyfriend... like at 4 and 5 o'clock in the morning, when he wants to have sex, or when he wants me to come over. He gets really mad at me. I'm like you act like I fall asleep at 8 or 9pm. I've be up all damn day taking care of the ... (69 words)

Work relationships???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My supervisor at work is quite young - 25, but acts like a 19 year old and doesn't even look his age. He's always making jokes, and lives the party lifestyle, except I have taken a liking to him :$, I see every tue, wed and fri and have that high school crush feeling. I'm 20 ... (104 words)

Moral Dilemma - should I have an affair with a married man?

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been thinking about having an affair with a 50 year old married man. He has made it very clear to me that he is married, has children and is not going to leave his family. I honestly do not care because I'm not looking for a relationship with him or to be tied down at this ... (278 words)

Should I leave my marriage?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am in need of advice and insight.... please no judgement. I have been married for over 19 years. I Have a 19 year old and 17 year old. I am 38 years old and female. I have been having an affair off and on since 2005. The other man is someone I have known my entire life. S... (66 words)

How do I react to my dad's taunts?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 19 years old, a few months back I had a night out with my girlfriends and came home at 2 in the morning, since then my dad has been taunting me about it every day although he didn't shout at me the day I came home late. I don't understand... is it that wrong to come hom... (91 words)

Will it last even though we will not meet for another year?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in love but she lives on the other side of the world. I met this girl a year ago, online... she is so gorgeous, genuine, natural, sexy, she makes me laugh and I want to spend all my time with her. The only problem is that she lives on the other side of the world. We have ... (106 words)

Too much control - advice please!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi im 17 and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend who is 27 for 6 months. Everytime we have sex he wants to be in control. i dont mind it because in some strange way i like being overpowered by a man but my boyfriend knows his limits. After we are done having sex ... (174 words)

I have always had a fear of dying in my sleep.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm fifteen years old. What I am about to say may get you a little freaked out, but please don't be so quick to judge! Last month, I went to the doctor because my mom said she had some concerns about my health and etc. I have panic attacks, not often, once every few months... (408 words)

The mind or the heart - which one would you choose?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - The mind teases the heart! My question is what do you think about the concept of The heart teasing the mind? I think this happens but is probably an illusion and really we should listen to our heart because that is the essence of our true feeling and that is what recogni... (108 words)

What is he thinking? What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I am new to this site but I love the idea of it, I would love to do something like this for people my own age but professionally. Anyway I have a pretty confusing question... I am a woman who tends to cling to men and love too easily, due to the fact that I have a b... (298 words)

He wants me to give him oral sex, but I've never done it before and I'm a bit nervous. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, i have a bit of an embarresing question. im seeing this guy and we have slept together quite a few times and he wants me to give him a blow job. iv told him im not sure i want to do that and he said its fine he wouldnt make me do anything i wasnt comfortable with... (121 words)

I need to win back her trust, but I don't know what to do. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I cheated on my girlfriend while on holiday last year. We'd been together 7 weeks, so i just put it behide me as a drunken mistake. At christmas, we moved in together and she asked me to be totally honest about everything and said it didnt matter as we were starting a new life. ... (138 words)

My boyfriend and I haven't spoken in 3 weeks. What's going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 2 years now and we recently got into an argument. Later on that night I called him but he didn't answer his phone. I decided to let him cool off for a couple of days but I still heard nothing from him. I decided to call again and ... (90 words)

What he's done has just shattered my soul!!!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I broke up with my boyfriend at the end of january. It was sort of getting distant in the end there and I realized he'd been sort of confused about things. I kinda was trying to end it because of how he was treating me.. our relationship didn't last that long but in spite of ... (323 words)

Torn... between leaving or staying... Help!!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am new to this site so first off I just wanna say Hi! My names Kayla! I have been in my current relationship almost 4 years. We just got married almost a year ago. We have 2 children together. We have never really got along, but lately it seems worse. I have hit him befo... (626 words)

I want to work from home... anyone ever did this before?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi. I really hope someone can help. I want to do some work from home, can you tell me what you think of this website ?: http://www.maverickmoneymakers.com If you don't think this one is genuine, could you please provide links to any websites that are genuine. I'm also... (159 words)

I think she wants the best of both worlds (the single life AND a relationship). Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - To give some information on things, me and my gf have been together for about 8 months now and we live about an hour away from eachother. She has a lot of guy friends, and I have some girls that are friends too. Things have been going really well also so far, but now here is ... (395 words)

