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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

How do I get her to respect my feelings more?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

- My girlfriend takes me for granted. And it's pretty much my fault. I have tried so hard to let her know how much I love her and I have stuck around when she has made some big mistakes. Now she knows that I won't leave. I mean, some day if things don't change I'm gonna have to. ... (192 words)

He says I'm amazing but I feel kind of awkward as he is my first and I'm so inexperienced.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I am nearly 16 and have never had a boyfriend before. I have had some bad past experiences with rejection and I remember being asked out in primary school, I was kinda chubby then and I was so surprised someone wanted me, it turns out he just did it for a joke, and left me ... (322 words)

Should I reject her (the same way she did), keep her as a friend or give a relationship a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I recently met a girl who I had the hots for about 6 years ago at varsity. She rejected me (she was in a bad emotional space) and I got over her and moved on with life. Now she wants me back for some reason. She is a good woman and I wouldn't mind dating her but just wonder if ... (126 words)

We're just friends but the way he stares at me I think he feels more for me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Robert this boy in my shop is acting weird. He talks to me sometimes by texting and in the shop I look over and he's staring at me. It seems like he talks about me but I don't know. When he stares at me I smile back and pretend like it's normal but he seems like sometimes he ... (121 words)

Is it safe for him to cum inside you when you're on the pill?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I know this is kind of a rhetorical question, but please give me your opinion and knowledge anyway :] I just started on birth pills. Me and my bf don't use condom anymore since he never cums in me anyway. However, last time we had sex, he wanted to cum inside me. I knew it wa... (190 words)

Help!!!! Stuck in a love triangle!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm stuck in a sort of love triangle I suppose. I'm sorta with this guy Mark but a while back I went out with his best mate Josh, who I still love soo effing much but like I'm happy with Mark cos he makes everything amazing and I do love him... but I'm not in love with him. J... (115 words)

I don't feel attractive to him at all. Should I move on?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years, he has always watched porn, no big deal but lately I haven't been getting any love. I know I am not his physical type. A lot of the stuff he looks at says escort on it. I don't think he has the time to cheat but you never know. ... (74 words)

Help I still love him!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a problem. I dated my ex for 4 and a half years. I worshiped the ground he walked on. We ended up fighting alot in the end of our relationship over stupid things. A lot of which I realize now that I was wroung about. We have been broken up now for about 3 years. I am ... (223 words)

4 Friends, one guy... what happens now?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey, I give my best friend this guys msn because I love him, she said she would get me with him she started going out with him, the same thing happened again with 3 more people and I'm realy worried that I might just, not be the one for him, but the thing is he's never met any ... (114 words)

How the heck has society become so shallow!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - How the heck has society become so shallow!! What right does society have to make us so insecure about ourselves when on an individual basis we don't care about the appearance or ideals of others. I wouldn't judge anyone at all and think everyone is perfect in their own way and ... (160 words)

Do I just see where this goes or try to resist the chemistry?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - So I've gotten myself into a mess, I've fallen for an older guy, I'm 22 and he's 37. We work together in a job that requires close teamwork and having to have each other's backs. That is difficult when we're going the physical training side of the job, we always end up ... (142 words)

I just don't think I fit into society properly.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5721 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I'm in my mid twenties and I have the insecurities of a young teenager. I have some very strange complexes that if I thought about enough I could probably analyse but even that makes me uncomfortable. It's mainly about the typical body appearance but also about my role as a man ... (344 words)

Is our marriage legal in the UK?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age - I got married in Jamaica, now I want to get a divorce, we never registered it here in the UK, our marriage is valid in Jamaica but not legalised in UK, are we still married?... (35 words)

Once I have her, I don't want her as much as I used to when I was after her!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - What is wrong with me? I'm 14 and one minute I'm head over heals for a girl... and do everything in my possibility to be with her and go out with her... I fell in love for her but once I have her... I don't want her as much as I used to when I was after her... and this is the ... (75 words)

Is it best for us to stay together or go our seprerate ways?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5728 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 15 and I have an amazing girlfriend, she's also 15. Well we've been going out for two years and we've had our ups and downs but were still together. here are some of the bad things. She cheated on me about 2 or 3 times with her her ex that cheated on her (this guy just ... (254 words)

Just lately my emotions have been everywhere like a rollercoaster!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Look I know I'm too young and this might sound stupid to your ears (mine too), but this is how I feel. I'm a 15 year old male and I really want to have sex... yes I know I have self control but it's really hard having to deal with the urges all the time. I feel the closer I ... (212 words)

My husband is verbally abusive and has been physical lately too!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I have been in a relationship for 15 years and we have an 11 year old daughter together, and he has 4 children from another marriage. We are not married, however he is verbally abusive and has been physical lately. It is hard for me to leave when I don't have a job and ... (128 words)

I'm inexperienced and so confused about this guy, what does he want?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok, the situation with me and this guy: Met him at my friend's birthday party last Friday, were both quite drunk and ended up making out. In the morning (cos we stayed over) he admitted he'd quite enjoyed it and we went out for a walk together and chatted. Last week we me... (261 words)

