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*mmaxlouise2011
writes:my boyfriend expects me to be with him all the time, and on the weekend he had some crisps and i ate one and he just flipped and threw the plate at me and it smashed everywhere, and he went off upstairs to the bedroom, so i cleaned everything up, and went upstairs to get my phone, and he tried to hug me when i was up there, so i told him to get off me, and he didnt so i pushed him off. He then said to me 'push me again and ill kill you', as i just wanted to leave i tried to push past him but he grabbed a knife and put into to my throat, then he realised what he had done and told me how sorry he was.I still wanted to leave so i went to get some of my clothes and he grabbed them off me and said wherever i go he will follow me as hes not letting me leave and he will come to my work and drag me back.im so scared to leave him, now im scared of him, hes never been like this before, what can i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2010): Hi. I just read ypur message I just recently got out of the same exact relationship!u need to hget out I know he's gonna keep apologizing and then be good for a month and get worst thenext time cause he was holding it all in it gets worst the last time he put a knife to my neck he accidently cut me on my cheek I had to get stitches and he cried for me to forgive and I had to open my eyes he wasn't crying for me he was crying and saying sorry cause he wasnted somebody there to control he didn't feel bad for everything he put me through it was all bull shit. He was selfish and I needed to stop feeling bad for him nobody was torturing him is life was fine I needed to started feeling bad for myself. I'm telling u the longer your w/him the more he comes up w/to control u. U nee to leave him for only your sake. He will be ok w/out u if he realy wouldn't be ok then he would treat u like a queen that u r. Get help from your family don't be ashamed please listen to yhis and open your eyes!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Hi. I just read ypur message I just recently got out of the same exact relationship!u need to hget out I know he's gonna keep apologizing and then be good for a month and get worst thenext time cause he was holding it all in it gets worst the last time he put a knife to my neck he accidently cut me on my cheek I had to get stitches and he cried for me to forgive and I had to open my eyes he wasn't crying for me he was crying and saying sorry cause he wasnted somebody there to control he didn't feel bad for everything he put me through it was all bull shit. He was selfish and I needed to stop feeling bad for him nobody was torturing him is life was fine I needed to started feeling bad for myself. I'm telling u the longer your w/him the more he comes up w/to control u. U nee to leave him for only your sake. He will be ok w/out u if he realy wouldn't be ok then he would treat u like a queen that u r. Get help from your family don't be ashamed please listen to yhis and open your eyes!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): you need to call the cops sweetie you should not be in a abuse relationship okay get some help but do not let him hurt you you are way to young to die
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Make a very clean, quick exit from this relationship. Tell people you are close to that you are in trouble as well as your boss/ hr manager. Ask for help. Tell the police, ask their advice. If you are going to clean out your stuff, plan it so that he won't be home and get some friends to be with you while you do it. Be cautious leaving and going to work. He might never try anything but you can't be certain. Once you've left, do not put yourself in situations where you will bump into him. Do not commuinicate with him. Stay safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Go to work, since he wont let you go any where else. Tell your boss what is going on so he can let you leave and get situated all while this guy thinks you are work. Just get away as soon as you can how ever you can.
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reader, celtic_tiger +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Go to work, tell your boss that you are scared to go home. Say your boyfriend threatened you with a knife. Call your parents from work and ask them if you can stay with them.
Talk to your parents and then call the police. This guy sounds like a violent obsessive who needs help. You are not safe. Get away as soon as you can.
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reader, marymomnwife  +, writes (25 October 2010):
i am not saying what he is doing isnt illegal but holding a knife to ur throat isnt attempted murder it is a THREAT to end yourlife and the police DO take that very serious. if he has threatened you he WILL try to follow thru dont give him the chance to. plz call the police turn to ur family for support. dont go back to him. get the cops involved now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): I watched my father do things like this to my mother for 13 years of my childhood, it has scarred me for life. please please dont put up with it, just leave him NOW!!!! because he might "acidently" go too far one day and kill you. Nobody, not men or women deserve to be subjected to domestic abuse. And that is all he is ....an abuser
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
 After work or even while you're there call a friend or your parents, tell them your situation and they will help you call the police. Or even your boss at work..Press charges and he will be thrown in jail even prison for attempted murder. Please take action before he does kill you!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (25 October 2010):
 What he is doing is illegal. Press charges right away. Don't hesitate. He will kill you if he put a knife to your throat. He belongs in jail.
Please please please call the police!!!!
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