Am I just being used to vent?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I met this girl about 2 months ago and I've fallen pretty hard for her. First of all when I met her she was in a relationship (well not technically because she didn't give the other guy the title of her boyfriend so he didn't give her the title of being his gf either). Then... (684 words)

I think I'm falling for her...help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok So heres the thing i need some help and advice. Theres this girl shes been with her boyfriend for 4 years there engaged, shes been texting me bad stuff and says she wants me and i really turn her on. her and her boyfriend are on a break at the moment. i've seen her like ev... (172 words)

My parents will FREAK if I tell them how old he is. Does age matter?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - A four weekends ago my girlfriends and I were out for drinks and I accidently dumped into this cute business type guy and spilled my drink on him. We started talking and he told me I owed him a dance for getting him dirty. We danced and ended up talking the rest of the ... (197 words)

I have a thing for a girl at work, but I think I've been stabbed in the back. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Please offer some insight I am confused. I am a bisexual,I only kissed a woman and -I am not open about it, only with a few close friends. Since before christmas, I felt a connection with a coworker she is woman a married woman, and I am a single woman.I really feel a st... (734 words)

How can I turn him down nicely?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a part time job in a small shop in town. I mainly work during the weekend so therefore meet regular customers every weekend. I work on the till most of the time and as part of my personality and my job, I am friendly and polite to all my customers. However, there are ... (195 words)

My best friend's girl is cheating on him. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My best friends girl is cheating on him. I heard it around town for a while now but didnt believe it until I seen it myself. He is madly in love with her, should I tell him?... (39 words)

Nothing ever seems to go right for me. Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 23, female and depressed. i've been throgh alot of stuff in my 23 years and it just seems nothing ever goes right for me. I can never seem to hold a relationship down with guys im really into, i either get bored real quickly or if my expections arent met i get it into my h... (91 words)

How do I know if I was in love with her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi im 15 and i was wondering what does it feel like to be in love? when do you know your in love? i think was in love and i think well i know she loved me back but she chose drinkin and smokin over me and yeah im still hurtin cause it was 4 days ago but i really wanna know if i ... (139 words)

My fiance and I are fighting a lot. He thinks I'm the "psycho girlfriend", but I think I'm justified in my reactions. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My fiance and I have been together for 3 and a half years. We have had many ups and downs. He has severe anxiety and depression. I always seem to be insecure and sometimes fit the stereotype of the "psycho girlfriend" I guess you could say. He has betrayed my trust 3 times each ... (825 words)

My friend's brother may have cancer. I don't know what to do!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, im a little stuck with something at the moment Im at uni, and my friend told me on a night out when i went to the bar with him - as i asked how he was, that his younger brother they think has cancer. And that he hasnt told anyone else - not his girlfriend here, or ... (148 words)

He's already got 4 kids, but I want a child of my own

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I've been in a relationship with a 35 year old man for over a year. He has 4 kids from a previous relationship, but I love him with all my heart. Being that I'm only 19 years old. I want a family of my own, but I've been having a strange feeling that when the time comes for ... (90 words)

Why does my Dad have these pictures and texts? What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, this is something i cannot talk to my friends about or my mum, havent told anybody. My parents divorced 13 years ago, as my dad met another women, they are now happily married and have had 2 children(seven and ten), i really love my step-mum and the kids its all rea... (319 words)

He cheated 8 years ago and has only just told me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi Aunts , Last week my partner and I of 20 years together went to his works reunion party. We mingled with lots of people we both knew well. This particular woman kept hanging on to my husband and I overheard her say to him she wouldnt forget the good times they had togather... (343 words)

In my forties and lost my sex drive

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5693 days ago

15 March 2009 (M) age - I don't know what is wrong with me sexually. I'm in my forties, and I totally lost my sexual desire. I went to the doctor and evrything looks fine. Heart, hormons,ok... But I don't have a normal erection few years ago. Or sexual desire. My erections just going down in sec, ... (141 words)

I feel wrongfully accused of being a "tease"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now but we have known each other for about 2 months. We we first got together, he pressed himself against me and I said that I don't do that without a commitment and asked if he wanted to try dating and he said "We'll go with the ... (324 words)

My sex drive is so low...I feel abnormal!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I really worry that my sex drive is much less than other women...I know traditionally women have lesser sex drives than men, but I could happily go weeks without it. I do masturbate and to be honest find that better than sex with guys - because I know how to please myself, ... (85 words)

