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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Could this pain mean I'm pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, four days after I ovulated this month I had a pain in my ovary! I've been trying to get pregnant for few years now and this is the first time I have had a pain in my ovary after ovulation. Could it be something related with pregnancy?... (50 words)

Why do my legs always have these goosebumps on them?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and my legs have got like goosebumps on them the whole time... they're red and purple and my legs always feel really rough even straight after I shave.. What is this and how can I get rid of it? thanks em x... (55 words)

Why am I always being dumped?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5725 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - Why are the girls in my relationships the ones who finish it? And why so early in to it?... (19 words)

Any suggestions on good hiding techniques or any way to make a very little mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5661 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, my girlfriend wants to give me a handjob but is worried about getting caught. Our only chance alone is doing downstairs when her mom sister and brother leave us alone and go upstairs. I said I would wear basketball shorts and we could cover it with a blanket. But she's ... (73 words)

Help me, I love my girlfriend but I'm hurting inside...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5557 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I need some answers please because I'm going crazy. I have been with my girlfriend for 5 years now. Take it back a little to 2003 I was with a girl who I dated in high school and she cheated on me so we broke up. Then in 2004 I met this girl at work and we got together, we had ... (694 words)

Another one bites the dust...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I just met this guy, the minute I saw him I thought there was something about him. We've been dating for about a month and had a really good laugh. The other night I sent him a really mean text message, I was drunk, it's like a subconscious thing I do to push people away, ... (115 words)

Am I completely incapable of a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 20 years old, turning 21 in a month and I have never been in a real relationship yet. I feel like a loser because of that and the closest thing I got to one was with a guy who I was starting to see but he was sleeping with another girl behind my back. I still talk to him ... (138 words)

I really thought there was chemistry between us. Did I read him completely wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5081 days ago

31 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - So I'm in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and I were together for what would have been two years next month. We broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until February when I cut off all contact. He broke up with me, he couldn't decide how he ... (437 words)

Maybe it IS me and she just doesn't want to be my friend any more...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok about a year ago my friend told me she likes this boy in one of our classes. He also happens to be the boy I liked the previous year. I told him I liked him on valentines day via a card and he gave me one back saying he was flattered but he had a girlfriend. I was gutted buy ... (350 words)

I have slept with my best friend in the past, and my fiance has no clue

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am 32 and have been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. We have had our ups and downs and I have caught him cheating three times (but who knows how many times he has actually cheated?). He used to put me down regularly and I am not happy with our sex life. I got fed up and ... (159 words)

I don't want to see her happy... what's wrong with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I think I have convinced myself that I like my best friend's boyfriend but in reality I genuinely like this other boy. I think it is more to do with that fact that I like attention and all I'm doing is messing with people's heads to get it... I can't stop, I don't feel terrible ... (155 words)

I can't stop my cravings... Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm 13, nearly 14 and I have a bit of a problem. Basically, I can't seem to help my cravings. I'm not really 'fat' but I've noticed that my thighs and stomach are getting bigger. I know I eat far too much junk food like chocolate and crisps but I can't seem to stop. I just seem ... (133 words)

Does having a simple, tiny "crush" on the same sex, even though you are definitely straight, make you bi?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I know, I know. Some of you might respond with "EWWWW" or "GROSSS" etc., but I just wanted a little input. I didn't mean for this to happen. I've always been straight. Boyfriends, the whole deal and what not, I've been through it.. but recently I met this girl, as we are ... (116 words)

I love my girlfriend to bits but I just can't picture her in a sexual way...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and I've got a question. My gf and I have been togehter for a long time like 2 years and I love her with all my heart. I'm going to see her in a little bit and it's just gunna be me and her at her house. Her parents trust me and we're not gunna do anything we ... (157 words)

Should we come clean to just the twin and try and get her to keep it quiet or should be say nothing?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5722 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I've decided to come out now (at least on here), but me and my cousins around chirstmas ended up having sex for the first time, and then again about a month and a half ago. Now before you all get going on how it's wrong and illegal... it isn't. It's perfectly legal ... (262 words)