Guys why don't you call the woman you like?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (?) age 51-59 - Guys, please tell me. If you really liked a woman wouldn't you think about her everyday and call or contact her? Or you do like her but you just don't think about it? Or is this some kind of game? ... (40 words)

Help! I have problems with sex!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I have been married for two years and I have never been on top during sex!! I just can't do it as it hurts and I can't give my husband oral sex! I did it once but it disgusts me?!!!!!!!!! Is this normal or what ?... (53 words)

Future spinster written in stone for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I think it was written in stone that I was meant to be alone because I never got asked in my teens and my 20s. Now heading for my 30s, I think I was always meant to be alone. If you think about it, it's true. I never had a boyfriend, it's just too hard. Kissing and sex is ... (359 words)

Just answer the damned questions!!!!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey!! Well I've just have some pretty simple questions that I want to ask. 1. Why do all the good things in life die? Why are they taken away from us when we need them so badly?! 2. Why can't true love be real?! Or is it really and I'm just missing it? Please don't... (83 words)

When I'm not with him I like him but when I AM with him I don't!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5732 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, I have known this guy for five years now and whenever I'm not with him I can't wait to see him because I fancy him, but when I actually get to see him I get put off by the things he does and I don't like him no more. I need help on what to do. thanks x... (59 words)

I can't seem to accept his past...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, this may sound silly or selfish, but I have recently got engaged, and I can't seem to accept his past! I know, in the back of my mind, it shouldn't bother me, but for some reason it does. He is the first person I slept with, but his ex was the first person he slept with, ... (115 words)

My friend is now going out with the guy I fancy!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have really really fancied this guy I know through friends for about six months. Recently I met him at a gig and we got on great and I got the impression he liked me. My best friend (who knows him quite well) found out I fancied him. She said she did too. She asked if I mind... (168 words)

Do you think this can be worth anything or is it just a fantasy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear agony aunts and uncles here is the situation... last week I had a chat with a high school friend who has been trying to get hold of me... we had nice thoughts until we spoke about dating... so I told him about my life and he told me about his. All of a sudden he was to... (302 words)

It's like shes the sun and I'm the earth. forever bound.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hello everyone. I have a feeling towards this one person. A young woman. She's a senior at the school that I attend. I am a sophmore and we share a class together. I can never work up the courage to go talk to her. Although one day she did come up to me. She wanted to help me g... (353 words)

Did he leave me for his friend? Could he be gay?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello, so I was with this guy off and on for 3 years now. We just recently broke up he said it's because I didn't respect him or the relationship, although I did most of the work on it. Anyway my question is could he be gay? Could he have left me for his best friend? He to... (189 words)

Basically I want to be single, I'm only 15

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5742 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My gf and i have been together now for a 1 year and 5 months. I love her but recently i have started to get bored and love her less. Basically i want to be single,im only 15 so i dont want to be with one girl practically all my teenage life. My question is how do i tell he... (81 words)

I don't know what wrong I have done

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi guys I wonder if you can help me work out this situation i'm in. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year. We don't get to see alot off each other as she works during the day and i work during the night. A few days ago i promised to pick her up from work today so we coul... (341 words)

I'm not lazy and I try to take care of everything but I'm wore down and I don't know how much more I can take

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5739 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband no longer talks to me except to argue if I say nothing it's still my fault. I've been married all most 10 years. Everything I do or say is wrong. I feel unloved and definitely unwanted. I'm always a bitch. I've been sleeping on the couch to try and keep the figh... (133 words)

Shave or not... how to ask the question?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - I'm a 14 year old girl. I have had acne on my bum area so my confidence has been really low. I've been with my boyfriend for quite a while and we're thinking about having sex, but if I do... how do I ask him beforehand if he likes shaved or natural pubes? I don't want it ... (77 words)

Ex lovers can rekindle?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my ex boyfriend went out for about a year. We were young but both had things for each other for 2 years and were each others first everything. He was my very best friend as I was his, and one could easily argue we were two people living in one body. We got to a rocky pa... (283 words)

My friend is flirting too much with my boyfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - My boyfriend and best friend are good friends. She was a cheerleader for his football team so they seen each other a lot. Me and him go out but people tell me she flirts with him all the time. I didn't believe anything was going on until they had a "secret" conversation. I ... (86 words)

How do I tell my family about my boyfriend - different religions!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello, I have been seeing my boyfriend for 3 weeks and I feel like we love each other which I know sounds a bit too soon, however he already spoke to his family about me and I wanna do the same but my family are different because we have different religions. How am I going to ... (92 words)

Tips on how to get noticed and how to get her to like me??