He dumped me by email...Should I try to build bridges?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello -me and my boyfriend broke up recently, we only dated for a couple of months but it was really good met over summer but we were both going to uni so stopped it there. got back together over christmas and were content in making it work, both of us even though we were a... (176 words)

I used a dildo & now I'm bleeding heavily...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok this is going to sound stupid but i used a 6 inch dildo today and ever since i used that i have been bleeding alot and i mean alot, i have always been loosing like blood clots things as well and its really worrying me do any of you no whats wrong :( ... (56 words)

Threesome--what is my girlfriend REALLY thinking?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - okies...im male, im 16 n i have a strange question... ive been going out with my girlfried for a year now! and things are great! i love her so much and unlike other teenage relationships this one has lasted really long... she is very cute! anywayz... me, my ex and my girlfr... (399 words)

Why does he protect the malicious ex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been dating my new blooke for 8 weeks, things are going very well, we get on amazingly well and for the first time in quite a while I really feel something for this guy. Now, as most guys do, he has An Ex. One of the kinda pain in the a** ones. And I should tell you ... (493 words)

Will the pregnancy test results be accurate?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F) - I wonder if anyone could help to put my mind at rest. i had sex on tuesday and he didnt cun inside me but i know precum can still get you pregnant. i did a pregnancy test on friday and it showed nagative which i am relieved about. will this be accurate? today i have some white ... (83 words)

My sister is having an affair with a married man with 3 kids!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - will i will just be brief here my 24 year old sister is having an affair with a 38 year old man who is married and has 3 kids.. he says he was never happy with his married life and was forced to marry this woman because of his casanova image and that he would divorce his wife... (116 words)

What's going on in her head?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and this girl have been talking, for quite sometime almost 5 months, we went out for 2 but she wasnt ready for a realtionship, i beleive she didnt have full closure on her ex ( they went out for three years), soo we still talked and hung out, flirted, kissed sometimes, i ... (386 words)

Is it safe to fly to Spain, while I'm pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi could someone help me i am currently 26 weeks and a few days pregnant and i am going on holiday to spain on tuesday i just wanted to know if it is safe to fly please let me know thank you x... (43 words)

Pregnant with Twins...can you help us decide on some names?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband and i were having a debate about baby names, yes i'm pregnant with twins... and i said i'd put it to a poll. please could anyone who wants to decide from the six names below which one they prefer. i'm expecting a baby boy and a baby girl... my husband and i both have ... (98 words)

I love to have sex all day and all night

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 years old and i have a problem. I love to have sex...all day and night. I tend to scare many girls off...... at first they tend to like it and then get annoyed by it and they just end up leaving me. what different can i do to keep these girls around? ... (60 words)

Crossing the line?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi I have started talking to guy on a social networking site, we have sent direct messages to each other and he has sent me music. The problem is he has a partner and a baby. Have we crossed the line? the whole thing feels rather secretive.... (50 words)

Why does he never say hi but stares at me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey i'm 15 years old and i'm soo confused..a few months ago he goes to my school i dont really talk to him..so one night he messaged me saying i should start saying hi to him.we talked for a couple of weeks mostly flirted and then he gave me his number saying i should text ... (247 words)

We seem to reciprocate each other's feelings and I want to date him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, Agony Aunts! Well, this is a mildly interesting story with some weird circumstances. It's also rather long, so I hope you have the patience. In addition to that, let me start by saying that nothing has happened yet, but I'm wondering if (and kind of hoping) something ... (877 words)

Baby names...

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My bf and I were talking about baby names we want something unique and different but still cute. What do you think of the following names? BOYS: Flynn Owen (Owen is my bfs dad) Sloan Owen Makai (Ma-Ki) Owen Girls: Makenna Joy Arizona Joy Ryann Joy... (61 words)

My problem is when I cum I squirt!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am 20 years old and started dating a new guy about a month ago. We haven't had sex yet but I know it is going to happen soon. My problem is when I cum I squirt, the first time it happened I had never even heard of it and had to look it up online to see if it was normal. I f... (161 words)

Should I keep my dependable boyfriend who wants to get married or should I follow my spontaneous instinct and heart and go for Marcus?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5757 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - In order to understand this question you must first read my previous question. I have a boyfriend and him and I are trying to make a long distance thing work. He believes it is but I don't. Well I have known this guy named Marcus for a while and since I moved away him and I ha... (210 words)

