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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

First meeting...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I am likely to meet a friend I have made and have been corresponding with almost daily for 7 months!Please help me. I am nervous about chatting to men informally and terrifed that I won't know what to say to him when I meet him in person. Our on-line friendship means the world ... (79 words)

Help me please... I'm so confused!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My partner of two years broke up with me because he got addicted to his computer game, his computer in general his world was the game. His friend got him totally addicted to it as soon after we spent a night at his friends house in North wales. I bought him the game thinking... (314 words)

He's with someone new and I can't stand it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I dated this guy on and off for over 5 years, since I was 18. He was my first everything and I've always felt a special connection with him. We had our problems, including me not trusting him, and we fought a lot, so we weren't always stable. We've been broken up officially ... (384 words)

Masturbation, brothel... or just wait?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi everyone, Couple of days back I came to know about this forum and finally decided to ask my problem. Actually I came to London about 1 and half years ago. I am married but I am living without family here... and it's been same time without having any sex... and even ... (187 words)

Diets

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5688 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to go on a diet because I want to be a model catwalk or glamour. I am not fat but you know what the industry's like now, you have to be really skinny.. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do or a diet plan I could follow? It would be greatly accepted. Thank you I ... (69 words)

How do you get over emotional betrayal?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5535 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi, me again. I have the text cheat husband who's now stopped all that with a colleague 18 years younger than me who works at different premises but he has to see at 6 weekly committee meetings and contact via email over business issues. He bitterly regrets what he's done and ... (335 words)

Is it possible to experience depression if your boyfriend has emotionally abused you for quite some time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Is it possible to experience depression if your boyfriend has emotionally abused you for quite some time? Do men who emotionally abuse say cruel things about you and then tell you that you are crazy and that they love you? Or that you should not say bad things about him to ... (82 words)

He is being unreasonable and blames me for distracting him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

- I would like your opinion on this one. I am in a LD relationship with my bf, but he is down here with me for a week. He told me that he needs to study and that he does not plan on partying which is fine with me; but my brother's wedding is this weekend and we are the ... (155 words)

I think I am attracted to both male and female

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - today i was sitting on my computer around 6:30, and i started crying but i didn't know why and i was properly crying on the floor in my school stuff i suddenly realized why, i finally acknowledged, i might be a lesbian or bisexual because up until recently i had been having ... (215 words)

It seems like we're sexually incompatible

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend in 40, I am 34, I would love to settle down and have a family and I am aware that, at my age,I probably need to compromise on men. However,my boyfriend and I get on pretty great - we have been together for 9 months now - except in the bedroom department. He has not ... (319 words)

Ideas to tone my skin?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - hi all! i have a problem with my body i am 29 yrs old, i have a 10 yr old daughter and b4 i had her i was well built, not fat! solid.... i had an eating disorder after having her and lost 5 stone in a very short time. i am bk to a healthy 10 st. my figure is ok but the skin all ... (154 words)

My mom won't let me be with my girlfriend without a parent there

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My mom won't let me see my girlfriend without a parent with us. We've been dating for over 6 months and I really want to be alone with her. What can I do?... (35 words)

How can I plan this trip with two distinct types of people?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'd like to go on holiday to Tenerife with a few friends this year,we are all in our twenties.The problem is,i have some friends who are quiet,and don't like nightclubs,so the clubs where families go in where there are artists on,and the quieter bars might be more suitable for ... (185 words)

He doesn't make any time for me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5724 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I care a lot for my boyfriend, but he doesn't seem to really care about me. It's a long distance relationship so it's hard enough already, but he doesn't call me AT ALL. I recently told him I wanted to talk on the phone at least sometimes and since then he's called me a few ... (411 words)

How can I become closer to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am 15 and i love my boyfriend very much and i want our relationship to go further and for us to get closer but i don't know how to make this happen. can anyone help and tell me how to make this happen? thanks. x... ... (48 words)

If she is 7 months older is that a big difference ???

