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writes:Okay, so my borfriend and I have been dating almost 4 months now. I really love him, and he really loves me. He wants me to give him blowjobs somtimes. He has a bigger penis (biggest I've had anyway) I'm not very good at giving blowjobs, but the fact that he has a bigger penis makes it more difficult, and I want to make him happy so badly. Any techniques on how to give him an amazing blowjob? And also what do I do with his balls while I'm blowing him? And does it matter how far down I go? Please help me?
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reader, jackylove  +, writes (8 November 2011):
When it comes to giving better oral sex there are so many variables involved. But, the first and most important thing to remember is to relax and let yourself enjoy giving your man oral sex. Once you get rid of any inhibitions and let yourself enjoy giving you partner pleasure your skills and your man's enjoyment with increase enormously.So get yourself in the mood, release your inner porn star. This isn't a "job" it's a way to express your love and naughty sexuality to your partner. Get into and you'll find that you'll enjoy it more and so will he.Other than getting into the right spirit of the act, it's also important to remember that most guys have sensitive penises, so rubbing anything abrasive across it is going to hurt! It's very important to keep your teeth from scraping your lover's penis while you give him head. One way to do this is by folding your lips around your teeth. Try it. Practice makes perfect. This is especially handy if your man has an unusually girthy penis, lucky girl.When I say practice, I really mean practice. Go to the super market and pick up some penis shaped fruits and vegetables. Carrots, cucumbers, and bananas all come to mind. This way you can get your BJ game in order before the big show. "Blow job" is actually a poor name for the act because is leads women (or gay men for that matter) astray. The object is really to do the exact opposite of blowing...you need to suck. This gentle suction mimics the gentle sucking of a woman's vagina during peak ovulation period. Remember to be gentle, there's nothing a guy hates more than a blow job that's too rough.
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (10 March 2009):
 Both "didda123" and "natasia" offered some great advice, although I'm not too sure about natasia's frequent rest stops. As a man, I can assure you that pauses are fine up to a point, but can be a real disappointment when the cum starts to rise. We want you to suck (and stoke) with enthusiasm at that point. We can feel the cum leaving the balls and streaming through the tubes, into the shaft, and when it squirts through the head for you, the last thing you should do is stop or pause. I usually tell my woman, "Go for it, baby!" or "Suck it out!"
Once I had a girlfriend that stopped short a couple times 30 years ago, then she was my ex-girlfriend. I'm not sure about most or all men, but I much enjoy a woman kissing, licking and sucking my balls at various times during a great blow job. Testicles can be sensitive, but I think many men may enjoy you caressing his nuts, especially as he cums. Gently cradle and massage them in your free hand during his release. Fantastic.
When you really get good at it, you might consider giving a prostate massage during fellatio. I've contributed writings about those in the past.
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reader, didda123  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 I agree with natasia anything goes and believe me is most gratefully received.
I would definately not neglect the balls as they are very sensitive and the men i have known (not that many lol) have loved attention here with either your mouth or with your spare hand whilst his penis is in your mouth.
I know exactly what you mean about the jaw ache natasia but i think this depends on the position of your head in relation to the penis somewhat and just needs a little tweeking to perfect the art lol.
Take hold of his penis with your hand "gently" but maybe firmly and with your mouth over the end move your hand up and down the penis with your mouth following, continue till the cows come home and i am sure he will be your bestest friend lol.
The area just below the balls is also sensitive and if you're an octopus it can help enormously but you can continue with the mouth over the penis whilst playing with his balls and the area just below or even further around if you feeling very daring!!
Happy days xx
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reader, didda123 +, writes (9 March 2009):
I agree with natasia anything goes and believe me is most gratefully received.
I would definately not neglect the balls as they are very sensitive and the men i have known (not that many lol) have loved attention here with either your mouth or with your spare hand whilst his penis is in your mouth.
I know exactly what you mean about the jaw ache natasia but i think this depends on the position of your head in relation to the penis somewhat and just needs a little tweeking to perfect the art lol.
Take hold of his penis with your hand "gently" but maybe firmly and with your mouth over the end move your hand up and down the penis with your mouth following, continue till the cows come home and i am sure he will be your bestest friend lol.
The area just below the balls is also sensitive and if you're an octopus it can help enormously but you can continue with the mouth over the penis whilst playing with his balls and the area just below or even further around if you feeling very daring!!
Happy days xx
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reader, natasia +, writes (9 March 2009):
 OK. Yes, you can look all sorts of 'advice'/instructions up on the internet, but I guess if that's what you wanted, you would have gone there rather than coming here. Maybe you want some personal advice? Mine is this:
First thing: yes, you have discovered the downside of larger-than-average men!! Sadly for both them and you, it isn't quite so easy or comfortable to give them blowjobs. It also depends, believe it or not, on how wide your mouth is - some people's mouths are just bigger, too ...
Anyhow, all is not lost. I think you should approach it like this: any attention he gets there is going to be appreciated - any at all. So first, anything you do is great. Even if you just sit with yr nose 1mm from it, he is going to like it ; ) ... trust me. So, you start like that. (By the way, I am calling it 'it' because I can't think of anything better to call it! And you know what I mean
:D ...
You stroke it. You lick it. You lick all round it. You lick up and down it. You put the tip in yr mouth just a little bit, then have a rest. You put it in a bit more, then have another rest. You keep doing that until you're putting it in as far as you can, then you have another rest. Yes, sometimes, when you get into doing it, you will find yourself getting to the point where it feels like you're getting cramp in yr jaw ; ) ... but you tolerate it as long as you can, then have a quick rest, and then go for it again. (I hope this is not too much information ...) And of course, you've also got hands, and boobs, and hair - all of which you can use to caress him as well, in any combination with the licking and putting in your mouth.
As for balls, well ... one person said 'no, don't go near them' - but I don't agree. I used to be the same - I used to occasionally vaguely look at them and think 'oh god, what do i do with those?!' - was almost scared to touch them, as you are always hearing about how sensitive they are. Well, I have now changed my mind. I think it might depend on the man, but I have a feeling quite a lot of them might like them being touched (guys, help me out here). Licking, etc., seems to go down well. And even ... well, even going lower, to just below them, and licking there.
What am I saying? Licking, kissing, touching ... anything and everything, any way you like. You have to go with your instincts. Get him to lie down. Light some candles. Put out the big light. Tell him to lie back and have fun. And then make friends with It... ; )
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reader, ArmyMedic +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Just search for the word Blow job, this question is asked so often there are lots of answers out there!
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reader, Beybii_Boo +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Right .... to start of with just move you head up and down slowly and pick up the pace. dont do nothing to his balls !! thats just weird! ;) ive always found boys like to be sucked off at the top and tossed of down the bottom. then move you tounge around his bell end and he should find that satisfactory. any more questions dont hesiatate to contact me!
GOOD LUCK!
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