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writes:My boyfriend and i have been arguing alot lately. He doesnt seem as happy. He never wants to go out on the weekends anymore. Or sex life seems to be the only thing holding us together. how do i know thats not the only thing he wants? he still tells me that he love me and wants to be with me. he just seems so angry lately he's never had such a temper. he gets angry over the littlest things, he also becoming kind of controling
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 October 2010):
 Ah, the more the hold it in all bottled up the sooner it explodes on whomever is in the line of fire..You. Just let him know it's ok to talk about his feelings and what's going on with you, that's one of your girlfriend duties. It's not healthy to hold in this negativity but by no means is it acceptable he's taking it out on you when you have nothing to do with it. You're just merely there to listen and calm him down. Let him know this. I know guys don't like to share their feelings and open up because they think it's sissy at that age range..All you can do is take the reins and talk it out with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe talked about it, sometimes when he's mad at other things he takes it out on me which gets on my nerves our communication problems are getting better, we used to could talk about anything. then he started holding things in telling me less. It was just eating away at him. But were doing better now ever so often he throws a temper tantrum.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (25 October 2010):
If sex is the only glue holding your relationship together, then I'm sorry to say consider it over. You need trust, communication, love..Have you tried talking to him to see what's eating at him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 October 2010): Sex cannot drive a relationship cause in the end if a relationship is to survive personalities need to mesh well. Moreover, both parties need to be mature and be able to work things out and that shouldnt include anger. I think his anger is a bad sign and also temper which to me represents instability and can affect decision making both with the relationship and his personal life. Hopefully, he'll wise up but I wouldnt wanna see you take that risk and go thru some emotional roller coaster. Break things off here and keep your distance. Best wishes.
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