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi .. she is 7 months older than me .. is that a problem ???? ..i like her very much and i think she likes me too ... ... (28 words)

Girls! I broke her trust - Can you tell me if there is hope?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello all... I've been dating the girl of my dreams since late 07. She and I had a struggle last summer, but we worked through it and we got together again, and got even closer and more intimate. We are a long-distance relationship, so one stress on us has always been whe... (1079 words)

He asked me to marry me and then has gone really distant!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I recently got engaged on Feb. 26 and since then I've seen my fience all of four times, he only calls me when's he's at work or in the car. And the pervious Thursady he told me he was too tired to go out on Friday that things had been crazy busy at work and that maybe we'd ... (178 words)

How do I keep my sex addict fiance's attention on me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years and I currently expecting his baby. He says he wants to be with me and I want to be with him.... but he is a sex addict. He seeks out other women so he can satisfy himself. How can I control his urges and keep his attention on me? S... (108 words)

How can I word a text so my friend with benefits will be jealous and not let me move on?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do - Me and this guy at work have been flirting since he arrived - after several missed opportunties and we finally kissed (about a year of flirting) he just wants friends with benefits I really want more because I like him so much. However, this ... (153 words)

Don't know if I wanna still be with my fiancee

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hey all. this ones kinda complicated for me. i am currently engaged to my girlfriend. but lately have been feeling like is this the person i really wanna be with!! see i give her everything i can to make her happy. but back in november i found a unsent text on her phone (sh... (189 words)

Boyfriend refuses to wear condoms!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend refuses to wear condoms and I'm afraid i might get pregnant if he doesn't my friend told me about different woman condoms would you suggest woman condoms if not what can i do... (35 words)

Is it time to call it quits? Or hold on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend has had many female friends, yet I am his first girlfriend, he is 22. So, most of the problems we face are first timers and never happen again, he is very good about learning what not to do. This may seem odd to most other people, but when I took on the commitment ... (731 words)

He was so keen to start with, now he is blatently ignoring me... why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Help, I have been dating a guy who I just clicked with for the past 6 weeks and we have had a lot of fun. He was calling me all last week saying he could not wait to see me and that he smiles just thinking about me, to letting me down on a date as he was too hungover from the ... (189 words)

Hardest choice of my life

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm stuck in a real moral gray area. My closest friend of seven years got married and had a kid in the last year, and now she is having major issues with her husband (who also happens to be someone i grew up with for 12 years). He just about refuses to work, and when he does ... (327 words)

Simple foods to take with us?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are planning to rent a boat and take the family out on the beach for about an hour.. What are some simple yet good foods to take with us.. The theme is Italian by the way. :) And by boyfriend doesn't like garlic or onions on his food. So, I'm like what th... (93 words)

I keep wanting more sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 17 and i have a 1 yr. old baby and dont get the time to do anything alone i have a high sex drive and its driving me crazy not being able to just play with my self or something towrad that manner im not sure what i can do and wanted to see if some one could help m... (117 words)

Jealousy inducing wife

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5751 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I am a married man coming into my 1st anniversary with my wife. Even though we made it this far, we have issues. I am laidback when it comes to a lot of things, but I can be jealous. It takes quite a bit I think, to bring it out though. My wife has fueled my jealousy by ... (279 words)

Why are you texting me if you don't want me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5660 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - This is about texting. I know many people have many views on this topic. I don't mine if its not the only form of communication. My story is I had been talking to this guy, who use to call me all the time. We spoke several times a day and text quite frequently as well. But, ... (394 words)

My adopted sister & I love each other!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - i was adopted when i was a teenager. two years later my parents adopted a girl in her teens. we have fallen for eachother and share a very strong relationship. we tell eachother everything, we care for one another, we love each other. She is the only thing i really care about ... (229 words)

He won't put label of b/f & g/f on us!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5749 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i need seriouse advise. i have been dating this guy for 1 year now and it has trully been an emotional roller coaster, he foudn me at my weakest point and some how i feel in love with him, which surprised me. im tired of not being able to be "official" we haven made our ... (159 words)

I'm a hopeless romantic and I need some birthday ideas!?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5735 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend's birthday is coming up soon and i want to do something very romantic for her. She and I are hopeless romantic but i am not sure what to do for her. I know different girls like different things but i am just asking your advices to help me with great ideas. So, ... (69 words)

I have a crush on a co-worker who has a "player" reputation, does he just want fun??