My online guy wants me to fly out to his state and met him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been talking to this guy online for almost a year now. We talk daily and seems like a great guy. He wants me to fly out to his state and meet him. I really want to but im a little nervous. I'm 21 and he is a bit older he is 30 and is divorced. My biggest concern ... (69 words)

I don't feel the love for him I once did

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met my current boyfriend in the 7th grade when I was dating his older brother. He has liked me since then(i'm now a senior) well we started dating almost a year ago and he from the first week has been telling me he loves me and wants to marry me. Well I moved to california 3 ... (216 words)

How can we convince her parents that she is ready to get married?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 19 and my girlfriend is 18. We have been dating since we were 16 and know that we will be together for the rest of our lives. We want to get married this summer but I don't think her parents will approve of it. We are moving into our apartment at the end of the month ... (101 words)

What are the signs of a true female orgasm?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I want to know what the signs of a "true female orgasm" are. I know that there are some people who say that you can't tell but I don't believe that. So someone please help me by making this clear to me.... (42 words)

How can I make it up to him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure how to word this so I'll just tell the story and hope for the best. Me and my boyfriend have been together for over a year now, and, up untill yesterday, everything was perfect. We only really see eachother once a week on a saturday, and i normally stay round hi... (261 words)

Is it automatically understood that I am his girlfriend since we date and kiss?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i recently met this guy and we started dating we went to a movie 3 days ago we kissed and made out and we are still dating but i don't know if he sees me as a girlfriend or just a friend or just a date or maybe even a friend with benefits or does he think im auto... (108 words)

Is this what he really wants?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - This all started in December 08. Me and my husband had an argument and I got really mad cause he lied to me about it but then he told me the truth and said he lied to keep from arguing, and I did hit him 3 times. I dont know why but I did, I guess I was just really upset, I ... (389 words)

Latex allergy or something else? Temporary relief?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5758 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I had sex the other day with a new partner and we used a condom, and a vibrator. I took all the proper precautions, it wasnt my first time. But as time passed i started feeling dry and itchy and swollen. This has only happened to me one other time after sex and i changed ever... (157 words)

Friend not acting the same and won't talk about it

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend robert is not acting the same. When I ask him if hes mad at me he doesn't answer. I thought we were close and now I don't know if he likes me anymore. This kid is making me confused. He likes me then he doesn't talk to me. Did I do something wrong? Did he think things ... (164 words)

I can't seem to find that special someone

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am feeling frustrated about my singlehood. My last relationship was 8 years ago and after that relationship, it seems like I can't seem to find any nice guy who wants to be in a relationship with me. I have been to single activities, go for casual dating, register myself on s... (140 words)

Have been with over 20 men in the last 18 months..sexual addiction!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi, Have been married for over 20 years. 2 years ago husband started working away from home. Was very lonely and turned to chatting on the internet. Met a man. He was everything I could have wanted. And sex was wonderful. Short story my husband found out and everything blew ... (143 words)

My 21 year old sister is doing sexual things that I know she will regret

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5747 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 years old and have a 21 yr old sister she was baby sitting for me and when she used our computer she didnt log off. I happened to come across a very distrubing email from her boyfriend of 6 months. Before I satrt I should say that se was been acting very strange , depres... (256 words)

Never saw him cum..pregnant?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I never saw my ex partner pre cum and he always pull out..... Is there a chance i can be pregnant?? I never saw any coming? Please help.... ... (29 words)

Period sex days late

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid, my period is late normally i am late but i am now about 6 days late and i am worrying, two weeks ago i had a courseowrk deadline and i stressed out abit but i dont think it was that bad i would skip a period.also i starting my first period in november 07 i ... (99 words)

I find myself questioning every every I made in my marriage

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ive been cheating on my husband for over 4months, Im 19 and we got married 5months ago. We were together for a year and a half before we tied the nott and everything was great, we never fought nor had any problems what so ever. I met this other man about a month after i got ... (442 words)

When I'm stressed, I let it out on people, including on my g/f

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5760 days ago

15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i have been very stressed with exams coming up and i keep snapping at people, mostly towards my girlfriend who i love so much (because were almost inseperable) all this stress has been coming out at her and it is unfair and i have hurt her emotionally, she says ive been forg... (87 words)

Boyfriend has many issues

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5759 days ago

15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I don't know how to stop him! My boyfriend, who is 20 has many issues like.. He smokes pot, drinks a lot, carries condoms and has sex with loads of prostitutes, been in trouble with the police for assault and shop lifting- I just don't know what to do. I'm 13. I'm very tall for ... (305 words)

How can I make her happy again?

