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writes:I think I really got in over my head this time everyone. So I feel in love with this girl that I have known for a few months but she was going through a lot of thngs with her ex boyfriend. I felt as tho she was not ready to pursue a relationship and so I told her that I did not want to date her at all and just wanted to be her friend. Well I then started talking to this other girl that I felt I had a connection with but she is in another state. That doesn't really bother me because I am very capable of long distance relationships. Well the problem is that even tho im dating this new girl that is amazing I cant help the fact that Im still madly in love with the first girl. I know they say dont leave the one you love for the one you like but apparently I was not listening. I really want to be happy but either way I will end up hurting someone and I hate hurting peoples feelings it will just tear me apart even more. Should I stay with the girl im with now or should I go and be with the one im in love with?
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reader, Main event  +, writes (6 January 2011):
 Woah love v's like there is a huge difference but people have a tendency to mis conceptionalise the two
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reader, Aquarius +, writes (25 October 2010):
 In reading your question it appears that you are a person who is connected w/ their feelings and that is a great thing. With that being said, a question you may want to ask yourself is, why do you find yourself in relationships w/ barriers. I say that b/c the girl you say that you are in love w/ has issues b.c of her ex and the one you are w/ now is in another state. Both relationships have barriers. If I was in your position I would let both relationships go. I hope this helps. Take Care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): iv a sort little quote that i followd myself in the last couple of weeeks..
"never ditch the person u love for the person you like because the person you like will eventually leave you for the person they love"
i hope u make sense out of it..its a nice little thing i like to remember..
:)
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