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Some thoughts or advice would be great. I have fancied this guy for some time (coming up 2 years), we work in the same building, different departments ,we always chat but he has a bit of a reputation for being a bit of a player, which I never really seen that side of him. An... (213 words)

My boyfriend is not willing to commit. Should I dump him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age - We are in a commited relationship, we only see each other except we do go out with our friends men and women. However, if the topic comes up my bf says he does not want a commitment. What does this mean? I did have the key to his house for 9 months, but then we had a fight an... (112 words)

I came on too strong and freaked a guy out..Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I recently got a car and am now able to get around town a lot easier and do things my own way for once in my life. Well, I've been single for just under four months now after a two-year relationship that wasn't very good for my mental stability but I've been getting better with ... (413 words)

Having an affair and I am confused right now. Help?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a guy for several months now. We are both married. We were friends first so our discussion we had at the beginning was of course friends with benefits. Neither of us can afford to leave our spouses since we both have kids. So my question is. We have alw... (277 words)

How to get back to where we used to be?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - Hi, My bf and I have been together a bit over 2 months. We broke up for a day, and I kind of lost a lot of the trust I have for him. We don't really have much time to spare anymore, but when we do, we call each other. I'm happy just to talk to him. We had said before that we ... (195 words)

What was he REALLY saying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my best friend (and crush) and I were watching the movie Crank. There was a scene where the guy was high and his girlfriend didn't even notice so I commented that she was not a very good girlfriend to not notice the change in her boyfriend's behavior. He then said to ... (82 words)

Friends with "potential" benefits?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi, I'm presently in a difficult situation. I go out in a large crowd to gigs and one night one of my friends brought along a pal to see the band. Well it was like someone had put Rohypnol in our drinks, this guy and I couldn't stop looking at each other and at the end of ... (659 words)

Is he just craving some attention? Or am I crazy for staying with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been with my fiance for 11yrs, and I really love him. I am pretty sure that he still loves me too. I have some apprehensions about the future of our relationship. About a year ago, I found out that he was chatting with a woman in the UK. I tried to confront him about it, ... (213 words)

Can I make him love me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hi im 14 my my crush loves girls boobs and i love him a lot but i think his not mine now i waited him about 6 month his just keep kidding me like i love you i hate you sometimes he said a really bad things to me he always trying to hug my friend she likes him too she told me ... (390 words)

Take a chance of ruining our friendship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I really like this girl and have for about 3 months. When we were txting she asked if i liked her and i told her yes. I haden't even asked her out and she just said she just wanted to be friends.Its been a while now and i think she is kinda intrested in me and I found out she ... (109 words)

Do I hope the girl that I knew comes back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My Gf and I had been going out for over two years and everything was great, we did everything together. Shortly before our second anniversary her friends all went single all at the same time and it began to put a lot of stress on our relationship because they people who didnt ... (682 words)

Did the military take this man's heart away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I've had a lover now for almost 7 months. I knew he wasn't boyfriend material for me Because we live in two different worlds. He's divorced father of 3 in the military and I am single..college educated well traveled. Not only that.. He can be rude an an arrogant Je... (420 words)

Stay with fiance and be unhappy? Or go with my feelings for his cousin?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm so lost. My fiance and I have been dating for 4 years now and we recently have gotten engaged. In any case, I dont find myself so attracted to him anymore, yet I am extremely attracted to his older cousin. We share an extremely close bond. A few days ago, my fiance told m... (705 words)

I'm leaving the door open for him to be honest with me..but I don't think I can handle anymore "surprises"

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I posted on the first of the month about how I was struggling to regain trust in my boyfriend after discovering that he was carrying on a long-distance, sexually explicit relationship with a female 'friend'. This is a long follow up but I would appreciate feedback. Over the ... (417 words)

Give him space still?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have liked a guy for about 4 months now, and he likes me back and so I expected the relationship to progress into dating. However, last week I found out that he also likes another girl. I confronted him about it (as nicely as possible) and he said that he does, and he doesn't ... (125 words)

Why do men do the things that they do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ok, this is my dilemma. I have started dating a guy earlier this year, we have known each other for a while we play sports together at our job. Things were going great, we both were remodeling our homes and he is good with a hammer so he really help me out at my house, or ... (694 words)

"you know there's no one else, right"?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Yesterday my friend said something that confused me. As she was leaving she turned to me and said, "you know there's no one else right?" ... any thoughts on where that came from or what it means?... (37 words)

Everyone is calling me a monster because I don't feel anything

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - well i don't know what to say about what i am facing. seven years ago my best friend died in a car accident and all my family cried when they heard the news but i did't feel a thing. and two years ago my father died from a heart attack and i was holding him when he died but... (123 words)