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I have never done this before but i hope you can help me with my problem. There is this girl i have known for a while and i have found that i quite fancy her. But she doesn't feel the same way about me or at least i don't think she does.i was wondering if people would giv... (95 words)

What if he's the one I'm supposed to be with ???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5737 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm with my guy for 6 years.... love him to death. Perfect on paper and in person. Handsome, outgoing, sweet and would do anything for me. He's my best friend and we're getting married in 6 months. Our families and friends love us together and we look like a perfect matc... (408 words)

My husband chose his family over his affair. But now we are "lost"

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband had an affair, he broke up with her and chose to keep his family, but I feel he is a different person now, he is a broken hearted, he is absent minded when we are together. it seems he loved her, I am lost! help!... (47 words)

How do I chose between the two women?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - so I've been dating this girl, "K" for about 7 months now. i do love her, my first love. and she's in love with me. but I've lost interest since she never wants to come see me. it's been 6 months. (she lives in Brighton) it's heart breaking, and i dont wanna wait anymore. we've ... (139 words)

What should I do about a potential "False Negative" Pregnancy Test?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I am NOT using birth control pills, just condoms. I have regular periods but am now 7 weeks late. My breasts are very tender and the areola has become darkened and slightly larger. I do not feel sick at all but I decided to take a pregnancy test today. I purchased the MOST expe... (85 words)

My husband is having an erectile problem. Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - In the past 3 times that my husband and I have had sex, his penis starts off hard but than it goes down- he tries to get it hard, and sometimes it does but once he goes inside of me, it goes down again. We never had this problem before, we where always very sexual with one anot... (105 words)

Can someone help me stay strong and keep my word...to leave this guy alone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5743 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey aunts i finally did it...i broke it off with the committed guy...it's been two days and i almost fell in today but by the grace of God ive stayed strong and haven't contacted him... this is how i did it: i called him with the thought of us meeting up and when i got to hi... (241 words)

I'm heartbroken. Now he says I'm a fake and that I'm just wasting his time

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im 17 and im talking to this one boy that im truely in love with and last night we got into it because he strongly believes that i dont love him and my feelings that i tell him, that i have for him aren't real. all because he ask me if i wanted a boyfriend and i said no, ... (186 words)

Is there a cure the premature ejaculation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Is there a cure the premature ejaculation? I've looked over the internet and there are a lot of people who say that premature ejaculation cannot be cured. I last about 10 seconds every time me and my girlfriend have sex. We've been having sex regularly for over a year and ... (64 words)

I moved overseas with my family to forget her... I can't!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I'm married with a two year old son. Around a year and a half ago, I became close to a female friend of mine, who is also married. This grew quickly and I fell in love with her and she fell in love with me. It kept growing and growing and got to the point that we could not ... (557 words)

His co worker told me my boyfriend stopped caring for me 4 months ago... what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I been together 2 years. He goes out with co workers but tells me nothing, does not text or call, he tells me he doesn't need to check in and doesn't want me to know where he hangs out. What do I do? His co worker told me he is planning on breaking up with me ... (96 words)

I want him to want me, I don't want pity sex!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5741 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been with a man for over 3 and a half years. I am about 14 years younger than he is and that has always seemed to be a good thing. We have one child together and I have two from a previous marriage who consider him their father... Here's my problem: He is affectio... (548 words)

Even though they are together, he still stares at me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Well there's this guy and I like him A LOT. We're not friends, but we've spoken to each other and stuff. He used to act like he liked me but then he dated this girl and now they're together. But even though their together, he still stares (when his gf's around he just g... (211 words)

I love horses but have never learned to ride one!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5392 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm not sure what category this fits into, but I people connect emotionally with their animals (like family members), so I imagine it's relevant. Not a romantic relationship question, I know, but it really means a lot to me. What do you do if you have loved horses all... (672 words)

Why can't he just be a man and face me rather than treating me horribly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend suddenly started treating me horribly. I feel like jumping in front of a bus just to see if he'll show up at the hospital. Why can't I just break up with him? That would be the logical thing to do. I feel like he's mentally terrorizing me and I'm stuck. The ... (82 words)

How can I feel sexy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5723 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - i am not fat bt i do hav a bit of a belly if u know what i mean and i have small boobs. my bf sed i am his ture love and he loves my body and wouldnt change it, however i dont feel sexy. he says i am bt dont feel it, am willing to let him see me naked i am not ashamed i just ... (130 words)

He works with his ex, they still call each other, and its bothering me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Dear Cupid i have been with my bf for a year and a half we are in a committed relationship but still don't live together yet.My problem is that he works with his ex-girlfriend whom dumped him three years previous and who is now married and has been since there breakup.Yet still ... (401 words)

My family doesn't approve of the big age gap between me and my guy

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5116 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear agony aunt, i recently posted a qeustion regarding the same situation but just need a bit more advice Ive been dating a 56 year old man and im 18, weve been together 7months and i have never been happier. At work we dont tell anyone about our relationship and... (163 words)

I want to have sex with him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really want to have a boyfriend. I just wish I could make out with him every day! There is this one guy, we both like each other. I just dont know how to talk to him. I also want to have sex with him, every time I see him, I have an orgasm! Please tell me how I can stop this... (70 words)

How to get rid of a girl???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hey everyone i wanna ask a cruel question here...please bear with me ....i am being cruel to be kind to someone i care a lot.... how should a guy get rid of a girl who is very affectionate, sentimental and emotionally attached to him ? what if that guy is everything for he... (97 words)

Tell me how to give him space?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - im so in love with him, he doesnt have time and keeps on telling me he loves me.sometimes i think i am putting more effort and giving him a lot of pressure. i want to give him space, which is a bit harder, tell me how to give him space? n how do i deal with it?... (58 words)

