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Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again? Should I just forget him?

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Question - (9 March 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2009)
A female United States age , *ennie10 writes:

I can not understand this behavior. Why did he want to get back together only to push me away again. I dont understand this cat and mouse game. We got back together for 2 months I got jealous ke got mad and then said it hurt him and he cant be hurt anymore. How could it have been great again for 2 months and have him completely break up over somrthing silly. He said he was mad at my behavior. Is he afraid of commitment? Just looking for anything to run away and hide? I really love him and I really thought he loved me. Why is he doing this again. Did he just make a mistake. I am his first girlfriend in years and years. I need help in getting over this. Should i just forget him? I just feel that this it is absolutely wrong. Infact his reaction to what happened is way over ther edge and makes now sense to me.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2009):

Sounds like he is playing head games. Let him go and use this time to pamper yourself;

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A female reader, Jennie10 United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

Jennie10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

I really just need closure on this because it makes absolutely no sense to me. We had a light conversation the otheer day but he wont talk about why we are not together. He just wanted to spend the day by himself. usually we you break up with someone you know why. But I dont know why. Should I just call him and make him tell me why - I really need to know the truth. Fear of commitment - fear of getting hurt? I cant keep guessing. He cant be angry over nothing.

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A female reader, Jennie10 United States +, writes (9 March 2009):

Jennie10 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

An added note. I really need to get closure on this and I just cant seem to get it because it makes no sense to me. How can everything be so great and then it is over. Does he think I will eventually hurt him. I really need him to tell me somthing. Before we got back together I always felt in my heart that he loved me but now I just dont know. Maybe he does love me but just not enough. Maybe there is another woman maybe he is just an angry man. I need closure why cant he tell me. He says he was hurt and cant do this but the look in his eyes tells me something different. When he is not with me he can conjure things up to distance himself but when he sees me he wants to be with me.

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