Does smoking effect the way the pill works on the body?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm taking the pill and have been for nearly two years. However last year I started smoking. I am on the last few pills for this month and I am going on holiday in a couple of days. I was planning on missing the gap between packs so that I won't be on my period while on my ... (78 words)

What can I do to woo him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am the type of girl that doesn't have trouble finding men because they always come to me. The thing is, I dont like any of these guys. I recently met a guy at a close friend's birthday party. He is her close friend. He is gorgeous and we hit it off really well... conversa... (220 words)

Another question about anal sex!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Does the majority of women like or dislike anal sex... and would a woman leave her man because of it??... (20 words)

Should I take her to the prom to please my parents?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My parents want me to go to my senior prom with a family friend's daughter. She is cute and friendly but I don't really know her that well so I am not that comfortable with the idea. If I don't take her I won't have a date and I will go to my final prom stag like every other ... (129 words)

How many women actually orgasm during vaginal sex?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5108 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've heard it's possible, but that it doesn't happen very often because it's hard to stimulate the clitoral complex this way. I've still never had sex, though I've orgasmed before through fingering, but I'm just wondering, are fingering and oral sex basically the only ways a ... (92 words)

I envy the males!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I envy the males, they can be good looking and charming without trying. Girls have to make themselves into sluts at all ages to get a boyfriend that's not fair. Opinions please.... (34 words)

What did he mean by his statement?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, Robert and I were best friends for two and a half years and then we decided to be more than friends. I waited on him to figure out what he wanted for four months then we dated for two months, I didn't talk to him for three months and we have been talking every day ... (257 words)

Why is it seemingly more acceptable for girls not to give oral than it is for guys?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - Why does it often seem like people are harder on guys who won't give oral than they are on girls? Even just browsing through questions on here, I've noticed that when a guy complains that his girl won't give bjs people tend to get a bit defensive and say that she probably just... (373 words)

Confuse on what to do, birth pills question

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5734 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a question on birth pills. I just started it a week ago. My period started on Tuesday, then I took the pills on the Sunday (end of the week) following the days on the strip. I had sex exactly a week after (the following Sunday) and no condom was used. I suspect a bit ... (86 words)

Blowjob information

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend keeps suggesting oral sex, I have never done it before and jusr wondered when you give a blow-job, this sounds silly, is it just the fact of putting him in you mouth, what do you do with your tongue.... (41 words)

It's been two weeks. I haven't heard anything from him. Does he still care?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi cupid... I really like this guy. I don't know what else to do. When I first met him I was in relationship with my son's father, now we're not together but before that me and the guy used to text each other and my ex found the texts and text the guy and told him that I'm ... (221 words)

I have a question about female orgasm

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i have a question about female orgasm , im a virgin so since women orgasm from clit preassure , either from oral or during sex from he preassure of the man's pubic bone . so why is vaginal intercourse enjoyable ? i mean it is for the man cause of the nerve endings in the pein... (87 words)

Girlfriend plans to attend her ex-boyfriend's wedding (without me)! So upsetting!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - recently i found out something about my gf's sexual past with one of her ex's that was TMI and in my opinion, borderline deal-breaker. we've talked about it a couple times and was making good tracks on moving past it because i think she's worth it, and she understands how i ... (313 words)

Someone please translate this for me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I am friends with a bloke, at first he was full on wanting to meet someone for a relationship. I have know him for a few months now the problems that he had have been sorted with the exception of his ex using his child to see him. He calls and texts every day and has even... (232 words)

Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need advice on this one.. Any ideas on role-playing? I want to surprise my boyfriend with something new and exciting! Keep in mind we still have to whisper..The family is in the bottom floor.;) Oh, and sis is down the hall.. But who cares..give me ideas PLEASE! ... (58 words)

Do antibiotics affect contraceptive pill? Could I be pregnant?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - another "could i be pregnant" question, sorry. I know you guys get a lot of these but i have read through a few and not found any like this, so here goes. Im on the contraceptive pill but have been taking antibiotics for over a week now, Will this affect my pill working? ... (129 words)

I am just not sure what to be doing at the moment

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Me and my Boyfriend have had an on off relationship I suppose...We get on and have a great laugh. The problem is every now and again he will call to pick an argument with me and split up with me and then a week down the line we will be back together again and everything w... (392 words)

