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writes:Ok, My story is kinda confusing so please bare with me...I've known i was gay since about 4th grade when i had a crush on a boy.then from 6th to 8th grade i had a strong crush on a different boy, also during this time period i started to notice a stronger sexual attraction for men.Now in High school, i have a huge,Huge crush on this one boy, and it's ruining my high school career, also my sexual attraction to men has grown aside from my boy crushes and attraction, theres a few things i was wonderingSo around 7th grade when i was still in the closet, my close friend Jerry showed me a porno magazine he had (all women) and i became sexually aroused multiple times while looking at it.(not in front of him though lol)..but today looking at naked pics of women couldn't get me turned on whatsoeveralso in 6th grade, i had a small crush on this girl named Kelly,just sayin =/Now in high school i have no emotional nor physical attraction to women.but another thing that confuses me is,when i masturbate to gay porn, a few times there have been vids with like 2 guys and a 1 girl, and the girl kind of turns me on, Only when i'm aroused though, any other time, vaginas are like the grossest thing in the world to me.i've tried picturing myself in a relationship with a girl, and it just didn't seem right....i've pictured myself kissing, fooling around etc. with a girl and every time i think about it feels gross and unsatisfying or like somethings missing ( a penis maybe lol) So i was wondering what i am, Gay or Bi? or what is/was going on?please help, I am so confused right nowone last thing, I've already come out to everyone i know as gay...just sayin =/thanks,Maps
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reader, AvgGuy1 +, writes (27 October 2010):
I'm TOTALLY gay. But when I was your age... I could get turned on by Bi-porn real easily. I was more intrigued by the guy(s) in it... than the women. I would GUESS you are probably going through something similar.
Don't sweat it. You probably identified as being a _5_ on the Kinsey scale (google it) where I'll bet you're now finding yourself to be more in the 4 range. It's no big deal. At your age... a stiff breeze will probably get you hard. Just go with the flow.
Oh and another thing... some girls are intrigued by the idea of 'straightening out' a gay boy. So if you wanna experiment you might wanna see if you can find one of those types.
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reader, j44 +, writes (25 October 2010):
ok take a breath! Quit putting labels on yourself and just date whoever you like as long as your happy. You like both and thats ok. The label thing is what is scaring you so dont put one on you. You like who you like male or female nothing wrong with that.
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reader, Nithyanala  +, writes (25 October 2010):
 You remind me of me at your age, so I'm going to speculate you may be bisexual. Of course I was also a woman trapped in a man's body kind of thing which has it's own set of complications but anyway that's besides the point. What you describe sounds like you're more inclined towards men but find yourself admiring the female form as well. Since the female sexual organ itself does not attract you yet maybe you're not what one might call a full-blown bisexual yet but the curiousity might be there. It's probably too early to make a definite statement with respect to your sexuality. Wait until you're closer to 20.
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