A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes: Iam a married woman and developed a friendship with a married guy in one of our projects.This guy is very religious, which actually made me his friend as i too have an inclination to spirituality. But every now and then he stops calling or seems to be giving excuses. We talk about jobs.,family, spirituality and so many other things but it is never crossing limits. I dont understand at times he is talking almost daily and then suddenly vanishes for days. We are living in two different cities.I tell him I dont like this about you he would give excuses and ask for forgiveness and then again the same after a few days. This behaviour hurts me and when I ask him to stop texting and calling forever he comes back.Does he want to now finish off with the relation.
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reader, happy24birthday +, writes (25 October 2010):
He's avoiding temptation and wants to stay away from you but can't. It's nothing personal against you that he wants to stay away; it's him and his inner conflict with temptation.
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female
reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 October 2010):
What did he say when you asked him your last question?
Is this really a friendship or is there more to this for you? Perhaps he is uncomfortable because he fears his wife will find out. Do you know his wife, does your husband know him, or is this a secret?
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