When kissing and aroused, what to do next?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - When you are snogging (kissing) a bloke and he makes you feel how aroused he is, what should you do, I mean, what does he want, what should you do?... (30 words)

First time seeing him ... what should I wear?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey its been a year and i have been talkin to this guy ever since,btw we met on face book he always wanted to meet up but i delayed it cuz i wanted to be sure of him before i met him but later on i got to know that his best friend knows my family really well,so basicall... (160 words)

What do you think: shaved or natural?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 5269 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - how do i ask if my boyfriend likes shaved pubic hairs or natural? what do you think are better? i dont want this to interrupt me and him , i dont want it to be a turn off when we first decide to have sex.... (46 words)

I like the wrong guy, and I have a mess in my head.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5568 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I like the wrong guy. I was in a relationship, and this guy I'll call "E" was my ex boyfriend's best friend, that was the moment when I started to like him. Then when my relationship was over he took distance from me. In those days I became closer with the brother of "E" and ... (219 words)

Should there be an agreement on when to hang out with our own friends?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are going our separate ways on Friday night..hanging out with friends that we haven't seen in such a looong time. We do this every now and then. Should there be an agreement between both of us? We've been dating for over (2) months. For example: Call me... (121 words)

I really don't mean to be confusing. Any explanations would be very helpful.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi, just looking for some ideas and feedback on a situation I am in. First things first, met this girl about a month ago through some friends, got talking and soon after we met up on own... Didn't do much the first time just hung out. Got on well of course. A while later we s... (356 words)

Why would I want someone who treats me like garbage?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - OK where to start six years ago I met again whit my high school friend, she was going threw a divorce I always liked her since high school but back then her boyfriend was my best friend and we ended up not talking anymore because of her, well the point is she had a child by ... (599 words)

I'm so used to fighting my paranoia that I can't make head or tail of the situation

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I've been dating this girl for about 8 months now. Originally I rebounded from a previous relationship to her, but it couldn't have been a better person to find. We were friends before hand, but here's where things get tricky. She's, more or less, a lesbian. I am quite attr... (131 words)

What to do about this dating situation?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - We went out for almost 8 months, until Friday. He would ignore me on and off for a few months, and sometimes it got to the point where we wouldn't talk for a week, and I don't even know why. At the end of the day, he wouldn't wait until he saw me by my locker, he'd go straight ... (460 words)

I feel that my sister has taken part of my identity away

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - I'm really insecure and envious, help! Ok, in 2007 I started college. I was the star of my program, because I love what I do and it comes to me easily. My (older) sister had dropped out of Law School, and she took that year off. She wanted to study Literature. But ... (375 words)

I'm so close to giving birth and all I want is for him to be around with me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been with my boyfriend exclusively for about 8 1/2 months and am 7 1/2 months pregnant. We've had alot of drama in the past, but ever since I started dating him exclusively I've been the happiest I've ever been in a relationship. I honestly plan on marrying him, which is a... (227 words)

X is just making me crazy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5736 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Wondering what the deal with X's that make it super hard for you to date ? Ok let me clear it up her for you. Me and my X have not been together for about 6 months now and still to this day she is posting stuff about me an how I hurt her and how what we had was good till I ... (275 words)

Why the change? He seemed disinterested or distracted now

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy i like who i met on saturday night at a party. One thing led to another and since then i spoke to him on msn on sunday. He asked for my number and texted me and the conversation was very flirty - asking to see me sometime soon etc. Anyway i spoke to him aga... (119 words)

We're broken up but I still can't stop thinking of her..wondering what she's doing!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My ex and I dated for a year and four months and during that time (and a few years before that even), she's been obsessed with British guys. She talked about one day marrying one but I didn't think she would actually leave me for one! We'll just call the bastard 'Charles'. ... (195 words)

Why does my friend start rumors about me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I'm really finding that I'm getting quite depressed with my life. When i look for positives I generally can't find them. My class never hesitates to make fun of me by starting rumours but now i'm just sick of it. Worst of all the perso who started the rumours is meant to ... (90 words)

