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reader, jessica04  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Yes, you tore your hymen. Possibly not all the way though. When you do have sex, you may still bleed some.
If it continues to bleed, you need to fess up and tell your mom. Or heck, lie and say you had problems with the tampon! Point is, your mom cares WAY more about your health than if you got curious and felt around down there. It happens, kids do it.
You need to get over the embarrassment and let her know if you need to see a doctor. If you have had your period already, then you should be seeing a gyno regularly anyways.
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reader, ArmyMedic  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 You're a teenage girl, so far you have not been in to boys and sex, but you will be and your mum knows this. She was a teenage girl and I bet she masturbated! (I know that's not something you want to hear)
Tell her being open and honest with your Mum, will make things much easier later on in teenage life when you want to start dating etc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbecause im not normally the type whos into boys or sex im more into eduation and so is my mum she wants whats best for me and i think that she will flip
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionis the hymen right inside or just on the entrence to the vagina?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncould a school nurse help?
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (9 March 2009):
 And you can book a doctors appointment and they won't tell your mum and dad as everything is confidential! You can get the number of ur doctors by phoning 118 118 and telling them the street name of the surgery and the area that you live in! X
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reader, kellyxxx +, writes (9 March 2009):
It could be both, if you have any problems then go and see a doctor! If you are ok then you shouldn't worry! X
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionbut my mom would kill me thats the problem i know i shouldnt keep secrets but i cant tell her will i already of broke it as i do horse riding and ride my bike more than 3 times a day?
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (9 March 2009):
 hey hun,
nah babe uve ripped ya hemen just means u broke the thin layer of skin in front of the opening to vagina ...sex will be less painful if it continues to bleed talk to someone
good luck!
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (9 March 2009):
As Saturnsdesire says!
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