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writes:My bf and I arranged our first weekend together in ages. He later told me he'd have to spend the first evening at his friend's birthday cos he felt bad for not going. I was a bit sad but understood and told him to go etc. He came home early though to see me. And I said that he should have stayed with his friends. He said he WANTED to see me. But I found out hed said to his friend that he better come home early else i'd be cross. So does this mean he felt guilt tripped? Reply to this Question
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 One of two things could have occured. The first, he used that as an excuse to get out of the party early to go and see you OR you are right and he did feel guilty. That is what I think might have happened, but, I do not know him so only you can venture an educated guess as to what he was thinking, but really, does it matter? The point of it all was that your happiness was his priority.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Maybe he just really wanted to see you and didn't want to tell his friend that!!
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