She used to be a HE!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5641 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I really don't know what to do here. I've been with my girlfriend for one year. It's been going great and she's perfect, or so I thought. We met at work. I'd always had an attraction to her and I was overjoyed when I found out that she liked me as well. We dated for about two ... (342 words)

Friend receiving threats and demands for money

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Okay so, My friend is getting stressed over a phone call she had today. From what i gathered shes been threatened by her parents to be kicked out the house for various reasons. If her grades are not good then shell be kicked out She has to pay £25 rent (shes 16) An... (226 words)

I call my boyfriend too much

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me And My Boyfriend God, we argue all the time and when hes in a bad mood i have a habit on ringing him to see if hes ok over and over and he gets angry but i dont even fone him that much and it just feels like hes going off me he doesnt answer his fone most days he alw... (115 words)

Please tell me what a player is

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, my ex bf said on the phone just a few minutes ago that he's also a player, I said no he's not but well not when I was with him, but he said he was on his best behaviour with me. He said that there's no one down the pub to do it to but then I said thanks and he said he ... (119 words)

He asked me do I want to lose my virginity to him... but I'm not sure what to do!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey, I really need some help, my boyfriend asked me if I wanted to lose my virginity to him and I said I'm not sure. The reason I said this is because I ready but I don't know what to do with myself down below and what to do during... Please help me quick thank you.x... (59 words)

Does my girlfriend want me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi, I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months and we love each other very much but my girlfriend has recently stopped wanting to make love, we haven't done it for over a month. She says there is no reason, she just doesnt "feel like it". I do know that before she met ... (108 words)

Sex in the rest room!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid, Two days ago I had sex with my boyfriend in a public restroom at my boyfriend's favorite place (it's a pool hall), I didn't meet him for like 3 weeks because he was in Australia. I missed him a lot and I just can't stop myself of doing "things" with him. I think th... (205 words)

We broke up because he is playing around!!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - We broke up because he is playing around!! He told me he loved me and would never break up with me and leave me and he'll never love any another girl. I loved him so much but lately we've been fighting so much because he's lying to other girls and tells them I love you and ... (271 words)

If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - If sex is good and beautiful, why is it called or referred to as the nasty? What can be more beautiful than seeing another person, especially one you care about in the nude? What can be more enjoyable than being close to the one you care about?? What can be more fun than co... (110 words)

Is there anyone out there who thinks the same way my friend does? If so maybe you can help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I apologise in advance for the long article, I hope it doesn't put you off from reading it but I need some advice from those who are or have in the past been in a similar postion. There is this girl I used to date a while back now but I can't get her out of my head. I would... (550 words)

I'm being teased for being frigid!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am just turning a teen and all my mates are snogging their boyfriends and not only have I not yet kissed a boy but I am also being teased for being frigid. help!... (37 words)

Why has my boyfriend still not introduced me to his family???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Why after 4 months in a relationship and 5 months prior to that 'dating' - has my boyfriend whom I love, not introduced me to his family? I'm starting to get seriously paranoid!! Not only has he met my family and friends, but he's actually formed close relationships with a ... (89 words)

How can I control this stupid fantasy????

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I love my boyfriend very very much and we have a lovely, beautiful relationship. He is gorgeous, and kind, and everything I could ever want. I kissed and heavily flirted with his brother before we got together. My boyfriend doesn't know this. I don't feel I'm lying to him. His ... (114 words)

How are you supposed to know who you can trust???

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F) age 41-50 - Hey all, How are you supposed to know who you can trust, I mean men. The ones I know are very good at making me believe that they are friends until I find out once it's too late and they have completely humiliated me. I don't like having people in my life that don't need to be ... (302 words)

I don't know her that well, but should I bring her a gift too?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Quick question, was invited to a girls birthday party, and I said that Ill bring sum mixers for shooter drinks, that will require around 4 bottles of liquor, as i know the one that she likes. she is a new friend, and a new group of mates, should i still take a gift for her plus ... (80 words)

He's throwing his acted out fantasies at me!!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi everyone, So my fiance and I were talking about fantasies. We've already had a 3some with another guy (he just touched me and I touched him no sex) and I said I'd really like to try with another woman or couple out of curiousity (again, no sex but foreplay) My partner agreed ... (259 words)