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - ok, me and my girlfriend have been dating for over 3 months. and for about the first 2 months we were smiling, kissing, laughing ALL the time. but now we dont really do that as much. she doesnt seem that happy anymore, and i really want her to be happy cuz i love her, and i ... (74 words)

Sex hurts for her afterwards

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - me and my girlfriend have been very close and even intimate on a few occasions, however when we do have sex she gets a pain down below once we finish. she thinks its "probably just a cut or something" and not to worry about it. but weve stopped having sex because were "too ... (103 words)

He wants to try new things and anal sex is one of them

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend was talking about things we want to try to do to improve our sex life. He was saying how he wanted to try anal sex and i agreed to it. But i don't really know what to expect. Does it hurt? Is it messy? Should we try it? Thanks :)... (59 words)

I don't know how to stop this feeling

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have fancied tis boy since october 2008... i feel more and more strongly about him everyday... i dnt noe wat to do... in primary skl i fancied tis boy since the day we started at reception till a few days into yr 7... we went to different secondary skls and were good friends ... (120 words)

She's acting very strangely... can anyone help me understand this girl's behaviour?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Okay my question is this a big problem waiting to happen? There's this girl I decided to become friends with at work. She's a major sweetheart and we have a lot in common.Well recently she told me she doesn't have any girl friends because they (everyone of them) used to be... (391 words)

How do I trust her when I know this guy wants her?

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my girlfriend for 4 years. Recently she has made friends with a guy who I think just wants to get into her pants. She wants to go and hang out with him. She says she won't let anything happen and I do trust her but she is very flirty. I'm afraid h... (127 words)

He says he wants me but not my temper - how do I get him back?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i've been seeing this guy for 6 months. we met at work, he no longer works there. when we worked together i had no interest in him, until a work do one thing lead to another...6 months on there's been a few arguments which we are both to blame for but we worked it out and i ... (488 words)

I love my husband very much but have lost desire for him

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I met my husband years ago and we were friends for 9 years prior to starting a relationship. When we were first together we had sex all of the time, like every day. Once we moved in together of course the sex slowed down. We both have small children, and are a blended family of ... (481 words)

She slept with me 1st night we were together, does that mean she sleeps with every guy the 1st date?

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - So I have one more problem, well more of a question. After 7 yrs of being friends we have finally started dating. She has dated alot of guys in the past and being her roommate I got to hear alot of their sex life. She is very aventures in bed. I have only had sex with 1 o... (95 words)

I'm worried about his true intentions behind his words?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Thanks for reading this, I need some advice! My bf of 8 yrs has started saying he would like us to get married and have children in the next year or two. I don't know if he means it, as he said the same thing last year, then broke up with me because he said he didn't want to ... (274 words)

It feels like this marriage is about to die

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So we've been married for almost eight months. But I can't open up to him emotionally. When I do I get shut down sometimes. He'll say things like "I'm not in a kiss-ass mood today." In one of our former arguments we discussed this and I told him not to assume that, but his ... (563 words)

We met, had sex, and now he doesn't call

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i met this guy and we talked on the fone all the time 4 a couple of months before we met, then we met up he came 2 mine we had sex. then we met up the other nite i went 2 his, its jus he dosent call or text me that often like he used 2, does he really want me... (63 words)

My friend and my b/f don't get along and now he's refusing to see me

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now.. him and my friend don't get on at all, they really hate each other and are always at each others necks..! on friday at school we were sat in the hall talking and my friend came and sat with us.. my friend started ... (195 words)

How do you know he means it when he says "I love you"

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know when a guy means it when he says i love you? Do they say it just because they think it's what a girl wants to hear? My guy and I are not exclusive but we have a close relationship and have had sex before and he recently said this to me. I have not had a good ... (78 words)

Old friend just sort of blew me off and it hurts me

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Afternoon aunts and uncles. I recently found an old friend on facebook...we used to work together and got on really well. He now is living the dream and is in a band who are becoming successful. Im so happy for him but heres the problem...i was the 1 who encouraged him to ... (206 words)

I'm 19 & haven't had a proper boyfriend

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i'm 19 and i havn't had a proper boyfriend yet. i'm worried that i'm never going to find someone that really loves me! It doesnt help that my best friend is stunning can have whoever she wants. i got friends that are not that pretty or confident but they are in loving... (68 words)

Boyfriend of my g/f's best friend keeps coming on to me!