Should I continue liking her, or will I just get more hurt?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5742 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Basically, there's this girl called Js, I've really liked her for about 3 and a half years now, we've been with each other on and off due to various petty reasons. More recently I realised how much she does mean to me, I need not explain myself, as I know theres many people who ... (313 words)

I was pretty sure my promotion had something to do with sleeping with my manager

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - Hello people. I've been at my current place of employment for three years now. I consider myself a trust-worthy, hard and efficient worker and have been working hard towards a promotion. I've always been slightly distracted by my manager. She's only a year older than me and ... (458 words)

Can a man tell about these things?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5744 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i would like to know whether a man can tell that a woman has baggy skin on her vagina when having sex? (without seeing it) Let Me know xx... (32 words)

Should I get his name tatooed on me or is it bad luck?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a 22 year old female who is in a very serious and committed relationship with a 32 year old male. I really love him and he loves me we are unable to be with one another physically because he is behind bars. I cant see myself with anyone else he recently got my name tat... (109 words)

My friend & I both like the same boy..but I liked him first!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - hey, i know this might sound like a problem basically every teenager goes through but i wanted to right in cos i really don't know what to do. i really really like this boy, and i finally plucked up the courage to tell him i did, about 2-3 weeks ago. it was awkard for a couple ... (230 words)

I told my husband I don't want his child (from his previous marriage) to be near mine

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Well do you think i'm wrong to have told my spouse that i don't want this child that he has gotten outside our home near my child. I told him that i know the child is innocent to what he and the child's mother has done but due to there disrespect i wish for my child to be kept... (82 words)

I want to have sex with my friend’s mum

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

30 March 2009 (M) age 36-40 - I want to have sex with my friend’s mum. we are both single. I have a thing for my friend’s mum since I was in high school. She is in her 40s and I am 22. I know friend’s mum thinks I am cute as she has said so and has kissed/made out with me at times when my friend was not ... (282 words)

As much as she is very excited, she cannot get to the finish point

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - OK, I hate to ask, but we are at a loss here. I love my wife very much, she loves me very much, and we only seem to have one problem, My wife and I get Very Excited with each other, and we play and get really into things, but she is having a problem having an orgasm. It... (171 words)

Is my sister a true friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I had a full abdominal hysterectomy 3 weeks ago. My sister Marg is the only one of my quite large family who knew i was going for the OP. I haven't really been in contact with the rest of my family since my mum died and there was a family fall out. I gave birth to my sec... (735 words)

I'm a liar..do I deserve her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, well its a long story. Last year, met this girl, fell in love. eventually found out she was two timing me, and she left me, went back to her country, holland. But then her best mate (on msn) showed up, was there for me everyday to talk to, and we became good mates. My mate ... (343 words)

I want to seduce my 26 year old gardener..not sure I remember how? HELP!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age - Hi everyone. I'm a 46 year old lady and I fancy my 26 year old gardener. We are always flirting and now I'd like to make a move on him, hopefully get him in my bed. But the thing is, it's been so long since I've done anything like this that I'm not sure how to seduce him. I'm ... (74 words)

Why does he walk ahead of me as if I don't exist?

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 1893 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hi - wonder if anyone can help with this one! My husband who is nearly 40 (married for 10 years) often (not always but more often than not) walks ahead of me. It doesn't matter if we are simply going from the car to the supermarket, walking along in town or even on holiday ... (435 words)

Why can't I feel it when I cum during sex?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5745 days ago

30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am really ashame of this question because to be honest. every time i have sex with my sex partter i can never tell when or if I cum?... (31 words)

Handjobs instead of oral sex?

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30 March 2009 (F) age 30-35 - okay 1st off idk if this is weird but i love giving my boyfriend blowjobs. not just bc i know he wants it but because i just love doing it and it massively turns me on. but anyway what i want to know is, how often is it "normal" to give them? cause for months i just did ... (138 words)

He's never done oral on me..he doesn't want to?

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30 March 2009 (F) age 36-40 - i give my boyfriend oral and he always comes but he hasn't done it for me - we haven't had many chances to do it since i started giving him oral so maybe that's why. but assuming he never does it back, would this be unfair? because i've never orgasmed with him and idk if ... (73 words)

He says he was on the sex register for verbal abuse to a teenager..do I still see him?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age - iv met someone he told me he was on sex register for verbaly abuse to teenager it ends in may but i dont know weather to trust him ,my family would not aprove if they find out im so worried... (40 words)

My instincts say not to trust him..should I listen to them?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - things are just not adding up lately with my boyfriend. he was angry when i questioned him over other women's numbers in his cell phone. he deleted the numbers though. a few days later he put his free profile on a dating website that he started. i questioned him about that. ... (111 words)

My ex g/f's behavior was horrible! Did I handle things correctly?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I finally ended my year and a half relationship with my gf. I have done the best I can. I brought her along with me on Saturday night with my friends to a local festival. I knew this would be the make or break. I warned her about her behavior from the last time she flew into a ... (348 words)

I love him but he can't keep a job..and I don't want things to continue this way

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - 3 1/2 years ago I felt that I had found the love of my life. When I met him he didn't have a job with predictable income, so when he wanted to move in with me I told him he must find another job. He found a sales job, hated it, and cried and begged me to let him quit within ... (553 words)

Husband shut down emotionally and broke things off with me!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hi i would really appreciate any advice on what to do when your husband has shut down emotionally and broken up with you suddenly.i really want to work things out but im too scared to try,i dont know what to do anymore. before when he broke up with me i was still doing ... (315 words)

B/f is bipolar..but I don't think I deserve the treatment I get from him!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is bipolar and he can really treat me like crap, he blames it on his emotions but I can't stop thinking that I don't deserve this. I love him and I want him to get better but how much of my happiness and my life do I give up before he realizes he needs to treat me ... (60 words)

What do we say when the bill arrives???

