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What made her change her mind & where do I go from here?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 11 March 2009)
A male United States age , *oready writes:

A little over a year ago my wife and I were in our bed room watching tv when one of those adult call line commercials came on.Out of nowhere she makes a comment about what nice breasts the girl who is doing the talking has and how attractive she was. I asked her if it would nice to touch them and told how nice it would be to watch her and another woman together and then to join in with both of our hands all over her body, she indicated that she would like that, as we started to make love it progressed to my wife saying she wanted to lick another womens nipples. The next time we had sex she talked about her and another woman licking and tasting each others pussies, as we were making love she stuck her tongue out and was pretending to be licking a woman who was straddling her face. This continued on through the year, I assured her that I had no intention of having any body contact with this other woman, that it was "all about her" and she was cool with that, even to the point that one day we were in the car talking and she told me what kind of girl turned her on.From time to time we would talk how we would go about doing this till one day I suggested the next time we went away together maybe we should take our little walk on the wild side and check out a swing club or meet and greet to which she answered,what are you talking about, that was just a fantsy, I have absoultly on interest in being with another woman!I have a hard time believing that she's the one who started this in the first place, plus I know her pretty well and she was serious, what made her change her mind ? and where do I go from here ?

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A male reader, soready United States +, writes (11 March 2009):

soready is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thank all of you for your opinions and advise, and i would welcome some others !

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A female reader, wonderingcat United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2009):

wonderingcat agony auntI think she just told you why. It was just a FANTASY! It stays inhouse, only with you two and no one else is involved.

Your wife is a smart woman! She keeps it safe, yet she is "exploring" new ideas with you! And she is monogomous!

I think you need to keep her, forever and ever and ever!

I think we all need to learn from you!

Cat

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