My girlfriend has a rape fantasy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend and I were talking about fantasies. She said that she has always had a rape fantasy. I was a bit weirded out at first but we acted it out in the end. Now, she wants me to act out the rape fantasy again, except this time she wants to pretend that I'm her Father and ... (88 words)

Do all parents feel like this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age - My daughter's boyfriend is taking her for a night away with dinner for her 18th birthday after a big family party (he won this in a competition seemingly) and sent me a text to ask how I felt about it. They have been together two years and so all things considered I said I ... (87 words)

Why do I care that my ex has someone else when he was so horrible to me when we were together?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a simple problem, one that I pretty much buried myself in and that even typing seems child-ish, but I can't help the way that I feel. I dated a boy for almost 2 years before we broke up because he had gotten out of hand (ie. yelling at me for every little thing, de... (454 words)

He said I just wanted the "title" of boyfriend/girlfriend.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, okay so I just need some advice please... thank you guys in advance... I had finally let this guy go after one year of our relationship, he had the commitment issue, did want to lose me but wanted me around...?? Weird I know... but now it's been about a week and I have ... (227 words)

I can't believe he broke up with me because he was overworked. Is this something guys do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I got into a relationship (my first) last year and really clicked with the guy. I thought it was going great. Problem is he was a postgrad student with lots of work to do. We broke up after 5 months because he just couldn't physically handle a relationship with all the work ... (264 words)

I really don't want the doctor to see my private spots, what can I do to calm down?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey, well my problem is that i have unusually heavy periods and a lot of times i get it twice a month and so my mom decided to make me a doctor's appointment. Cuz she's tired of me complaining about them. My only fear though is that they're going to check me and i kind of have ... (113 words)

How can I find someone to do what I want to sexually?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - So I'm a bi-curious 20 year old male, I had never been w/ a guy, and I'm not attracted emotionally to guys whatsoever, just to penises. Anyway, I went to a gay bar and found a guy and went home with him. There was almost an hour of handjobs and bjs. I enjoyed it very much, an... (161 words)

I'm engaged but unsure and events from the past make me wonder if I'm doing the right thing

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5744 days ago

31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I feel really torn. I have just got engaged but I don't know if its the right thing to do. Last year my boyfriend and I planned to have a baby we talked about it and it seemed that it was what we both wanted, he was more keen than me, but I want a big family and we don't wo... (280 words)

Shows interest in other women..disappears for an hour at a time..cheating?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, i am a 25 year old dating a 43 year old man, the relationship is comfortable, but i cannot tell if it is too comfortable. Me and me husband have sex every night and we both say we enjoy it, but i am starting to think my husband is getting boared. he Always shows interest... (182 words)

He's my brother's friend and I think about him 24/7

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, Lately i been thinking about this boy his 16yearsold and im 16 too. He comes to my house sometimes he is my brothers friend and when his talking to my parents he keeps looking at me he is really funny,and i really like him,but he doesnt know that i do look at... (111 words)

Why do guys seem so shallow?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - question? why are good looking girls more like by guys then the plain looking girls. why are good looks and being slim and busty and young ,tall in height ,so important to guys why. i don,t understand why guys are so shallow and egoistic.that hurts a plain older girl f... (88 words)

Does my wife want to work things out or just end things?

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife and I of 4 years have had another blow out last friday, (it is now tuesday morning). The fight was about me switching batteries from our cell phones so I could have a fully charged one at work, but I forgot to turn my phone back on. She tried to call me, and of course ... (279 words)

We slept together and now he hasn't called

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok so I really like this guy and have for a while. After becoming friends and months of me wanting him we began dating. Everything was going great at first and no problems at all. Then we slept together. I wanted to wait (We have only been dating for a week) but the passion ... (113 words)

Mom made me choose between her and my boyfriend

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okey my question is kinda complicated i have been with my boyfriend for 4 weeks now but ever since i started going out with him my mum has changed and is always moody with me and does not trust me. she thinks im gonna have sex when i told her wen i feel ready i will discuss ... (178 words)

He's fallen out with our daughter and now loves to walk around in the nude!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I have been married for 16 years this year, very happy mostly all of that time, except for the last 4 years, he's just turned 48, he had a big falling out with his daughter at that time, bacause she lied, and she also had a young baby, and because his famiy ... (368 words)

Romantic night in...

