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Will I ever be able to trust my fiance again?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female South Africa age 36-40, *audene writes:

I want to know if i will ever be able to trust my fiance again??

Thing where not going good between my best friend and her husband i started to notice that my fiance and my best friend where getting very close as he was always there for her and giving her advise and attention, when i asked them about it they said there was nothing they just friends, after about a month that i saw things and confronted them about it they still said there is nothing.

I then told my fiance that his best friend kissed me as i thought maybe i have a guilty conscious and that was the reason i was accusing him of having a affair with my beat friend he was very angry with me he sent me to my mother for a month when i got back he was still cross and treating me badly and thing between him and my friend looked more serious. i then left him as about three day's later he asked that i must come back as he loves me and doesn't want to lose me. after we got back together every time she saw us together she would get tears in her eyes she even told me that she had fallen in love with him and i still confronted him he still denied it he said that he had no feeling for her she was there for him when he found out about me and his friend.

it has been two years now she does not stay in the same town anymore and i still ask him about it because it bothers me. i can't trust him i accuse him with every women he speaks to i can't help it and i now if i don't stop he is going to leave me i really love him a lot and we have two kids together i don't want to lose him. how do i get over it as he did and he trust me why can't i????

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