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello all! I have a dilemma that I need help with. I am godmother to both of my friend's children and whilst she is a lovely, geunine person, her partner is the biggest waste of space ever... He has always taken advantage of me money wise by giving me sob stories how they ... (225 words)

Hymen, sex and oral!

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I love each other, we make out and fool around, he sometimes fingers me but it hurts. Now I have two questions : I have looked and it looks like I have like a -full- hymen, so you can't really get your fingers -inside - is that why it hurts?? and would it ... (121 words)

Is it possible he just doesn't fancy me any more?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend is 29 years of age. He does not like to have sex often, I usually have to initiate sex all the time. I ask him if it's me and he say's no, and replies with saying I don't have a sex drive any more. Is he telling the truth, when he says the reason for not w... (85 words)

Help!!! How can I find out if a guy likes me without being to obvious?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - How can I find out if a guy likes me without being to obvious. I have his number, sms'ed a few times. I only see him at church on Sundays. The sms'es were stuff that involved church. Thanks for the help.... (41 words)

I'm not ready to be acting like I'm a mum!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need some advice from someone who has been in the same situation.. My bf has a one and a half year old daughter to his ex and we have been together since she was 2 months old. I have been there through everything but I find it so hard to have a connection with her. I ... (205 words)

Having feelings for someone...

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I always thought when someone said they had feelings for someone it meant they liked them as more than a friend? So what's the difference between having feelings for someone (like people say when they like someone) and just having feelings for someone as a friend?... (47 words)

How should I convince him to forgive and forget our pasts?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My ex has made it clear that he is seeing some else because he cannot trust a girl who cheated on him with a cousin (I mean I cheated on him with a cousin)! the thing is I want him back and am really sure.. he asked me to suggest something that the two of us must do to make... (170 words)

Why does he want me to meet an ex friend that he'd been screwing?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - When my boyfriend had been married, he had what he said was a brief affair. That is not the reason for divorce as his wife never found out. Anyway, I've been with my BF for about 10 months and we are going on vacation in April. He decided to contact this woman to wish her a ... (203 words)

I need your advice! I feel as if my husband doesn't love me... and now I'm pregnant!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I am recently married. Ours is a love marriage. I love my husband very much, he is least bothered about me. He is more attached to his family side. When we go to his place, he does not care about me. I am the only daughter and no brothers and my father is no more. My mom has ... (149 words)

3 guys but don't want to hurt any of them... Help!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have major situation! I was fine, I had everything friends, family etc. I was single and have been for over a year but I was happy just being me and having fun. However, 1. My ex text me saying that he is being sent to Afganistan for 6 mouths, I found upsetting but I was su... (248 words)

How do I stop comparing myself to the new guy? How to move on?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - We were together for 2 years and it was the most important relationship I have ever had because we started as friends first.(we also did and do work together), we both had issues, tried to work through them and ultimately it ended up that it "just didn't work". Since the ... (516 words)

I think he's leading me on. What should I do ?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay I don’t go out with him but I really like him and he's made it seem pretty clear he likes me (walked me home, asked to buy me a drink, said he missed me etc) but i found out the other day he went to the show/fair thingy with another girl and one of her friends. I knew he ... (216 words)

I lied to him and told him the baby was his... when it wasn't!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - There is a guy that I met 7 years ago and we were never in a relationship.. but occasionally slept together. We had that "understanding" with one another I guess. Well to make a long story short of course I secretly had more feelings for him than he thought and I would play... (208 words)

Question for the guys: How long do I wait to give him a blowjob.

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok so for sex, you wait about 4-8 months if you are looking for something serious. Hopefully by that time you have developed a close attachment to where the sex would add to the relationship. What about for oral and other kinky acts?? Do yo wait for 5 dates or 2 months etc?... (96 words)

Either way I don't want to hurt my friends feelings

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid. There's a guy I like and we are friends but I don't know how he feels. A girl I know also likes him but whenever they're together she's all over him, like literally hanging off him, but he doesn't seem to be showing any interest in her. I find myself sort of takin... (190 words)

Me. my husband, my affair, my affair's ex-mistress, and my husband's affair

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, I'm married for almost 10 years. I am having an affair with a married man since 2 years. First of all we are great friends, I frequently go to his place and I know his wife and children. He says I'm like his second wife. The problem is with her ex mistress, a ... (205 words)

Is it time to move on?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age - My husband and I have been going to marriage counselling now for a few months,during these sessions i have found out that he has cheated on me more times than he had confessed. Sorry its long but a bit back ground on my problems,Feb 08 i was told by a person who worked with my ... (462 words)

