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36-40,
anonymous
writes:hiI'm a 22 year old girl. I didn't engage in any relationship with a guy (going out together, phone calls,...)because I didn't find the kind of guy that I like. This is the first.Last year I had an internship that lasted three months. During that period I met a man between 35 and 40 years old. He doesn't look like married. He was a boss but not my boss ;however, we were in the same office. At the beginning, he was treating me normally, actually he was very nice to me. But later ,without any reason, he started to be mean to me. For example, he tells me to sit in front of a broken down computer so that I get bored and stop my internship. He just wanted me to get out of there. He hoped he'll never see my face again. He had never stopped being mean for more than a month. He never gave up. One day, he told the others to get my phone number, to call me when they need to. I wasn't there when that happened but that's what I understood. Then, I told him that I'll stop the internship. He just said O.K. Two days later he called me on the phone and told me "why are you absent?" and I told him "I told you I stopped the internship" and the conversation went on and he said "now you have my number"And I called him and I gave him a copy of my report and he was screaming of happiness in front of everyone else when he saw me again . Now I'm waiting for him to call and he never did. Actually, I don't want to call. I don't want to run after him and he's acting as if nothing happened. I just want to know why did he do this? what does he want from me? What did he mean by all this? What kind of man is he?I hope that I was clear.Please give me an answer because it means a lot to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2010): thank for your answers, your opinion really counts for me. The story is really complicated, it's because the person I wrote you about is crazy and no body could understand him. I tried so much to make it clear and for you. Thank you both.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): It sounds like you're better off not working in this environment, however, if this man wasn't your boss, you could've reported his bullying behavior to your actual boss. Keep that in mind in case you find yourself in a similar situation in the future.
Best of luck to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): umm, i struggled to understand this, but from what i can understand i think ur reading into this too much, u shudn have let him bully u out of ur internship it wasnt fair of him and u probably gave him exactly what he wanted. Tho without being in his head i cant tell u y he acted this way.
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