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm 22 and my girlfriend's 21. Me and my girlfriend often socialise with her best friend (who's 23) and her fiance (he's 24). For the past few weeks, whenever my girlfriend and her best friend go the bathroom if we're out anywhere, her fiance has been trying to "come on" to ... (223 words)

How do you chose between 2 guys?

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15 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - I started dating this wonderful guy in may of 2007 who lived 2 hours away and he was also older than I was ,had his stuff together,2 kids like me,and went through crazy divorce. because he lived so far away we would tend to grow apart when he was away and he also traveled alot ... (123 words)

I have grown disdain for my family

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - i hate my family...you see i have math issues, and my aunt teaches me, but no matter what i do she always criticizes me, and compares to me everyone else...and then tells my parents lies and they believe her without even consulting me first..i hate them...please tell me what to ... (51 words)

Love triangle gone bad

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well it all started around Christmas time.. I haven't seen my guy friend for long (2 months-ish). He had a falling out with another guy friend from our group. 1st time I saw him after that was my friends 18th birthday. We had to do a rose-candle dance and I got him as my pa... (495 words)

Why does he say he wants to be friends and then ignore me?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have to go away on a course through work regularly. I met this guy on the course, in September. After a few too many drinks we ended up in bed together. I really liked him, but he's only 21 and I'm 28, so just thought of it as a bit of fun. Since we've always got toge... (439 words)

Never calls me..wonder if he's cheating?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Im in love with a guy who is 4 years younger then me. Im 25 and his 21. Its just 5 months since we met. His in another state schooling and im staying home. Its four months now we haven't met. He hardly calls me. Its me who always calls and reminds him to call me. He always says ... (109 words)

Husband works all the time, no interest/desire for sex

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband works as a radio presenter, and in the radio industry as well. For the past few weeks he's been spending far too much time at work well past working hours. It's not like he's been working for a promotion or anything, as he's been promoted very high up the corporate... (466 words)

Maybe not girlfriend material?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - i,d like lot of guys over the year.and got rejected i am fat,short,with a fat round face.were glasses. they don,t like me.may be its me thats wrong i am the reason they don,t like me that way.i am not type of girl to do my nails and painted them and put loads of make up... (149 words)

Could I be in love with the wrong person?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Can I be in love with the wrong person? I am 28 and practice my religion. I have strong feelings for another women who is in her forties and is an atheist. We have different cultural backgrounds. We have been friends for over 4 years, and I have had these feelings for along ti... (168 words)

What is he playing at? Not sure I get what the game is?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi All, Ok well here is the general gist, I met this guy through an online dating website, we chatted online via e-mail then msn then texting for a month before I agreed to meet him, we Met On Thurs 2 weeks ago for 1st time and were both instantly attracted to each other, h... (276 words)

Sometimes when I joke my mother takes it seriously

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 23 and living at home with my Mum. We get on well at times but on several occasions when I kid about stuff she takes it seriously and decides to discuss the serious side of the matter. This frustrates me as she doesn't play along with the fun and be happy. On one occasion, ... (155 words)

Will he ever forgive me?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 years ago, my boyfriend of 3 and a half years broke up with me. We were very much in love and I devoted myself to him. I was always honest, and faithful. I was genuine in our relationship and put him as my first priority always. He was the man I wanted to marry and when he ... (459 words)

What are the chances I'm pregnant?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I'm 15, and on Thursday I had the implant put in. I am still taking my pill every day, but on Saturday I had sex twice without a condom. What are the chances I'm pregnant? I don't think they are very high but I'm still kinda worried... Please I don't want any "you're too ... (87 words)

We're losing our friendship because of his girlfriend

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, First of all, let me say that this is a friendship problem, not a romantic one. I don't like my mate's girlfriend and I know I'm not the only one. He's 23 and she's six years younger, 17. All of his mates (including me of course) don't like her, and we've always bee... (567 words)

When should I start feeding my baby?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - When should I start feeding my baby rice, cereal and baby food? He is 2 months and 15 days right now.... (22 words)

Let it blow away or continue?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey So Ive been seeing this guy off and on for about 3 years now, he has been married before but he got married right out of high school and he is 25 now. But im not so sure if I want to stay with him or not I mean he said he still has feelings for his ex-wife that cheated on ... (142 words)