Help with boyfriend's lies

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I need some advice on dealing with my boyfriend and his lie. It all started a year ago when we had been dating for about 4 months. We had already opened up and talked about our pasts (exes, etc - but not in detail - just names and basics) and I thought I knew him pretty ... (532 words)

In society how do people view what old in age

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Mode note: This is a follow up question to http://www.dearcupid.org/question/is-being-in-your-30s-young-or-old.html is 30 ,31,32,33 year old is old or young. or mature in comparison to some 27 years + is being 30 + old.in society is just age nothing boyfriends or any th... (50 words)

Guys hate me. Am I not suitable for any one?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - s there something wrong being single all your life. because i have being single all my life i am nearly up 30 years old and i never had boyfriend and never being kissed once in my life.its not like i don,t want a boyfriend i just can,t have one.younger then me or older then ... (122 words)

Am I falling in love here or is it just attraction?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I'm kinda confused here. I recently met a girl down the pub and I think I'm falling in love with her. On Friday we ended up hanging out and talking in the cemetery, we went for a walk together and got some food and then spent the rest of the night chatting about... (204 words)

I am afraid he will be gone by the time I get home today.

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30 March 2009 (F)

- Can some please give me some advice. I am living with my partner and we broke up on Saturday after a lot of fighting over stupid things. I am devastated and I don;t know what to do. We live together but I own the house. He is still there living on my couch as he has no where... (114 words)

Is he over it all competly or just playing mind games with me?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - hey guys im in need of some help on understanding my ex any thoughts would be appreciated my ex broke up with me about 6 months ago when i see him i usually have a convo with him cos im still friendly with him because thats the type of gal i am but after stuff that he ... (512 words)

What can I do to let him know that I care?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Alright, I've been with my man for two years now. We've known each other for a very long time. We never have any big fights, but lately things have been looking down for us. Small things that I know can be fixed with a little effort, which we are both very eager to put into ... (174 words)

I don't know what to do, I'm scared to stay with him

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now, but a few months ago we got into a really big argument over really small issues and he pulled me off the bed and threw me onto the floor, I was really shook up and didn't want to talk to him so he started pushing me and ... (371 words)

16 yo virgin and I have stretch marks on my stomach

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm 16 years old and I have stretch marks on my stomach, and i dont know how to get them to go away. me and my best friend want to loose our virginity to each other, but im scared to take off my shirt. can you help me? ... (49 words)

How would I win his trust again?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hey there , to day am kind of happy because we finally had a heart to heart talk with my ex........... recently i was worried about his decision of breaking up with me but now he spells it out for me last night.. apparently he broke up with me because i cheated on him with his ... (229 words)

I feel so sad right now. Why isn't he calling like he promised?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been seeing this guy from my university for almost a month. We act couple when we are together and he says he thinks I'm so sexy all the time. I asked him what exactly we were and he said that he really likes me and wants to see where this goes. He asked me what I thou... (179 words)

Why do women prefer being on the top?

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30 March 2009 (?) age 41-50 - Well, i have a simple question which i couldn't find the answer by myself. I hope your answers will help me... Do the women have more pleasure and have orgasm when they are dominant? I mean when they are riding or when they are controlling the sex? ...lol Maybe a silly que... (87 words)

I just don't seem to have the whole "dating" thing down

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello and thank you to all and any who are nice enough to read about my problem... I am seventeen years old and I have some serious problems with girls. First of all, I know that I am a good looking guy. My problem isn't with confidence either. I am pretty desperate to get ... (149 words)

I don't think it is worth keeping this relationship

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - i am 21 and my girlfriend is 17...we are in the relationship since a year now ...she has been very responsible and extremely caring and so am i ..but there is a lost spark in the relationship and i am not that crazy for her and have liked her only as a friend for some time ... (338 words)

I just have a feeling he doesn’t like me like that

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - So there's this guy that I met about a year ago and in that year we have became very good friends. I believe I can say he is one of my best friends and recently I've developed a huge crush on him. I denied it to myself for a while, but finally gave in and realized I did. The ... (446 words)

I want to wait for a couple days to see if I have my period before I take a test. What do you think?...

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My husband ALWAYS uses a condom when we have sex. I am not on birth control. Now, I am 7 1/2 weeks late on my period. My boobs are about the most sore they have ever been. But I am NOT sick at all and have had little mini-cramps as if I am going to start my period yet it never ... (115 words)

Why am I so shy with girls? Do I feel intimidated by other boys?