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want to plan a romantic night for me and my boyfriend. I was thinking making dinner having a few drinks and dressing in something hot with sexy underwear underneath followed by some hot love making! Does this sound good to guys? or what else can I do? Also what can I do in ... (76 words)

We had a big fall out and now he's sleeping on the couch and won't make up with me.

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31 March 2009 (F)

- I have a major boyfriend problem and need help. I've been with my partner for 4 years. On Saturday night we had a massive row and on Sunday morning we discussed it and in temper I told him it was over. He said fine. I didn't mean and I tried to tell him that but he won't ... (243 words)

Student/teacher porn

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hey, I'd like some advice especially from you guys out there about my boyfriend. We've been together 6 years, he's a teacher. Recently, I found he'd downloaded loads of student-teacher style porn films from the internet. Some of them involve the teacher spanking the student ... (88 words)

Boyfriend doesn't last long in bed

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. The sex between us is good for as long as it lasts. Foreplay like 30 minutes ans sex like 2minutes. We been together for a year and made a son together. The other day I was putting desensitizing gel on his penis and he got upset cuz it was ... (196 words)

I don't want my ex to find out I am cheating with his friend

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - my ex broke up with me because i cheated on him with a family member.. we are now planning to meet face to face so we can talk things over, but am having a fling with his best friend again which is still unsolved and he has not heard of it just yet..am afraid if he happens to ... (131 words)

Am I sex addict?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been single for a while having been in two loveless relationships. Now I find I am having regular sexual fantasies and have been sending and recieving flirtatious emails back and forth to several men on dating agencies, none of whome I am sleeping with. My councellor ... (113 words)

What could change his mind in just 24 hours?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i went out with a guy for a year everything was well with him a day before we had a phone comversation it was everything well then a day after he tald me that he dont love me anymore what it could change his mind for 24 hours?... (62 words)

Does he just want to get in my pants?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - im 20yrs old i felt for a guy in a relationship wth someone else..we met about five months ago...text eachother go on webcam...i just want to know if he really liked me? he didnt tell me about hes relationship i had to text him over and over and then he said yes im with someone ... (206 words)

Porn good for my guy?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Is porn good for my boyfriend to watch once in a while, even though we live together?... (17 words)

Boot fetishism

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, It's not so much a relationship, dating, love or sex question, but i just signed up and not sure how to change topic subjects, if you can. Before you do start to read, i am 20 years old from North-West England. This question is purely asking the people on this... (374 words)

Give him up and spare her feelings?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - heres the problem. ive met this boy that is totaly perfect for me. hes everything id ever want and id love to meet him and get to know him even more than i already do. but this is where it gets complicated one of these girls from my school, i wouldnt call her my friend, we say ... (218 words)

How do you use tampons?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I want to start wearing tampons and my mom will not help me with it! So how do u put them in? This question is strictly for women!!... (30 words)

I compare my new interests with my ex

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I have a problem. I was with a man on and off for about 5 years, and he was different that any man I've met before or since then. We broke up officially a few months ago, actually I broke up with him, and he is now dating someone else. I am happy for him, although I hate the ... (162 words)

I gossiped about his gay brother and now my husband is cold towards me

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've been married for the past 2 years. We had an arranged marriage, so there are troubles in our relationship mostly because of our families and few trust issues too. Now after time, things have really improved between us and we two are sharing a happy relation. The problem ... (185 words)

Bedroom troubles

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months and getting along great. In the bedroom seems to be a problem, keeping it up. Once in a while it works, other times he will be erect but go right back down, or never come up. I know he is very tired, stressed, and has been ... (136 words)

Do you think chatting with people online is considered cheating?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Do you think chatting with people you don't know online (like on adult friend finder" is considered cheating or almost cheating?... (21 words)

Risk my true feelings?

