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writes:i met this girl who asked me for my number. we got texting and then dated for just short of two weeks. she was my first girlfriend. i have never got on as well with a girl as i have with her. i thought things were going well when she said to me she didnt think this was going to work. i now see her from time to time and we get on great. we can talk about anything. everytime i see her it makes me so happy just to be with her. i haven't told her how i feel about her but i'm pretty certain she knows how i feel. she can talk about sexual things as though its normal between us. i can't stop thinking about her. i dont know if its me taking things the wrong way or if shes using me as a fall back guy cos she knows deep down that i would treat her right. from what i can make out her past boyfriends have treated her right to start with until they got what they wanted. i can tell you that is not what i'm like, i know how lucky i was to have her in my life and i would of treated her like a princess but i get the feeling she sees all guys as the same(including me). the questions i have tried to answer but can't are: 1)after only knowing her for a short while is it love or infatuation that i'm feeling?2)whats the best way to get her out of my mind?3)is it me taking what she does and says the wrong way or is she playing with me?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2009): 1) infatuation - you don't know her long enough or shared enough to call it love yet... what you are doing is thinking about her because you can.
2) think of other things - think of anything that interests you plan your ideal trip around the world and you can only go to 5 places. think of your ideal car - every nut and bolt. think of anything else.
3) yes you are taking it the wrong way.
you could try 1 attempt only to talk to her - bit like a do or die card. Just tell her you feel - you could do it as I have a friend who fancies this other friends but doesn't know if she fancies him. how can he find out...? etc... that way if you are cool about it and she says no you might stay friends...
hugs, star.x.
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