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Is it a good idea to break your hymen before you have sex?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 9 March 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi, I was wondering if it was possible and also safe to break your hymen using something other than a dildo. Like, a hairbrush or something of that sort. I'm not planning on having sex any time soon, but I would like to break before I do have sex, to avoid pain or discomfort. Is this a good idea? What can I do to break my hymen if i don't have access to any sex toys? Thank you!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009):

The best way is to get yourself a dildo.

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A female reader, sandra78 United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

Why would you want to do that? For 1.. It's not very sanitary to be sticking things in ur vagina.. Other than intended items.. And for 2.. It would be logical to just wait until you choose to have sex. I'm sure it will hurt less than you think, and you will be somewhat distracted by foreplay. It's not like ripping open a hole.. It's a very thin piece of skin that most women break long before intercourse by using tampons or even riding a bike or something like that. Relax.

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A female reader, 2cool4skool British Indian Ocean Territory +, writes (9 March 2009):

are you nuts? that is so unsafe. please be kidding or something. Don't you do that.

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