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30 March 2009 (M) age 26-29 - Hi i;m 13 and I wondered why am I so shy with some girls and others not, forexample, I went to a girls party (meaning I was the only boy) and it went great, my best friend intoduced me to her friends and I had a great time but today I was withanother friend (a guy) and he was ... (89 words)

I'm not attracted to my older boyfriend anymore... why am I feeling this way?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok please help me based on these facts........... * I am 28 years old * I have been with my 45 year old boyfriend for 5 years * We haven't slept together in over 2 months because I don't feel attracted to him in that way anymore - I could kiss and cuddle him all day, but... (183 words)

He thought I cheated with my flirty texts

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - Before me and my boyfriend started dating, there were a few people I would flirt with through text messages. It never went any farther than texts. When me and boyfriend began dating, I didn't stop texting the people I used to flirt with, and 3 months into our relationship he ... (135 words)

I'm alone in this universe

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Sometimes I feel like no one really gets me. I have a sincere appreciation for the friends that I have and new people I meet, but I feel like no one is really on the same wavelength that I am...does that make sense? I understand that all people are different, and chances are ... (124 words)

How can I convince my long distance gf that we should feel anchored down because we've never met?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - First off, Both of the people mentioned in this are 14, just for a little clarification. I met this girl over the internet. We've know each other for about a year now. We live quite a distance from each other. Far enough at least that it's not feasable for us ... (253 words)

I think he's secretly getting in touch with his ex. Should I confront him?

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30 March 2009 (F)

- Been with my b/f for 3 yrs. The woman he was with before me really messed him up emotionally. She moved to Oregon. We have a pretty good relationship now but it's been a rocky one and I don't think he's over her yet. He was in contact with her for the first year we were tog... (288 words)

What can I do about my jealous gf?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - My girl and i have been seeing each other for about 7 years i love her very much and would do anything for her. Throughout the seven years we have been through problems with being jealous she treats me like a baby and ask me when im coming home what time and it im a few late ... (141 words)

Getting intimate with my bf felt good but now I feel disgusting!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I were laying on his bed today and he started asking me if we could "do something" and we've been together for quite awhile now and last time he tried to get me to do something with him, I did a little and told him to stop because I felt wrong about it. Well... (157 words)

Should I go permanently bald "down there"?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - I've just recently invested in full body laser hair removal. (yay!) But when I went in for the consultation, the consultant told me I need to 'think carefully' about what I do with my pubic hair, because it'll NEVER come back once it's gone. The 'sexy' women of pop culture ... (119 words)

Confusing yes/no/yes/no rollercoaster ends with her kissing me and leaving me heartbroken!

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30 March 2009 (M)

- This is a long one but I can't express my confusion anymore concisely: I really don't get this girl. (We're both in our mid twenties) It's been a roller coaster of yes and no signals. I'm left confused and heartbroken. I liked her 3 years ago. She liked me. If it sound... (571 words)

My fiancee and his little brother passed away and I don't know how to express myself

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - hi everyone. my fiance and his little brother just passed away. me and my best friend are supposed to speak at his funeral. they are having two separate funerals, and i am supposed to speak at them both. i have no idea what to say. right now i cant even think. Any tips on what ... (86 words)

Missed period. How long before I can take a pregnancy test?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I had cramping last monday, thought my period was comming a week early, but it didnt. I am now 3 days late for my period - i run a very reliable cycle and tested on the first missed day but it was negative. i will test again in a few days but was wondering how long it took ... (74 words)

I have a new boyfriend, but can't get over my ex. I'm so confused and don't know what to do!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 15, and I dated my ex for almost 8 months. He would ignore me on and off for a few months. Sometimes we would go up to a week without even talking, and I'd cry and feel depressed over it. He was with his guy friends a lot more than he was ever with me. The only ti... (629 words)

How can I forget somebody I love but the relationship is going nowhere?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello...I am married woman with 1 kid. Before, I am too much in love with my husband, to much to the point of giving up most of my dreams just for the sake of marrying him.Just to know in the end that he was not in love with me but with his first GF-and i've heard over his ... (279 words)

Why do women get involved with men that truly aren't free?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - Why do some women get into a relationship with a man thats either married or committed and settles with being the third wheel. How do they really feel about themselves. They would spend there last dime on this man and she knows that he will never leave his mate to be with her... (84 words)

I love him but I want the freedom that goes along with being single!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - I have been in 4 separate relationships since I was 18 (10 years ago), my most current one being 5 years and counting, with a man 19 years my senior. Lately I have been dreaming of being alone, for about a year or so, as I feel I have no idea who I am or what I want beca... (241 words)

Why would he keep the earrings? An excuse to see me?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - Cutting to the chase, me and this guy were casually seeing each other between October till about mid January. After the middle of January things dwindled off. He called me the day before Valentine's, I didn't pick up so he left a voicemail casually asking if we were still ... (282 words)

I found porn, and there is no intimacy in our relationship!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - Ive been in a relationship for 3 years and recently realised that there is no intimacy. sex is great there is no problem there he doesnt like kissing and never tells me that he loves me. Recently i found porn and it was hidden. Do men look at porn cos there girlfriends dont ... (80 words)

He just stares at me..do I talk to him? or wait?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - okay, so at my church there is this boy who always looks at me, we always smile at each other, but never say anything. well the second week it happened, he had so many oportunities to come talk to me.. but instead he just starred.. and i mean straight up starred at me lo... (93 words)

Perfect way to apologize?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everybody I just need to know what is the perfect way to appologize to someone?... (17 words)

Friends interferring with relationships

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Well, i like this girl with OCD, (whatever that means hehe) I have great feelings for her, yet my ex friend decided to put the poison down saying I cheated on her, which put some weird feelings into her, she isn't exactly avoiding me, but whenever she's on msn I feel what my ... (130 words)