Believe him? Or Leave him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm in a relationship with a younger guy, he's 18 and I'm 20. Throughout the past year We have had so many trust issues regarding other women especially. He and his ex broke up exactly when my ex and I broke up and of course there needs to be some space between us and our exes... (710 words)

Do female bosses really invite male workers to meetings at bars on Friday night?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Most of my boyfriend's friends are from work. I know he had a crush on at least one woman at work, and doesn't include me in social events related to work. Yesterday he told me he has a meeting with "his boss" for "happy hour" at a bar tonight. Today is FRIDAY and he has a ... (105 words)

How can I totally forget him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in a LDR.... just 3 weeks ago I found out that my bf has been cheating with me for the last 3 years so I left him. Right now his with other girl and they are about to get married. I just can't get rid of his memories. It kills me when it comes to my mind that his with ... (148 words)

The pill and fear of getting pregnant!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I went on the pill for about 2 years and then came off it.. for the duration of time that I was on it I never let my boyfriend finish in me even while on the pill for fear of getting pregnant... Now I'm with a new person and would like to have that full sex but I'm... (82 words)

My dad is putting so much pressure on our relationship...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm not usually one to express my problems over the net, but would appreciate an outside perspective on this issue. My partner of 5 years and I got engaged 3 months ago. Everything was great until our family found out we had got ourselves into a bad financial situation, to help ... (480 words)

Kissing an' stuff!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15 and meeting my man on Tuesday along with my friend and her man. I'm a bit nervous as my boyfriend is shorter than me and he wants me to snog him today... and I'm not sure how! Any help? Thanks x... (46 words)

Coil problems!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hiya, I think I might be pregnant... I've had a coil for the last two and half years. Oover the last couple of months every time me and my partner have sex I have been having pains very deep pains inside... we decided to take things a bit slower and see if that helped, it ... (162 words)

How can I make areas of my body lighter?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4936 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Im 26 years old and im still a virgin. The problem i can't go out with a guy is....im very fair in colour but my buds and my vagine is dark in colour which makes me shy to have sex with anyone. I also have dark spots on my bud. How can i make my vagine and my bud light in ... (66 words)

How to handle obsessive crush!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age - i really really like this guy whose a year older than me, we are both in high school and flirt sometimes but he doesnt sit with my group so i dont see him too much. im like obsessed with him, i take extra trips to the toilet so i can walk past him, i rush out of class as soon ... (92 words)

No implantation!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Please help me. Im 25 years old but my boobs are very small. How can i enlarge my boobs without implanting............ (21 words)

Too shy to ask me out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - If a guy likes you and he is a few years younge than you. say you are 23 and he is 19, would he be too shy to ask you out?... (31 words)

Why does the cheating partner turn it around like its the other person's fault?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5753 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age - I in need of advice. I spend every day from the time i wake up around 7.30am when i know my husband gone to work, just sat in a chair i go on the computer just browsing when i am not doing this i cry i am crying now as i trying to write what i am feeling and i am so alone. ... (351 words)

Why do guys build perfect perfect?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi well i'm 20 years old i'm single have been for a while my main problem is i have no confidence but when i think i do have confidence i always get knocked back by guys. to be honest i'm not sure how to be confident i mean i'm not ugly i'm not like obese or anything i'm a v... (322 words)

Should I let my b/f go? I still love him very much

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I'm going to be really honest. I had been with my bf for 3 years. All of our relationship, I introduced my bf to my family and friend but my bf never introduce me to any of his friends or family except only to his son, 6 yr old. He got divorce once. He always said that he can't ... (646 words)

Why do ex's do this after a break up?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

- Hoping the great agony aunts on here can help. My live in boyfriend of twelve years and I parted company a year ago. He moved back to his hometown a long way away. It is a distance to drive, seventeen hours to be exact...Canada is a big country. It was not a horrible ... (177 words)

Fingered..no bleeding

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20 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - i was fingered by one finger couple of times and i didnt bleed am i a virgin?? i'm really confused... (23 words)

Signs you are falling in love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5754 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - What are the signs that you are falling in love? I meet this really cute guy about a month ago, i dont see him that much, he always use to look at me. So i went up to him and started talking to him. I see him sometimes during the work at a shop where he works. All of a sudden ... (131 words)