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hey guys, I've got an issue that’s eating me up inside, and I'd really appreciate some opinions on the situation. This is a long story but I'll try to keep it simple. I started going to university a few weeks ago, and I met the coolest girl...we've been hanging out a ... (431 words)

He left me and I'm heartbroken

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31 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - He left me, and I'm heartbroken. Here's the deal, sometimes we'd had our arguments, sometimes we've broken up before, but we obviously got back together. Well now,yesterday I found out about his ogling habit with his friends at uni. I guess it's ok to look, especially if ... (555 words)

She parades her child in front of us

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - What is your take on this. my partner in life has had a child with TI during the course of our relationship. I became aware of this after the child was born, that is 4mths ago. TI now finds herself in my neighborhood in which my sister also lives and parades in front of my ... (75 words)

Am I making excuses rather than facing the truth?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hey everyone, I understand that this probably isn't one of the most important/serious questions that surface on this site but I would really appreciate some advice. I finally had the guts to add someone I really like on Facebook. (I know, yet another silly Facebook sob sto... (320 words)

Ask to start over again?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok there is this guy in my class that i never knew he existed until we were put in a group together. We started emailing each other back and forth. We finally went out on a date, it was awkward and I wasn't sure if he was feeling it let alone me. Well after the date I asked ... (189 words)

Hubby out of shape!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My hubby has always been gorgeouse-well almost. We dated when we were young, and for a few years he was in an unhappy relationship and he gained about 20 kilos so it totally changed his looks. He blamed his ex girlfriends pregnancy and the fact that she didn't cook for him so ... (448 words)

I don't know if he's straight or bi?

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Well im new at this so bare with me...I am 22 years old and am bi. And i have this guy friend that is a year younger then me. To make a long story short we have known each other for about 5 years and are fairly close. My problem is, is that i dont know if he is really straight ... (284 words)

I want to be in a relationship but now quite sure how to go about it

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - My name is John, i'm 19 and i'm pretty much lonely. I used to date a lot of girls back when i was i n high school but since then i stopped dating because of something that is hard to explain. Let's say that i first meet this girl and we talk for a couple of weeks, i find myself ... (161 words)

Fantasies about my teacher in church!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fanices about my teacher and me doing things........ IN CHURCH!!! My teacher goes to my church and he bent over and this thought went thru my mind! Here it is (I wanna play piano and he plays it.) I was at his house and he was teaching me how to play. I ... (183 words)

We always fight but lately we haven't been and now I'm worried!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - ok i know this will sound really weird but here goes. My fiancee and i ALWAYS fight no joke but its been like completely fight free the last few weeks and im happy it has but it just kind of worries me because last time this happened it blew up later on and i just dont want ... (64 words)

Can the gynocologist tell if I've been sexually active?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm going to a gyno tomorrow to get an exam, for me to get Birth Control. I'm freaking out because my mom told me to be honest with the doctor and I am but I'm not a virgin and my mom would freak if she found out I've been sexually active. She said the gyno can tell if I've ... (76 words)

Everyone says I should just ask him out but I'm afraid of rejection

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - There is this guy I really like. I may only be 14 but there's just something about him I really like. The one thing is, is that he's a really cool guy and im not in that range of popularity. I catch glances of him to me about four to five times a day. Everyone says i should ... (72 words)

My ex has become my best friend but what does he want from me?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I found out recently that my boyfriend of one year has been cheating on me. He moved here last year for school. I found out about the other woman by accident. His explanation is that they were dating before he moved here, but he didn't love her, and didn't know how to break ... (349 words)

Did I read him completely wrong?

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31 March 2009 (?) age 30-35 - I would really appreciate a guy's perspective here. So im in a bit of an awkward situation. A little background. My ex and i were together for what would have been two years next month. we broke up nearly 8 months ago but were on and off until february when i cut off all ... (441 words)

Things to say in notes I write?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - There's a guy I like, but I don't think he knows I exist. I'm in the seventh grade, he's in the eighth, so he's about to go to high school, so I have to do something before my time runs out! I don't want to go up to him and talk to him, so please don't say that. Don't suggest ... (146 words)

Personal electric shaver? or Venus?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Very straight forward question. Is it worth it to switch to a personal electric shaver for shaving my private parts? Or should I just stick to my Venus brand?... (32 words)

Have I made a mistake in the way I treated her?