I'm afraid getting hurt again

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think i love my boyfriend but I'm afraid getting hurt again. Plus I'm still a virgin and he seems like a horn dog. but i want us to be happy with each other. I really do think i love him but i dnt want to lose my virginity if he going to hurt me.... (55 words)

I'm just crushed inside

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My ex wants me back again we split 6 months ago after two years of on/off. He treated me quite badly never spent no time with me hardly. Went out drinking with his mates. No communication bout nothing. Basically he came to my house. I cooked his tea. Ran his bath and looked a... (416 words)

I think my bf has insecurity issues about the size of his penis

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15 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, my bf and I don't intend to have sex anytime soon, but I think he has insecurity issues about the size of his penis. He's 14, I'm 15 (I'm only a few months older. Ive been called a pedophile enough times, thank you.) how can I help him with these insecurities? I don't even ... (81 words)

Am I unappealing?

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15 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hey-- Umm, well I'm a 15-year-old girl. I'm 5'6", 150-160 pounds. The weight is comprised of muscle, hourglass curves, and 34DD breasts, hahaha. I've read a lot about girls asking advice about their small breasts, and I've seen a fair number of responses in which men have exp... (108 words)

Tubes tied, should I were a condom?

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - my girlfriend has her tubes both cut and burned. she has no std's and is disease free. should i were protection?? she had them cut about 11yrs ago.... (28 words)

Will he consider ditching me?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi guys. I really really really lke this guy who I am currently in a relationship with, he's sweet and extremly complentery. He says he loves me and doesn't stop saying it, but because my last relationships did not turn out to be the best, I can't help but be wary and I'm slig... (117 words)

Do guys just say that to get out of a rough spot with a girl or do they actually mean it?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex and I have been going out again, nothing exclusive for a few months now. I have a lot of trust issues with this guy as he has cheated on me before. Ever since we've been back together he has tried really hard to gain my trust back and he has become my best friend agai... (162 words)

I don't know what to do because I have a girlfriend,

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well I need some advice, I just turned 18 and for my party my friends and I went down to my summer house to have a party. I have never thought of my friends romantically nether girls nor guys, but something really weird happened. I'm not gay, and I've had some girlfriends in t... (239 words)

She wants to break up but I just cant?

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I got a relationship for over 7 months now, but now my girl wants to breakup with me because she said she didnt felt anything for me for quite a while now.. I begged her to give me 1 week to make her fall in love with me again, but she said it wouldnt work. After an hour she ... (150 words)

Abusive Relationship

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am a student at united states. I am here from an Asian country. My boyfriend has been with me for three years. He hit me a year back, before I came to the US. I had broken up with him for three months at that time. But he came back and told me that we were meant to be toge... (140 words)

Is it posssible that I'm pregnant?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - yeah so im 14 and scared to death! A few days ago me and my friend had somewhat sex. (i know im not a virgin anymore) He only went in once and didn't cum at all. Is it posssible that im pregnant?... (42 words)

I don't think I'm big enough...

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Ok I know this must get asked all the time but Im worried that im not "big" enough I've been seeing this girl for a while and we've got a party coming up this weekend and shes been hinting that she wants to were both 18 and im just really insecure about my size im only 4 1... (72 words)

My husband bit me when we had sex

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - my husband got drunk and we got home , he wanna have sex, while we were doing it he start bitting my shoulder i said stop don't do it and he won't listen , it realy hurt and he bite me like ten times and i start crying , a nd when he was done he left me there ,and i when aft... (95 words)

My husband lies to me about our money!!

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband lies to me about money. he buys extravagant purchases and will not tell me about them until he absolutely has to. He borrows money all the time, with out telling me. When the banks quit giving him money, he takes out personal loans from people he works with. He d... (548 words)

Went to a party and got drunk. Was I raped?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - A while back I went to this party with my friends. I had been upset that night because I saw my "boyfriend" at the time going to another party with girls he claimed were his "friends" When we got to the house, there were about ten guys there and just us three girls. The guys ... (259 words)

How could she be friends with the girl who cheated with her boyfriend?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay so my best friend in the world has had the worst luck. Her boyfriend cheated on her with her best friend. And I'm the one who supported her who was with her when she cryied and no she's friends with that bitch agin. How how is that possible it pissed me off I'm upset. Now ... (107 words)

Will he ever let me into his world?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well, I don't even know where to start. I was married and while going through a divorce, I met someone online. We clicked instantly. I saw his photo and I liked him.He saw me and thought I was pretty, so of course that's how it started. We've been having online relation... (321 words)

