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writes:ok im 16 years old and ive never been so confused in my life. my girlfriend's mom took her fone and when she got it back i asked her what was wrong and she said forget it and when i told her i wanted to help but i couldnt unless she told me what was wrong she exploded on me and said that she didnt need me to help her do any thing and that it wasnt important so she wasnt going to tell me what was going on and to stop asking about it. i only asked her twice and later when i made it seem like something was wrong with me and i said the same thing she did but less frankly and she exploded again and said that she didnt want to talk to me until i calmed down, and then she told me that all she had to do was clean her room. im not mad about her having to clean. im mad about her not telling me this stuff its not that it matters its just the thought of her not telling me this stuff. that and shes talking to other guys and she and her friend stayed the night with their friend who was a guy. i dont whether or not if i should end it or stay with her i love her so much and she loves me back, but i dont know. please help me out, anything would be helpful. thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 October 2010):
 Dang, take chill pill dude. First, when someone tells you that they don't want to talk about something, you should drop it. You are suffocating her and she's trying to let you know you need to back off. Worrying about her speaking to other boys and not informing you about every detail in her life, down to cleaning her room for crying out loud, smacks of a control freak. Ease up before you lose her and keep it in mind for future girlfriends as well.
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