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writes:I am 22 and I worked with a girl thats 15 and we became good friends. I never hung out with her nor would I because of the age difference and the possibilty of being reported. My question is, because we are friends, is it okay that we talk over the phone constantly, nothing bad can from from that, right? or should I just end it completely? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Thank you both for your advice. The safest thing for myself is to end it, the last thing I want is to become a pedophile. It'll suck because we have become good friends but hopefully she'll understand and become friends later in the future when she is of appropriate age.
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reader, carrie212 +, writes (9 March 2009):
 you should end it. honestly, you're 22 you shouldn't be friends with a 15 year old anyway. and bad can come out of it.. she probably already has feelings for you. she's 15 and you're an older guy.. every 15 year old girl wants to brag to her friends that she's talking to a 22 year old. and you may start developing feelings for her, you're constantly talking, its bound to happen eventually. and then she might tell you that she would never report you and blah blah blah, so you hook up and the next thing you know ur in jail for having sex with a minor. whether it was consentual or not. she tells one person about it.. and that person might tell someone else.. the next thing you know her parents get a call and all hell will break loose.
the safest thing for you is to end it..
good luckk!
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (9 March 2009):
 Talking on the phone is fine, if you are just friends (and she is aware of that too!) then no harm can come of it.
You seem to be aware of possible problems here so as long as you stick to just being friends then you will be fine. Just make sure this girl knows that you are just friends, and nothing more can come of it until she is older. You dont want her to get the wrong idea!
I hope this helps!
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