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writes:I am a Shia Muslim who is completely in love with a Sunni Muslim. Since we are different types of Muslims, my parents will not allow me to be with him, even though he respects my beliefs. What should I do? My parent's have good intentions and I don't want to hurt them but then again, I don't want to be hurt too. Either way I lose.
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reader, Miss.Me +, writes (26 October 2010):
 I'm Muslim too and I know that Sunni, Shia, Whatever shouldnt matter because ultimately we are one - all Muslims. Older generations might make a big deal out of the sects, but maybe this mixing of Sunni-Shia by the newer generations is a good thing to end the animosity. There is not much of a difference between the two sects so I dont know why some people get riled up about it. There were no people back in the Prophet's labeling themselves Sunni or Shia, so this issue shouldnt even be an issue since its something people came up with after the Prophet. To address your question, I would say to drop pieces of info to your parents about how Sunni/Shia are not that different. I hope they will recognize that we are worshiping the same God, and believe in the same prophets, so ultimately we are all Muslims. Also, let them know that the jjjguy is understanding and respectful. If he can come meet them and talk to them that would also be great.I wish you good luck!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (26 October 2010):
 Both religions were born from the want for peace. Therefore, your religions should not get in the way of how you two feel about each other. Right now, do your religions truly conflict with each other spiritually? Excuse the fact that a marriage is not allowed, would there be any incidents of conflict because of your religions? No? Then make your parents see that, make your parents see that your religions are of no true consequence, the two can co-exist peacefully and as a result, peace shall be achieved.
I hope that helps.
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