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female
age
36-40,
*lee
writes:Dear Cupidi have been in this relationship for four years with this guy i love him very much and i know that he loves me too.the problem is tht this past week the was a lady who came to him and told him that he has a 4 or 5 year old girl whit her and said he was the father,he didnt know about the child till now. there are buzy with the test and everthing. am so confuse about this problem. he still says that he love me but how can i put this thing behide me please help me as soon as u can Reply to this Question
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reader, PeanutButter  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Im sorry that you have this situation to deal with and realise it coul be quite upstting but this woman has bought this to you and it seems that he is doing the right thing for being tested.
If the child does in fact turn out to be his it will be a big shock to both of you as this child may become part of your lives permenently and he will have to discuss his options with her as far as being a father is concerned - if you both love one another you will come through it.
Some tender love and care between the both of you and openness with your feelings at this stage, bewtween the both of you, will be very important in seeing this through.
good luck xxx
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