In love, 22 age gap..is it bad?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm 18 and dating a 40 year old man.. we have been together for 7 months now and I'm completely in love with him! he has a little girl who i love being with.. is it wrong that i'm in love with a 40 year old man?? i hate being away from him at any time.. He feels like he is ... (84 words)

Why do relationships fall apart?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - How can I spend five years with my boyfriend, and he not give two sh**s about me? My boyfriend, who I live with, just left me at a restaruant, 20 miles away from home. With no cell phone, no money, nothing. ... (42 words)

How do I get her friendship back and bring everything back to normal?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - I fell in love with my best friend last year, and ever since it's just been really hard to cope because she has a boyfriend. She knows I love her because I told her before, but this didn't affect our friendship. A couple of weeks ago, her boyfriend and her had some probl... (230 words)

Hopefully my friend will make the right choice!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 26-29 - one of my best friends likes my ex (me and him broke up cuz idk ask him) well anyways he was kind of retard and yea but after we broke up he wanted to get back together(he dumped me)so i called him a pig and told him to get a life in which doesnt involve me so me and my best ... (157 words)

I have an evil stepdaughter and a stupid wife

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 41-50 - I have been seperated for 4 yrs. Recently me and my wife have been trying to bring our family together. We have one child together and she has a child from a previous relationship. The step child a girl is an absolute brat. She is a little slut as well, at the tender age of 13. ... (259 words)

I like him, he likes me..but there's a girlfriend!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I really like this guy and he's starting to like me..he always calls me EVERY night, he's really sweet and the thing i like about him is that he's all about what a girl likes and wants he basically never has a say in anything..thats just the way he is. But he has a girlfriend ... (278 words)

Why doesn't she want to be "secretly" engaged to me?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - i worry about things constantly, and im with my gf now for 3 months, and i want to spend the rest of my life with her, i feel so comfortable with her and i love her to pieces, she feels the same but wen i talk about being engaged, even if its just me and her knowing and doing ... (109 words)

Ideas for a really good first date that is better than dinner and a movie?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi, I'm looking for a really good first date idea. I really, really like this girl and want to show her that I care about her and am not like the jerks she has dated in the past. But before I ask here out I need to have a plan... Ladies, what are some dates you have gone on... (103 words)

Feeling trapped by the relationship, not by him personally.

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30 March 2009 (F)

I think I love my friend's best friend...

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going out with my current boyfriend for nearly two years. And the other weekend I hooked up with his best friend. Both me and his best mate have decided to keep it a secret. But I think I now have feelings for his friend now. Although I don't want to throw away the ... (63 words)

I hate being single!

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 36-40 - I hate being single, I'm starting to think something's wrong with me. It seems like no matter what I do, nobody is interested in me. I actually hurt myself quite badly on the way home tonight, I punched a brick wall and my shin really hurts. My ex has somebody, and I have ... (69 words)

I told her I had a crush on her but she said she's not interested... what now?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 26-29 - I like this girl we've looked at each other from time to time and I said that I have a crush on you and that she's beautiful. She replied saying "ha thanks:)" and then we talked and today I sent her a message with the words of the song "your so beautiful" by Akon then she ... (86 words)

Is it over for good or just a break?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have dating for 2 years and 7 months. He is 25, but I was his first girlfriend. We have talked about marriage in the past, but he has avoided the topic for almost a year now. He hasn't been saying "I love you" back for the last month, so I asked him how he ... (235 words)

How can I show I trust?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - I have a girlfriend who I love with all my heart. We are both honest and we trust each other. We are both people who have been burned by love before. We are both people who take their time before we trust another person. Somehow we seem to be like kindred spirits. One ... (271 words)

Can long term drug use cause erectile dysfunction?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been dating this man for 5 months, everything is so great and perfect-except for the bedroom. He has a problem keeping it up. Sometimes it works and everything is wonderful, but there are a lot of times when it just dies before we even really get started. He is 42, I ... (113 words)

I let alcohol mess me up. How can I say I'm sorry?

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30 March 2009 (M)

age 51-59 - DC readers have always helped me out and now I REALLY hope you can help me. I have a great relationship with a friend of mine who I would hope to one day make my girlfriend. I have screwed up before and she has always forgiven me. We are best friends and we do care for e... (385 words)

I have this uncontrolable urge to be on my own...

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend and I are always joking around, and yesterday he was joking about what a fraidy cat I am. He says I am scared of everything, which is true, I am a woos lol. Anyway, he said "that's why you'll never leave me... because you're scared" and for some reason this real... (138 words)

He said he isn't ready to live with anyone as he hasn't lived alone long enough. Is this bullshit?

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 51-59 - I have been seeing a man for 5 years. I would like to get married to him or at least live together but he seems to want things his way... meaning he tells me that he never had much of a chance to live alone. He lived with a somewhat abusive parent well into adulthood and then ... (181 words)

He says he feels awkward around my family yet he still talks to his ex's family!

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30 March 2009 (F)

age 30-35 - My birthday is coming up, he says he feels awkward around my family and he doesn't wanna go to dinner with us, but he still talks to his ex's family... what do I do?... (34 words)