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I was wondering if someone can help me with a difficult situation that I have. I have recently broken up with a great girl, however I decided to end is with her, at which point she was really upset and very pleading to get back with me. There is a possibility that I could fee... (258 words)

Boyfriend became horrible after our breakup!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Have you ever broken up with someone and had them turn really nasty??? I recently ended it with my bf of 5 years, telling him that I just don't feel the same way I once did. I care deeply for him and do love him, but not in that way anymore. It was very hard but I thought ... (132 words)

Are there such things as curses? spells?

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31 March 2009 (M) age 41-50 - Hi, Is there really a curse, spells or witch craft exist, or is it in the mind of the person, who's not having a lot of luck, blames it on such things. I know from time to time you could end of having bad luck in your life, but does that mean somebody cursed you or put spell... (140 words)

More shaving tips needed please.

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some shaving tips. I enjoy shaving the majority of my pubic hair off. I usually leave a tiny bit left just for fun. Anyways, I have difficulties getting everything. There is almost always stubble left and it drives me crazy. I would like some tips just so I can have an ... (58 words)

She's married but openly flirts with me, what does she really want?

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31 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - please girls, I need your help and advice, I have this problem with a woman who is driving me crazy. She likes me, as it shows in her eyes, her words and her acts, she ia married by the way and I want to know what does she want exactly. She often flirts and teases me, and ... (179 words)

Is it wrong to have a baby now when we're so ready?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I want a baby. I'm 16, I've been with my boyfriend for 8 months and he's dying to be a father. I started college doing childcare because I thought I'd love working with children, but soon discovered that nursery work really was not for me so quit my course. I sta... (278 words)

I gave my band teacher a Hard-on!

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - OHMYGOD! I gave my band teacher a Hard-on! I wore a little more make-up than I usually do, and I took extra time to look good on the bowling alley trip. I was up and I got a spare and then when I sat down beside him and hugged him. I just looked down, because he had t... (97 words)

My boyfriend still has pain from an old sex injury, is this normal and can it be fixed?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend suffers from a tight foreskin which causes him discomfort sometimes. I just learned that occasionally his frenulum also becomes very tender for no apparent reason and stings; he says it tore or was damaged to the point of bleeding during sex several years ago and ... (133 words)

He keeps a picture of his dead wife and we are in a relationship.

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is 52 and I am 20. We have a newborn together but our relationship is unstable. Partly because I want us to live together, he lives on his own with his 2 sons one 26 and other 21. He said he told them that they had to leave when I was pregnant, I think he lied ... (157 words)

My husband won't shower - tried everything! How can I get him to do so?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband is a car mechanic, so as you can imagine he comes home covered in grease, dirt and not smelling all that great every night! Now I understand he works really hard and he is tired when he gets in, and I do empathise with him. But I get so annoyed with him because when ... (349 words)

I've read enough Mills and Boon books to know that "love" doesn't actually exsist and I'm never gonna truly fall in love.

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 16 years old, I am very mature for my age. My boyfriend is 20 and he's been after me for 6 months, in the end I gave up and started to date him. The thing is, I still see him as a friend and when he tries to do coupley things I get annoyed. I know the obvious answer i... (168 words)

What can we do to improve our sex lives?

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi, I'm hoping for some advice (especially from any guys out there!) about my b/f. We've been together 5 years and now we live together. My worry is that he seems to have gone off sex. This has been going on for a year. He pretty much falls asleep as soon as we get into ... (296 words)

Web cam phobia.

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend who I am totally in love with and have been for the past 4 years has moved to work in London for two months and I live in Liverpool. Here's the problem - he wants me to perform for him on webcam the way I do when in the bedroom and he will performs for me ... (158 words)

I'm confused so feedback here would be appreciated!

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31 March 2009 (M)

I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin.

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31 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Please help me, I think I am falling in love with my 'sort of' cousin. He is two years older than me and we met and mine and his step grandfather's wedding. We really hit it off and shortly after that he came down and stayed with me for a while. I loved it and a few things ... (94 words)