Stuck in the friend zone. How do I get out?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone. I have a pretty serious love problem. I am and have been in love with this girl almost my entire life. We have always been very close friends, but lately it has become too much to bare. She makes an effort to see me (like visits at work), as do I, but I don't know ... (249 words)

Why would she get back in touch? Am I reading too much into it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5750 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Here's a bit of background before I ask the questions: I started going out with this girl after she expressed interest in me and asked me, 2 and a half years ago. We were only together 2 months, as she cheated on me with another bloke. We kept talking after that, me t... (374 words)

Trapped in a relationship with a obsessed girl - How do I escape?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5755 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - hello friends ....i am in the red alert zone and need to take some step fast...i have a girlfriend since one year and she's really creepy !! she always brings "u and me" in everything that comes across us. guys dont find her very attactive and just like her as friends because ... (299 words)

Stretch marks on my breasts. is this normal and how can I get rid of them?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have recently noticed that i have now got stretch marks on my breasts. im 15 and only have 34B boobs so i don't know if it's because there big because there not? :S i really want to get rid of them because its preventing me from being able to get changed in p.e at school l... (96 words)

Small penis confusion... need guidance asap

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - okay, so im embarassed to tell my friend so im trusting this website will help me out, im gonna get straight to the question. ive had sex with 2 guys, im guessing both of them were 2-3 inches long erect. after about 5 min of having sex i literally could not feel anything what... (76 words)

I have a serious serious controlling problem. Help me!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5752 days ago

20 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have a serious serious controlling problem. I have had my last 3 lovers leave me for someone else with the last two ending up in marriage. 3 months ago I go involved with an incredible young lady who has been everything that women should be however my past this time in ... (365 words)

I think my teacher is sexually attracted to me & I don't know what to do about it

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Last year I had an amazing chemistry teacher named "Sean" who is in his early forties. Not only was he amazing at teaching chemistry, but we had chemistry too. Sean is also the youth minister at my church. I'm only thirteen years old, but I know that it's a bit outta the ... (295 words)

An affair to bring out the best in me!

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Okay this is a long one. Been with this guy for almost 11 years. We are almost 6 years married. 2 Kids. I am only 25 almost 26. My husband is super rude and mean to me. I am planning on divorcing him soon. I can't take this abuse from him any longer. But this is my de... (395 words)

I have a GF but am attracted to a boy in my class

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20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so i totally have a girlfriend but there is this boy in my class that i really like. we barely ever talk and he just found out i liked him and he keeps winking at me and such but i get very nervous and my heart races. i don't know what to do i still really like my girl bu... (74 words)

Is he jealous that I'm with his friend now?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I met this guy one night and we ended up getting into a makeout session lol He was really horny but I didnt do anything with him. I found out that he was a major player and he sleeps around a lot. My friend lives with him and he tells me that he sees him looking at me all the ... (163 words)

I'm a virgin but I haven't had my period in 2-3 months

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok I'm 13 and I'm a virgin but I havnt had my period in 2 almost 3 months and I'm too scared to tell my mom what should I do?????... (30 words)

We have trust issues, I've changed but can she?

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20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so my girlfriend and I have been together for about 2 years and 2 months. We have both done the cheating thing, well maninly me but her big thing was talkin to another guy on the internet and i found out. and i mean talking to him. we have managed to work through things and ... (139 words)

I really like my friend, what do I do?

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20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fancy my friend. Hey all. I'm 16 and I have always fancied my friend. She knew how I felt before but she was going out with someone at the time. Afterwards we talked about it and she said she doesn't want to go out with me because she doesn't want to ruin the friendship. But ... (149 words)

Why doesn't he ask me out? Is he only after one thing?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am currently dating this guy that I have know for a couple of months. We havent been on a real date yet because he doesnt have money right now but he promised to take me out once he does. The first night we got together (granted he was drunk) he wanted to have sex. I told him ... (253 words)

Will a dildo do it?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay um where to start... I started masturbating about a year ago and I mostly like the clit stimulation. But lately I have been craving something in me. If you know what I mean. I am a virgin and I really want to, no WILL stay that way until I'm married. Once a while back I ... (118 words)

I can't stop calling or checking my EX's myspace

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need help I keep calling my Ex and I think he knows. I broke up with him about a year ago, any normal person would prob get over their EX. I guess that I never had closure at all, he broke up with me through a text/phone call. I asked him for a reason and he said that our... (224 words)