Who is the daddy?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had sex with my ex boyf for the VERY LAST time during the middle of a period - he came inside me before I had a chance to tell him not to!! he told me he thought there was less risk of getting me pregnant and hope I didn't mind..and cos I was on a period thought it would be ... (437 words)

Girlfriend older than boyfriend? Wasting my time?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - my boyfriends 17 and im 22 weve been dating almost a year now were pretty happy and planning on moving in together soon his family knows my age and doesnt mind at all however my parents and freinds do not know Im just wondering should i tell them his real age and does our ... (66 words)

Good way to show a guy you like them without being lame

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15 March 2009 (F)

age - hey i was just wondering if theres a good way to show a guy you like him without being lame or whatever? theres this guy i like (we are in high school) and hes a year older than me so we arent in any of the smae classes but whenever i see him i smile or joke around with him. we ... (114 words)

Am I incapable of having an orgasm?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old and i dont know if ive ever had an orgasm well i dont think i have my question is what can me and my partner do and how will i kno and pleas dont reply o u'll just kno. ive been with him for 6 years on and off so its not that i feel unconfterble i dont, and ... (126 words)

I find it a turn off that he's pushy about sex!

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been going out with this guy now for 9 months, in the beginning things were great, it was so good I thought he was 'the one' until I started to get more tired as was suffering from a lot of stress in work. I told him I can't have sex cos I was too exhausted and that I ... (891 words)

I'm female, in love with female PE teacher

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i really don't know what to do anymore. Im 16, in year11 and have loved my teacher (female!) who is 29 for two years now. in the past 6months it got worse, she is all i think about. When ever i see her my stomach goes funny. It's driving me insane. Ive told my best friend ... (233 words)

Sexually frustrated, I cheated..but I love him

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone. i have been with my partner now for over 3 years. last year while he was away i slept with someone else. i told him and we worked through it. he works in the military and is due to go away for 6 months. i meet him when i was 17-18 and now we live together. my ... (194 words)

Is he stringing me along or am I just sprung?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - So I got to know this guy through the gym. He had just gotten his heart broken but there was an obvious mutual attraction (at least physically). We'd hang out once in a while but mostly see each other at the gym. After a few months, I totally fell for him but i didn't want to ... (380 words)

He's trying to convince me to come back and I'm considering it

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I am 25 years old.I have been with my boyfriend for over 6 years. He is the only man I have slept with. He has cheated on me many times during our relationship. Since finding out about his cheating in December 2008, I have broken up with him. Right now he is trying to ... (181 words)

Should I be worried my boyfriend looks at other girls?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - me and my b/f have been together just over a year now and lately ive been feeling insucure, hes a natural flirt and i have always known this but when i catch him looking at girls while were out it makes me feel like im not good enough or he thinks there ftter than he finds ... (125 words)

Does he actually want a relationship?

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently dating my friend's roomate. We got together last weekend but have known each other for about 2 months. Even though we were both drinking, we were fully aware of what was going on. We started kissing and he pressed himself up against me and I said that I don't do ... (339 words)

I'm meeting his parents and grandparents for the first time! I'm really nervous!

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Tommorow i am going to pizza hut with my boyfriend and his parents and his grandparents for his birthday. I have been with him for a year and he felt it was time i met them. Im really nervous because what if they dont like me. also im vegetarian and they're not so i will feel ... (84 words)

I love my best friend but he thinks I have feelings for our other friend!

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i knoe you probably get a 1000 questions like this a day but i just need some advice... here goes.. well when i started college 3 years ago i started hangin around with these two lads ( i am a girl) so me and one of the lads became really close and did everything toget... (250 words)

Alot of issues with my boyfriend

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have had a serious of problems with my current boyfriend that are seriously bothering me--- a couple of months ago my boyfriend and I were having sex. in the middle of it he decides to open up his computer and put on porn..after asking why he was doing this he said he "need... (329 words)

I hate my body! I am too fat!

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15 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - well for starters, i absolutely hate my body. i'll be 18 this summer which makes me feel even worse about the way i look. i feel disgusted when i look in the mirror, i mean i'm only about 113 pounds but i definitely dont look it. i keep trying to be happy with my body and who i ... (323 words)

I am incredibly shy

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15 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - There is this girl in my dorm who I have known for a few months now and who I have come to really like. I think she's incredibly beautiful and it seems like we genuinely have a lot in common interests and personality wise. The only problem is, I'm very shy, especially around ... (339 words)