What kind of game is he playing?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I mean, seriously, it's so immature! This guy and I have been flirting quite a bit. I'm coming home for Easter which will be the first time we'll see each other in four months (which was also when we were definitely flirting a lot at Christmas). I had been keeping in tou... (285 words)

How can I hook this guy?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 19 and the guy I'm after is 20. We've known each other for about a month and a half now and I don't think I've gotten anywhere with him. At first, I think I came on a little too strongly and then I had to calm down for a while and wait until he was okay again to even look ... (136 words)

I fell for a guy who I don't know anything about! How do I find him?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I fell for a guy I don't know anything about. Few days ago I went to concert and it was then when I saw HIM dance with his group. I've never been attracted to guys who dance. His dancing was beautifull! It was like one was those rear moments where you just feel like you've k... (359 words)

Out and hopelessly in love

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20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm in 9th grade and I'm gay. I've outted myself to my two best girl friends, one use to be my gf before, and I've recently outted myself to one of my guy friends. He was surprisingly cool with it and we talk about my interests in guys and stuff. Well, Here's the part that ... (196 words)

DO men really love their girlfriends or wives if they are capable of treating them like that?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know what to do. My boyfriend has spat on me, called be a whore, thrown a candle into the bathtub, he has accused me of meeting with someone during the 15 minutes that he was gone and I was sitting in the bathtub before putting on my pyjamas, he has told me to ... (241 words)

Advice needed! How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?

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20 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - so... I've had this fantasy for a while now. I want to see my girlfriend have sex with other people (guys, girls it don't matter.) How do I get her to have sex with them and maybe let me watch?... (40 words)

Not sure if this is just a phase...

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, basically my question is - in a relationship should you be abstaining from damaging actions(eg kissing, messing round, shagging others) or should these thoughts/desires just never enter your "real" brain anyhow? background: I'm in a great relationship just gone 6... (159 words)

I think he wants to trap me!

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Help plz!! Today was the first time I had sex with my boyfriend. He didn't use a condom. He said he wasn't going to nut inside of me. I gave him a rag to use when he pulled out. So he claims he used the rag. But when I was cleaning up the room I picked up the rag and it wasn't ... (140 words)

Is there any hope for us at all?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 20 and my boyfriend (babys dad of 2) is 23 and we've both done the cheating and the lying thing in the past but not since we got back together last aug. Me and my boyfriend have a huge trust issue that I wasn't exactly aware about until now. We've had trust issues in the ... (326 words)

I think I'm in love with a Turkish boy but are they all the same?

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 17 live in Newcastle. I went to Turkey in September 08, had a wicked time and met a lot of boys but there's this one boy hit it off the first night, he gave me a rose and it started from there, and there was passion of course and we still chat now and then but it's been a ... (99 words)

Too little wedding planning and respect. Too much of the ex and also sex. Help!

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I don't know where to start, but i am pretty much finding myself growing more distant, angry and unhappy with my fiance. I know i love him alot, and when we go out and do things together, its always alot of fun, but i am just not 'feeling it' anymore. - we have been togeth... (356 words)

Need advice and self-confidence for talking to this guy I like!

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20 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Well... there's this guy in a couple of my classes. I've only talked to him a few times... and it wasn't a conversation either... he just asked me a question or something... Anyway, I'm 13, I think he's 13 also but I'm not sure. I tried talking to him on MySpace but he barely ... (176 words)

How long should I wait for a pregnancy test?

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20 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - hello. Please, I am a little bit scared. My period is late for 4 days. I am normally on time, and normally I get symptons that will let me know I will have my period soon, like a lot of small spots, get grumpy and abdominal pain. I have had none. In case this persists, when... (136 words)

Her comments about their 'bits' is making me feel self-conscious!

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20 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My g/f keeps telling me about all the blokes 'bits' she sees at work. She is a radiographer so i can see that the medical profession should be used to this but she tells me she has never studied this and that there is no need for them to be naked, they just get naked and she ... (220 words)

He won't take no for an answer, I'd really like to have a man's point of view on this one please.

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20 March 2009 (F)

age - I have had a male friend for a few years now, he`s ten years older than me and married. All he wants to talk about is sex, he`s tried every trick in the book to get his way too. Although I want to stay friends with him I`m not intrested in anything else and have told him this ... (88 words)